FabSwingers.com forum: Gotta admire their confidence

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When they just ask;

You free?

Wanna meet?

Hey?

Or something else minimal effort. I’m guessing that’s all it’s supposed to take to make these knickers hit their bedroom floor?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When they just ask;

You free?

Wanna meet?

Hey?

Or something else minimal effort. I’m guessing that’s all it’s supposed to take to make these knickers hit their bedroom floor?

Their knickers are almost certainly around their ankles!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When they just ask;

You free?

Wanna meet?

Hey?

Or something else minimal effort. I’m guessing that’s all it’s supposed to take to make these knickers hit their bedroom floor?

one guy said this to me..Show me you respect me and I will give you my world xx

Its almost like they think we are sat here waiting just for their msg lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stupid people can be surprisingly confident. It’s the Dunning-Kruger effect.

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

"When they just ask;

You free?

Wanna meet?

Hey?

Or something else minimal effort. I’m guessing that’s all it’s supposed to take to make these knickers hit their bedroom floor?

You mean it takes more than that??

Think I'm gonna have to rethink my entire approach

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When they just ask;

You free?

Wanna meet?

Hey?

Or something else minimal effort. I’m guessing that’s all it’s supposed to take to make these knickers hit their bedroom floor?

You mean it takes more than that??

Think I'm gonna have to rethink my entire approach

Perhaps it works now and then so if you take a scatter gun approach and message everyone.....

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We had a similar message the other day but as he'd included a face pic I replied with a no thanks, he replied okay with a couple of kisses - which I thought was very polite of him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stupid people can be surprisingly confident. It’s the Dunning-Kruger effect. "

'Dunning-Kruger' - had to look it up and now I've learned something new. Thanks! Love the idea that some people are too dumb to realise they're dumb (I may have over-simplified somewhat).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What also gets me are the guys who think you’re immediately ready for a meet (drop everything including your knickers) and then expect you to arrange a venue.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It tends to be the couples who put in the least effort in my experience.

Many guys write eloquent messages.

Many couples are content with ‘meet’ as a subject and ‘this is us’ or ‘hey’. Then if I look at them there’s 438 pics of her and one of his dick.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have I been here too long?

I never used to be this cynical

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

"Have I been here too long?

I never used to be this cynical

Just some guys have no patience and expect girls to drop there knickers for them

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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago

North Devon-ish

"When they just ask;

You free?

Wanna meet?

Hey?

Or something else minimal effort. I’m guessing that’s all it’s supposed to take to make these knickers hit their bedroom floor?

I actually stuck my neck out last week and asked one such Gentleman, why he thought such an un-enthsuing message may result in me saying yes I'm free.

His reply was, "I used to write something interesting, and would always compliment a profile or photo, but i was either ignored or deleted. So i gave up and now i just ask outright, and dont expect anyone to reply"

Just where do we go from here

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

"When they just ask;

You free?

Wanna meet?

Hey?

Or something else minimal effort. I’m guessing that’s all it’s supposed to take to make these knickers hit their bedroom floor?

I actually stuck my neck out last week and asked one such Gentleman, why he thought such an un-enthsuing message may result in me saying yes I'm free.

Just where do we go from here

It's the eternal dilemma

Same as that guy, I like to put together what I think is a polite, well worded message that's relevant to the profile's likes & dislikes, but which either gets read and ignored or just deleted. I wouldn't go down this particular road myself, but I can see the temptation.

Which leads to SF's and couples asking why men send such crap messages, and thus the circle of Fab life continues....

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Stupid people can be surprisingly confident. It’s the Dunning-Kruger effect. "

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By *y naughty hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Maldon

You mean you wear knickers to have to hit the bedroom floor! Haha call your self a swinger

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"When they just ask;

You free?

Wanna meet?

Hey?

Or something else minimal effort. I’m guessing that’s all it’s supposed to take to make these knickers hit their bedroom floor?

I actually stuck my neck out last week and asked one such Gentleman, why he thought such an un-enthsuing message may result in me saying yes I'm free.

Just where do we go from here

I guess it means he doesn't get meets and probably leaves the site.

