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"For a woman to be wearing tight skinny jeans, a sheer white bra and a black net blouse when a workman was at the house. Everything on show, no imagination needed. What’s the conscencous?" Sure that's ever fab workmans fantasy on here ? | |||
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"For a woman to be wearing tight skinny jeans, a sheer white bra and a black net blouse when a workman was at the house. Everything on show, no imagination needed. What’s the conscencous?" Not my monkey, not my circus! She can wear or do whatever she wants!  | |||
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"I think the question is of if its appropriate to expose a workman to that. He might feel uncomfortable and do an inadequate job. Guess it's up to the individual to speak up if they don't like it. Would a guy let the boiler man in wearing just his boxers? " But she is fully dressed... And if he only does a half arsed job then he needs to be more professional in his approach, no? What she is wearing should have no baring on his work | |||
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"For a woman to be wearing tight skinny jeans, a sheer white bra and a black net blouse when a workman was at the house. Everything on show, no imagination needed. What’s the conscencous?" What did she need fixing? Did you fix it for her? If not we are happy to go round and have a go. We are dab hands with most things. | |||
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"I think the question is of if its appropriate to expose a workman to that. He might feel uncomfortable and do an inadequate job. Guess it's up to the individual to speak up if they don't like it. Would a guy let the boiler man in wearing just his boxers? But she is fully dressed... And if he only does a half arsed job then he needs to be more professional in his approach, no? What she is wearing should have no baring on his work" Her bra was sheer! As I said nothing to the imagination | |||
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"For a woman to be wearing tight skinny jeans, a sheer white bra and a black net blouse when a workman was at the house. Everything on show, no imagination needed. What’s the conscencous?" Get her fucked | |||
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"I think the question is of if its appropriate to expose a workman to that. He might feel uncomfortable and do an inadequate job. Guess it's up to the individual to speak up if they don't like it. Would a guy let the boiler man in wearing just his boxers? But she is fully dressed... And if he only does a half arsed job then he needs to be more professional in his approach, no? What she is wearing should have no baring on his work Her bra was sheer! As I said nothing to the imagination " So? You were there to do a job, not gawp at her, no? | |||
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"the reality of life is that if as a woman you dress a certain way some men (and women) will interpret it sexually. It is inappropriate to dress that way if alone with a man in a house in my opinion because rightly or wrongly, you will be sending out a message that could be misinterpreted" | |||
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"Inappropriate in my view. Her home has become his work environment and she was wearing clothing that exposed her breasts and nipples. If a woman was working for a man who was wearing see through clothing in his home, alarm bells would be ringing. " Rachel, I love your wisdom!  | |||
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"Inappropriate in my view. Her home has become his work environment and she was wearing clothing that exposed her breasts and nipples. If a woman was working for a man who was wearing see through clothing in his home, alarm bells would be ringing. Rachel, I love your wisdom! "Lol. Thanks. It comes with age  | |||
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"Inappropriate in my view. Her home has become his work environment and she was wearing clothing that exposed her breasts and nipples. If a woman was working for a man who was wearing see through clothing in his home, alarm bells would be ringing. Rachel, I love your wisdom!
Lol. Thanks. It comes with age "Can I borrow some? Wisdom, that is! | |||
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"Inappropriate in my view. Her home has become his work environment and she was wearing clothing that exposed her breasts and nipples. If a woman was working for a man who was wearing see through clothing in his home, alarm bells would be ringing. Rachel, I love your wisdom!
Lol. Thanks. It comes with age
Can I borrow some? Wisdom, that is! "Sure. As I turn 50, I ooze it | |||
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"Inappropriate in my view. Her home has become his work environment and she was wearing clothing that exposed her breasts and nipples. If a woman was working for a man who was wearing see through clothing in his home, alarm bells would be ringing. Rachel, I love your wisdom!
Lol. Thanks. It comes with age
Can I borrow some? Wisdom, that is!
Sure. As I turn 50, I ooze it "Yumm! Ooze it  | |||
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"Inappropriate in my view. Her home has become his work environment and she was wearing clothing that exposed her breasts and nipples. If a woman was working for a man who was wearing see through clothing in his home, alarm bells would be ringing. Rachel, I love your wisdom!
Lol. Thanks. It comes with age
Can I borrow some? Wisdom, that is!
