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 . Also does your rating go up and down....?
Tell me your kinky, not you're kinky (coz I'm not really all that.... )
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"In my head probably a 15, in action I wouldn’t register on the scale." Great honesty! I often feel a bit shy to discuss stuff myself. It can be a bit scary in here with all the pro kinksters shouting about it  | |||
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"This is hard!... go for 22 theres always room for improvement." Always! | |||
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"25... Used to go to fet clubs" Take me!  | |||
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"15? Not especially kinky but i get told i’m dirty in bed often, not quite sure what that means." I'm exactly like that! I think I'm more mentally twisted and imaginative rather than any particular act.... ...maybe that's a kink? | |||
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"Based on what? Needs some kind of objective scale, as one man's vanilla is another man's panic attack. Definitely more kinky than most, based from what i read in peoples' reactions in the forums" Funnily enough I was having this discussion yesterday! Some think Anal is kinky I think it's normal? | |||
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"15? Not especially kinky but i get told i’m dirty in bed often, not quite sure what that means." Some people think leaving the light on during sex is dirty. | |||
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"15? Not especially kinky but i get told i’m dirty in bed often, not quite sure what that means. Some people think leaving the light on during sex is dirty. " Who would leave a light on during sex?!  filthy devils | |||
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"Based on what? Needs some kind of objective scale, as one man's vanilla is another man's panic attack. Definitely more kinky than most, based from what i read in peoples' reactions in the forums" Based on the level of kink you can imagine. Some ppls 30 will be another person's 10, but just give me YOUR number, rate yourself according to your rules. It's an experiment for my personal development, I'll filter the answers in my mind and report back at a later date | |||
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"16 Those purple pants do it for me Vine "Add another point to your score then!! | |||
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"Not really sure what kinky means tbh so il go midrange" by that i mean 12 to 18 i think | |||
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"Quite low down on that scale I think "How low Babs? Don't be ashamed, that's what I'm getting at, it's not all about your number it's about your beautiful soul | |||
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"15? Not especially kinky but i get told i’m dirty in bed often, not quite sure what that means. Some people think leaving the light on during sex is dirty. Who would leave a light on during sex?! filthy devils "I know right. | |||
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"Depends on were your scales works.. Kinky as in stockings heels... To golden showers, fisting To bdsm e.g whips bondage To edge play e.g. breathplay..... Scale is subjective Not quite a 30 but perhaps 26-27" Life is subjective, answer the damn question or don't, unless you're being subjective.... | |||
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"Not really sure what kinky means tbh so il go midrange" I'll put you as 16 then, just for your odd photos.... | |||
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"Based on what? Needs some kind of objective scale, as one man's vanilla is another man's panic attack. Definitely more kinky than most, based from what i read in peoples' reactions in the forums Funnily enough I was having this discussion yesterday! Some think Anal is kinky I think it's normal? " Put YOUR number plz? | |||
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"I am gonna go with 25+ "Ooooooooh, do you need a kinky partner or can you find joy still in a 15? | |||
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"On a scale of 1-30.... I think I'm a 17, but I don't think that makes me a bad person, I just like what I like and it depends a lot on who I'm with.... Give me your number, I want to see if there is a 30 out there and also if anyone is zero. I won't judge.... . Also does your rating go up and down....?
Tell me your kinky, not you're kinky (coz I'm not really all that....)
