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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What are they?

This isn’t a thread for shaming, arguing, calling fetishes disgusting etc. Pleaaaaaase be nice.

What fetishes do you just simply not understand?

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

Foot worship

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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago

Coventry


"What are they?

This isn’t a thread for shaming, arguing, calling fetishes disgusting etc. Pleaaaaaase be nice.

What fetishes do you just simply not understand?"

Anything involving pain. Not for us but each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The whole buying used knickers thing. For fucks sake, just steal them off the washing line.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Foot fetish for me, I don’t find it unpleasant or pleasant, I just don’t understand the attraction, anyone with this fetish be able to give me their views on it ? Haha

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"What are they?

This isn’t a thread for shaming, arguing, calling fetishes disgusting etc. Pleaaaaaase be nice.

What fetishes do you just simply not understand?"

Totally lost on inflation.

Don't really understand it.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

When guys want to wear nappies and be treated like a baby.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Watersports

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"The whole buying used knickers thing. For fucks sake, just steal them off the washing line. "

Those would be clean...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Foot worship"
. It's not a fetish for me but part of forepkay if the lady likes it.

I don't like total head hoods.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it pegging where you put things down his japs eye? What’s that all about ??????? I’ve been for tests and it is not nice, can’t understand what pleasure you would get??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's so many fetishes that lots of people haven't even heard of .and lots people find disgusting. I think each to their own. I personally think that there are a lot of people interested in the fetish life now than there ever been before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all of them

i can't even find someone for vanilla sex

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

The knot tying thing, looks like a boy scout's wet dream!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When guys want to wear nappies and be treated like a baby."

I find it very strange

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"Is it pegging where you put things down his japs eye? What’s that all about ??????? I’ve been for tests and it is not nice, can’t understand what pleasure you would get??"

That’s sounding. Mr.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Foot worship"

Love kissing a ladies pretty feet and toes , I must say but mine are off limits for some reason!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it pegging where you put things down his japs eye? What’s that all about ??????? I’ve been for tests and it is not nice, can’t understand what pleasure you would get??

That’s sounding. Mr. "

Thanks for the education ?? i saw it once and the thought of it still makes me shudder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Foot worship

Love kissing a ladies pretty feet and toes , I must say but mine are off limits for some reason! "

Can I ask what it is you love so much about this ? Intrigued to learn more

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"Watersports "

This for us too

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3


"Is it pegging where you put things down his japs eye? What’s that all about ??????? I’ve been for tests and it is not nice, can’t understand what pleasure you would get??"

No that's sounding.

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By *otrockWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Toe sucking, its just not my thing. I couldn't let any one suck my toes but then I have certain fetishes that people don't get.

We all have our own certain thing that gets us off and it would be a boring world if we all liked the same thing. X

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Feet, watersports, sounding, used knickers, tights/ stockings, stuff in public potentially involving those who don't consent.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I've tried urethral sounding and I've tried water sports (giving and receiving). Couldn't see what was erotic about either of them.

If that's your thing then good on you, but I just didn't find it in any way arousing and couldn't see how it was meant to give pleasure.

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Feet....don't do feet!!! Don't even like my own haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of them

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Pet play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humiliation, slave stuff and foot things.

But if we all liked the same stuff it would be boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ignore them in the false hope they'll go away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The whole Daddy thing.

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

I watched a thing about a man who placed slugs on his penis.

Nope. Not for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scat fetish

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By *lwayshorny79Woman
over a year ago

Leicester

Feet!! Cant stand feet.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

smoking..huh?

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

Cock and ball torture.

Ouch!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Foot worship

Love kissing a ladies pretty feet and toes , I must say but mine are off limits for some reason!

Can I ask what it is you love so much about this ? Intrigued to learn more "

I couldn’t tell you why. It’s not all feet just petite well looked after feet! The darker the nail varnish on her toes the better ???????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Toe sucking, its just not my thing. I couldn't let any one suck my toes but then I have certain fetishes that people don't get.

