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"lies always get found out in the end. Working in an A&E, saying he's at work, it was going to end like this eventually. He'll have to take what's coming there's no way he can say he was working now. " true all he is guilty of at mo is lieing about working | |||
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"this is just one reason why mrs bus is aware that i am on this site whilst not wishing to 'swing' herself, she knows i meet other people how i spend my time when i am not with her is a matter of trust between the pair of us it's better to be honest and take the consequences than scuttle round finding reasons and excuses for not being where you should be that's not me being pedantic or moralistic, i did try this approach for a short while and found it both tiresome and more complicated than it needed to be. whilst i am glad your friends son is OK, how would he (and you) have felt if things hadn't turned out so well ?" omg i am very pleased his son is ok hes very accident prone he broke his leg a while back | |||
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"im sure he will think of something hes a man!!! but any ideas welcome" dont meet people behind their partners and with children...problem solved... Since you do i am sure you can think of a few good lies to tell, after all you are more experienced at it than me. | |||
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"im sure he will think of something hes a man!!! but any ideas welcome dont meet people behind their partners and with children...problem solved... Since you do i am sure you can think of a few good lies to tell, after all you are more experienced at it than me." i didnt realise she was home today or i wouldnt have seen him | |||
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"im sure he will think of something hes a man!!! but any ideas welcome dont meet people behind their partners and with children...problem solved... Since you do i am sure you can think of a few good lies to tell, after all you are more experienced at it than me. i didnt realise she was home today or i wouldnt have seen him" 
i often think it is lack of imagination that means ppl will get involved with deception...so a scenario for you...
imagine instead of the gf it was the police calling, and the son was dead...once you get involved in someones lies you have to be willing to accept any and all consequences.
What difference does it make that the gf was home or not? Shit happens and we cannot predict the future. | |||
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"im sure he will think of something hes a man!!! but any ideas welcome dont meet people behind their partners and with children...problem solved... Since you do i am sure you can think of a few good lies to tell, after all you are more experienced at it than me. i didnt realise she was home today or i wouldnt have seen him
i often think it is lack of imagination that means ppl will get involved with deception...so a scenario for you...
imagine instead of the gf it was the police calling, and the son was dead...once you get involved in someones lies you have to be willing to accept any and all consequences.
What difference does it make that the gf was home or not? Shit happens and we cannot predict the future."one of the first questions he asked was ifthe son was ok i am very grateful he was | |||
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" one of the first questions he asked was ifthe son was ok i am very grateful he was " "One of"........ wow, what a great sounding guy. | |||
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" one of the first questions he asked was ifthe son was ok i am very grateful he was "One of"........ wow, what a great sounding guy." a couple made for each other | |||
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" one of the first questions he asked was ifthe son was ok i am very grateful he was "One of"........ wow, what a great sounding guy." Reading the above that's one way of putting it. | |||
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"is this a change the topic thread. am still pisching colourful wee from me antibiotics "Wouldn't go to A&E about that.....apparantly they are all off work shagging. | |||
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"is this a change the topic thread. am still pisching colourful wee from me antibiotics "If it's not rainbow coloured don't worry xx | |||
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"I can't read it all again. I really can't. Why did he have to wash his face ?" to get rid of that 'guilty' look of course ! | |||
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"Doesn't sound like he's swinging sounds like he's just cheating. there is a difference. and he should just tell the truth his lying has already got him into this tricky situation " I think 'cheaters' are more than capable of partaking in 'swinging' activity actually..... | |||
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"is this a change the topic thread. am still pisching colourful wee from me antibiotics