Much obliged for any replies
Nip x"20-25 - a freaky SOB! | |||
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"I'm a 2." Lights off then? | |||
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"Based on what? Needs some kind of objective scale, as one man's vanilla is another man's panic attack. Definitely more kinky than most, based from what i read in peoples' reactions in the forums" This ^ How can you measure, where is the starting point or even median value? | |||
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"Ermmm between 4-12 I used to be a lot higher but now I'm quite not kinky. "What changed? Is that a good or bad thing? Do you miss it? Xx | |||
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"Based on what? Needs some kind of objective scale, as one man's vanilla is another man's panic attack. Definitely more kinky than most, based from what i read in peoples' reactions in the forums Based on the level of kink you can imagine. Some ppls 30 will be another person's 10, but just give me YOUR number, rate yourself according to your rules. It's an experiment for my personal development, I'll filter the answers in my mind and report back at a later date "Based on this and other remarks, I'm a 0.5 then. | |||
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"I'd have said maybe 18 to 20 as I'm willing to give most things a go, today I'm feeling like a 25 "I loved your honesty on the other post buddy. It probably lifted my number by one today... | |||
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"0 If I have a kink, I've not found it yet "I wish I could help with that.... | |||
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"15? Not especially kinky but i get told i’m dirty in bed often, not quite sure what that means. Some people think leaving the light on during sex is dirty. Who would leave a light on during sex?! filthy devils "Last sex I had was on a balcony on a very cold morning, I felt so brave.... | |||
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"30 in my mind but the reality is always different "What is it in reality though? | |||
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"I have a scale of 1-10 1 is Asexual, 10 is illegal. I reckon I'm a 5/6 but could be pushed to a 7 with the right person. So on the 30 scale i'd be a 15/18." Ditto | |||
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"Ermmm between 4-12 I used to be a lot higher but now I'm quite not kinky.
What changed? Is that a good or bad thing? Do you miss it? Xx"I don't miss it as such. Sometimes it's an itch I want to scratch and it gets scratched very well by the right person. A long list of things changed but the main thing is I did. | |||
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"Dont know what number I am But once a mosquito bit me and I whispered "yes daddy"" Hawttttttt... | |||
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"I am gonna go with 25+
Ooooooooh, do you need a kinky partner or can you find joy still in a 15?"I am lucky to have kinky partners | |||
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"I’d safely put myself somewhere between a 10-15, having seen some of the kinks being played out in fetish clubs and the photos and interest lists also on a fetish lifestyle site. " You've just taken me down a peg or three.... | |||
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"On a scale of 1-30.... I think I'm a 17, but I don't think that makes me a bad person, I just like what I like and it depends a lot on who I'm with.... Give me your number, I want to see if there is a 30 out there and also if anyone is zero. I won't judge.... . Also does your rating go up and down....?
Tell me your kinky, not you're kinky (coz I'm not really all that....)
Much obliged for any replies
Nip x"I genuinely dont know anymore, i even scare myself sometimes with the question of how far is too far | |||
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"The rating we put above is based on perception of belief of what others would call kink. We still go to fet parties and are always willing to try new stuff. However the range scale of perceptions is different depending on the person or persons." It is indeed!  | |||
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"Not really kinky at all so it's a lowly 5. Passionate 30." And I think that's great! Never be embarrassed, everyone likes what they like! | |||
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We all have our own peccadilloes so anything I don't like is weird rather than kinky plus everyone will have a different list to judge themselves by | |||
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"Mrs 26 Mr 28! " Oooooh gosh, have you met a 30 yet? | |||
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"On a scale of 1-30.... I think I'm a 17, but I don't think that makes me a bad person, I just like what I like and it depends a lot on who I'm with.... Give me your number, I want to see if there is a 30 out there and also if anyone is zero. I won't judge.... . Also does your rating go up and down....?
Tell me your kinky, not you're kinky (coz I'm not really all that....)
