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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

...Made us lazy?

Nobody seems to do any leg work (pun intended) when it comes to swinging/dogging anymore.

A lot of people just ask where to go, what to do, how its done etc etc and just expects it all to land at their feet.

Has the thrill of the chase fell by the wayside for impatient need it now people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really good question !

When you are working full time and have a four year old to take care of , the Internet probably makes it happen where otherwise it may not ?

Havingbsaid that the early days for us when we were not on fab had a certain thrill not replicated so perhaps you make a good point !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not on our own in thinking that then lol

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By *arkstaffsMan
over a year ago

Rugeley

A fair question. The internet has certainly made things easier though. Not that long ago you had to go into a pub and shout 'anyone here into swinging?' It didn't work too well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has it also changed our expectations of what "good sex" should be. Someone mentioned in another thread about never having heard of squirting etc before internet porn. Neither had I.

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees

The internet has definitely made things easier and provides an opportunity where you can be as direct as you like. This convenience unfortunately means 'some' lazy people have to make even less effort and expect sex delivering like a takeaway meal. The plus side means the majority have more sexual freedom and the ability to explore more than before.

But if the OP thinks it is all too easy, I suggest you change your profile and photos to that of a single guy. You might change your mind

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"...Made us lazy?

Nobody seems to do any leg work (pun intended) when it comes to swinging/dogging anymore.

A lot of people just ask where to go, what to do, how its done etc etc and just expects it all to land at their feet.

Has the thrill of the chase fell by the wayside for impatient need it now people?

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i do think this is true to an extent...there is a thread up about wanting a Liverpool chat room. The idea saddens me that people are not prepared to put a little bit of effort in. We have traveled all over the country, and in the old contact mag days people were more than willing to travel from yorkshire, the north west.

That said there are still plenty willing to travel, and we tend to get on with them, as they like us enjoy the anticipation and getting to know people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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A lot of people just ask where to go, what to do, how its done etc etc and just expects it all to land at their feet "

I'm used to women falling at my feet.....

......mostly because of the smell!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The internet has definitely made things easier and provides an opportunity where you can be as direct as you like. This convenience unfortunately means 'some' lazy people have to make even less effort and expect sex delivering like a takeaway meal. The plus side means the majority have more sexual freedom and the ability to explore more than before.

But if the OP thinks it is all too easy, I suggest you change your profile and photos to that of a single guy. You might change your mind "

Our profile works for us

As for the single male stigma, I know a few single men on here who don't have trouble getting meets. Maybe some singles/couples expect too much for too little

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The internet has definitely made things easier and provides an opportunity where you can be as direct as you like. This convenience unfortunately means 'some' lazy people have to make even less effort and expect sex delivering like a takeaway meal. The plus side means the majority have more sexual freedom and the ability to explore more than before.

But if the OP thinks it is all too easy, I suggest you change your profile and photos to that of a single guy. You might change your mind

Our profile works for us

As for the single male stigma, I know a few single men on here who don't have trouble getting meets. Maybe some singles/couples expect too much for too little "

Yep been there and done that. Didn't expect anything to fall at my feet, made my own luck and had fun. The only problem I had was distance with some. I'm still waiting for a teleporter, maybe this xmas I'll get one

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has made me a bit lazy.

Normally you find out what a girl likes in bed by a combination of signs, signals, flirting, teasing and gently testing and it made it all the more exciting when you did get to do those unspeakable things.

Now I sometimes find myself thinking: It would be a lot easier if I just asked her if she likes being fucked in the arse.

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By *reyyaMan
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"The internet has definitely made things easier and provides an opportunity where you can be as direct as you like. This convenience unfortunately means 'some' lazy people have to make even less effort and expect sex delivering like a takeaway meal. The plus side means the majority have more sexual freedom and the ability to explore more than before.

But if the OP thinks it is all too easy, I suggest you change your profile and photos to that of a single guy. You might change your mind "

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