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"...who gets completely ignored on the forum?" No my post was ignored! lol Hello btw  | |||
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"Hi. I've started a good half dozen topics over the months and you are the first ever to reply. Thank you. " My pleasure - not nice being ignored is it? I know how you feel - we are obviously not in the "club" on here? lol x | |||
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"I don't seem to fit in either " who cares about fitting in,be you | |||
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"...who gets completely ignored on the forum?" No, I do too ..  | |||
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"...who gets completely ignored on the forum?" I wouldn't worry about it. I complimented you on your user name once and you completely ignored me. Happens to us all. | |||
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"Get ignored pretty often too x" I am surprised ?? | |||
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"Most of the stuff I post gets ignored, and all the stories I’ve posted too. But I don’t worry about it. I’ve met some lovely people through the forums and I quite enjoy just chipping in from time to time. " Can I just say without any hidden agenda that your photos are the hottest and sexiest photos Ive even seen on this site. You both look amazing and good luck with your baby. Hope its acceptable to say that and I hope i havent caused you any offence | |||
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"Way to go I closed that thread down alright " | |||
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"...who gets completely ignored on the forum?" I often kill threads, so no. | |||
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"Get ignored pretty often too x I am surprised ?? " Thanks x | |||
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"...who gets completely ignored on the forum?" Who said that? | |||
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"I actually cant believe that im not the only one..its very nice to know that there's more of us. Hello to you all glad to make your acquaintance. " Helloooooo  | |||
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Get ignored on the forums a lot but get msgs privately after posting on the forum for some reason | |||
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"...who gets completely ignored on the forum?" I know how you feel. | |||
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"Jesus I'm just looking at all the profiles off the people on this thread Apart from the gorgeous pictures you all have fascinating written stores to tell. Fuck me if we were in a pub we'd have great craic " Love it! | |||
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"The forums are often so quick that threads can be easily missed. Like _sachick said, try the lounge, a lot more people hang around in there x " The problem with that is that the lounge people can be very judgemental x | |||
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"The way I look at it is that we’ve been hovering around the forums for so long now that we have just blended into insignificance. We randomly post in a jovial manner without being profoundly knowledgable or abjectly argumentative. We’ve just become the aunt and uncle that sits in the corner at parties that nobody really pays any attention to. "I always notice you | |||
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"The forums are often so quick that threads can be easily missed. Like _sachick said, try the lounge, a lot more people hang around in there x The problem with that is that the lounge people can be very judgemental x" It's like any other forum, there will be arseholes and there will be fabulous lovely people (me). You just ignore the ones you don't like  | |||
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"...who gets completely ignored on the forum?" can be quite cliquey on here sometimes but if you keep commenting on the forum posts and get yourself known it will change...it did for me. | |||
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"The way I look at it is that we’ve been hovering around the forums for so long now that we have just blended into insignificance. We randomly post in a jovial manner without being profoundly knowledgable or abjectly argumentative. We’ve just become the aunt and uncle that sits in the corner at parties that nobody really pays any attention to.
I always notice you "Thanks, that’s made my night. Maybe we will come out of the corner for a dance later! | |||
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And because of this, often other posters are intimidated with my brilliance, that's why most of my posts get ignored....I'm sure  | |||
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"Never get ignored as I'm so fascinating and extremely popular on here.
And because of this, often other posters are intimidated with my brilliance, that's why most of my posts get ignored....I'm sure "And then the alarm went off.... | |||
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"I think everyone gets ignored at some point on the forum xxx" Hello. Can I say. Your red dress is lovely | |||
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" I agree " Totally get it | |||
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"Me too" No.... I don't believe it! | |||
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"I'm quite often ignored or even the thread killer "And me | |||
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"I think everyone gets ignored at some point on the forum xxx Hello. Can I say. Your red dress is lovely " Ah thank you xx | |||
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"...who gets completely ignored on the forum?" Nope, I am literally a conversation killer! I don't think my chat is that bad! | |||
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...I don’t ignore anyone I’m just more of a reader than a writer... | |||
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"I'm quite often ignored or even the thread killer
And me "When I look at the list of threads I've written in I find I'm the last entry in nearly all of them! Wonder if this will be the same.... | |||
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"I'm quite often ignored or even the thread killer
And me
When I look at the list of threads I've written in I find I'm the last entry in nearly all of them! Wonder if this will be the same.... "Nope not this time  | |||
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"I’m probably guilty of being a lurker ...I love reading people’s opinions on things maybe I should make more of a effort to give my opinion... ...I don’t ignore anyone I’m just more of a reader than a writer..."If people didn't give their opinions the forum would be boring. | |||