We all have our own certain thing that gets us off and it would be a boring world if we all liked the same thing. X"

Each to their own I suppose ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Foot worship

Love kissing a ladies pretty feet and toes , I must say but mine are off limits for some reason!

Can I ask what it is you love so much about this ? Intrigued to learn more

I couldn’t tell you why. It’s not all feet just petite well looked after feet! The darker the nail varnish on her toes the better ???????"

Ah I see, I understand a little bit more : ) thanks for sharing

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Balloons

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston


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I couldn’t tell you why. It’s not all feet just petite well looked after feet! The darker the nail varnish on her toes the better ???????"

I don't really get the foot thing but mine would cause you issues. Well looked after and really dark polish but......size 8

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scat ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Balloons "

What’s ballon fetish ? Or is it as literal as it seems

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By *m A FuckerMan
over a year ago

kingswood,surrey/leysdown kent


"Foot worship"
yes this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I couldn’t tell you why. It’s not all feet just petite well looked after feet! The darker the nail varnish on her toes the better ???????

I don't really get the foot thing but mine would cause you issues. Well looked after and really dark polish but......size 8 "

More foot to kiss xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men dressed up as babies.

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Pet play. "

Oh f is that a thing?????

Please don't tell me anymore. My spaniel can't take it.

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There too big a list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watersports, scat, face spitting, daddy/little girl, nappies...each to their own but some make me worry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feet, I just don't understand the attraction behind it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Foot worship

Love kissing a ladies pretty feet and toes , I must say but mine are off limits for some reason!

Can I ask what it is you love so much about this ? Intrigued to learn more "

I'll tell ya what I get out of it, how it was born with me.

My feet are incredibly sensitive. I'd never let a soul near them, serious case of touch them and I'm kicking like a raging cassowary.

I trusted B so much that when he took my foot to give it attention I was nervous yes, but I wasn't on edge as such.

It took time, but now he can touch my feet, rub my feet, put my toes in his mouth and even bite my feet.

For me the foot thing isn't a foot thing, it's an intimacy thing, a sign of how comfortable I am with him and the trust I have in him. Almost a wall that's been knocked down if that makes sense.

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuckold but the most confusing are the ladies looking for black men only yet married or partner is white if that interested why not marry one or at least partner be black

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are they?

This isn’t a thread for shaming, arguing, calling fetishes disgusting etc. Pleaaaaaase be nice.

What fetishes do you just simply not understand?"

NSA sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scat watersports and how does someone suddenly think I know what might turn me on. Oh I know I’ll smear shit all over me mmmm. Nope nada nup noooo

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Foot worship

Love kissing a ladies pretty feet and toes , I must say but mine are off limits for some reason!

Can I ask what it is you love so much about this ? Intrigued to learn more

I'll tell ya what I get out of it, how it was born with me.

My feet are incredibly sensitive. I'd never let a soul near them, serious case of touch them and I'm kicking like a raging cassowary.

I trusted B so much that when he took my foot to give it attention I was nervous yes, but I wasn't on edge as such.

It took time, but now he can touch my feet, rub my feet, put my toes in his mouth and even bite my feet.

For me the foot thing isn't a foot thing, it's an intimacy thing, a sign of how comfortable I am with him and the trust I have in him. Almost a wall that's been knocked down if that makes sense.

P"

Makes perfect sense and is really sweet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"all of them

i can't even find someone for vanilla sex

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have you tried Neapolitan

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Cuckold but the most confusing are the ladies looking for black men only yet married or partner is white if that interested why not marry one or at least partner be black"

If they were married to a black man they might want white men

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I think I "get" most of them to an extent. I can understand the reasoning behind a fetish or kink without finding it appealing myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Foot worship

Love kissing a ladies pretty feet and toes , I must say but mine are off limits for some reason!

Can I ask what it is you love so much about this ? Intrigued to learn more

I'll tell ya what I get out of it, how it was born with me.

My feet are incredibly sensitive. I'd never let a soul near them, serious case of touch them and I'm kicking like a raging cassowary.