I did ask a while ago what people thought of setting a personalised minimum message length for first messages from someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With respect you can write war and peace, jump through all the hoops that’s asked and just get your message deleted or ignored.

I’ve always been respectful to anyone I’ve messaged but I’m getting to the stage where I can’t be arsed anymore, thinking of jacking this after my site support ends at the end of December.

However I’ll probably have my faith restored in the site perhaps before then, who knows.

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By *oleydelMan
over a year ago

Manchester

It's the eternal dilemma

This in many circumstances will answer the OP's query. I imagine it's something the women on fab here just don't experience at all due to the ratio of men to women?

I've only ever messaged women I'm genuinely interested in meeting which means delving into their profiles. I'll reflect on this in my message yet I know there's an unlikely chance of a reply, so I can see how many blokes would say, 'bugger to War & Peace, I'll just leave a note on the fridge.' in fact the last message I sent (some time ago now) blasted me for copy & pasting which if the chick took a minute to read the message, would have recognised several references to her profile.

I'm assuming it's not laziness that the OP (or anyone else) is receiving these, but more down to lack of enthusiasm by the point the guy makes contact.

But not in all cases - no doubt some are just lazy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When they just ask;

You free?

Wanna meet?

Hey?

Or something else minimal effort. I’m guessing that’s all it’s supposed to take to make these knickers hit their bedroom floor?

I don't think it's so much confidence just their complete inability to think of anything else to write. Or they're just lazy bastards. Or both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When they just ask;

You free?

Wanna meet?

Hey?

Or something else minimal effort. I’m guessing that’s all it’s supposed to take to make these knickers hit their bedroom floor?

All women are gagging for cock on these sites. Why waste words all need is wave cock and all the womens knickers will drop to the ground- every male know that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It tends to be the couples who put in the least effort in my experience.

Many guys write eloquent messages.

Many couples are content with ‘meet’ as a subject and ‘this is us’ or ‘hey’. Then if I look at them there’s 438 pics of her and one of his dick. "

C'mon, admit it, you jump straight to the dick pic

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's the eternal dilemma

This in many circumstances will answer the OP's query. I imagine it's something the women on fab here just don't experience at all due to the ratio of men to women?

I'm assuming it's not laziness that the OP (or anyone else) is receiving these, but more down to lack of enthusiasm by the point the guy makes contact.

But not in all cases - no doubt some are just lazy!"

I get it, I do, but obviously women and couples have their reasons, too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It tends to be the couples who put in the least effort in my experience.

Many guys write eloquent messages.

Many couples are content with ‘meet’ as a subject and ‘this is us’ or ‘hey’. Then if I look at them there’s 438 pics of her and one of his dick.

C'mon, admit it, you jump straight to the dick pic

I tend to scroll through hoping to see one of them together. Usually disappointed tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had women do this to me. Usually ignore it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It tends to be the couples who put in the least effort in my experience.

Many guys write eloquent messages.

Many couples are content with ‘meet’ as a subject and ‘this is us’ or ‘hey’. Then if I look at them there’s 438 pics of her and one of his dick. "

And despite the pictures all being hers, she's no longer meeting, it's only him that wants to "car meet now"

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

"When they just ask;

You free?

Wanna meet?

Hey?

Or something else minimal effort. I’m guessing that’s all it’s supposed to take to make these knickers hit their bedroom floor?

class answer and true

I actually stuck my neck out last week and asked one such Gentleman, why he thought such an un-enthsuing message may result in me saying yes I'm free.

Just where do we go from here

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"When they just ask;

You free?

Wanna meet?

Hey?

Or something else minimal effort. I’m guessing that’s all it’s supposed to take to make these knickers hit their bedroom floor?

They are usually in:-

A hotel room

A truck

A club

I usually say ‘no thank you’ and block.

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

"It tends to be the couples who put in the least effort in my experience.

Many guys write eloquent messages.

Many couples are content with ‘meet’ as a subject and ‘this is us’ or ‘hey’. Then if I look at them there’s 438 pics of her and one of his dick.

C'mon, admit it, you jump straight to the dick pic

I tend to scroll through hoping to see one of them together. Usually disappointed tho. "

I think our profile is a bit like that... I mean; I’m sort of in a couple of the pictures but in a supporting role.

