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Never had a proper bj. Is it as good as people make out?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So ive only ever been with one girl as we met very young.(no longer with her) But she never gave me a proper BJ, the longest it ever lasted was like 30secs and just didnt feel very good. Ive watched a lot of porn (of course) ans seeing people receive sloppy blow jobs is a huge turn on and something id love to experience one day. I just wondered are bjs actually that good or is what ive recieved what they all feel like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They feel awful mate. Really awful

Seriously, you just haven't had a proper one yet by the sound of it. A good BJ is a mind blowing act that feels incredible.

Good luck on your journey pal. Ladies...help the lad out please!

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By *udewhennudeMan
over a year ago

newport

Well I would say once you’ve met a female on here you’ll be fine, as going by most verifications they all give the best blow job ever.

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chez/Sheff

It varies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So ive only ever been with one girl as we met very young.(no longer with her) But she never gave me a proper BJ, the longest it ever lasted was like 30secs and just didnt feel very good. Ive watched a lot of porn (of course) ans seeing people receive sloppy blow jobs is a huge turn on and something id love to experience one day. I just wondered are bjs actually that good or is what ive recieved what they all feel like?"

Men like different things and likewise dislike different things. As you experience bjs, you'll learn what you want more of. Don't rely on porn as the idea of a perfect bj.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"They feel awful mate. Really awful

Seriously, you just haven't had a proper one yet by the sound of it. A good BJ is a mind blowing act that feels incredible.

Good luck on your journey pal. Ladies...help the lad out please! "
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we're not a social service .

Op not all blow jobs are equal. They often depend on communicating with the person doing it, the previous experience of both parties, the expectations of both and the personal preference of the guy receiving it.

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By *otTonite1Man
over a year ago

Falkirk

Like just about everything sexual, some like, some don't, some are better than others and almost nothing in regular world should be compared with porn.

Yet to experience one that I would say was earth shattering and making a BJ THE must have part of sexual activities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand when people say some are good some are bad. A blowjob is the pinnacle of feel good times

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By *otTonite1Man
over a year ago

Falkirk


"I don't understand when people say some are good some are bad. A blowjob is the pinnacle of feel good times "

As I said everyone is different.

Heck some folk even prefer giving pleasure than receiving it

Surely you aren't saying every time with no matter who it was/is was/is mind blowing!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I am saying is that I have never not enjoyed it

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By *otTonite1Man
over a year ago

Falkirk


"What I am saying is that I have never not enjoyed it "

Isn't that a bit different from "the pinnacle of feel good times"!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I am saying is that I have never not enjoyed it

Isn't that a bit different from "the pinnacle of feel good times"!?

"

Well it ranges from bloody brilliant to the pinnacle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"What I am saying is that I have never not enjoyed it "

You don't have to enjoy it just because lots of people say they do. You will be told that every man loves a blow job, some will even imply that you're odd if you don't. Concentrate on what you know you like

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By *hMyGawdCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

They're not that great

-Mr

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By *otTonite1Man
over a year ago

Falkirk


"What I am saying is that I have never not enjoyed it

You don't have to enjoy it just because lots of people say they do. You will be told that every man loves a blow job, some will even imply that you're odd if you don't. Concentrate on what you know you like "

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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield

Yeah it depends on the person giving, I find, their technique, preferences, etc, I've never had a "bad" one, but some have been way better than others. Ones from women with pierced tongues are particularly good, I find (though am ashamed to admit that with the last woman with tongue piercing to suck me, she hit the right spot perfectly, and after a *long*, erotic bj, I lasted all of what felt like 30 seconds when it came to fucking her )

Everyone enjoys different things, for me I love being aroused and erect more than cumming, so prefer long, slow, erotic bjs, rather than being sucked quickly to orgasm.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Also im circumcised if that makes a difference?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread trying to get yourself a pity bj? Come ooooon man. Buy a flashlight mouth, feels the same

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"Also im circumcised if that makes a difference? "

Shouldn't do, although you may find you're a bit less sensitive there compared with someone who isn't. Might make you last a bit longer, but don't forget that there's more to the penis than just the tip - the soft vein on the underside is very sensitive (or at least mine is) and that's VERY nice when that's stimulated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was asked ages ago to describe the worst blowjob I'd ever had..... Apparently fantastic wasn't the right answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So ive only ever been with one girl as we met very young.(no longer with her) But she never gave me a proper BJ, the longest it ever lasted was like 30secs and just didnt feel very good. Ive watched a lot of porn (of course) ans seeing people receive sloppy blow jobs is a huge turn on and something id love to experience one day. I just wondered are bjs actually that good or is what ive recieved what they all feel like?"

You'll know when you get one mate. Then you'll do anything for another lol

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By *heperfectgent69Man
over a year ago

Hitchin

They're overrated..

.. yeah right!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who is giving it. If they aren’t good it can be quite painful if they use their teeth alot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

guys give the best blow jobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like you could reach it yourself. For research purposes obviously to try various techniques and see what feels good and what doesn't

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