Sure. As I turn 50, I ooze it
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"Brew was offered, a few times and she hoovered up" Can’t ask for a better customer ! | |||
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"She should wear what she likes. If she feels like being flirty or wants to get noticed that's her perogative. Fair play. " Exactly | |||
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"Just out of curiosity....would it be ok if the worker was female and the homeowner was a an old guy wearing an untied dressing gown with his bollocks on display? Not sure there will be as many 'its his home and he should be able to wear what he likes without being objectified' comments for him!" But she didn't have any bits hanging out or on display? She was fully clothed. | |||
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"Just out of curiosity....would it be ok if the worker was female and the homeowner was a an old guy wearing an untied dressing gown with his bollocks on display? Not sure there will be as many 'its his home and he should be able to wear what he likes without being objectified' comments for him!" | |||
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"Brew was offered, a few times and she hoovered up" I think the whole point of this thread is your underlying regret that you didnt have the guts to ask her out and kicking yourself for it. Fair? | |||
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"Just out of curiosity....would it be ok if the worker was female and the homeowner was a an old guy wearing an untied dressing gown with his bollocks on display? Not sure there will be as many 'its his home and he should be able to wear what he likes without being objectified' comments for him!But she didn't have any bits hanging out or on display? She was fully clothed. " The op said nothing was left to the imagination. | |||
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"For a woman to be wearing tight skinny jeans, a sheer white bra and a black net blouse when a workman was at the house. Everything on show, no imagination needed. What’s the conscencous?" How is wearing jeans having everything on show? | |||
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"Just out of curiosity....would it be ok if the worker was female and the homeowner was a an old guy wearing an untied dressing gown with his bollocks on display? Not sure there will be as many 'its his home and he should be able to wear what he likes without being objectified' comments for him!But she didn't have any bits hanging out or on display? She was fully clothed. The op said nothing was left to the imagination." She was wearing a bra under a see through top. I've seen plenty of ladies on a night out wearing that. | |||
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"For a woman to be wearing tight skinny jeans, a sheer white bra and a black net blouse when a workman was at the house. Everything on show, no imagination needed. What’s the conscencous?" Bit chilly for this time of year | |||
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"Just out of curiosity....would it be ok if the worker was female and the homeowner was a an old guy wearing an untied dressing gown with his bollocks on display? Not sure there will be as many 'its his home and he should be able to wear what he likes without being objectified' comments for him!"
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"Just out of curiosity....would it be ok if the worker was female and the homeowner was a an old guy wearing an untied dressing gown with his bollocks on display? Not sure there will be as many 'its his home and he should be able to wear what he likes without being objectified' comments for him!" That's hardly a similar comparison | |||
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"For a woman to be wearing tight skinny jeans, a sheer white bra and a black net blouse when a workman was at the house. Everything on show, no imagination needed. What’s the conscencous?" Wow.. have I just read this... | |||
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"Just out of curiosity....would it be ok if the worker was female and the homeowner was a an old guy wearing an untied dressing gown with his bollocks on display? Not sure there will be as many 'its his home and he should be able to wear what he likes without being objectified' comments for him! That's hardly a similar comparison " It wasn't intended to be a direct comparison. I actually don't see how the clothing the OP describes is that big of a deal. It was the comment about nothing being left to the imagination. I just feel if this was a thread about a guy having a female worker to his house and parading around 'leaving nothing to the imagination' the general consensus on this thread would be that he's a pervert. I have no doubt that the more extreme on here would be calling for the police to be notified. For the record....I dont see any issue with what the OP described! | |||
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"2019 and yet there's still a debate over how women should dress?? Her house so she should feel comfortable to wear whatever she wants . She could parade around naked and you have no right to assume she's up for anything. A tradesperson should be professional and respectful. There to do a job, nothing more. " , I can't agree with this. We need to be realistic in order to keep each other out of harms way. It is not ok for a woman to walk about naked in the presence of a tradesman, whether We like it or not nudity is associated with sexual availability. For the man's sake I'd say he'd need to leave immediately and return with a colleague for the woman's sake I'd say she needs to cover up. It doesn't matter what the year is people need to show respect for each other and that extends to women having enough respect for men at work in their home not to put them in awkward positions. | |||