I trusted B so much that when he took my foot to give it attention I was nervous yes, but I wasn't on edge as such.

It took time, but now he can touch my feet, rub my feet, put my toes in his mouth and even bite my feet.

For me the foot thing isn't a foot thing, it's an intimacy thing, a sign of how comfortable I am with him and the trust I have in him. Almost a wall that's been knocked down if that makes sense.

P

Makes perfect sense and is really sweet!"

Perhaps it is the intimacy that turns me on so much! I have found most ladies really like it as feet can be so sensitive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When guys want to wear nappies and be treated like a baby."

That!

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire


"I think I "get" most of them to an extent. I can understand the reasoning behind a fetish or kink without finding it appealing myself."

Same. When i don't understand something i ask people about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pegging

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By *forfun500Couple
over a year ago

walsall

Shiting on someone or having someone shit on you its bad enough sitting on the loo smelling ya own never mind having someone elses on ya face or where ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cuckold but the most confusing are the ladies looking for black men only yet married or partner is white if that interested why not marry one or at least partner be black"

That's because black men are fetishized. Women love fucking black guys but not necessarily being with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Scat fetish "

This!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cuckold but the most confusing are the ladies looking for black men only yet married or partner is white if that interested why not marry one or at least partner be black

That's because black men are fetishized. Women love fucking black guys but not necessarily being with them "

Some women do not all ..they don't appeal to me ( bbc )

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Dredging.

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By *andyMinx_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds

A tame one but, spanking. What is the attraction in making my ass look like cooked lobster? It certainly does nothing for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some women do not all ..they don't appeal to me ( bbc ) "

ITV, CNN whatever you like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pegging "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I "get" most of them to an extent. I can understand the reasoning behind a fetish or kink without finding it appealing myself.

Same. When i don't understand something i ask people about it."

Absolutely, I don't think anyone will be offended by being asked why they like something, what emotions, feelings or sensations something will evoke. What is offensive is saying something is gross or wrong without at least trying to learn something.

Scat and other things don't appeal to me in the slightest, yet I'd still be interested to know the origins of why it "does it" for other people.

We could probably learn stuff about ourselves too if we uncovered why or where things come from.

P

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

BBW. Especially guys who want to fuck them, but don't want relationships with them. I hope it's not because they think they're "easy".

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Pretty much most things we're not personally into. BDSM, dom/sub, feet, daddy/baby, pain... most things really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"BBW. Especially guys who want to fuck them, but don't want relationships with them. I hope it's not because they think they're "easy"."

I'm afraid you're probably right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure if I'm using the correct term but feeders I'll never understand. I can't comprehend why you'd get off on the fact you're helping to put a life at risk o.O

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t judge people for their kinks if they’re safe, sane, consensual and legal. One I’ve never “gotten” however, is findom on behalf of the payee (I don’t mean paying a professional dominant, that’s entirely different). I’d be happy for someone to explain it for me though.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I think I "get" most of them to an extent. I can understand the reasoning behind a fetish or kink without finding it appealing myself.

Same. When i don't understand something i ask people about it.

Absolutely, I don't think anyone will be offended by being asked why they like something, what emotions, feelings or sensations something will evoke. What is offensive is saying something is gross or wrong without at least trying to learn something.

Scat and other things don't appeal to me in the slightest, yet I'd still be interested to know the origins of why it "does it" for other people.

We could probably learn stuff about ourselves too if we uncovered why or where things come from.

P"

Exactly. It's an opportunity to learn something. I find other people's interests fascinating.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Not sure if it’s a fetish’s as such but I dont get the ‘daddy’ thing

I can’t think of any more of a turn off than to get a message from a guy referring to himself as daddy or daddy Dom

Those words word never come out of my mouth during sex

Each to their own but I just don’t get it

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

The wires got connected in a different way. That's not a fetish, as far as I know -merely a reflection on how other peoples random connections are going to seem alien to us. It's wonderful that we're all so different.

