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Nervous first bi experience help

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By *exy_couple_now_manc OP   Couple
over a year ago

Oldham

We have been to clubs half dozen times and Lynda wants her first bi exp at a club but is too scared to make the first move she doesnt drink so no Dutch courage but want to be sober anyway I feel frustrated for her but have no intentions of trying to rush her, any advice on how she can instigate it without the nerves holding her back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try a club with jacuzzis like chams in darlaston - that's where it happened for us !

The touch feely with the girls is somehow easier under the water and it's so exciting for newbies and there seems to be loss of inhibition in there !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you have met a few couples with bi or bi curious women, maybe it would be easier to play with someone you already know and feel relaxed with first time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have been to clubs half dozen times and Lynda wants her first bi exp at a club but is too scared to make the first move she doesnt drink so no Dutch courage but want to be sober anyway I feel frustrated for her but have no intentions of trying to rush her, any advice on how she can instigate it without the nerves holding her back "
Keep going, one day she'll get over her nerves. Either that or try arranging a meet with a Bi fem couple you fancy the look of.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

having been a few different womens first bi experience i would recommend chatting on here first, then going to a club on the same night.

If your partner is up for it then a private room is probably the best idea. This way you have the advantage of not having to approach someone in a club, and if nerves get the better of her on the night no one will mind.

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

Maybe with you there for reassurance use a blindfold and if you meet a couple for example allow them both to tease her and get her heart racing. She won't perhaps realise who's doing the licking of her foo foo and when she's horny and turned on enough prompt her to remove the mask unless she chooses beforehand.

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By *obinhood-maidmarionCouple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

fuck it, we will take 1 for the team, come round and my missus will show you the ropes

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By *iggamanMan
over a year ago

London


"fuck it, we will take 1 for the team, come round and my missus will show you the ropes "

lmao

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By *enaughty2Couple
over a year ago

colchester

I found my first time was at a club, we chatted to a couple then went into the pool, and watched each other play with our partners. We then went to a lockable room and just played with our partners then me and her started touching, it then went from there, very relaxed and non pushy. My other half was great he didn`t push me at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

niks first was at chams.they didn't speak,she approached her.I didn't know what nik would do.her eyes Gabe it away though.she cummed in about one minute.she had four more girls that night.the jaquizzi is always a good place,just make sure the single men don't get too close.they try there luck under the water.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi me and a female friend go to a club near to us,we would get chatting to some couples and females to see what they are like,then later we would go to a semi-lit room to play we would leave the door open,and started to play,after some minutes a few people came to the door,we waved one of the female over we had been chatting with and asked if she wanted to play

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By *exy_couple_now_manc OP   Couple
over a year ago

Oldham

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Pick someone Lynda likes and tell Lynda to say 'God your sexy but i'm sooo shy' Blush and laugh. Try that on Mrs P and she'll take it from there lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i have been bi from a young girl .. love the ladys am picky but its lovely and i have local woman friends too i see some days just a f/f house partys can be fun ... when you chat and get to know people .

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By *exy_couple_now_manc OP   Couple
over a year ago

Oldham

We know 2 couples quiet well and trust them so we may buy a sexy game from ann summers and play that have a laugh and break the tension/nerves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i still get Nervous evey time

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By *uyuksno1Man
over a year ago

poole

post a meet request or strike up a chat with someone on line that says they are bi curious thats how we meet our bi ladies and id have to sy most are first timers and we still see them as friends and meet at social events

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you find the answer let me know because I'm in the same boat

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