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"The thing is, is it being ignored or just that people don't feel the need to add further comment to what you have said? For once in my life I'm going to agree with Mavis here and say that most people that feel "ignored" would feel very differently if there was a "like" button on posts. It's the way of internet forums regardless of the topic that we all feel ignored or overlooked at times, when it can actually be many things that are anything but ignoring - perhaps a thread has just moved fast and your comment got lost, perhaps what you said was so profound it didn't need anything else being said, perhaps someone else said something similar or any number of reasons. I checked your recent posts OP and of the threads you started all but one has comments on, but apart from this one you've not been back to any of them - are you ignoring the people that commented? I'm sure you don't think you are, but maybe see my point?" I think you nailed it. Should Fab have a like option? I often don't comment, simply because it would just be affirmation of other posts. | |||
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"Should Fab have a like option? I often don't comment, simply because it would just be affirmation of other posts." Thank you for your kind comments - whilst I can see the value of a "like" button for those that feel they are ignored, I personally am not sure actually having one would be a good idea for a couple of reasons... Firstly it would become like a "pic Fab" for forum posts and you'd have countless single guys clamouring to "like" the posts of women in the desperate hope of getting attention regardless of how relevant the actual post was - which would then lead to threads from people moaning that their post didn't get many likes but hot woman no. 3 got loads for simply saying "I'm in" Secondly is it really necessary to have some form of affirmation of what others have said just so they don't feel ignored? | |||
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"...who gets completely ignored on the forum?" Never see any of your topics - I'll have a nose now x | |||
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"...who gets completely ignored on the forum?" Mine have been a bit hit and miss. Be got no replies, another was about the supernatural and got a few. My best one was asking people’s favourite cheesecake. I think something that that people can instantly connect with is the way forward. | |||
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"...who gets completely ignored on the forum?" Who said that? | |||
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"One thing i will say is that the people living in the uk seem to be friendlier to me(Im irish) On the forums. I think the users of this site in Ireland dont like newcomers and only talk to people in their club .maybe they are afraid of getting found on this by their neighbours or something. So thanks to you for making me welcome and feel like i can fit in " Agree get more replies in U.K. forums than Irish and that’s even when living in limbo land Northern Ireland | |||
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"...who gets completely ignored on the forum? Who said that? "Thats why I've never posted a thread like this as knew someone one would post this reply. I find this reply quite hurtful. If your already feeling, left out and ignored, for someone to confirm it in writing just adds to the anxity ( sp) of feelings "why am I being ignored and left out". I'm already over thinking as, no one has replied to my post. For me Fem, I am very self confident in the bed/ club / hotel naked on a beach, as I'm an exhibishionst. But invisibal on forums. It hurts. | |||
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"No youre not....i can sympathize we have been ignored " Allow us to not ignore you here | |||
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"I get mostly ignored Generally that's probably best and for the greater good" Are your socks in your ruck sack? Did you want to hide the classic socks and sandels look? Hummm, I've never shagged anyone in socks and and sandles. Many a time, finished to find chap still in socks maybe thats on my bucket list | |||
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"Waaaaaaa waaaaaaaa I get ignored big deal I get ignored 60% of the time in rl and on here I love it. Assess and change how you put stuff" No don't change how you put stuff! People except people for who they are and how they type. Those little minds need opening a bit more! | |||
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"Welp, killed it again...  "Have you been keeping score  I think I may have killed two in the past month x | |||
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"...who gets completely ignored on the forum?" yes youre not  | |||
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"Can i just say that most of the people in here are based in the uk so I'll never meet them anyway apart from whether we'd fancy each other or not. But if I was in conversations with ye I'd keep it going cause most of ye are sexy as fuck Dont change to suit other people...be yourselves " | |||
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You can post a reply and get totally ignored yet someone else posts the same and it's pats on the back all round. | |||
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"The forum where all feel included .... if your face fits
You can post a reply and get totally ignored yet someone else posts the same and it's pats on the back all round. "I’m going to pat each and every one of you on the back and let you know you’re not being ignored. Not by me anyway | |||
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"It does happen to us all at times. Don’t let it put you off posting OP. " Some days I get ignored. It's just part and parcel of the fora. | |||
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"The forum where all feel included .... if your face fits
You can post a reply and get totally ignored yet someone else posts the same and it's pats on the back all round. "Apparently I get blocked too. | |||
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"The forum where all feel included .... if your face fits
You can post a reply and get totally ignored yet someone else posts the same and it's pats on the back all round.
Apparently I get blocked too. "I think you will find you blocked first no idea why as I'd never spoken to you! | |||
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"The forum where all feel included .... if your face fits
You can post a reply and get totally ignored yet someone else posts the same and it's pats on the back all round.
I’m going to pat each and every one of you on the back and let you know you’re not being ignored. Not by me anyway"I'd rather have a tickle than a pat anyway | |||
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"The forum where all feel included .... if your face fits
You can post a reply and get totally ignored yet someone else posts the same and it's pats on the back all round.
I’m going to pat each and every one of you on the back and let you know you’re not being ignored. Not by me anyway
I'd rather have a tickle than a pat anyway "Sinful has changed the rules. Please confirm if you want a pat or a tickle. | |||
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"I don't seem to fit in either who cares about fitting in,be you " | |||
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