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"30 in my mind but the reality is always different
What is it in reality though?"About a 25 Tried lots but still more to explore | |||
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"I'm a 72. I have no clue what the numbers mean! One persons kink is anothers wet Tuesday afternoon though. Self identification is tricky in an arbitrary numerical sense; someone might consider keeping the lights on to be the height of kinky sex so place themselves as a 30. Another who knows there is a whole world out there and has only scratched the surface could place themselves as a 10... Dunning-Kruger scale. "  | |||
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"Based on what? Needs some kind of objective scale, as one man's vanilla is another man's panic attack. Definitely more kinky than most, based from what i read in peoples' reactions in the forums This ^ How can you measure, where is the starting point or even median value?" Just guess. I do these threads often and for me it's just about getting ppl to give a number without feeling judged. You must have an idea, the rules aren't fixed. I dare you to put a number....? | |||
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"Once got messaged by a man who said he was "ultra-kinky", I said "ooohh how exciting what are you into then" and he replied "I like to have my cock sucked", so one person's kinky is another person's vanilla ice cream. I'd score myself 26 " If he was happy with cock sucking, then good luck to him.... | |||
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"Based on what? Needs some kind of objective scale, as one man's vanilla is another man's panic attack. Definitely more kinky than most, based from what i read in peoples' reactions in the forums Based on the level of kink you can imagine. Some ppls 30 will be another person's 10, but just give me YOUR number, rate yourself according to your rules. It's an experiment for my personal development, I'll filter the answers in my mind and report back at a later date
Based on this and other remarks, I'm a 0.5 then. "Nothing wrong with that at all my lovely, faf? xx | |||
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"My score would be pretty high, I'm open to try anything if both parties are comfortable, have a few of the usual limits so prob 28 or 29 for me (it's not to say I've done it all tho lol)" Wow! 29!!!! Getting close! | |||
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"Ermmm between 4-12 I used to be a lot higher but now I'm quite not kinky.
What changed? Is that a good or bad thing? Do you miss it? Xx
I don't miss it as such. Sometimes it's an itch I want to scratch and it gets scratched very well by the right person. A long list of things changed but the main thing is I did."Sometimes I hate you, you're so adorable, lovely and wise | |||
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"I have a scale of 1-10 1 is Asexual, 10 is illegal. I reckon I'm a 5/6 but could be pushed to a 7 with the right person. So on the 30 scale i'd be a 15/18. Ditto "And 8 and 9 scare me | |||
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"Probably around 10. There's just so many kinks and fetishes I couldn't rate myself higher." Is there stuff you want to try in all those kinks and fets though? It's not just about what you've "done" though? Or is it...? | |||
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"I am gonna go with 25+
Ooooooooh, do you need a kinky partner or can you find joy still in a 15?
I am lucky to have kinky partners "I'm sure they're lucky too | |||
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"Once got messaged by a man who said he was "ultra-kinky", I said "ooohh how exciting what are you into then" and he replied "I like to have my cock sucked", so one person's kinky is another person's vanilla ice cream. I'd score myself 26 If he was happy with cock sucking, then good luck to him.... "I agree, just demonstrates that people's perceptions of what is kinky varies wildly, usually based on their own experiences and fantasies. | |||
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"On a scale of 1-30.... I think I'm a 17, but I don't think that makes me a bad person, I just like what I like and it depends a lot on who I'm with.... Give me your number, I want to see if there is a 30 out there and also if anyone is zero. I won't judge.... . Also does your rating go up and down....?
Tell me your kinky, not you're kinky (coz I'm not really all that....)
Much obliged for any replies
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I genuinely dont know anymore, i even scare myself sometimes with the question of how far is too far "So you're saying your number changes and also the scale changes...? | |||
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"I'm a 72. I have no clue what the numbers mean! One persons kink is anothers wet Tuesday afternoon though. Self identification is tricky in an arbitrary numerical sense; someone might consider keeping the lights on to be the height of kinky sex so place themselves as a 30. Another who knows there is a whole world out there and has only scratched the surface could place themselves as a 10... Dunning-Kruger scale. " Thanks for that
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"At the mo I’d probably say a 10 but I want kinkier!! To get to at least an 18/20 "So you have kink ambition...? | |||
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"I don't think of myself as kinky at all as I don't see things that I enjoy as kinks so I am either a zero or a 30
We all have our own peccadilloes so anything I don't like is weird rather than kinky plus everyone will have a different list to judge themselves by"I like that answer, it's honest. Take a guess at a number though, just for me please, rate yourself,I won't judge.... | |||
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"30 in my mind but the reality is always different
What is it in reality though?