I don't get how you'd be satisfied if someone went along with your fetish, in a very poor am dram style. I'd need close to reality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure if it’s a fetish’s as such but I dont get the ‘daddy’ thing

I can’t think of any more of a turn off than to get a message from a guy referring to himself as daddy or daddy Dom

Those words word never come out of my mouth during sex

Each to their own but I just don’t get it

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I’d feel like a bit of a plum referring to myself as daddy and god forbid I get called it one day, I’d pull out and get out probably ??

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

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By *verage JosephMan
over a year ago

Grays & London

Pain, poo or being a slave?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feet, just don't get it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who like fucking objects in garbage bags or heavy plastic scares the crap out of me simply because you do not know what is in it.

And yes this is a fetish.

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Lots don't get the feet thing..

The two I don't get are scat..

Bloody horrible horrible horrible... How can that be sex

And the Adult baby thing which to be fair I think is more about regression to a time in our lives when we felt happy and secure... Not sex in my opinion

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By *obbi_sutherlandTV/TS
over a year ago

Dornoch

Whilst not being a foot fetishist, I do enjoy painting a lady's toe nails.

But that's more about the dominance/serving side of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuckolding completely messes with my head

CBT makes me squirm in such a bad way

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


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What fetishes do you just simply not understand?"

Just about all of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All sexual activity is filth and an abomination. I joined this site looking for a fab swing for my garden......but you deviants have corrupted my mind with your filth !!

I love finding out about other people's kinks and why how etc

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

I will never understand humiliation/degradation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuckolding.

I don't get it. Why would you treat your partner like shit for a random guy you're having sex with?!?

I really wonder how many guys just go along with it to keep their partner happy. What do they get out of it?

Why would you deny sex to the person you love most in the world in favour of some random guy?

I think some people are influenced by porn too much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recently heard about sounding on here and it put me in pain

when I googled it.

I don't know how anyone would find it appealing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything with shit or piss, BDSM, midget porn, bukake, cuckold list goes on

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

There's many I'm not personally into but I'm yet to find one I totally can't understand the psychology behind. I used to be baffled by small penis humiliation but then I spoke to a guy who was into it and I kind of get it now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feet. Watersports. Schoolgirl roleplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, not sure if it's classed as a fetish, but I'd include anal in my previous list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont understand the whole being called daddy attraction

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By *erri AnneTV/TS
over a year ago

Shannon and Costa Blanca


"Watersports "

I agree watersport is the one I will never understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Foot worship"

Niether did i until tonight

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"When guys want to wear nappies and be treated like a baby.

I find it very strange "

That one is actually quite easy to understand for me.

Submissive guys are quite often A-type personalities. Being sub allows them to get away from being in charge and making decisions/thinking/being responsible.

When they submit they can let go completely knowing their Dom(me) is in complete control and will look after them.

Ageplay is just an extrapolation of that.

To become helpless and have someone look after you. (A lot of ageplay and adult baby stuff is asexual or non contact)

It can be a very heady experience for a sub.

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Pegging "

Oh dude!

You don't get pegging?

Well, just inside your bumbum, is a gland called the prostate, curious little doughnut full of sensitive nerve endings that light up when it's rubbed or pressure is applied. Makes a guy feel amazing and often gives an earth shattering orgasm when stimulated especially with additional stimulation on the exterior.

You should really try it sometime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I find it more interesting learning more about what is actually out there as I seem to find new ones each week. Even though a lot of it isn’t my cup of tea I’m fascinated by them And automatically my mind goes to how on earth would that work in a practical sense during sex....

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Cleaning up someone else's cream pie.

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By *ttis669Man
over a year ago

warrington


"The whole buying used knickers thing. For fucks sake, just steal them off the washing line. "

Then theyre not 'used'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 women having sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cleaning up someone else's cream pie."