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"2019 and yet there's still a debate over how women should dress?? Her house so she should feel comfortable to wear whatever she wants . She could parade around naked and you have no right to assume she's up for anything. A tradesperson should be professional and respectful. There to do a job, nothing more. , I can't agree with this. We need to be realistic in order to keep each other out of harms way. It is not ok for a woman to walk about naked in the presence of a tradesman, whether We like it or not nudity is associated with sexual availability. For the man's sake I'd say he'd need to leave immediately and return with a colleague for the woman's sake I'd say she needs to cover up. It doesn't matter what the year is people need to show respect for each other and that extends to women having enough respect for men at work in their home not to put them in awkward positions. " We agree with this
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"2019 and yet there's still a debate over how women should dress?? Her house so she should feel comfortable to wear whatever she wants . She could parade around naked and you have no right to assume she's up for anything. A tradesperson should be professional and respectful. There to do a job, nothing more. " And the tradesman should be respected as a professional, with a job to do, not be put in a vulnerable position that could affect his professional reputation and family life just because a woman thinks she can dress inappropriately (flashing tits or being naked is inappropriate). This is his place of work. Seriously what gives the woman the right to treat him any differently just because she is female and in her own home. He would have the right to walk out. | |||
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"2019 and yet there's still a debate over how women should dress?? Her house so she should feel comfortable to wear whatever she wants . She could parade around naked and you have no right to assume she's up for anything. A tradesperson should be professional and respectful. There to do a job, nothing more. And the tradesman should be respected as a professional, with a job to do, not be put in a vulnerable position that could affect his professional reputation and family life just because a woman thinks she can dress inappropriately (flashing tits or being naked is inappropriate). This is his place of work. Seriously what gives the woman the right to treat him any differently just because she is female and in her own home. He would have the right to walk out. " She is wearing jeans and a shirt! I suppose women in summer wearing short skirts are asking for it? Tradesmen need to lay off the porn. I’ve had one touch me up 9 months pregnant. I suppose being pregnant my big tits was asking for it. We will all be wearing smocks and you guys still get a hard on. Get some self control. Most of us want you to fix it an Fuck off  | |||
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"2019 and yet there's still a debate over how women should dress?? Her house so she should feel comfortable to wear whatever she wants . She could parade around naked and you have no right to assume she's up for anything. A tradesperson should be professional and respectful. There to do a job, nothing more. And the tradesman should be respected as a professional, with a job to do, not be put in a vulnerable position that could affect his professional reputation and family life just because a woman thinks she can dress inappropriately (flashing tits or being naked is inappropriate). This is his place of work. Seriously what gives the woman the right to treat him any differently just because she is female and in her own home. He would have the right to walk out. She is wearing jeans and a shirt! I suppose women in summer wearing short skirts are asking for it? Tradesmen need to lay off the porn. I’ve had one touch me up 9 months pregnant. I suppose being pregnant my big tits was asking for it. We will all be wearing smocks and you guys still get a hard on. Get some self control. Most of us want you to fix it an Fuck off "what She's wearing a sheer bra and net shirt with jeans. | |||
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"Just out of curiosity....would it be ok if the worker was female and the homeowner was a an old guy wearing an untied dressing gown with his bollocks on display? Not sure there will be as many 'its his home and he should be able to wear what he likes without being objectified' comments for him! That's hardly a similar comparison " Why isn’t it? | |||
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"Anyone can wear whatever they want surely??" They can but should be aware that people will judge you by what you're wearing. It's an undeniable fact. | |||
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"2019 and yet there's still a debate over how women should dress?? Her house so she should feel comfortable to wear whatever she wants . She could parade around naked and you have no right to assume she's up for anything. A tradesperson should be professional and respectful. There to do a job, nothing more. And the tradesman should be respected as a professional, with a job to do, not be put in a vulnerable position that could affect his professional reputation and family life just because a woman thinks she can dress inappropriately (flashing tits or being naked is inappropriate). This is his place of work. Seriously what gives the woman the right to treat him any differently just because she is female and in her own home. He would have the right to walk out. She is wearing jeans and a shirt! I suppose women in summer wearing short skirts are asking for it? Tradesmen need to lay off the porn. I’ve had one touch me up 9 months pregnant. I suppose being pregnant my big tits was asking for it. We will all be wearing smocks and you guys still get a hard on. Get some self control. Most of us want you to fix it an Fuck off what