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

"It tends to be the couples who put in the least effort in my experience.

Many guys write eloquent messages.

Many couples are content with ‘meet’ as a subject and ‘this is us’ or ‘hey’. Then if I look at them there’s 438 pics of her and one of his dick.

C'mon, admit it, you jump straight to the dick pic

I tend to scroll through hoping to see one of them together. Usually disappointed tho.

I think our profile is a bit like that... I mean; I’m sort of in a couple of the pictures but in a supporting role."

You look mighty fine from where I'm standing (slightly to attention)

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

"It tends to be the couples who put in the least effort in my experience.

Many guys write eloquent messages.

Many couples are content with ‘meet’ as a subject and ‘this is us’ or ‘hey’. Then if I look at them there’s 438 pics of her and one of his dick.

C'mon, admit it, you jump straight to the dick pic

I tend to scroll through hoping to see one of them together. Usually disappointed tho.

I think our profile is a bit like that... I mean; I’m sort of in a couple of the pictures but in a supporting role.

You look mighty fine from where I'm standing (slightly to attention) "

Her or him

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"Stupid people can be surprisingly confident. It’s the Dunning-Kruger effect. "

Was thinking more "Thick as S**t" effect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It tends to be the couples who put in the least effort in my experience.

Many guys write eloquent messages.

Many couples are content with ‘meet’ as a subject and ‘this is us’ or ‘hey’. Then if I look at them there’s 438 pics of her and one of his dick.

C'mon, admit it, you jump straight to the dick pic

I tend to scroll through hoping to see one of them together. Usually disappointed tho.

I think our profile is a bit like that... I mean; I’m sort of in a couple of the pictures but in a supporting role."

A lot of couples profiles are like this tbf. I imagine you'll have no problem getting interest from single guys as they'll be looking to play with the female half, as long as you come across in messages as decent for a natter with then no issues. Attracting women who want to play with more than just the female or couples who want to play with you both will be trickier though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stupid people can be surprisingly confident. It’s the Dunning-Kruger effect. "

Yes. This is why they often do so well in politics and why so many democracies have politicians that are idiots.

The emails on the site are something else. Many are Plankton level.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

I’ve try the short and confident approach, the detailed gentle approach and still got fuck all

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

"It tends to be the couples who put in the least effort in my experience.

Many guys write eloquent messages.

Many couples are content with ‘meet’ as a subject and ‘this is us’ or ‘hey’. Then if I look at them there’s 438 pics of her and one of his dick.

C'mon, admit it, you jump straight to the dick pic

I tend to scroll through hoping to see one of them together. Usually disappointed tho.

I think our profile is a bit like that... I mean; I’m sort of in a couple of the pictures but in a supporting role.

Yep I think you’re probably right there. Will have a think. Apologies OP; didn’t mean to turn it in to a profile advice post

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"When they just ask;

You free?

Wanna meet?

Hey?

Or something else minimal effort. I’m guessing that’s all it’s supposed to take to make these knickers hit their bedroom floor?

It's the law of averages. Ask 1000 times and the chances are you'll get a couple of "yes"s eventually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It must be frustrating for guys. I wrote a nice email to a female profile just to say hello - no interest in sleeping with her - and it hasn't been read yet. I can understand why. My wife gets hundreds on her single profile every day. She has no option but to ignore or delete a lot.

I think the solution is to start charging, or only allow men to send one free message a day..otherwise its just frustrating for everyone.

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

"When they just ask;

You free?

Wanna meet?

Hey?

Or something else minimal effort. I’m guessing that’s all it’s supposed to take to make these knickers hit their bedroom floor?

It's the law of averages. Ask 1000 times and the chances are you'll get a couple of "yes"s eventually.

It’s the basis of the Kevin Bloody Wilson song “Do you fuck on first dates”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It tends to be the couples who put in the least effort in my experience.

Many guys write eloquent messages.

Many couples are content with ‘meet’ as a subject and ‘this is us’ or ‘hey’. Then if I look at them there’s 438 pics of her and one of his dick.

C'mon, admit it, you jump straight to the dick pic

I tend to scroll through hoping to see one of them together. Usually disappointed tho. "

Disappointed in the guy lol?