I have a deep yearning to do this and i dont really know why

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Ball busting

I have had many a message asking me if I would do this

I would have thought it to be so dangerous , actually physically damaging - could be ruined for life

Don’t get that at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cuckold but the most confusing are the ladies looking for black men only yet married or partner is white if that interested why not marry one or at least partner be black"

I prefer black men my husband is very white he’s almost translucent haha for me it’s an attitude thing I don’t say only black men yet at clubs I end up talking and playing with black men every time. The black men I have met have sent much better messages than any white men have been more respectful and have put effort in with me and my husband not just me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cleaning up someone else's cream pie."

This borrrrkkkk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Foot worship"

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Suck my toe Jake!

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

anything that leaves a mark - why voluntarily go for domestic violence?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When guys want to wear nappies and be treated like a baby.

I find it very strange "

Escapism...complete control given to someone else. No worries, stress, complications, upset (unless your balloon pops). Half an hour or an hour of complete unconditional love, care, warmth.

I don't do it myself but I know a couple of AB's.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"anything that leaves a mark - why voluntarily go for domestic violence?"

.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's so many fetishes that lots of people haven't even heard of .and lots people find disgusting. I think each to their own. I personally think that there are a lot of people interested in the fetish life now than there ever been before. "

Your my fetish x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure if it’s a fetish’s as such but I dont get the ‘daddy’ thing

I can’t think of any more of a turn off than to get a message from a guy referring to himself as daddy or daddy Dom

Those words word never come out of my mouth during sex

Each to their own but I just don’t get it

"

All of the above and don't like gimp masks...pain pee or poo, also grown men in bàby clothes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure if it’s a fetish’s as such but I dont get the ‘daddy’ thing

I can’t think of any more of a turn off than to get a message from a guy referring to himself as daddy or daddy Dom

Those words word never come out of my mouth during sex

Each to their own but I just don’t get it

All of the above and don't like gimp masks...pain pee or poo, also grown men in bàby clothes "
yes i agree men in baby gear god lol oh and men with beer bellies in latex not good

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

Foot worshipping. I just can't see it

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Not sure if it’s a fetish’s as such but I dont get the ‘daddy’ thing

I can’t think of any more of a turn off than to get a message from a guy referring to himself as daddy or daddy Dom

Those words word never come out of my mouth during sex

Each to their own but I just don’t get it

All of the above and don't like gimp masks...pain pee or poo, also grown men in bàby clothes yes i agree men in baby gear god lol oh and men with beer bellies in latex not good "

The experience of wearing latex can be as big a part of the experience as how it looks. It feels like no other clothing in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The whole daddy kink

Im not a fan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure if it’s a fetish’s as such but I dont get the ‘daddy’ thing

I can’t think of any more of a turn off than to get a message from a guy referring to himself as daddy or daddy Dom

Those words word never come out of my mouth during sex

Each to their own but I just don’t get it

All of the above and don't like gimp masks...pain pee or poo, also grown men in bàby clothes yes i agree men in baby gear god lol oh and men with beer bellies in latex not good

The experience of wearing latex can be as big a part of the experience as how it looks. It feels like no other clothing in my opinion."

I'm not into it myself, but the baby fetish thing is often due to needing to feel wanted and cared for - it's a very basic human instinct that some people like to fetishise. Most fetishes can be linked to very basic human needs and psychological requirements, therefore there's nothing weird about it in my view. Good luck to them for being able to express themselves in a positive way which doesn't harm anyone else.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Cleaning up someone else's cream pie."
.

Yes that's an odd one, i really love cleaning another guy's cum out of my wife, it's my favourite thing to do! But I've got no interest in cleaning cum out of anyone else, and no interest in cleaning out my own, although i will do if asked/pushed..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tarmacing why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I 'get' most kinks but I dont get anything out of most of them

I think the one I understand least is the shibari rope thing.

I understand wanting to tie someone up but I dont understand spending hours over it making elaborate knots

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I 'get' most kinks but I dont get anything out of most of them

I think the one I understand least is the shibari rope thing.

I understand wanting to tie someone up but I dont understand spending hours over it making elaborate knots "

Agreed. Thats the word i was looking for earlier.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good not understand everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuckolding is the main one

Pain

Watersports

“Daddy”

The pregnant breastfeeding thing.