Wouldn't go to A&E about that.....apparantly they are all off work shagging." | |||
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"I can't read it all again. I really can't. Why did he have to wash his face ? to get rid of that 'guilty' look of course !" all the washing in the world couldnt get rid of that!! | |||
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"Why did he have to wash his face ?" slime.... granny ....slime .. hehe  | |||
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"I'll never know why he had to wash his face will I ? :P " | |||
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"true all he is guilty of at mo is lieing about working " Oh what simple lives some lead! I would have thought he was also lying about being faithful to his partner and he is guilty of putting the happiness of his family at risk and for what? He is guilty of cheating and you are guilty of helping him do that! I really cannot understand how some people can cast aside all of their morals just for a shag! I know this won't be popular and I may get flamed for it, but.. I hope his partner finds out the truth, even though in the short term it will tear her up. I hope she finds out it was you and gives you a hard time.. No matter what the situation, there is NO excuse for cheating! | |||
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"everybody is entitled to their opinion.. im ok with that .. but he first got in touch with me ... not the other way round!! we met via a sex site so it involves sex .. isnt that what we are all here for? .. i dont want her to find out at all as i think after today he will have realised how close he came to losing it all " So just for sex, you are prepared to risk the break up of a marriage/partneship and cause no end of pain and anguish to a family? Just because he contacted you on a sex site, doesn't mean you have to shag him! There are literally thousands of genuinely single guys out there and if people like you stopped this abdication of responsibility, perhaps sites like this wouldn't be so full of cheaters!  | |||
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"my mate told his gf he was working today at A&E while he came to see me!! 45 mins after he arrived he gets a call where are you ive had to bring the son to A&E i need you here now he said he was there and would be down asap but he is an hours journey away and has no uniform on!!! i text him to say delete all evidence of me from his fone just in case and wash his face!!! but how is he going to explain? his son is ok btw " To be honest, you are asking people to help you with the deception. I don't care who shags who and when, but I wouldn't help them lie to others about it. | |||
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"Granny never got an answer about the face "we were waiting for you to tell her | |||
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"my mate told his gf he was working today at A&E while he came to see me!! 45 mins after he arrived he gets a call where are you ive had to bring the son to A&E i need you here now he said he was there and would be down asap but he is an hours journey away and has no uniform on!!! i text him to say delete all evidence of me from his fone just in case and wash his face!!! but how is he going to explain? his son is ok btw " How he is going to explain is his problem, he made his bed, now he has to lie it. Lies always have a habit of catching up with you and biting you on the arse. | |||
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"Doesn't sound like he's swinging sounds like he's just cheating. there is a difference. and he should just tell the truth his lying has already got him into this tricky situation I think 'cheaters' are more than capable of partaking in 'swinging' activity actually....." i didn't say they couldn't i just said he isn't swinging he's cheating which he is. if it were swinging he'd have his partners blessing and wouldn't need to lie. cheaters don't get their partners blessing so he's clearly cheating | |||
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"my mate told his gf he was working today at A&E while he came to see me!! 45 mins after he arrived he gets a call where are you ive had to bring the son to A&E i need you here now he said he was there and would be down asap but he is an hours journey away and has no uniform on!!! i text him to say delete all evidence of me from his fone just in case and wash his face!!! but how is he going to explain? his son is ok btw " who cares!! you make your bed you lie in it If people want to play away thats upto them but if they get cought out they have noone to blame but themsleves | |||
