FabSwingers.com forum: Watching sex in clubs is boring

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Watching others fuck has never done it for us.

How about you? Big on watching or not?

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By *idnightxBrownCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Same not really interested to be honest

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Rather be doing than watching but it can be hot x

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3

I do actually enjoy watching sometimes.

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

We like it

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

I've never been so I wouldn't know but love to see for my self

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

If people are really enjoying it and letting go, it's so much better than professional porn.

Tougher to get the right camera angles though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's hot sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely like to watch.

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

I would have a hard on even before I got there

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would have a hard on even before I got there "

Works for you then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disagree it can be hot and being watched too, in a group room anything can happen

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Nah, I'm generally there to participate not to watch.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Do get bored after a short while watching but hunting for it is a greater turn on

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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

We know how much it's a turn on for us when we are being watched it's also a turn on when watching other couples knowing we are possibly turning them on at the same time...

Every one wins

Del

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Yeah, I like watching sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't been to any clubs or watched anyone. I like the thought of it though.

If I got d*unk at a club, I can imagine myself cheering them on.

Woohooo fuck that cock!

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By *ymFit_FunMan
over a year ago

Dudley

Depends what you're watching. I used to love watching my ex at clubs...

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Its a no from me does nothing for me whatsoever. Being watched is a different matter

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By *hilledout-coupleCouple
over a year ago

telford

Hubby loves watching me and I love watching him not watched anyone else as yet so will see if we like it if we ever get the chance to watch might be hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not done it for us really either people will hold something back or are fake over the top in clubs (we refer to the over the top ones as peacocking) neither does it for us, it’s common in open play areas in clubs.

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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

"I haven't been to any clubs or watched anyone. I like the thought of it though.

If I got d*unk at a club, I can imagine myself cheering them on.

Woohooo fuck that cock!

And if you did get d*unk, everyone else would be cheering when you got thrown out..

Del

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Disagree it can be hot and being watched too, in a group room anything can happen "

Agree

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

I tend to laugh because normally it's men show boating and it just looks fake

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

Remember watching an exceptionally good looking woman put on a show in an open room at a club. Boring as hell....she was acting and it was really obvious. Plenty of guys fucked her but she was clearly acting ....

Saying that, when someone’s fucking and they lose themselves in the moment it’s hot

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I like it. Or, at least I used to when I went to clubs.

I don't like porn but I do like to people watch and this is just sexual people watching.

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By *inkyCouple1927Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Would be interesting to watch, but we would find the single guys intimidating.

Based on our (limited) club experience, from what we have seen they see anybody horny as an invitation of sorts...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its a no from me does nothing for me whatsoever. Being watched is a different matter

100% this!!!

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

"I haven't been to any clubs or watched anyone. I like the thought of it though.

If I got d*unk at a club, I can imagine myself cheering them on.

Woohooo fuck that cock!

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

It depends who I'm watching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn’t mind watching a couple either in a club private. Think it would add hotness to their night and you get live porn

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By *upernudeMan
over a year ago

plymouth

I watched a 8 person gangbang a few weeks back, can’t get it out of my mind, very horny

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"It depends who I'm watching "

This

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

Sometimes it can be hot, other times it's a big no.

Depends on who it is and what they're doing.

We love to put on a show but absolutely kills the mood if people shout out comments.

Weve had:

Holy fuck

Sexy as fuck

Oh my god foookin tight pussy

(that one was horrific)

And our favourite put off...

'need a hand?' from total strangers.

No thanks

we've got this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Watching others fuck has never done it for us.

How about you? Big on watching or not?"
youre either a doer or a watcher I'm a doer

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

I love being watched , especially when I have two men sorting me out and I look up and see loads of people watching ME !!! Xx

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We love watching and being watched. It can be so erotic

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By *rNightMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I loved it, it was quite an experience & stuck in my mind for a long time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd watch it if I was allowed to play with myself

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London

Don't think I've ever watched anyone have sex in real life but I do like the idea of watching.

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

I think the more you go to clubs the more desensitised you become to seeing others having sex. Get to the point where you see a 20 person orgy and you think "oh look an orgy" and then carry on walking.

I prefer to be watched than watch, far more fun, especially in group situations

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By *linkyMalinkyWoman
over a year ago

South Somerset

I don’t personally get a lot out of watching, and it also makes me feel a bit awkward.

That said, I was at a club at the weekend and had a MMMMF. I was a bit busy and caught up in the moment, but according to my other half, two other couples came in at different times and watched, which must have got them going as they then started fucking in the same room.

Different strokes for different folks I guess.

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London

"I don’t personally get a lot out of watching, and it also makes me feel a bit awkward.

Different strokes for different folks I guess."

Don't know about those couples but what you describe and a look at your pics has certainly got me going

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

We loved being watched as we're total exhibishonists. We also love watching. I, Fem lose myself in the moment, and if I to get to look up always see a sea of faces. As one of our veris says we're on fire while playing. We don't show boat, we just do what we do. If others don't want to watch, then no problem. If they do, more the merrier. We never shut the door!