We are a couple and only meet as a couple, have one picture on public which quite like (whether the black spot enhances or detracts for the photo lol) else we'd have none.

We do not put myriad of photos on the public profile cos we have no interest in flaunting ourselves for the delectation of others lol and previous conquests/meetings.

We have few more photos in the privates who we will share with people if they are genuine serious or we have met. Again we do not have a myriad of pics either of previous meetings we keep those private private.

There are more of (mrs) cos (mr) is the one usually behind camera. He is not one to have pictures saying look how many women/guys he/she had

. All our pictures ar kept reasonably up to date and show us how we are and not how we were

The easiest way to decide if we are genuine is get to know us simples.

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

Disappointed in the guy lol?

Probably disappointed that there isn’t a good photo of the couple together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disappointed in the guy lol?

Probably disappointed that there isn’t a good photo of the couple together."

Why would this be a deciding factor if you were to meet, is the question just curious?

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

Disappointed in the guy lol?

Probably disappointed that there isn’t a good photo of the couple together.

Why would this be a deciding factor if you were to meet, is the question just curious? "

I guess it’s because if you are meeting a couple, the other couple want to know what both of you look like, rather than just the female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disappointed in the guy lol?

Probably disappointed that there isn’t a good photo of the couple together.

Why would this be a deciding factor if you were to meet, is the question just curious?

I guess it’s because if you are meeting a couple, the other couple want to know what both of you look like, rather than just the female."

Only asked out of curiosity really cos it crops up a lot in forums, why need to see the photo of couple together as apposed to individual photos of both, as it does in many cases a deciding factor that's all

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

Disappointed in the guy lol?

Probably disappointed that there isn’t a good photo of the couple together.

Why would this be a deciding factor if you were to meet, is the question just curious?

I guess it’s because if you are meeting a couple, the other couple want to know what both of you look like, rather than just the female.

Ah I see, I don’t think a picture of the couple together makes a big difference, more the profiles (like ours) where there are pictures of the female but none, or few, of the male.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disappointed in the guy lol?

Probably disappointed that there isn’t a good photo of the couple together.

Why would this be a deciding factor if you were to meet, is the question just curious?

I guess it’s because if you are meeting a couple, the other couple want to know what both of you look like, rather than just the female.

Ah I see, I don’t think a picture of the couple together makes a big difference, more the profiles (like ours) where there are pictures of the female but none, or few, of the male."

We don't keep many photo on our profile these days but still there are more (F) than (M) pictures as in a lot of profiles. Think people tend to gravitate that way.

If we do meet we'd already established with the those we are meeting we are genuine and both of us will turn up lol, bar exceptional circumstances then it would be neither.

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By *linyMan
over a year ago

Manchester/London

"Stupid people can be surprisingly confident. It’s the Dunning-Kruger effect. "

Too true unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrogance seems to be easily confused with confidence here

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By *illyDudeMan
over a year ago

norh east

Probably typing one handed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Disappointed in the guy lol?

Probably disappointed that there isn’t a good photo of the couple together.

Why would this be a deciding factor if you were to meet, is the question just curious?

I guess it’s because if you are meeting a couple, the other couple want to know what both of you look like, rather than just the female.

Ah I see, I don’t think a picture of the couple together makes a big difference, more the profiles (like ours) where there are pictures of the female but none, or few, of the male."

For me it does. I like to see them as the couple I’m considering joining. Obviously they are two separate people but the dynamic between them can often show in a series of pictures.

Profiles heavily weighted towards her and ignoring him will never get my attention because I only play with women in couples and only if I’m really into him.

I won’t be putting a show with her for him, I may with him for her tho! I am quite likely to do girly things with her while he enjoys fucking me.

Soz. Rambling now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Arrogance seems to be easily confused with confidence here

My initial post said I was impressed with their confidence that I’d be so wowed by them they didn’t need to try very hard.

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By *forfun500Couple
over a year ago

walsall

Had this the other day...

hey guys she as nice tits fancy meeting...

Ermmm delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disappointed in the guy lol?

Probably disappointed that there isn’t a good photo of the couple together.

