FabSwingers.com forum: Finding a swinging partner/partner

By *thleticgirth OP Man
over a year ago

wirral

Iv done tinder, pof etc but it never works out as a few weeks in and i mention the lifestyle they are not in to it. Therefore i would love to find a partner in crime on here. Is Anyone else looking for this?

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By *otplumMan
over a year ago

Margate

Dozens of us

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Loads of people claim to be but I think a good percentage want monogamy.

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

"Iv done tinder, pof etc but it never works out as a few weeks in and i mention the lifestyle they are not in to it. Therefore i would love to find a partner in crime on here. Is Anyone else looking for this? "

Yes

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Lots of us

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By *hMyGawdCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

See if this helps you

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/951624

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By *adyA01Woman
over a year ago

Wellington

Yep, searching for the perfect black guy to swing with..Right now he is Mr Elusive lol

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By *thleticgirth OP Man
over a year ago

wirral

Welsh suns you are pretty close to me as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met through fab. And in a few weeks celebrating our 3rd anniversary x

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

"We met through fab. And in a few weeks celebrating our 3rd anniversary x "

Aw, congratulations!

Yes OP, there are a fair number of people

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Yes!! Its seemingly improbable for me though..

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By *aith boyMan
over a year ago

Worthing

"Yes!! Its seemingly improbable for me though..

With 500 or so messages waiting, why wouldn't you find someone!!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Loads of people claim to be but I think a good percentage want monogamy. "

this OP

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

The hard part is finding someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The hard part is finding someone "

Definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no way

not looking

because who is to say you cheat

you would have to want to have a open relationship where you can bed anyone without getting jealous

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I am

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By *assy_AttitudeWoman
over a year ago

RHYL

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m looking for that too

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Yes!! Its seemingly improbable for me though..

With 500 or so messages waiting, why wouldn't you find someone!!?"

You have to click with someone you know

it's not just because they have a penis...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m looking for that too"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it would be lovely

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By *aith boyMan
over a year ago

Worthing

"Yes!! Its seemingly improbable for me though..

With 500 or so messages waiting, why wouldn't you find someone!!?

You have to click with someone you know

it's not just because they have a penis..."

I get the clicking bit !!.. 500 plus messages, doesn't mean there is no chance... better than most !

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"Loads of people claim to be but I think a good percentage want monogamy.

this OP"

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

Admitted I've never done tinder etc.... I'm thinking if maybe you were honest in the bio and mentioned swinging then you'd get replies from people who comprehend and then save yourself the weeks of effort before shocking nillas

or have I missed the point?

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By *racy_JacksWoman
over a year ago

Derby

I agree with the poster above. I state on my dating profiles that I’m open to non-monogamy. That means that things might be quieter for me on there than they might be otherwise, but saves wasting time.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Yes!! Its seemingly improbable for me though..

With 500 or so messages waiting, why wouldn't you find someone!!?

You have to click with someone you know

it's not just because they have a penis...

I get the clicking bit !!.. 500 plus messages, doesn't mean there is no chance... better than most !"

Yet here I am

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By *thleticgirth OP Man
over a year ago

wirral

"I am

Welsh suns message me if you would like to chat you are close xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think based on what I read from people, myself and MrD are very lucky to have found one another.

We met on pof around this time last year. He mentioned he was part of the lifestyle years ago. I dipped my toe with my ex. So we were both open to trying it out together.

We have since fallen madly in love and joined Fab earlier this year. Best of both worlds but I get that its kinda hard to find a willing partner.

I count myself lucky

MsDub

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

Yes would love a swinging woman as a partner. Happy with the searching

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

You’d be surprised the amount of Fab guys struggle to get their head round the fact that the Fab lady they are seeing is seeing other men as well. I have this on very good authority.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the problem is the word partner. I see it as like a mate with extra, and as I am single I can see as many people as I consider reasonable - as long as I am not hurting anyone. However some male and female Fabbers seem to confuse it with a serious relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a single man just trying to get the meat is hard enough so trying to find a partner on this site I think that’s asking a bit too much personally

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By *thleticgirth OP Man
over a year ago

wirral

No id still want to swing and would welcome the girl to enjoy herself either with or occasionally without me so wouldnt affect things too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to find my swing sole mate

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

It’s trickier than it looks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s what I want. Most guys on here though are after monogamy - using fab like its tinder with tits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst I'm happily here, I think to swing with another takes an incredible relationship and whilst not adverse to it in the slightest, would definitely take time away from here to build that relationship that first and come back later once well established

A lot of people say they're looking for a swinging relationship whereas, to me, it just seems like they're more looking for a person to swing with. I just feel that these two things are completely different to me

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Yes, me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whilst I'm happily here, I think to swing with another takes an incredible relationship and whilst not adverse to it in the slightest, would definitely take time away from here to build that relationship that first and come back later once well established

Totally agree

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Absolutely, me and my fwb swing together. Totally different to a relationship xx

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By *ave3058Man
over a year ago

southampton & playa del ingles

Join the que been looking for ages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deffo a Fab meeting story here

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By *thleticgirth OP Man
over a year ago

wirral

I particularly enjoy mfm 3 somes and watching my partner with a male so i think it would be good if i could find someone who enjoys this also

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

If comments on the forums are to be believed then there are quite a few that are looking for a relationship that encompasses some form of swinging.

I am pretty comfortable with being single and am having great fun, but I wouldn’t even consider a relationship with anyone unless they were willing to engage in some sort of swinging even if it was only soft swap. They wouldn’t be the right person for me otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This I've been looking for... Is it impossible?

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Great point.

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By *icked lifeMan
over a year ago

llanelli

I would really like to find this myself..anyone out there that can help drop me a message

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Not me. Happy flying solo

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By *X guyMan
over a year ago

Skegness

Oh god yes

Yes"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard part is finding someone compatible

Lot talk a good game but when it comes down to it they don’t they want something more vanilla

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By *eviantdeeliteCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Yes!! Its seemingly improbable for me though..

With 500 or so messages waiting, why wouldn't you find someone!!?"

An assumption all guys make....and then cannot be bothered to at least try

My partner almost made the same mistake

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By *eviantdeeliteCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Yes!! Its seemingly improbable for me though..

With 500 or so messages waiting, why wouldn't you find someone!!?

You have to click with someone you know

it's not just because they have a penis..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The search continues lol

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By *eviantdeeliteCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Totally agree "

Make that 3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'am looking for patner in crime .hard to fine one .

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

Same here I'm looking for a fuck buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know they are few and far between. You have a better chance of finding a pork pie in a synagogue lol

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

Yep

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