She's wearing a sheer bra and net shirt with jeans."How is that an invitation outfit? | |||
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"Anyone can wear whatever they want surely?? They can but should be aware that people will judge you by what you're wearing. It's an undeniable fact." They can judge. Not touch. Big difference | |||
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"Anyone can wear whatever they want surely?? They can but should be aware that people will judge you by what you're wearing. It's an undeniable fact. They can judge. Not touch. Big difference " | |||
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"Just out of curiosity....would it be ok if the worker was female and the homeowner was a an old guy wearing an untied dressing gown with his bollocks on display? Not sure there will be as many 'its his home and he should be able to wear what he likes without being objectified' comments for him! That's hardly a similar comparison Why isn’t it? She’s fully clothed " | |||
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"I wear sheer tops with a bra all the time I like to feel sexy what’s wrong with that ? " The bra was sheer too | |||
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"Anyone can wear whatever they want surely?? They can but should be aware that people will judge you by what you're wearing. It's an undeniable fact. They can judge. Not touch. Big difference "I agree but women must take responsibility for the messages they're sending out as much as men must take responsibility for acting on them. If I was in my home alone with a tradesman I would not wear an outfit that exposed my breasts. I'm not saying that makes it ok for him to touch anymore than if I leave my laptop on the seat of my unlocked car it makes it ok to steal it. I still put my laptop in the boot and lock my car though. I know this is not a popular opinion. | |||
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"I think it's inappropriate, if it was a man and he was wearing sheer boxers most people would be saying he needs to cover up because it could make people uncomfortable, the same applies here, if you're inviting someone into your home you need to dress appropriately for the circumstances." Most shirts are sheer in shops now. If someone is uncomfortable they should just say. I’ve been around a lot of people who say women who wear hot pants and short skirts are asking for it. When we do get a summer should we all cover up now? For fear of giving someone the wrong idea , when all we want is to top up our tan | |||
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"For a woman to be wearing tight skinny jeans, a sheer white bra and a black net blouse when a workman was at the house. Everything on show, no imagination needed. What’s the conscencous?" It's her home She can wear what she damn well pleases | |||
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"I think it's inappropriate, if it was a man and he was wearing sheer boxers most people would be saying he needs to cover up because it could make people uncomfortable, the same applies here, if you're inviting someone into your home you need to dress appropriately for the circumstances. Most shirts are sheer in shops now. If someone is uncomfortable they should just say. I’ve been around a lot of people who say women who wear hot pants and short skirts are asking for it. When we do get a summer should we all cover up now? For fear of giving someone the wrong idea , when all we want is to top up our tan "That's a totally different situation. She's basically got her tits on show on her own with a stranger. It's not fair on the workman, maybe he was too embarrassed to ask her to cover up. He shouldn't be put in that situation in the first place. Would you say the same if it was a man in sheer boxers? | |||
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"I think it's inappropriate, if it was a man and he was wearing sheer boxers most people would be saying he needs to cover up because it could make people uncomfortable, the same applies here, if you're inviting someone into your home you need to dress appropriately for the circumstances. Most shirts are sheer in shops now. If someone is uncomfortable they should just say. I’ve been around a lot of people who say women who wear hot pants and short skirts are asking for it. When we do get a summer should we all cover up now? For fear of giving someone the wrong idea , when all we want is to top up our tan "Plus, the bra was sheer too do nipples will have been showing | |||
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"Anyone can wear whatever they want surely?? They can but should be aware that people will judge you by what you're wearing. It's an undeniable fact. They can judge. Not touch. Big difference
I agree but women must take responsibility for the messages they're sending out as much as men must take responsibility for acting on them. If I was in my home alone with a tradesman I would not wear an outfit that exposed my breasts. I'm not saying that makes it ok for him to touch anymore than if I leave my laptop on the seat of my unlocked car it makes it ok to steal it. I still put my laptop in the boot and lock my car though.
