FabSwingers.com forum: So what’s a guy to do

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Go easy on me guys I am feeling a little down after today’s experience

Had an awesome meet a little over a week ago and we agreed what was to be another quick meet this morning, I arrived at the agreed location and just after when we were due to meet I get a message saying “only just woken up” i wait and ask are you coming? No response so I leave Then send a message saying that I can’t believe there was no response, I know shit happens but please just communicate........

8 hours later message is read and I am blocked

Write it off to experience I guess but is this the norm?

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By *hMyGawdCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

A lot of people are letdowns, cheats, liars and all that.

Just don't mix with them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A lot of people are letdowns, cheats, liars and all that.

Just don't mix with them."

I had hoes for this as we had such a good meet, just disappointed I guess

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

Chin up fella. In a week or so you'll have forgotten all about it

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

It’s a fickle place...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s a fickle place..."
just a fricking bit

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

It's the likes of those people who spoil it for all the genuine ones x

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By *athan 123Man
over a year ago

rochdale oldham border

"It’s a fickle place... just a fricking bit "

Full of waiters pal SUMO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go easy on me guys I am feeling a little down after today’s experience

8 hours later message is read and I am blocked

Write it off to experience I guess but is this the norm?

I wouldn’t of left without knowing by text or talk that she is still up for it. Communication, even though you’d pre arranged I’d of messaged just before checking everything is ok

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

it may have been a fun meet etc but if she let you down like that then maybe you weren't for her. just a shame she couldn't be more upfront out out.

it happens. women here can be asses too.

add it to your experience box and move on. there'll be more

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire

I've had similar experiences. A great meet, she talks of wanting to meet again, her place next time, it was wonderful, wants a lasting naughty friendship and so on.... You try to message, sort a second meet and she turns nasty, weird, blocks you. She was utterly false my friend. Just think of your meet, smile then move on.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

There is always lots of messers around . Just move on .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had similar experiences. A great meet, she talks of wanting to meet again, her place next time, it was wonderful, wants a lasting naughty friendship and so on.... You try to message, sort a second meet and she turns nasty, weird, blocks you. She was utterly false my friend. Just think of your meet, smile then move on."

Errrm hang on how was she false. The OP could of rang and checked and saved himself a wasted journey. Pretty simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the likes of those people who spoil it for all the genuine ones x"

They had met, so she is genuine.

Perhaps she really had just woken up after which she didn't like OP's responses. It happens.

Onwards and upwards OP.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's the likes of those people who spoil it for all the genuine ones x

They had met, so she is genuine.

Perhaps she really had just woken up after which she didn't like OP's responses. It happens.

Onwards and upwards OP. "

She slept in, but didn’t indicate if she could make it (late) or not

Then when I commented that shit happened but I wish she had just communicated she blocked me

Yup she didn’t like an answer... “ I m sorry I won’t make it” instead of just ignoring would hbe been nice that’s all

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

Welcome to the world of meeting on-line. After a few bad experiences you end up being as tough as old boots and distrustful which is bad for those genuine people out there.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

You sound pushy. They did reply. You chose to ignore the response.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You sound pushy. They did reply. You chose to ignore the response."

Not pushy, she arranged the meet

Did reply? I fail to see where

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

"You sound pushy. They did reply. You chose to ignore the response.

Not pushy, she arranged the meet

Did reply? I fail to see where "

You said it was a quicky. She replied only just got up. Id assume she wasnt coming. The only person who knows why she didnt meet u is her. Id have seen u not taking the hint as pushy.

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By *ustfun009Man
over a year ago

oxford

Go easy on me guys I am feeling a little down after today’s experience

8 hours later message is read and I am blocked

Write it off to experience I guess but is this the norm?

Hey dont be down mate she clearly changed her mind for only reasons she knows!

Look at the positives its an achievment to get a meet on here in oxfordshire so you must be doing somthing right mate

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