There’s too many!

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Cuckolding is the main one

Pain

Watersports

“Daddy”

The pregnant breastfeeding thing.

There’s too many! "

You’re so vanilla

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cuckolding is the main one

Pain

Watersports

“Daddy”

The pregnant breastfeeding thing.

There’s too many!

You’re so vanilla "

I didn’t think I was though. But yeah maybe I am. I’m happy with that though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cuckolding is the main one

Pain

Watersports

“Daddy”

The pregnant breastfeeding thing.

There’s too many! "

Yes to the pregnant breastfeeding one. Never got it.

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By *Man1263Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"I 'get' most kinks but I dont get anything out of most of them

I think the one I understand least is the shibari rope thing.

I understand wanting to tie someone up but I dont understand spending hours over it making elaborate knots "

You really need to get the knots right, get it wrong and it could go really wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pain. Not things like spanking or using a crop but inflicting full on pain that you generally try to avoid as much as you can in life. Boggles my mind just as much as people who watch horror films alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Balloons "

Balloons??? I need more education obviously!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pain. Not things like spanking or using a crop but inflicting full on pain that you generally try to avoid as much as you can in life. Boggles my mind just as much as people who watch horror films alone "

I always say I don’t mind a pink bum but I don’t want a red bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it pegging where you put things down his japs eye? What’s that all about ??????? I’ve been for tests and it is not nice, can’t understand what pleasure you would get??"

Sounding is the name you’re looking for

Urethral sounds

Pegging is being fucked with a dildo or strap on

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

There’s a few I really don’t understand...cuckolding is the main one anything to do with feet ...Grown men dressed as babies .... Being humiliated and Being called Daddy ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure if it’s a fetish’s as such but I dont get the ‘daddy’ thing

I can’t think of any more of a turn off than to get a message from a guy referring to himself as daddy or daddy Dom

Those words word never come out of my mouth during sex

Each to their own but I just don’t get it

All of the above and don't like gimp masks...pain pee or poo, also grown men in bàby clothes yes i agree men in baby gear god lol oh and men with beer bellies in latex not good

The experience of wearing latex can be as big a part of the experience as how it looks. It feels like no other clothing in my opinion."
yes but i had a good friend on another site part of a couple he was a big guy 6'6 strong but rotund lovely guy and he put a pic up wearing some kind of latex fetish gear he didn't look good

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By *adyinred696969Couple
over a year ago

Brecon


"Watersports

This for us too"

yup, and anything to do with poo, just dont get it.

And please, no PM's as to the whys and wherefores...not looking to be converted or educated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure if it’s a fetish’s as such but I dont get the ‘daddy’ thing

I can’t think of any more of a turn off than to get a message from a guy referring to himself as daddy or daddy Dom

Those words word never come out of my mouth during sex

Each to their own but I just don’t get it

All of the above and don't like gimp masks...pain pee or poo, also grown men in bàby clothes yes i agree men in baby gear god lol oh and men with beer bellies in latex not good

The experience of wearing latex can be as big a part of the experience as how it looks. It feels like no other clothing in my opinion.yes but i had a good friend on another site part of a couple he was a big guy 6'6 strong but rotund lovely guy and he put a pic up wearing some kind of latex fetish gear he didn't look good "

Just because he "didn't look good" in your eyes does that fucking matter? What matters is did HE FEEL GOOD? You aren't really understanding the not shaming people thing here are you?

P

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not sure if it’s a fetish’s as such but I dont get the ‘daddy’ thing

I can’t think of any more of a turn off than to get a message from a guy referring to himself as daddy or daddy Dom

Those words word never come out of my mouth during sex

Each to their own but I just don’t get it

All of the above and don't like gimp masks...pain pee or poo, also grown men in bàby clothes yes i agree men in baby gear god lol oh and men with beer bellies in latex not good

The experience of wearing latex can be as big a part of the experience as how it looks. It feels like no other clothing in my opinion.yes but i had a good friend on another site part of a couple he was a big guy 6'6 strong but rotund lovely guy and he put a pic up wearing some kind of latex fetish gear he didn't look good "