About a 25
Tried lots but still more to explore "I think tbh, if you want to explore more then you're kinda 30 unless you have a ceiling...? | |||
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"Not into 2 p’s but have flogged very many bottoms in the last 20 years, nipples squeezed hard and rough usage, the agony and ecstasy, so would say 25" Have you had sex with a melon though? | |||
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"I’m too kinky for this thread. " Too sexy it hurts, right...? | |||
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"I’m too kinky for this thread. Too sexy it hurts, right...? "Painfully so. | |||
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"Probably around 10. There's just so many kinks and fetishes I couldn't rate myself higher. Is there stuff you want to try in all those kinks and fets though? It's not just about what you've "done" though? Or is it...? "That's why I said 10. Remaining 20 is pretty much a no go. I imagine like half of kinks and fetishes are either against the rules to mention here or even illegal. So yeah 10 is my happy number | |||
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"I have a scale of 1-10 1 is Asexual, 10 is illegal. I reckon I'm a 5/6 but could be pushed to a 7 with the right person. So on the 30 scale i'd be a 15/18. Ditto
And 8 and 9 scare me "I'm not so much scared, more disinterested or put off by the snobbery that can surround kink. It can be a bit like the "sport" of golf where your value is placed on your handicap, which club you are a m_mber of, which golf clubs you use and hiw you're dressed etc.... ...puts me off at times tbh... | |||
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"Once got messaged by a man who said he was "ultra-kinky", I said "ooohh how exciting what are you into then" and he replied "I like to have my cock sucked", so one person's kinky is another person's vanilla ice cream. I'd score myself 26 If he was happy with cock sucking, then good luck to him....
I agree, just demonstrates that people's perceptions of what is kinky varies wildly, usually based on their own experiences and fantasies. "Exactly | |||
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"If the women in me wants the man in you. Unleash the lionesse. I have no idea "That made me laugh, like something I'd write myself.... . Give me your fucking number spiderwoman!
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"In my head probably a 15, in action I wouldn’t register on the scale. Great honesty! I often feel a bit shy to discuss stuff myself. It can be a bit scary in here with all the pro kinksters shouting about it "I have no problem being brutally open about stuff on here including my lack of experience. The more experienced folk don’t phase me in really, I’ve been able to learn quite a bit vicariously and chatting to a few of them. But I’m an armchair kinkster rather than the playroom type right now. Graduating to actually doing it would be nice | |||
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"Probably around 10. There's just so many kinks and fetishes I couldn't rate myself higher. Is there stuff you want to try in all those kinks and fets though? It's not just about what you've "done" though? Or is it...?
That's why I said 10. Remaining 20 is pretty much a no go.
I imagine like half of kinks and fetishes are either against the rules to mention here or even illegal.
So yeah 10 is my happy number "Tru dat! My number was more in relation to the average I think. Maybe I should adjust it, or maybe I'm right to use that as my base....? | |||
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"In my head probably a 15, in action I wouldn’t register on the scale. Great honesty! I often feel a bit shy to discuss stuff myself. It can be a bit scary in here with all the pro kinksters shouting about it
I have no problem being brutally open about stuff on here including my lack of experience. The more experienced folk don’t phase me in really, I’ve been able to learn quite a bit vicariously and chatting to a few of them. But I’m an armchair kinkster rather than the playroom type right now. Graduating to actually doing it would be nice "I hear ya | |||
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"I'm kinkier than your nan, but not as kinky as you mum "How rude! Faf? | |||
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"Based on what? Needs some kind of objective scale, as one man's vanilla is another man's panic attack. Definitely more kinky than most, based from what i read in peoples' reactions in the forums This ^ How can you measure, where is the starting point or even median value? Just guess. I do these threads often and for me it's just about getting ppl to give a number without feeling judged. You must have an idea, the rules aren't fixed. I dare you to put a number....? "For pure open mindedness and a willingness to not say never say never I’d go for 28 | |||
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"Based on what? Needs some kind of objective scale, as one man's vanilla is another man's panic attack. Definitely more kinky than most, based from what i read in peoples' reactions in the forums This ^ How can you measure, where is the starting point or even median value? Just guess. I do these threads often and for me it's just about getting ppl to give a number without feeling judged. You must have an idea, the rules aren't fixed. I dare you to put a number....?
