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By *UNANDNICE OP   Man
over a year ago

Basildon

What is the best way to message someone that you are interested in and do you say that you like there pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you could write something nice and normal that shows you are a real person and not just looking for instant sex. Something interesting that shows you read the profile and maybe says something interesting about yourself.

I always delete:

One liners like 'hi how are you?'

Dick pictures

Sex talk

'you look amazing' 'wow' 'love your pictures'

Maybe that is just me.

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By *UNANDNICE OP   Man
over a year ago

Basildon

And they always want you to send them a face picture but they don't have one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What have you been texting them for the past year you have been on here

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By *UNANDNICE OP   Man
over a year ago

Basildon

Just like a..hi guys I'm jay and a little about what they want not much more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem is that there are too many emails. I sometimes get 100 - 200 per day. That means you need to write a good email and have an interesting profile to get a reply.

I usually delete emails from people with no profile picture and emails from people with a dick profile picture without reading them just to try and make my inbox smaller. There are too many to reply to.

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By *appycouple300Couple
over a year ago

North Dorset

This will be novel for a guy. Read the profile and if they are looking for a bi make and you are straight, don’t message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just like a..hi guys I'm jay and a little about what they want not much more "
you need an avatar pic and pics on show and as well as reading the target profiles and sending messages based on that put some personality into it, as the lady said she gets 100-200 messages a day why would she read yours, your profile is your advert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This will be novel for a guy. Read the profile and if they are looking for a bi make and you are straight, don’t message. "

Way too radical. It'll never catch on.

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