Good job at no shaming and keeping it nice

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Not sure if it’s a fetish’s as such but I dont get the ‘daddy’ thing

I can’t think of any more of a turn off than to get a message from a guy referring to himself as daddy or daddy Dom

Those words word never come out of my mouth during sex

Each to their own but I just don’t get it

All of the above and don't like gimp masks...pain pee or poo, also grown men in bàby clothes yes i agree men in baby gear god lol oh and men with beer bellies in latex not good

The experience of wearing latex can be as big a part of the experience as how it looks. It feels like no other clothing in my opinion.yes but i had a good friend on another site part of a couple he was a big guy 6'6 strong but rotund lovely guy and he put a pic up wearing some kind of latex fetish gear he didn't look good

Good job at no shaming and keeping it nice"

They can't help themselves..

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I once read a thing in a magazine about a (rather large) American lady that was being jetted around the states and making a VERYYYY good income farting on Men’s faces.

I don’t get it myself but good luck to that girl.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I once read a thing in a magazine about a (rather large) American lady that was being jetted around the states and making a VERYYYY good income farting on Men’s faces.

I don’t get it myself but good luck to that girl. "

A bit off subject but did you see the woman who farted her friends baby gender reveal?!

Also I heard about someone who would go on cam and get paid thousands of dollars to bite the heads off of gummy bears as the guy watching her would wank

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

And another one is ‘extreme insertions’

That absolutely baffles me

Have seen bumholes looking absolutely destroyed and me being an over thinker questioning how they manage to hold a poo in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And another one is ‘extreme insertions’

That absolutely baffles me

Have seen bumholes looking absolutely destroyed and me being an over thinker questioning how they manage to hold a poo in "
they dont they wear adult pampers

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"And another one is ‘extreme insertions’

That absolutely baffles me

Have seen bumholes looking absolutely destroyed and me being an over thinker questioning how they manage to hold a poo in they dont they wear adult pampers "

Omg that is a joke right ?

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Bodily fluids in general, I honestly can't get my head around the pee/poo thing

I have fetishes for clothing not really into Leather, Rubber or Latex but I do understand it, but someone peeing on you not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The whole daddy kink

Im not a fan "

Me neither

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By *illyDudeMan
over a year ago

norh east

Feet. It's just the one of the few things I don't get.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"I once read a thing in a magazine about a (rather large) American lady that was being jetted around the states and making a VERYYYY good income farting on Men’s faces.

I don’t get it myself but good luck to that girl.

A bit off subject but did you see the woman who farted her friends baby gender reveal?!

Also I heard about someone who would go on cam and get paid thousands of dollars to bite the heads off of gummy bears as the guy watching her would wank"

DREAM JOB!!

Yes. It’s that girl that falls over on purpose. I need a niche

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"BBW. Especially guys who want to fuck them, but don't want relationships with them. I hope it's not because they think they're "easy"."

You could say that about any woman on here. You want to fuck other people but couldn’t in a conventional relationship, but get a woman with "low self esteem" of a sex site, open a couples profile and fill your boots.

When you want to settle down bin the "tart" for a vestal virgin.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Cuckold but the most confusing are the ladies looking for black men only yet married or partner is white if that interested why not marry one or at least partner be black"

When I met as a Domme I only met white men. I was married to a black man, my current partner is white and can't even say "submissive: it's a fantasy!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I think I "get" most of them to an extent. I can understand the reasoning behind a fetish or kink without finding it appealing myself."

So can I: mostly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poo

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3


"I 'get' most kinks but I dont get anything out of most of them

I think the one I understand least is the shibari rope thing.

I understand wanting to tie someone up but I dont understand spending hours over it making elaborate knots "

Hmmm I've only ever had this done once by a guy. I didn't really find it sexual, but something in the way he held me and pulled me in as he tightened and pulled them knots did something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had someone drink my piss and wanted me to use his mouth as an ashtray, didn't get that at all but he loved it lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tentacle porn!! WTF!!