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"true all he is guilty of at mo is lieing about working Oh what simple lives some lead! I would have thought he was also lying about being faithful to his partner and he is guilty of putting the happiness of his family at risk and for what? He is guilty of cheating and you are guilty of helping him do that! I really cannot understand how some people can cast aside all of their morals just for a shag! I know this won't be popular and I may get flamed for it, but.. I hope his partner finds out the truth, even though in the short term it will tear her up. I hope she finds out it was you and gives you a hard time.. No matter what the situation, there is NO excuse for cheating!" Here here  | |||
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"If he's cheating, he deserves to be caught and l for one wouldn't make an excuse up for him. And if his g/f finds out about you, don't be surprised if she tries to rip your head off! how would you feel if your b/f, hubby or partner, if you have one, cheated on you regularly? I'd want blood!...." i dont think anyone is ready to hear about my relationship!!!! but he dont mind who i see... i may end it with this one though for lots of other reasons i wouldnt like it done to me but most dont mention they are with someone | |||
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"well .... after looking at all the evidence available, and the arguments for the prosecution and defence, i find you both guilty of the offence. you will both be taken from here, to a place of execution, and hung by the neck until you are dead. may god have mercy upon your souls. (removes black hat and goes to the pub)" new meaning on swinging!!!! | |||
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"If he's cheating, he deserves to be caught and l for one wouldn't make an excuse up for him. And if his g/f finds out about you, don't be surprised if she tries to rip your head off! how would you feel if your b/f, hubby or partner, if you have one, cheated on you regularly? I'd want blood!.... i dont think anyone is ready to hear about my relationship!!!! but he dont mind who i see... i may end it with this one though for lots of other reasons i wouldnt like it done to me but most dont mention they are with someone" But he did tell you and you decided to sleep with him. If you have a partner does he know about this situation, of so perhaps he can come up with an explanation....remember one thing though, what goes around comes around hun x  | |||
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"Be sure your lies will find you out. Never Lie to a Woman. A man called home to his wife and said, 'Honey, I have been asked to go fishing up in Canada with my boss & several of his Friends. We'll be gone for a week. This is a good opportunity for me to get that promotion I've been wanting. So could you please pack enough clothes for a week and set out my rod and tackle box? We're leaving from the office & I will swing by the house to pick my things up' ' Oh! Please pack my new blue silk pyjamas.' The wife thinks this sounds a bit fishy but being the good wife she is, did exactly what her husband asked. The following weekend he came home a little tired but otherwise looking good. The wife welcomed him home and asked if he caught many fish? He said, 'Yes ! Lots of Salmon, some Bluegill, and a few Swordfish. But why didn't you pack my new blue silk pyjamas like I asked you to do?' You'll love the answer... The wife replied, 'I did. They're in your tackle box.' " Fantastic | |||
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"true all he is guilty of at mo is lieing about working Oh what simple lives some lead! I would have thought he was also lying about being faithful to his partner and he is guilty of putting the happiness of his family at risk and for what? He is guilty of cheating and you are guilty of helping him do that! I really cannot understand how some people can cast aside all of their morals just for a shag! I know this won't be popular and I may get flamed for it, but.. I hope his partner finds out the truth, even though in the short term it will tear her up. I hope she finds out it was you and gives you a hard time.. No matter what the situation, there is NO excuse for cheating!" hear hear!! | |||
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"Doesn't sound like he's swinging sounds like he's just cheating. there is a difference. and he should just tell the truth his lying has already got him into this tricky situation I think 'cheaters' are more than capable of partaking in 'swinging' activity actually....." 2 single (as in not with each other as a couple) people, sleeping with just each other, one of them cheating, the other facilitating it. Not anywhere near swinging in my book. | |||
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"Crikey, what a tale! Could be an invite to the Jeremy Kyle Show in the post. "nah i wouldnt fuck jeremy kyle lol | |||
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"If he's cheating, he deserves to be caught and l for one wouldn't make an excuse up for him. And if his g/f finds out about you, don't be surprised if she tries to rip your head off! how would you feel if your b/f, hubby or partner, if you have one, cheated on you regularly? I'd want blood!.... i dont think anyone is ready to hear about my relationship!!!! but he dont mind who i see... i may end it with this one though for lots of other reasons i wouldnt like it done to me but most dont mention they are with someone" Is this the guy thats texts you 200 time a day? | |||