Why would this be a deciding factor if you were to meet, is the question just curious?

I guess it’s because if you are meeting a couple, the other couple want to know what both of you look like, rather than just the female.

Ah I see, I don’t think a picture of the couple together makes a big difference, more the profiles (like ours) where there are pictures of the female but none, or few, of the male.

For me it does. I like to see them as the couple I’m considering joining. Obviously they are two separate people but the dynamic between them can often show in a series of pictures.

Profiles heavily weighted towards her and ignoring him will never get my attention because I only play with women in couples and only if I’m really into him.

I won’t be putting a show with her for him, I may with him for her tho! I am quite likely to do girly things with her while he enjoys fucking me.

Soz. Rambling now

You are absolutely right about the dynamics of a couple (are genuine) if you are going to join them, but don't believe this can be determined by the majority of pictures on these sites. If it was us we would make an effort to get to know you and us so if we did meet would be relaxed and without any awkwardness we'd hope

There are quite a few fake couple photos out there, we have seen quite a few. No sure we agree about the pictures, most are taken in poor light, cock, pussy, cock in pussy, maybe with vibe, cum dripping pussies and so called erotic poses which quite frankly are more of a turn off - more cock, pussy shots. Very few capture the emotions or the dynamics. We would definitely determine who we would meet on the people and not on pictures.

Just our view

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

Spoken like a person who feels no need to make an effort .....

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

"It tends to be the couples who put in the least effort in my experience.

Many guys write eloquent messages.

Many couples are content with ‘meet’ as a subject and ‘this is us’ or ‘hey’. Then if I look at them there’s 438 pics of her and one of his dick.

C'mon, admit it, you jump straight to the dick pic

I tend to scroll through hoping to see one of them together. Usually disappointed tho.

I think our profile is a bit like that... I mean; I’m sort of in a couple of the pictures but in a supporting role.

You look mighty fine from where I'm standing (slightly to attention)

Her or him

That comment was directed to her, I'm afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When they just ask;

You free?

Wanna meet?

Hey?

Or something else minimal effort. I’m guessing that’s all it’s supposed to take to make these knickers hit their bedroom floor?

I don't think it's confidence. I think it's social ineptitude, poor manners and laziness.

Is this face to face or via the safety and anonymity of the internet?

Whilst I have a lot of people who are rude to me over the phone or internet, not a lot of people get in my face in person.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It tends to be the couples who put in the least effort in my experience.

Many guys write eloquent messages.

Many couples are content with ‘meet’ as a subject and ‘this is us’ or ‘hey’. Then if I look at them there’s 438 pics of her and one of his dick.

C'mon, admit it, you jump straight to the dick pic

I tend to scroll through hoping to see one of them together. Usually disappointed tho.

I think our profile is a bit like that... I mean; I’m sort of in a couple of the pictures but in a supporting role.

You look mighty fine from where I'm standing (slightly to attention)

Her or him

That comment was directed to her, I'm afraid

Don’t be afraid. Embrace your bi side. You’ll have a lovely time. Honest

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

"When they just ask;

You free?

Wanna meet?

Hey?

Or something else minimal effort. I’m guessing that’s all it’s supposed to take to make these knickers hit their bedroom floor?

Be fair, they usually have a profile that does all the hard work for them - something like ‘here for nsa and wanna try anal’. You don’t need a great intro with that kinda material available.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots who do this don't seem to have had meets for yonks I think its more ignorance not confidence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just have to add one that makes me cringe!!! 'Hi, are you free this week?' YUCK!!!! makes me sound like a hooker!..instant delete from now on

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

We've only been on here a couple of months but it's the "copy and paste" messages I dislike

I love getting messages and chatting and see where it leads but if you don't take the effort to engage then I won't bother

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over a year ago

Theres one fab member who I wont name but regardless of how many times he messages he always starts with the exact line " can I ask you anything" word for word. So bloody annoying and obviously copied & pasted.

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over a year ago

Seduction is dead, replaced by a monosyllabic "fuck?" message.

Getting into someone's underwear usually means getting into their brain first, stimulating the neurons with nuanced conversation.

