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By *izzy69 OP   Man
over a year ago

London

No this is not some narcissistic post. Lol

It's not about me but a general opinion on what makes someone attractive on Fab.

I consider myself to be just about average - I have a fairly decent body, it's not buff but it's not unsightly; I have a very normal penis, it satisfies but it wouldn't be called "big" by any standards. But despite that, I have had my succeses with women and couples - but more so in real life than on Fab. So why is that?

What makes someone more attractive in real life than on Fab (or vice versa)?

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex


"No this is not some narcissistic post. Lol

It's not about me but a general opinion on what makes someone attractive on Fab.

I consider myself to be just about average - I have a fairly decent body, it's not buff but it's not unsightly; I have a very normal penis, it satisfies but it wouldn't be called "big" by any standards. But despite that, I have had my succeses with women and couples - but more so in real life than on Fab. So why is that?

"

maybe it's your profile legal note

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By *izzy69 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"No this is not some narcissistic post. Lol

It's not about me but a general opinion on what makes someone attractive on Fab.

I consider myself to be just about average - I have a fairly decent body, it's not buff but it's not unsightly; I have a very normal penis, it satisfies but it wouldn't be called "big" by any standards. But despite that, I have had my succeses with women and couples - but more so in real life than on Fab. So why is that?

maybe it's your profile legal note "

Lol. What, Sydney Uni has conspired against me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seem to be doing fine to me by your veris...

Perhaps i should ask you for advice

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By *izzy69 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Seem to be doing fine to me by your veris...

Perhaps i should ask you for advice "

Haha. Well this is the thing. I don't have a 'formula'. Hence the question - what is different here.

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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago

Peterborough, Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield


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maybe it's your profile legal note "

Hahaha yeah I have to admit I do tend to avoid profiles on any site with these utterly worthless "legal notes", especially the ones that start "[Name of site] is a publicly-traded entity..."

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Real life will always be more successful....the internet is a false environment

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By *ettyboob72Woman
over a year ago

Manningtree

besides attraction is subjective to the individual

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

It's harder to convey who you are online rather than meeting people out there the traditional way. Much can be falsified, exaggerated or distorted in a virtual environment and things often aren't what they appear. This can make things more difficult for men; more so given the ratio on fab.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I have more success o here. Im a bit of a loner in my everyday life and usually dressed in jeans and wellies walking 2dogs. I would not know where to start looking and doubt anyone would look at me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often ask myself the same question, the amount of times i get ignored or viewed and no message lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We feel its the opposite. We don't think some of the people we have met and the majority of people who have ever messaged us would look at us twice if they passed us in the street, at least, not in an 'I fancy him/her' way, lol.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I think I'm more successful on here....saying that I don't go out pubbing or clubbing that much...maybe that's the reason why!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can see why your successful xx

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By *ams12345Man
over a year ago

london

Lol I been here so long it’s actually depressing not being wanted

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By *izzy69 OP   Man
over a year ago

London

I'm amazed at all the ladies here who say they have less success in real life than on here. All of you look gorgeous (and I do mean that). Yes I realise the face is what completes the picture. But your style, dress sense and body which account for a lot, are beautiful.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I don’t ever get approached in real life, like at a bar or at the bus stop.

I wonder if it’s just me or if things are changing in the modern age

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By *izzy69 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I don’t ever get approached in real life, like at a bar or at the bus stop.

I wonder if it’s just me or if things are changing in the modern age"

Un-be-fucking-lievable!

I reckon it's probably because most think you're out of their league. There can't be any other explanation. Lol

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex


"I don’t ever get approached in real life, like at a bar or at the bus stop.

I wonder if it’s just me or if things are changing in the modern age"

Possibly it is the age in which we now live. As single men we rightly have to consider whether approaching a woman in a bar or at the bus stop is appropriate.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"I don’t ever get approached in real life, like at a bar or at the bus stop.

I wonder if it’s just me or if things are changing in the modern age

Possibly it is the age in which we now live. As single men we rightly have to consider whether approaching a woman in a bar or at the bus stop is appropriate. "

That and I think the next woman is so readily available through tinder etc that people don’t tend to look around them anymore

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By *inocchio1Man
over a year ago

wakefield


"I don’t ever get approached in real life, like at a bar or at the bus stop.

I wonder if it’s just me or if things are changing in the modern age

Possibly it is the age in which we now live. As single men we rightly have to consider whether approaching a woman in a bar or at the bus stop is appropriate.

That and I think the next woman is so readily available through tinder etc that people don’t tend to look around them anymore "

I'd doo ya

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I don’t ever get approached in real life, like at a bar or at the bus stop.

I wonder if it’s just me or if things are changing in the modern age

Possibly it is the age in which we now live. As single men we rightly have to consider whether approaching a woman in a bar or at the bus stop is appropriate.

That and I think the next woman is so readily available through tinder etc that people don’t tend to look around them anymore "

They must be mental...

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By *arkhorse66Man
over a year ago

bristol


"I have more success o here. Im a bit of a loner in my everyday life and usually dressed in jeans and wellies walking 2dogs. I would not know where to start looking and doubt anyone would look at me."

I’d definitely look and take notice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree, it's a minefield these days. However I do much much better irl than online.

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