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It is better to give than to receive….

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By *he_original_polo OP   Woman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

……really?

Sexually are you a giver or a receiver?

When I was younger I was much more of a giver than a receiver.

Now I find I am more able to just soak up the pleasure of receiving.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

It's all about the receiving for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love to give especially oral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a giver ...... less mess that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

really depends. and sometimes being a receiver gives more back than being a giver if that makes sense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's two way street. No selfish women for me, bloody cheek of it ha ha

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By *bi_scotlandTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

I like giving some things......and receiving others

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

In my candid opinion giving done right is also receiving ! I would guess that many of us here are empathic lovers and thus the powerful emotions involved are shared .

I much prefer to give than receive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely more of a giver, much more fun

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By *arkstaffsMan
over a year ago

Rugeley

I too love giving oral, just adore it.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I would be a giver.. not so worried about taking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when I'm with my partner I'm very selfish sometimes .. but when playing with others I'm much more of a giver... I think its alot to do with the fact that some people just don't seem to get it right alot of the time and i get fed up of telling people how to do it lol though some are great that's usually from repeat meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a receiver, obviously I do give but I'm in my element receiving.

I have had experiences with woman but I'm always the receiver in these cases. I do tell them upfront that I'm not into giving with women, but they are still happy and want to pleasure me so who am I to argue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it depends on who im with, not many guys do it for me orally but if i meet someone who hits the spot i could lay there for hours, i think its because its quite rare i find someone who does it for me orally so when i do i tend to make the very most of it

Other wise id sooner give, id sooner not have oral than have a guy down on me thats doing nothing for me i find it so very frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say 80% of my enjoyment is seeing my lover getting off on what i'm doing to her

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I'm a receiver.

There has to be a strong connection for me to give unstintingly.

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Both of us are 50/50 these days. It is lovely to pig out on receiving once in a while though and just let someone else do all the moves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a giver on even numbered days and a receiver on odd numbers... but I keep the start date a closely guarded secret

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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago

belfast


"It's two way street. No selfish women for me, bloody cheek of it ha ha "

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

in a former relationship i was a giver always

now its wonderful to be 50/50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to play 50/50 most of the time but can really enjoy being the giver to special friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

definitely a giver but only for so long ,then i do like to be treated with the same level of intensity i give .as long as its shared in the end to mutual enjoyment

tommy

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By *punkloverCouple
over a year ago

hatfield

when i was a bit younger i didn't have the confidence to expect mutual teasing etc but now i do ! lol

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

I am a short term giver. What I mean is, although oral sex is good, most people we have met go on way too long! Much rather have more Snogging and flirting than hours of oral either way.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"I am a short term giver. What I mean is, although oral sex is good, most people we have met go on way too long! Much rather have more Snogging and flirting than hours of oral either way.

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Yep give me snogs and cuddles any day

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By *ewels74Woman
over a year ago

Dundee/Angus/Blackpool

I like to recieve a lot then im a very happy bunny hehe, but i love to give also very very very much so like to give and things, heck i love kisses and cuddles also and that make it even more pleasurable also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex seems like the smallest part to me, it's all about the foreplay and giving lets the person enjoy it without thought. Plus it turns me on to give

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I had a meet on last week with a CD who just liked to give and I found it hard just receiving.

I'd much rather give.

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By *ravellingAndyMan
over a year ago

Brandon


" Yep give me snogs and cuddles any day "

If you insist Cinn xx

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