For pure open mindedness and a willingness to not say never say never I’d go for 28 "Aww thanks for that Spurschick, thanks for playing | |||
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"21 Half of 42  "That’s a fab age tho | |||
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That’s a fab age tho "Magic number innit.... | |||
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"21 Half of 42
That’s a fab age tho
Magic number innit.... "No that’s 3 | |||
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"21 Half of 42
That’s a fab age tho
Magic number innit....
No that’s 3 "
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"21 Half of 42
That’s a fab age tho
Magic number innit....
No that’s 3
Seriously, the views I've had off this thread have been an eye-opener! I need to re-rate myself as a 7 or something..... .....plus that pic that dude sent me (again!) makes me all fluttery... "Thanks and be more confident | |||
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"I’m so kinky even space-docking is too vanilla for me. "Mung off....! | |||
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"I used to think I was around a 10, then I started getting startled looks, gulps and horn beyond measure telling me otherwise, so I'd probably think it's closer to the top end, maybe 27-28? "So you're the kinkiest person you know....? | |||
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"It's a hard thing to guage in my opinion, my mam would think all us on this site were 30! " Haha, how do you know that...?
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"It's a hard thing to guage in my opinion, my mam would think all us on this site were 30! " Oh, and give me your number....! | |||
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"It's a hard thing to guage in my opinion, my mam would think all us on this site were 30! Haha, how do you know that...?
I do love your pics Frida...."Don't ask too long a conversation. Ta muchly | |||
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"It's a hard thing to guage in my opinion, my mam would think all us on this site were 30! Oh, and give me your number....! "Erm 20 I'd say | |||
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"It's a hard thing to guage in my opinion, my mam would think all us on this site were 30! Haha, how do you know that...?
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Don't ask too long a conversation.
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"It's a hard thing to guage in my opinion, my mam would think all us on this site were 30! Haha, how do you know that...?
I do love your pics Frida....
Don't ask too long a conversation.
Ta muchly
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I do love your pics Frida....
Don't ask too long a conversation.
Ta muchly
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I do love your pics Frida....
Don't ask too long a conversation.
Ta muchly
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No but heard them have arguements about their sex life being too vanilla, that is not a conversation a 16 year old needs to hear!!!
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I do love your pics Frida....
Don't ask too long a conversation.
Ta muchly
You caught them at it.....?
No but heard them have arguements about their sex life being too vanilla, that is not a conversation a 16 year old needs to hear!!!
Oh dear....
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So you're the kinkiest person you know....?
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"It's a hard thing to guage in my opinion, my mam would think all us on this site were 30! Haha, how do you know that...?
I do love your pics Frida....
Don't ask too long a conversation.
Ta muchly
You caught them at it.....?
No but heard them have arguements about their sex life being too vanilla, that is not a conversation a 16 year old needs to hear!!!
Oh dear....
Oooops wrong emoji.....
Scared me for life that has!!"I struggle even with the fact I was born.... | |||
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"Well i think i would be around 20 cos im not shy confident . Although i have never done anything kinky would realky luv to try most things out. " Positive attitude | |||
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"It's a hard thing to guage in my opinion, my mam would think all us on this site were 30! Haha, how do you know that...?
I do love your pics Frida....
Don't ask too long a conversation.
Ta muchly
You caught them at it.....?
No but heard them have arguements about their sex life being too vanilla, that is not a conversation a 16 year old needs to hear!!!
Oh dear....
Oooops wrong emoji.....
Scared me for life that has!!
I struggle even with the fact I was born.... "Haha try having your mam tell you you were only born because her and my dad didn't think you could get pregnant the first time you had sex! | |||
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I do love your pics Frida....
Don't ask too long a conversation.
Ta muchly
You caught them at it.....?
No but heard them have arguements about their sex life being too vanilla, that is not a conversation a 16 year old needs to hear!!!
Oh dear....
Oooops wrong emoji.....