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"I’ve been touched by a tradesman, when I was 9 months pregnant. I was ready to pop. My tits was covered , but they was very large. I was in no way making advances. It was very scary as I couldn’t defend myself. Luckily I managed to tell him where to go. If you look good it does not mean anyone can have a pop. An as for a laptop in someone else’s car. You know that’s breaking and entering. Sounds like victim blaming. | |||
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"Just out of curiosity....would it be ok if the worker was female and the homeowner was a an old guy wearing an untied dressing gown with his bollocks on display? Not sure there will be as many 'its his home and he should be able to wear what he likes without being objectified' comments for him! That's hardly a similar comparison Why isn’t it? She’s fully clothed " In a sheer bra and mesh top. Basically exposing her breasts. As per the original post; I see that as inappropriate. | |||
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"Just out of curiosity....would it be ok if the worker was female and the homeowner was a an old guy wearing an untied dressing gown with his bollocks on display? Not sure there will be as many 'its his home and he should be able to wear what he likes without being objectified' comments for him! That's hardly a similar comparison Why isn’t it? She’s fully clothed In a sheer bra and mesh top. Basically exposing her breasts. As per the original post; I see that as inappropriate. " Agreed, you have a responsibility to act and dress appropriately if you invite anyone into your home. | |||
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"For a woman to be wearing tight skinny jeans, a sheer white bra and a black net blouse when a workman was at the house. Everything on show, no imagination needed. What’s the conscencous? It's her home She can wear what she damn well pleases " How about this then. A friends daughter is a carer who visits the elderly to help with making cups of tea, household chores etc. One guy say in his chair with a robe on that exposed his cock while she washed up. Is that ok? When she complained to the agency should they have told her "it's his home, he can wear what he likes"? | |||
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"For a woman to be wearing tight skinny jeans, a sheer white bra and a black net blouse when a workman was at the house. Everything on show, no imagination needed. What’s the conscencous? It's her home She can wear what she damn well pleases " But then she made her home a workplace. | |||
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"Anyone can wear whatever they want surely?? They can but should be aware that people will judge you by what you're wearing. It's an undeniable fact. They can judge. Not touch. Big difference
I agree but women must take responsibility for the messages they're sending out as much as men must take responsibility for acting on them. If I was in my home alone with a tradesman I would not wear an outfit that exposed my breasts. I'm not saying that makes it ok for him to touch anymore than if I leave my laptop on the seat of my unlocked car it makes it ok to steal it. I still put my laptop in the boot and lock my car though.
I know this is not a popular opinion.
I’ve been touched by a tradesman, when I was 9 months pregnant. I was ready to pop. My tits was covered , but they was very large. I was in no way making advances. It was very scary as I couldn’t defend myself. Luckily I managed to tell him where to go. If you look good it does not mean anyone can have a pop. An as for a laptop in someone else’s car. You know that’s breaking and entering. Sounds like victim blaming. "Nope not victim blaming. I have said it isn't ok. I'm sorry for what happened to you. | |||
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"I think it's inappropriate, if it was a man and he was wearing sheer boxers most people would be saying he needs to cover up because it could make people uncomfortable, the same applies here, if you're inviting someone into your home you need to dress appropriately for the circumstances. Most shirts are sheer in shops now. If someone is uncomfortable they should just say. I’ve been around a lot of people who say women who wear hot pants and short skirts are asking for it. When we do get a summer should we all cover up now? For fear of giving someone the wrong idea , when all we want is to top up our tan
That's a totally different situation. She's basically got her tits on show on her own with a stranger. It's not fair on the workman, maybe he was too embarrassed to ask her to cover up. He shouldn't be put in that situation in the first place.
Would you say the same if it was a man in sheer boxers?"Think I’m picturing a different outfit. Jeans and a sheer shirt. I don’t know who wears a sheer bra with a sheer shirt? To me legs covered , body covered. A lot different to a man in sheer boxers. She wasn’t in sheer kickers. If he had jeans and a sheer T-shirt then you can compare the two. An I know what I think when I see that out fit on a man lol
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"Anyone can wear whatever they want surely?? They can but should be aware that people will judge you by what you're wearing. It's an undeniable fact. They can judge. Not touch. Big difference
I agree but women must take responsibility for the messages they're sending out as much as men must take responsibility for acting on them. If I was in my home alone with a tradesman I would not wear an outfit that exposed my breasts. I'm not saying that makes it ok for him to touch anymore than if I leave my laptop on the seat of my unlocked car it makes it ok to steal it. I still put my laptop in the boot and lock my car though.
I know this is not a popular opinion.
I’ve been touched by a tradesman, when I was 9 months pregnant. I was ready to pop. My tits was covered , but they was very large. I was in no way making advances. It was very scary as I couldn’t defend myself. Luckily I managed to tell him where to go. If you look good it does not mean anyone can have a pop. An as for a laptop in someone else’s car. You know that’s breaking and entering. Sounds like victim blaming.
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"I think it's inappropriate, if it was a man and he was wearing sheer boxers most people would be saying he needs to cover up because it could make people uncomfortable, the same applies here, if you're inviting someone into your home you need to dress appropriately for the circumstances. Most shirts are sheer in shops now. If someone is uncomfortable they should just say. I’ve been around a lot of people who say women who wear hot pants and short skirts are asking for it. When we do get a summer should we all cover up now? For fear of giving someone the wrong idea , when all we want is to top up our tan
That's a totally different situation. She's basically got her tits on show on her own with a stranger. It's not fair on the workman, maybe he was too embarrassed to ask her to cover up. He shouldn't be put in that situation in the first place.