The lack of effort undertaken by a one line message could never be a catalyst for anyone to even consider the prospect of an upcoming sexual liaison. The women on here don't sit around in their sexiest lingerie just waiting on the plaintive cry of someone needing their balls draining.

Too many see this as a potential utopia for an instant shag, and that volume often drowns out the actual swingers on here.

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

"Too many see this as a potential utopia for an instant shag, and that volume often drowns out the actual swingers on here. "

But is it working for that crowd? Whoever I check my local updates section, there are status updates along the lines of "Horny. Need cock now. Min 9". Send face pic", often at about 1 or 2 on a Sunday morning.

Or, on the middle of the day, "On the high street. Who's around? Lol"

Do these people actually assume everyone is glued to Fab constantly?

Are there people that are? Are these 'fuck & go' types getting any action? If so, that possibly explains why genuine swingers who want to establish some kind of relationship / understanding are struggling, and why so many shite messages get sent out

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

"Too many see this as a potential utopia for an instant shag, and that volume often drowns out the actual swingers on here.

Or, on the middle of the day, "On the high street. Who's around? Lol"

Do these people actually assume everyone is glued to Fab constantly?

*Whenever I check*

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

Fully agree with the above post x

The art of flirting is sadly lost, even if someone messages me who is not what we are looking for and it's well thought out and thought provoking I always reply x

The mental stimulation from flirting is a big turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When they just ask;

You free?

Wanna meet?

Hey?

Or something else minimal effort. I’m guessing that’s all it’s supposed to take to make these knickers hit their bedroom floor?

In these circumstances I have more admiration for the speedy internet connection I have as I instantly select another page.

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By *rallyFixated1Man
over a year ago

tipton

This kind of thing comes from single guys that don’t understand swinging. They think you’re all sluts that need a good rattling.

(I get it from “straight” men all the time)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust us, it's not just single men profiles lol. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When they just ask;

You free?

Wanna meet?

Hey?

Or something else minimal effort. I’m guessing that’s all it’s supposed to take to make these knickers hit their bedroom floor?

"
oh heck have I been getting it wrong all this time lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too many see this as a potential utopia for an instant shag, and that volume often drowns out the actual swingers on here.

Or, on the middle of the day, "On the high street. Who's around? Lol"

Do these people actually assume everyone is glued to Fab constantly?

LMAO!!! ty for the laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They think.... If you happen to be online...

You are dressed to the 9's

Bathed, hair done, nails painted FUCK ME RED

6 inch patent heels, lay on the bed, legs parted with a butt plug in.

Waiting for some random bloke who's been on for over a year, blank profile, 60 miles away and no verifications.

Waiting to be invited round by seducing you with....

" Wanna Fuck "

Day Dreamer's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It works fine for me tbf

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Trust us, it's not just single men profiles lol. X"

Actually i was mainly referring to couples profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They think.... If you happen to be online...

You are dressed to the 9's

Bathed, hair done, nails painted FUCK ME RED

6 inch patent heels, lay on the bed, legs parted with a butt plug in.

Waiting for some random bloke who's been on for over a year, blank profile, 60 miles away and no verifications.

Waiting to be invited round by seducing you with....

" Wanna Fuck "

Day Dreamer's "

I mean sounds viable to me, cant imagine any reason someone wouldnt be like that all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When they just ask;

You free?

Wanna meet?

Hey?

Or something else minimal effort. I’m guessing that’s all it’s supposed to take to make these knickers hit their bedroom floor?

one guy said this to me..Show me you respect me and I will give you my world xx

Its almost like they think we are sat here waiting just for their msg lol"

Guess they missed the part that says respect is earned and not asked for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They think.... If you happen to be online...

You are dressed to the 9's

Bathed, hair done, nails painted FUCK ME RED

6 inch patent heels, lay on the bed, legs parted with a butt plug in.

Waiting for some random bloke who's been on for over a year, blank profile, 60 miles away and no verifications.

Waiting to be invited round by seducing you with....

" Wanna Fuck "

Day Dreamer's "

oh this is so on point !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive literaly had a prime example just occur, couple messaged me asking if i wanted to come round right now to which i said i cant tonight but am happy to arrange something later in the week only to have the conversation deleted

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