Scared me for life that has!!
I struggle even with the fact I was born....
Haha try having your mam tell you you were only born because her and my dad didn't think you could get pregnant the first time you had sex!"That's such a good explanation! | |||
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"I’d say I’m probably top end about a 26 Really? You'd have eaten me alive.... "I would’ve & you'd have enjoyed it | |||
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"I’d say I’m probably top end about a 26 Really? You'd have eaten me alive....
I would’ve & you'd have enjoyed it "Another time....? | |||
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"I'm about 25-26, as some of my pics indicate. The more interesting pics are generally not permitted, so you may need to use s bit of imagination, although not that much!" Isn't imagination the key though, rather than copying stuff other ppl are doing....? | |||
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"29.5 not much shocking me "Just checked out your profile, I think I might love you.... | |||
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"Easy 30 for fem, 21 for fella. Pervert level= fem 21, fella easy 30 "Haha | |||
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"Hard one to answer ....Nothing shocks me but at the same time I probably wouldn’t even think of trying most of the stuff I’ve read about ...So I’d probably say middle of the road 15...." That's where I am tbf.... | |||
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"not really sure, but i guess I'm above a 20, being very bi, bit of a switch, and into some BDSM, so maybe around 24? "I'm so impressed that everyone managed to keep to the scale of 30. Usually I get loads of ppl saying 7/10 or 78.5%.... | |||
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So you're the kinkiest person you know....?
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Do you know a solid 30?"I know of someone who talks 30 - I'm both intruiged and a bit nervous | |||
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"I don't view being kinky as a competition or point scoring exercise. " This thread, if you'd read all my comments is not one
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"I used to think I was around a 10, then I started getting startled looks, gulps and horn beyond measure telling me otherwise, so I'd probably think it's closer to the top end, maybe 27-28?
So you're the kinkiest person you know....?
Nope. I know there's more.
Do you know a solid 30?
I know of someone who talks 30 - I'm both intruiged and a bit nervous "Haha, talk is easy, have you seen me lately....? | |||
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"I don't view being kinky as a competition or point scoring exercise. This thread, if you'd read all my comments is not one
It's ok to be anywhere on the scale and nobody should feel shame at either end, the key for me was whether ppl would get over themselves and assign a number rather than trying to look cool....."And that's what makes it a competition. As you say people will over sell themselves. Scoring 30 is like claiming you have no limits, it shows a complete lack of awareness | |||
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"I don't view being kinky as a competition or point scoring exercise. This thread, if you'd read all my comments is not one
It's ok to be anywhere on the scale and nobody should feel shame at either end, the key for me was whether ppl would get over themselves and assign a number rather than trying to look cool.....
And that's what makes it a competition. As you say people will over sell themselves. Scoring 30 is like claiming you have no limits, it shows a complete lack of awareness "And I'll judge, yes, in a non-judgemental way as I always do. The experiment was to see if everyone would rate themselves. I think you seem to be the only one worried about your size.... In this particular thread a low number can be a high score if it matches with what someone else desires, or a high number could mean you miss out on a match, can you see that? Are you going to add a number and contribute or find another thread to spoil with negativity....? | |||
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"At the mo I’d probably say a 10 but I want kinkier!! To get to at least an 18/20 "I'd love to help you out there | |||
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"At the mo I’d probably say a 10 but I want kinkier!! To get to at least an 18/20
I'd love to help you out there "Are you kinky Bob? Number please? | |||
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"I'm a 2. Lights off then? And both with bags on head. " Faf? | |||
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"Not really kinky just open minded I am not a number after all. " Bit if you were, which number would you be....? | |||
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"Not really kinky just open minded I am not a number after all. Bit if you were, which number would you be....?" Oh gawd, my typing...
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"Hmm very subjective as others have mentioned. By my own standards I'm not majorly kinky other than my fetish for wearing ladies underwear. Have spanked and been spanked and tried a few mmf but otherwise nothing exceptional so let's say a 10" Your pics say visualy 18 to me... | |||
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