Did I mention my birthday gangbang this Sat 23rd at Gems? So anyone who likes watching - but we prefer joiners, get yourself on the guest list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they are hot then i like to watch. If it's a couple I'm not attracted to then I'd rather have a drink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve not tried it yet but I’m actively looking for a couple who would be happy with me watching them play. Happy to watch along with hubby as his wife plays with other guys

There would be no contact from me just pure voyeur.

I think the thought of watching is hot. As if I’m not there. Just watching to people in pure lust go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own of course but watching bores me in any sense. I’m a do-er not a watcher

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes that's all that's needed for me being a voyeuristic experience Mr

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By *ilver_StarMan
over a year ago

Warwickshire

Being voyeuristic by nature I enjoy watching as much as participating. Only done 2 clubs which were fun, but was part of a small group once and watching others while being watched was hugely erotic.

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By *he Hussy and The VoyeurCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere Only We Know

Although not always a turn on, it can be good to watch.

We watch people at clubs for a few reasons.

Obviously for the kink side, but also to see how people play, the different things they do, but mainly to see if they play safe or not with others.

To each their own and all that. We all play differently and have our kinks

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By *asco3Man
over a year ago

neath

Whats not to like? One of my favourite wank bank memories is the time I watched a young couple on holidays going through their repertoire in their bedroom. All the wanted from me was a bit of commentary and direction.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Massive turn on for us to watch and be watched.

First time was at a swingers club in Salou, I was fully naked and the wife has her dress up to her waist, fucking against the wall. Turned round and four couples were stood watching us.

Fought through cramp, kind of expected a round of applause

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Better than watching eastenders if ask me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't just stand there and watch for ages, but isn't the point you go and getting invited to join

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

"I couldn't just stand there and watch for ages, but isn't the point you go and getting invited to join

Totally !! All it takes is a little eye contact

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By *uffnmuffCouple
over a year ago

London

"Watching others fuck has never done it for us.

How about you? Big on watching or not?"
we also find it boring.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When we first started visiting clubs we naively hoped to see scenes like something out of 'Eyes Wide Shut' or a mythical roman orgy. Soon discovered the reality is something quite different.

Still like going to clubs, though, just not for the watching strangers fuck part.

Now, watching your own partner play is a whole different matter.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Think it depends on how it is done. Watching sex in clubs can sometimes seem a bit mechanical but on occasions it have been fantastically hot and turned us on tremendously.

Being watched does nothing for us we get so engrossed in what we are doing we tend to forget that others are there.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I specifically enjoy watching people I know age care about having good sex.

It's fun to watch friends, and can be a turn on seeing romantic or sex partners having sexy fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Think it depends on how it is done. Watching sex in clubs can sometimes seem a bit mechanical but on occasions it have been fantastically hot and turned us on tremendously."

With you on this. There have been a few exceptions where a scene was very erotic to watch. Mostly these were more soft porn in nature rather than the full on fucking kind. A memorable one was where a woman in heels and black mini dress was being slowly seduced and undressed by two fit, naked guys. That was hot.

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By *uckbuddies321Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

We rarely watch unless we are with another couple. We love others watching us if it arouses them.

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

When it's just us two playing in a club, we try to put on a bit of a show for the audience.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When it's just us two playing in a club, we try to put on a bit of a show for the audience."

Do you ever get bothered by anyone doing a running commentary or making silly remarks?

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

"When it's just us two playing in a club, we try to put on a bit of a show for the audience.

Do you ever get bothered by anyone doing a running commentary or making silly remarks?"

Not so far, possibly because we usually go to The Attic, where there are always lots of staff around keeping an eye on everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to watch BDSM scenes over people just having sex but it can be hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in the least bit interested in watching.people have sex

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

With strangers, it can be hot, but often isn't. This will be age talking - take 25 year old me to a club and he'd probably faint. He'd certainly make a fool of himself.

When it's someone I know, that adds a lot to it. Seeing friends enjoy themselves is a lovely feeling.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I like to watch if they are completely in the moment and all over each other. Sometimes they don’t realise they can be seen which is even hotter. I don’t like the fake noises and the positions that are obviously just for the watchers.

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Watching is boring mostly we like to be in the action

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

I'm a single guy I don't get much choice, if I can't join in I may as well pull up a spot and watch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who not is and what they are doing

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We enjoy watching,and being watched more often than not watched.

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By *aughtyDuetCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

Watching and doing at the same time. Stimulating all of our senses................

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By *ugarbearCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

Big turn on for me watching people fuck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Watching and doing at the same time. Stimulating all of our senses................

Health and safety risk - while watching others you might put someone's eye out

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

It may be for some people, but if it's sexy people then we find it a huge turn on.

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By *ornytoad1362Couple
over a year ago

St. Austell

hey there yes dont mind to b fair gets the "juices " going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy watching husband and certain friends. I find watching strangers fairly dull.

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