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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm heading to my first private party saturday with my fwb. We're both a little nervous and excited. I was wondering how you all felt about your first time. And guys did you ever worry or have any impotence that you overcame?

I am a little worried pressuring myself and condoms. (Play bare with long term fwb) and tested last week in preparation for the party.

I might be fretting over nothing but any stories of your first time may reassure me

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By *rviennaCouple
over a year ago

Kent

Just go and have fun, try to relax and enjoy the moment. I would never judge someone who got shy - think it could happen to anyone at anytime....there are plenty of other things you can be doing when not hard (mrs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t do much to change it so just relax

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"I'm heading to my first private party saturday with my fwb. We're both a little nervous and excited. I was wondering how you all felt about your first time. And guys did you ever worry or have any impotence that you overcame?

I am a little worried pressuring myself and condoms. (Play bare with long term fwb) and tested last week in preparation for the party.

I might be fretting over nothing but any stories of your first time may reassure me

"

You are dreading performance anxiety not impotency, which is a longer term issue. It happens, and you won't be the last if it does happen.

In regards to the condom thing, play with your fwb using them, get used to them both of you if you are going as a couple. It feels different to the ladies too you know. Plus you get to find out if you have a reaction to the condoms and not go through the emotions with have I got an sti, when you actually have an intolerance to latex for example. Great job on being tested BTW.

Mrs.

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By *absfunguyMan
over a year ago

Home Counties &


"I'm heading to my first private party saturday with my fwb. We're both a little nervous and excited. I was wondering how you all felt about your first time. And guys did you ever worry or have any impotence that you overcame?

I am a little worried pressuring myself and condoms. (Play bare with long term fwb) and tested last week in preparation for the party.

I might be fretting over nothing but any stories of your first time may reassure me

"

Relax, have a glass if it helps, engage and go with the flow your comfortable with - enjoy!

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By *urygent1Man
over a year ago

North West

Was my biggest concern on my first MMF and found it not to be an issue as the other couple and I just relaxed. It was all play for a bit but we all managed to perform no problem and had a great time.

Relax and enjoy

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london

My first club visit nervous as hell.

Only advice I can give is just relax be yourself and treat it as any other night out

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It does not matter. Any play partners worth their salt will recall how nervous they were the first time they went to a party and won't put any pressure on you.

It's only sex and the world will keep turning

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm heading to my first private party saturday with my fwb. We're both a little nervous and excited. I was wondering how you all felt about your first time. And guys did you ever worry or have any impotence that you overcame?

I am a little worried pressuring myself and condoms. (Play bare with long term fwb) and tested last week in preparation for the party.

I might be fretting over nothing but any stories of your first time may reassure me

You are dreading performance anxiety not impotency, which is a longer term issue. It happens, and you won't be the last if it does happen.

In regards to the condom thing, play with your fwb using them, get used to them both of you if you are going as a couple. It feels different to the ladies too you know. Plus you get to find out if you have a reaction to the condoms and not go through the emotions with have I got an sti, when you actually have an intolerance to latex for example. Great job on being tested BTW.

Mrs. "

Yeah it's definitely more the performance anxiety and not impotence. In fairness i'll likely be fine, but it was playing on my mind! We're going quite early for a social beforehand with some of them so that'll be nice! i did order latex free condoms though that was mainly for consideration of other people there, i hadn't really considered it could be me not enjoying latex.

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By *oirinMarkusCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands and West London


"Just go and have fun, try to relax and enjoy the moment. I would never judge someone who got shy - think it could happen to anyone at anytime....there are plenty of other things you can be doing when not hard (mrs)"

Yes yes yes!

PLEASE remember that you are there to have fun with the ladies and not just be a rock hard cock. Play with them, lick, watch, caress, kiss body parts etc and don't let the focus be on how many minutes you can be erect for x

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"I'm heading to my first private party saturday with my fwb. We're both a little nervous and excited. I was wondering how you all felt about your first time. And guys did you ever worry or have any impotence that you overcame?

I am a little worried pressuring myself and condoms. (Play bare with long term fwb) and tested last week in preparation for the party.

I might be fretting over nothing but any stories of your first time may reassure me

"

Just go to chill there not need to play first time out..

If your in a club hard to find poeple who play bare back ..

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Some guy take half a blue pill if not drinking to help with the rubber..

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