Someone mentioned it in another thread so I had to check it out!

Other than captain birdseye slapping his mast about to this stuff does any one else find it arousing?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh there’s a few things that we don’t understand like brat play ( where they behave and act like a spoilt child ) that’s really popular on here lol and baby play ( where people wear nappies and adult sized baby clothes ) nothing against it just don’t understand but I’m sure there’s loads who don’t understand our type of play either. Each to their own as they say .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Into the fetish world myself where I have seen a lot. I can understand most of the fetishes. One thing I can never get my mind around, is findom. In most cases, the domme just gets the money and goes away. The sub is not even around to see the domme. What's actually happening there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The whole buying used knickers thing. For fucks sake, just steal them off the washing line. "

Sniff appeal then falls flat

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By *ucky88oMan
over a year ago

london

People that have sex with their car.

Slot of people wouldn't understand what turns me on so not judging

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By *ffanotdykeCouple
over a year ago

Telford

Even in this UN-Politically correct forum we find it almost frightening to say openly that we do not find non Europeans physically attractive.

They might be absolutely lovely people who we would be happy to share vanilla time and chat about football or knitting. When it comes down to raw sex which is based on pure physical attraction, the desire is just not there.

We now stand back and wait for the abuse.

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By *aximus74Woman
over a year ago

Manchester


"When guys want to wear nappies and be treated like a baby."

This?? I just dont get it at all!!!

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By *xXgemmaXxXCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Even in this UN-Politically correct forum we find it almost frightening to say openly that we do not find non Europeans physically attractive.

They might be absolutely lovely people who we would be happy to share vanilla time and chat about football or knitting. When it comes down to raw sex which is based on pure physical attraction, the desire is just not there.

We now stand back and wait for the abuse."

What would you class as non European? American? Canadian? Australian? Are you saying that you wouldn’t find anyone from these countries physically attractive? I’m not knocking your preferences just genuinely interested

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

Think the only one I cant really understand is scat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think the only one I cant really understand is scat. "

The smell alone would make me sick

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By *eviantdeeliteCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Is it pegging where you put things down his japs eye? What’s that all about ??????? I’ve been for tests and it is not nice, can’t understand what pleasure you would get??"

Sounding...I have been sounded to...sexy as fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's good that there is still no condemnation for people's kinks but i have read quite a few comments that show clearly they don't understand the kink they've mentioned and assumed it's something that it isn't at all. If i come across a term i haven't heard i educate myself before making a decision if it's a possibility for me rather than guessing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even in this UN-Politically correct forum we find it almost frightening to say openly that we do not find non Europeans physically attractive.

They might be absolutely lovely people who we would be happy to share vanilla time and chat about football or knitting. When it comes down to raw sex which is based on pure physical attraction, the desire is just not there.

We now stand back and wait for the abuse."

Where is the fetish in your post?

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London


"The whole buying used knickers thing. For fucks sake, just steal them off the washing line. "

But they'd be clean off the washing line. Or do you mean the dirty linen basket?

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By *eviantdeeliteCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"It's good that there is still no condemnation for people's kinks but i have read quite a few comments that show clearly they don't understand the kink they've mentioned and assumed it's something that it isn't at all. If i come across a term i haven't heard i educate myself before making a decision if it's a possibility for me rather than guessing."

That is the hypocrisy of the Fab forums...judgement from closed minds...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And another one is ‘extreme insertions’

That absolutely baffles me

Have seen bumholes looking absolutely destroyed and me being an over thinker questioning how they manage to hold a poo in they dont they wear adult pampers

Omg that is a joke right ? "
lol it was a guess at best

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Even in this UN-Politically correct forum we find it almost frightening to say openly that we do not find non Europeans physically attractive.

They might be absolutely lovely people who we would be happy to share vanilla time and chat about football or knitting. When it comes down to raw sex which is based on pure physical attraction, the desire is just not there.

We now stand back and wait for the abuse.

Where is the fetish in your post? "

That’s what I’m wondering

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

I love lamp.

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