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By *rmrs1234 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

Sooo our first meet is tomorrow. We/I have been chatting to this guy for a while now and the stars aligned for us to be able to meet up on a rare kid free afternoon. Im nervous as hell. I have a knot in my stomach. Anyone any advice for a first meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it a play meet or just social ?

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By *aulp4alsMan
over a year ago

Warrington

Enjoy the nerves are part of the fun

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Nerves are normal . My only advice is make sure you all know each other's boundaries, don't be afraid to say stop and enjoy .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nerves are normal, the adrenaline is a good thing as long as everyone is comfortable with each other and everyone has fun within their own boundaries xx

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Relax and dont take drink . Are you really that nervous . Feick sake never bodared me when i met people. I might have got a little excited but thats all .

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By *rmrs1234 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"Is it a play meet or just social ?"

was originally just meant to be a coffee meet but since we have some time without the kids we just said feck it well have a play

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By *rmrs1234 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"Relax and dont take drink . Are you really that nervous . Feick sake never bodared me when i met people. I might have got a little excited but thats all . "

Neither of us drink so that wont be a problem. Good for you that it didnt bother you

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By *rmrs1234 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"Nerves are normal . My only advice is make sure you all know each other's boundaries, don't be afraid to say stop and enjoy ."

have told him to stay away from my feet ha ha unless he wants a black eye as a going away present lol

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Nerves are very normal. Communicate clearly, hold your boundaries, trust your instincts. Have fun.

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By *rmrs1234 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"Nerves are very normal. Communicate clearly, hold your boundaries, trust your instincts. Have fun. "

Im looking forward to it but i think the nerves are more from body insecurities as opposed to anything going wrong if that makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nerves are very normal. Communicate clearly, hold your boundaries, trust your instincts. Have fun.

Im looking forward to it but i think the nerves are more from body insecurities as opposed to anything going wrong if that makes sense"

Just looked at your pics.

Wow. Lucky guy!

You have nothing to worry about, your body is lovely!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Nerves are very normal. Communicate clearly, hold your boundaries, trust your instincts. Have fun.

Im looking forward to it but i think the nerves are more from body insecurities as opposed to anything going wrong if that makes sense"

That's normal too. Trust me x

You'll be fine.

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By *rmrs1234 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"Nerves are very normal. Communicate clearly, hold your boundaries, trust your instincts. Have fun.

Im looking forward to it but i think the nerves are more from body insecurities as opposed to anything going wrong if that makes sense

That's normal too. Trust me x

You'll be fine. "

Thank you xxx

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By *ipseyTwoCouple
over a year ago

Biggleswade

We also have our first meet with a man tomorrow...similar situation!

Planned to meet for a coffee...but have booked a hotel room for the day ‘just in case’. Super nervous but also very excited!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sooo our first meet is tomorrow. We/I have been chatting to this guy for a while now and the stars aligned for us to be able to meet up on a rare kid free afternoon. Im nervous as hell. I have a knot in my stomach. Anyone any advice for a first meet. "

Just checked your profile, you have nothing to be nervous about!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Nerves are very normal. Communicate clearly, hold your boundaries, trust your instincts. Have fun.

Im looking forward to it but i think the nerves are more from body insecurities as opposed to anything going wrong if that makes sense"
I

Your pictures give a fairly clear idea of how you look. You'll be fine

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By *rmrs1234 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"We also have our first meet with a man tomorrow...similar situation!

Planned to meet for a coffee...but have booked a hotel room for the day ‘just in case’. Super nervous but also very excited!"

Eeek i hope you have a ball xxxx

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By *rmrs1234 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"Sooo our first meet is tomorrow. We/I have been chatting to this guy for a while now and the stars aligned for us to be able to meet up on a rare kid free afternoon. Im nervous as hell. I have a knot in my stomach. Anyone any advice for a first meet.

Just checked your profile, you have nothing to be nervous about! "
thank you. Too sweet

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By *rmrs1234 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"Nerves are very normal. Communicate clearly, hold your boundaries, trust your instincts. Have fun.

Im looking forward to it but i think the nerves are more from body insecurities as opposed to anything going wrong if that makes senseI

Your pictures give a fairly clear idea of how you look. You'll be fine"

Thank you xxx well if he dont like it, then theres not a lot i can do about it. Hopefully the stockings etc will distract him enough from everything else ha ha

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By *wanseapaulMan
over a year ago

Swansea

Definitely nothing for you to worry about, lovely body. Just go for it and enjoy.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Nerves are very normal. Communicate clearly, hold your boundaries, trust your instincts. Have fun.

Im looking forward to it but i think the nerves are more from body insecurities as opposed to anything going wrong if that makes senseI

Your pictures give a fairly clear idea of how you look. You'll be fine

Thank you xxx well if he dont like it, then theres not a lot i can do about it. Hopefully the stockings etc will distract him enough from everything else ha ha"

Don't put yourself down.

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By *rmrs1234 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"Nerves are very normal. Communicate clearly, hold your boundaries, trust your instincts. Have fun.

Im looking forward to it but i think the nerves are more from body insecurities as opposed to anything going wrong if that makes senseI

Your pictures give a fairly clear idea of how you look. You'll be fine

Thank you xxx well if he dont like it, then theres not a lot i can do about it. Hopefully the stockings etc will distract him enough from everything else ha ha

Don't put yourself down. "

im a divil for doing it and overthinking things. Id be a lot better off just going with the flow sometimes and tomorrow! thank you for your kind words

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Dont worry about your shape or size ok if they dont like you its their loss cos you can meet lots of other people

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

Wear a hard hat and high-vis vest. Can’t be too careful x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Nerves are very normal. Communicate clearly, hold your boundaries, trust your instincts. Have fun.

Im looking forward to it but i think the nerves are more from body insecurities as opposed to anything going wrong if that makes senseI

Your pictures give a fairly clear idea of how you look. You'll be fine

Thank you xxx well if he dont like it, then theres not a lot i can do about it. Hopefully the stockings etc will distract him enough from everything else ha ha

Don't put yourself down.

im a divil for doing it and overthinking things. Id be a lot better off just going with the flow sometimes and tomorrow! thank you for your kind words"

Well as one of the guys we met said to me when I complained he hadn't told me my mascara had run

" I wasn't looking at your face! "

In other words the thing you're concentrating on will be the last thing they're looking at

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm an overthinker too. It's never as bad as you fear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember my first meet with a couple, they came to mine and I was striding around waiting for them like I was waiting for a baby! My mouth was dry and I could hardly speak when they arrived but we all settled down with a couple of drinks on the sofa and had a good laugh. I didn’t know what the signal would be to start the fun but the lady kicked it all off by sitting on my kitchen work surface with her legs open and no knickers. I knew it was time to play!

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By *rmrs1234 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

Well it all went great thank god lol

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By *otwifeandcuckCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool


"Well it all went great thank god lol"

That's good to hear.

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