Would you say the same if it was a man in sheer boxers?
Think I’m picturing a different outfit. Jeans and a sheer shirt. I don’t know who wears a sheer bra with a sheer shirt?
To me legs covered , body covered. A lot different to a man in sheer boxers. She wasn’t in sheer kickers.
If he had jeans and a sheer T-shirt then you can compare the two. An I know what I think when I see that out fit on a man lol
Non of your comparison s are the same. An from women too?? If he’s bollocks are hanging out a dressing gown?? She’s not in a dressing gown "A sheer bra and sheer top together would allow nipples to be clearly seen, to me that isn't appropriate when inviting someone into your home to do work. | |||
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"Anyone can wear whatever they want surely?? They can but should be aware that people will judge you by what you're wearing. It's an undeniable fact. They can judge. Not touch. Big difference
I agree but women must take responsibility for the messages they're sending out as much as men must take responsibility for acting on them. If I was in my home alone with a tradesman I would not wear an outfit that exposed my breasts. I'm not saying that makes it ok for him to touch anymore than if I leave my laptop on the seat of my unlocked car it makes it ok to steal it. I still put my laptop in the boot and lock my car though.
I know this is not a popular opinion.
I’ve been touched by a tradesman, when I was 9 months pregnant. I was ready to pop. My tits was covered , but they was very large. I was in no way making advances. It was very scary as I couldn’t defend myself. Luckily I managed to tell him where to go. If you look good it does not mean anyone can have a pop. An as for a laptop in someone else’s car. You know that’s breaking and entering. Sounds like victim blaming.
Nope not victim blaming. I have said it isn't ok. I'm sorry for what happened to you.
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"I think it's inappropriate, if it was a man and he was wearing sheer boxers most people would be saying he needs to cover up because it could make people uncomfortable, the same applies here, if you're inviting someone into your home you need to dress appropriately for the circumstances. Most shirts are sheer in shops now. If someone is uncomfortable they should just say. I’ve been around a lot of people who say women who wear hot pants and short skirts are asking for it. When we do get a summer should we all cover up now? For fear of giving someone the wrong idea , when all we want is to top up our tan
That's a totally different situation. She's basically got her tits on show on her own with a stranger. It's not fair on the workman, maybe he was too embarrassed to ask her to cover up. He shouldn't be put in that situation in the first place.
Would you say the same if it was a man in sheer boxers?
Think I’m picturing a different outfit. Jeans and a sheer shirt. I don’t know who wears a sheer bra with a sheer shirt?
To me legs covered , body covered. A lot different to a man in sheer boxers. She wasn’t in sheer kickers.
If he had jeans and a sheer T-shirt then you can compare the two. An I know what I think when I see that out fit on a man lol
Non of your comparison s are the same. An from women too?? If he’s bollocks are hanging out a dressing gown?? She’s not in a dressing gown
A sheer bra and sheer top together would allow nipples to be clearly seen, to me that isn't appropriate when inviting someone into your home to do work. "I was picturing a top like yours a sheer blouse someone just said net top. Like string. Before entering the house they still would just say can you cover up . I have friends in the trade and they say they always ask women to get dressed before entering if they are in dressing gowns. Why step in the house if you’re uncomfortable. Then bitch about it later? | |||
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"I think it's inappropriate, if it was a man and he was wearing sheer boxers most people would be saying he needs to cover up because it could make people uncomfortable, the same applies here, if you're inviting someone into your home you need to dress appropriately for the circumstances. Most shirts are sheer in shops now. If someone is uncomfortable they should just say. I’ve been around a lot of people who say women who wear hot pants and short skirts are asking for it. When we do get a summer should we all cover up now? For fear of giving someone the wrong idea , when all we want is to top up our tan
That's a totally different situation. She's basically got her tits on show on her own with a stranger. It's not fair on the workman, maybe he was too embarrassed to ask her to cover up. He shouldn't be put in that situation in the first place.
Would you say the same if it was a man in sheer boxers?
Think I’m picturing a different outfit. Jeans and a sheer shirt. I don’t know who wears a sheer bra with a sheer shirt?
To me legs covered , body covered. A lot different to a man in sheer boxers. She wasn’t in sheer kickers.