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"thanks for your comments... good and bad...... im not cheating my hubby knows about all my blokes ... but i just text this fella to say dont risk losing her " So morally you think what you are doing with this guy is acceptable because your husband knows? You make choices in life and some of them come back and bite you, and they can bite hard. His wife is going to know by now he is a liar bcause no one is so gullible as to wonder why it has taken an hour to get there and not in uniform. And that's assuming that no one oin the hospital comments that he is not in today. Bit daft texting him fter you told him to delete all evidence off his phone...  | |||
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"thanks for your comments... good and bad...... im not cheating my hubby knows about all my blokes ... but i just text this fella to say dont risk losing her So morally you think what you are doing with this guy is acceptable because your husband knows? You make choices in life and some of them come back and bite you, and they can bite hard. His wife is going to know by now he is a liar bcause no one is so gullible as to wonder why it has taken an hour to get there and not in uniform. And that's assuming that no one oin the hospital comments that he is not in today. Bit daft texting him fter you told him to delete all evidence off his phone... "em hes a man he wouldnt have thought to take pics off and i knew he wasnt there at the time as he was still on train!!!! | |||
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"everybody is entitled to their opinion.. im ok with that .. but he first got in touch with me ... not the other way round!! we met via a sex site so it involves sex .. isnt that what we are all here for? .. i dont want her to find out at all as i think after today he will have realised how close he came to losing it all So just for sex, you are prepared to risk the break up of a marriage/partneship and cause no end of pain and anguish to a family? Just because he contacted you on a sex site, doesn't mean you have to shag him! There are literally thousands of genuinely single guys out there and if people like you stopped this abdication of responsibility, perhaps sites like this wouldn't be so full of cheaters! "it is not her marriage or partnership so u know what i don't get most people say if u don't like the post don't post on it she knows all this complete crap everyone knows it u shouldn't cheat yes it is wrong and yes if his son had been dead she would have felt like shit and he may very well have want to kill himself but thats bnot how it end and u know what we just had easter so if any of u have never done anything wrong then please step forward so u can stone her. i think she should be safe this site at times is full of the most judgemental people on the plannet and yes i have been cheated on but it takes two and i found neither one was worth my angry and in the end i was thankful that my relationship had endded xxxxx | |||
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"thanks for your comments... good and bad...... im not cheating my hubby knows about all my blokes ... but i just text this fella to say dont risk losing her So morally you think what you are doing with this guy is acceptable because your husband knows? You make choices in life and some of them come back and bite you, and they can bite hard. His wife is going to know by now he is a liar bcause no one is so gullible as to wonder why it has taken an houOr to get there and not in uniform. And that's assuming that no one oin the hospital comments that he is not in today. Bit daft texting him fter you told him to delete all evidence off his phone... em hes a man he wouldnt have thought to take pics off and i knew he wasnt there at the time as he was still on train!!!! "erm he's a man. At least the second time you've made some sexist reference to him. I suspect unchallenged because lets face it based on this thread that attitude is nowhere near your most unpleasent trait... | |||
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"everybody is entitled to their opinion.. im ok with that .. but he first got in touch with me ... not the other way round!! we met via a sex site so it involves sex .. isnt that what we are all here for? .. i dont want her to find out at all as i think after today he will have realised how close he came to losing it all So just for sex, you are prepared to risk the break up of a marriage/partneship and cause no end of pain and anguish to a family? Just because he contacted you on a sex site, doesn't mean you have to shag him! There are literally thousands of genuinely single guys out there and if people like you stopped this abdication of responsibility, perhaps sites like this wouldn't be so full of cheaters!
