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Updating profiles and advice on what’s hot and what’s not?

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By *appy Drillmore OP   Man
over a year ago

leicester

After visiting a club, I shared my profile details, only to be informed that my profile was shit!

Does anyone have any top tips as to how I go about updating it, to make it more appealing, and also more current?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After visiting a club, I shared my profile details, only to be informed that my profile was shit!

Does anyone have any top tips as to how I go about updating it, to make it more appealing, and also more current?"
lol what profile? you dont have one, you have no pics, no write up, your username and status update and your 7" tongue probably put women off, you need to have a write up telling them about you that also infers a personality, you need to have pics not cock but body or dressed pics so they can see your physique and your username needs to be non sexual, when you message you need to read target profile and message accordingly in a polite manner once again showing some personality if you do all that and get success rem_mber i put you on the right track

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By *appy Drillmore OP   Man
over a year ago

leicester

Thanks for the advice. Unfortunately I will not be taking any of yours as you clearly can’t read. I’ve currently taken down all my current photos as my status informs.

The advice you have given me is appreciated however it’s also very contradicting.

Thanks anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the advice. Unfortunately I will not be taking any of yours as you clearly can’t read. I’ve currently taken down all my current photos as my status informs.

The advice you have given me is appreciated however it’s also very contradicting.

Thanks anyway."
how is it contradicting youve asked for advise, you don't have a profile, the advice I've given if taken may give you a chance but all to often advice people give after being asked for it is ignored, good luck whatever you decide to do

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By *appy Drillmore OP   Man
over a year ago

leicester

As you mentioned I’ve no profile as I do not have any pictures, I’ve simplified my profile, again as it says in my status. Also does your wife know that you are on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As you mentioned I’ve no profile as I do not have any pictures, I’ve simplified my profile, again as it says in my status. Also does your wife know that you are on here?"
lol i see you dont really enjoy getting the advice you asked for good luck

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

I agree with response you got.

Photos which allure and suggestion.

A profile that states what you want, what you can offer.

Something about you, so a bit of your personality shines through.

It needs to be more than one sentence and needs to engage.

That's about it really

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts


"After visiting a club, I shared my profile details, only to be informed that my profile was shit!

Does anyone have any top tips as to how I go about updating it, to make it more appealing, and also more current?lol what profile? you dont have one, you have no pics, no write up, your username and status update and your 7" tongue probably put women off, you need to have a write up telling them about you that also infers a personality, you need to have pics not cock but body or dressed pics so they can see your physique and your username needs to be non sexual, when you message you need to read target profile and message accordingly in a polite manner once again showing some personality if you do all that and get success rem_mber i put you on the right track "

I totally agree with this advice its spot on and what i always advise people.

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston


"I agree with response you got.

Photos which allure and suggestion.

A profile that states what you want, what you can offer.

Something about you, so a bit of your personality shines through.

It needs to be more than one sentence and needs to engage.

That's about it really"

And proof read....unlike me with this post!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After visiting a club, I shared my profile details, only to be informed that my profile was shit!

Does anyone have any top tips as to how I go about updating it, to make it more appealing, and also more current?lol what profile? you dont have one, you have no pics, no write up, your username and status update and your 7" tongue probably put women off, you need to have a write up telling them about you that also infers a personality, you need to have pics not cock but body or dressed pics so they can see your physique and your username needs to be non sexual, when you message you need to read target profile and message accordingly in a polite manner once again showing some personality if you do all that and get success rem_mber i put you on the right track

I totally agree with this advice its spot on and what i always advise people. "
thank you

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts


"I agree with response you got.

Photos which allure and suggestion.

A profile that states what you want, what you can offer.

Something about you, so a bit of your personality shines through.

It needs to be more than one sentence and needs to engage.

That's about it really"

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I believe Mrs Gives Wood has some excellent advice on her profile.

You need to think of your profile as your shop window to entice interested women.

A positive, friendly attitude also helps...

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

I would leave your profile exactly as it is.

It’s a window into your personality

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

Dear OP, you have been given advice and not taken it. So bare this in mind and think about it hard. This isn't a sex site it is a social meet site where sex may happen, so think what would you want yourself to read in someone profile that would interest you apart from " no time waters and I want blow jobs" it shows no personality (make you boring) you may of taken you pictures down so you must of only placed cock pics on here ( interests very few people on a hole) even on this post your coming accross very antisocial to people trying to help just because it's men trying to help with a vast expance of nelege and obviously have more success ( why not try what they suggest) and rem_mber it's not a competition that why people try and help

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland


"I would leave your profile exactly as it is.

It’s a window into your personality "
priceless your funny

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland


"After visiting a club, I shared my profile details, only to be informed that my profile was shit!

Does anyone have any top tips as to how I go about updating it, to make it more appealing, and also more current?lol what profile? you dont have one, you have no pics, no write up, your username and status update and your 7" tongue probably put women off, you need to have a write up telling them about you that also infers a personality, you need to have pics not cock but body or dressed pics so they can see your physique and your username needs to be non sexual, when you message you need to read target profile and message accordingly in a polite manner once again showing some personality if you do all that and get success rem_mber i put you on the right track "
nice advice mate I wish I'd read his profile before I wrote mine

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

You need public pictures. You might not want them, but you need them.

You need a much better bio, insight into your personality and what you have to offer.

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By *exy Black JenWoman
over a year ago

London/Eastbourne weekends

Wow!...lm starting to understand why single men do not get meets!....You've asked for advice,and it's been given. Maybe you weren't expecting people to be so honest???...be careful what you wish/ask for....but ultimately if you're happy with it and feel that it tells people who you are...then dont change anything.

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