If he had jeans and a sheer T-shirt then you can compare the two. An I know what I think when I see that out fit on a man lol
Non of your comparison s are the same. An from women too?? If he’s bollocks are hanging out a dressing gown?? She’s not in a dressing gown
A sheer bra and sheer top together would allow nipples to be clearly seen, to me that isn't appropriate when inviting someone into your home to do work.
I was picturing a top like yours a sheer blouse someone just said net top. Like string.
Before entering the house they still would just say can you cover up . I have friends in the trade and they say they always ask women to get dressed before entering if they are in dressing gowns. Why step in the house if you’re uncomfortable. Then bitch about it later? "Why dress in a way that might make someone uncomfortable and put them in a position where they have to ask you to cover up? | |||
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"the reality of life is that if as a woman you dress a certain way some men (and women) will interpret it sexually. It is inappropriate to dress that way if alone with a man in a house in my opinion because rightly or wrongly, you will be sending out a message that could be misinterpreted" You two really are the nice couple in the forums, you never say anything derogatory or condescending, you're always the voice of reason regardless of the topic... just had to say that... | |||
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"the reality of life is that if as a woman you dress a certain way some men (and women) will interpret it sexually. It is inappropriate to dress that way if alone with a man in a house in my opinion because rightly or wrongly, you will be sending out a message that could be misinterpreted You two really are the nice couple in the forums, you never say anything derogatory or condescending, you're always the voice of reason regardless of the topic... just had to say that... "oh! Thank you | |||
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"I think it's inappropriate, if it was a man and he was wearing sheer boxers most people would be saying he needs to cover up because it could make people uncomfortable, the same applies here, if you're inviting someone into your home you need to dress appropriately for the circumstances. Most shirts are sheer in shops now. If someone is uncomfortable they should just say. I’ve been around a lot of people who say women who wear hot pants and short skirts are asking for it. When we do get a summer should we all cover up now? For fear of giving someone the wrong idea , when all we want is to top up our tan
That's a totally different situation. She's basically got her tits on show on her own with a stranger. It's not fair on the workman, maybe he was too embarrassed to ask her to cover up. He shouldn't be put in that situation in the first place.
Would you say the same if it was a man in sheer boxers?
Think I’m picturing a different outfit. Jeans and a sheer shirt. I don’t know who wears a sheer bra with a sheer shirt?
To me legs covered , body covered. A lot different to a man in sheer boxers. She wasn’t in sheer kickers.
If he had jeans and a sheer T-shirt then you can compare the two. An I know what I think when I see that out fit on a man lol
Non of your comparison s are the same. An from women too?? If he’s bollocks are hanging out a dressing gown?? She’s not in a dressing gown
A sheer bra and sheer top together would allow nipples to be clearly seen, to me that isn't appropriate when inviting someone into your home to do work.
I was picturing a top like yours a sheer blouse someone just said net top. Like string.
Before entering the house they still would just say can you cover up . I have friends in the trade and they say they always ask women to get dressed before entering if they are in dressing gowns. Why step in the house if you’re uncomfortable. Then bitch about it later?
Why dress in a way that might make someone uncomfortable and put them in a position where they have to ask you to cover up?"I don’t know any women who would wear a string net top. Only teenagers or young adults. An not everyone realises that something they wear would make someone feel uncomfortable. Then others do it for a reaction or for attention. I worked in a trade company an we would have to warn certain trades men about certain women being dressed. They was lonely housewives. Who needed to be told every time. Or the work would not be done. Sadly some people do lack common sense and need telling. | |||
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"For a woman to be wearing tight skinny jeans, a sheer white bra and a black net blouse when a workman was at the house. Everything on show, no imagination needed. What’s the conscencous?" How someone dresses is surely their business. | |||
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"I think it's inappropriate, if it was a man and he was wearing sheer boxers most people would be saying he needs to cover up because it could make people uncomfortable, the same applies here, if you're inviting someone into your home you need to dress appropriately for the circumstances. Most shirts are sheer in shops now. If someone is uncomfortable they should just say. I’ve been around a lot of people who say women who wear hot pants and short skirts are asking for it. When we do get a summer should we all cover up now? For fear of giving someone the wrong idea , when all we want is to top up our tan
That's a totally different situation. She's basically got her tits on show on her own with a stranger. It's not fair on the workman, maybe he was too embarrassed to ask her to cover up. He shouldn't be put in that situation in the first place.
Would you say the same if it was a man in sheer boxers?
Think I’m picturing a different outfit. Jeans and a sheer shirt. I don’t know who wears a sheer bra with a sheer shirt?