it is not her marriage or partnership so u know what i don't get most people say if u don't like the post don't post on it she knows all this complete crap everyone knows it u shouldn't cheat yes it is wrong and yes if his son had been dead she would have felt like shit and he may very well have want to kill himself but thats bnot how it end and u know what we just had easter so if any of u have never done anything wrong then please step forward so u can stone her. i think she should be safe this site at times is full of the most judgemental people on the plannet and yes i have been cheated on but it takes two and i found neither one was worth my angry and in the end i was thankful that my relationship had endded xxxxx"thank u for that i will own up to not having many morals but alls well that ended well so crisis over thank you one and all | |||
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"Reading all your comments it almost seems like your smug and loving the fact that this man partner going to be going through hell finding out what her partners been up to,are you just one of these women who has a frill chasing men that are already attached gives it a bit of a edge to the cheating, let's hope ur not gonna be on recovering end with your partner when u think he's somewhere he's not maybe you see someone else write about your fella in a forum Have a nice day sweetie "im sorry if i appear smug i do realise if its put on a public forum i can expect different views .. my wording is not always correct ao sorry for that but im not being smug at all .... hes gone | |||
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"it is not her marriage or partnership so u know what i don't get most people say if u don't like the post don't post on it she knows all this complete crap everyone knows it u shouldn't cheat yes it is wrong and yes if his son had been dead she would have felt like shit and he may very well have want to kill himself but thats bnot how it end and u know what we just had easter so if any of u have never done anything wrong then please step forward so u can stone her. i think she should be safe this site at times is full of the most judgemental people on the plannet and yes i have been cheated on but it takes two and i found neither one was worth my angry and in the end i was thankful that my relationship had endded xxxxx"OK, I have to just pick out the bits I understand… Not having a go at the typing, just stating the facts.. " it is not her marriage or partnership " Exactly! She doesn’t have to worry about her relationship breaking up! She obviously doesn’t care if the other family is broken! " everyone knows it u shouldn't cheat yes it is wrong" And yet, she still decided to shag an attached man! Even though there are some (read thousands!) lovely, real single guys out there! " u know what we just had easter so if any of u have never done anything wrong then please step forward so u can stone her" What has Easter got to do with cheating? Of course we have all done something wrong in our lives, but I can tell you, I am sure most real swingers on here would not do anything to purposely damage someone else’s relationship. Despite what people say! " this site at times is full of the most judgemental people on the plannet " Yep! Everyone is judgemental no matter how many times they try to be PC and say they are not! It is a human trait of today and won’t change. She is obviously happy with the criticism and I sort of think it is “Any attention is good attention”. " and yes i have been cheated on but it takes two and i found neither one was worth my angry " You were cheated on and it didn’t affect you? Really?? You are a very hard nosed lady in that case! I really don’t believe that you had no bad feelings about it and perhaps you were actually subconsciously looking for an out! " and in the end i was thankful that my relationship had endded " And that just confirms my previous statement! The OP does seem smug and seems to revel in the fact that it was exciting to nearly get caught out. There is no sympathy for the other woman and the only mention of his family, was saying the kid was OK.. In my opinion, this is just the sort of action that feeds the Vanillas opinions of swinging and does us no favours. This just takes the perception of Fab one peg lower | |||
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"I wonder how many people have looked at the verifications on the ops profile, wondering which on the men who "meet in the daytime" it might be?" Ha ha ha.. I have already decided | |||
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"thanks for your comments... good and bad...... im not cheating my hubby knows about all my blokes ... but i just text this fella to say dont risk losing her So morally you think what you are doing with this guy is acceptable because your husband knows? You make choices in life and some of them come back and bite you, and they can bite hard. His wife is going to know by now he is a liar bcause no one is so gullible as to wonder why it has taken an houOr to get there and not in uniform. And that's assuming that no one oin the hospital comments that he is not in today. Bit daft texting him fter you told him to delete all evidence off his phone... em hes a man he wouldnt have thought to take pics off and i knew he wasnt there at the time as he was still on train!!!!
erm he's a man. At least the second time you've made some sexist reference to him. I suspect unchallenged because lets face it based on this thread that attitude is nowhere near your most unpleasent trait...
"I agree with you two wheels. I for one DETEST these cliches that condone and condemn males to be forever laddish and not have to show responsibility ... They actually make men appear dumb. I was going to leave it alone but in the end you shamed me ... tolerating it allows it to go on. | |||
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"I wonder how many people have looked at the verifications on the ops profile, wondering which on the men who "meet in the daytime" it might be?" it wasnt anyone who verified | |||
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