To me legs covered , body covered. A lot different to a man in sheer boxers. She wasn’t in sheer kickers.
If he had jeans and a sheer T-shirt then you can compare the two. An I know what I think when I see that out fit on a man lol
Non of your comparison s are the same. An from women too?? If he’s bollocks are hanging out a dressing gown?? She’s not in a dressing gown
A sheer bra and sheer top together would allow nipples to be clearly seen, to me that isn't appropriate when inviting someone into your home to do work.
I was picturing a top like yours a sheer blouse someone just said net top. Like string.
Before entering the house they still would just say can you cover up . I have friends in the trade and they say they always ask women to get dressed before entering if they are in dressing gowns. Why step in the house if you’re uncomfortable. Then bitch about it later?
Why dress in a way that might make someone uncomfortable and put them in a position where they have to ask you to cover up?
I don’t know any women who would wear a string net top. Only teenagers or young adults. An not everyone realises that something they wear would make someone feel uncomfortable.
Then others do it for a reaction or for attention. I worked in a trade company an we would have to warn certain trades men about certain women being dressed. They was lonely housewives. Who needed to be told every time. Or the work would not be done. Sadly some people do lack common sense and need telling. "It's unfortunate that someone has to be told to dress appropriately for workmen. | |||
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"I think it's inappropriate, if it was a man and he was wearing sheer boxers most people would be saying he needs to cover up because it could make people uncomfortable, the same applies here, if you're inviting someone into your home you need to dress appropriately for the circumstances. Most shirts are sheer in shops now. If someone is uncomfortable they should just say. I’ve been around a lot of people who say women who wear hot pants and short skirts are asking for it. When we do get a summer should we all cover up now? For fear of giving someone the wrong idea , when all we want is to top up our tan
That's a totally different situation. She's basically got her tits on show on her own with a stranger. It's not fair on the workman, maybe he was too embarrassed to ask her to cover up. He shouldn't be put in that situation in the first place.
Would you say the same if it was a man in sheer boxers?
Think I’m picturing a different outfit. Jeans and a sheer shirt. I don’t know who wears a sheer bra with a sheer shirt?
To me legs covered , body covered. A lot different to a man in sheer boxers. She wasn’t in sheer kickers.
If he had jeans and a sheer T-shirt then you can compare the two. An I know what I think when I see that out fit on a man lol
Non of your comparison s are the same. An from women too?? If he’s bollocks are hanging out a dressing gown?? She’s not in a dressing gown
A sheer bra and sheer top together would allow nipples to be clearly seen, to me that isn't appropriate when inviting someone into your home to do work.
I was picturing a top like yours a sheer blouse someone just said net top. Like string.
Before entering the house they still would just say can you cover up . I have friends in the trade and they say they always ask women to get dressed before entering if they are in dressing gowns. Why step in the house if you’re uncomfortable. Then bitch about it later?
Why dress in a way that might make someone uncomfortable and put them in a position where they have to ask you to cover up?
I don’t know any women who would wear a string net top. Only teenagers or young adults. An not everyone realises that something they wear would make someone feel uncomfortable.
Then others do it for a reaction or for attention. I worked in a trade company an we would have to warn certain trades men about certain women being dressed. They was lonely housewives. Who needed to be told every time. Or the work would not be done. Sadly some people do lack common sense and need telling.
It's unfortunate that someone has to be told to dress appropriately for workmen."I never met the woman I just had to deal with the complaints. I think some form of mental health might of played apart. We stopped trading at her house in the end.
Some also need to be told to clean up first lol
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"Why is it necessary to comment on the skin tight jeans though? I don't see how wearing jeans is inapporpriate. I wear skin tight jeans because I find them comfy and prefer them to looser fitting jeans. I am not commenting on the sheer top, I am just questioning why the jeans were the first thing mentioned?" Personally the jeans had no impact on my comments as I think they are irrelevant, skin tight jeans aren't an issue in my opinion. | |||
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"Why is it necessary to comment on the skin tight jeans though? I don't see how wearing jeans is inapporpriate. I wear skin tight jeans because I find them comfy and prefer them to looser fitting jeans. I am not commenting on the sheer top, I am just questioning why the jeans were the first thing mentioned? Personally the jeans had no impact on my comments as I think they are irrelevant, skin tight jeans aren't an issue in my opinion. " Yeah same, I was just curious why they were mentioned before the sheer top and bra which would have been what made the person feel uncomfortable | |||
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