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By *ickey and Minnie OP   Couple
over a year ago

South of Bath

Hi Guys

Recently we have experienced a whole load of this happening.

I’d say over the last month this has happened to us well over 10 times

Been chatting to a lady, things going well, then all of a sudden nothing. Either blocked, ignored or UNLOS

Now we know we are far from perfect but it does dent the confidence!

Anybody else found it worse of late?

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

I’ve only had a few encounters but a cpl of them just disappeared when it was going ok.. site is full of strange un’s

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I've been talking to people and then its just gone stale. It happens. If people dont reply then I dont worry about it x

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By *urvySub87Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough

Guys are doing it too. Get talking, get on well. Then nothing, they just disappear

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By *ickey and Minnie OP   Couple
over a year ago

South of Bath

It’s got to the point where we know which profiles are genuine because they don’t reply to our initial messages lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the brave new world of the internet.....

Don’t take anyone seriously until you meet them in person....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Welcome to the brave new world of the internet.....

Don’t take anyone seriously until you meet them in person...."

And that's when ghosting really kicks you in the stomach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi Guys

Recently we have experienced a whole load of this happening.

I’d say over the last month this has happened to us well over 10 times

Been chatting to a lady, things going well, then all of a sudden nothing. Either blocked, ignored or UNLOS

Now we know we are far from perfect but it does dent the confidence!

Anybody else found it worse of late?"

Yep some right strange, rude, obnoxious and pretentious folk on here!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been talking to people and then its just gone stale. It happens. If people dont reply then I dont worry about it x"

This. Happened a few times to me recently chat just went boring and that's that.

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By *hilledout-coupleCouple
over a year ago

telford

We have had it a lot so We just take it as experience

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By *unonly10Man
over a year ago

liverpool

Id love to get ghosted at least that would mean someone actually replied to my initial message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have had it a lot so We just take it as experience "
that...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We expect nothing from our meets. People might say we're cynics but the reality is that to most people we're disposable and the normal rules of social engagement don't apply to the way they treat us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We expect nothing from our meets. People might say we're cynics but the reality is that to most people we're disposable and the normal rules of social engagement don't apply to the way they treat us."

So very true...... it seems like swinging has become using people for what you want, then moving on to the new toy.....

That’s why I have tempered my expectations

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By *inkykat dirtydogCouple
over a year ago

Cov

We do like to chat... We don't take it too serious either, but yes some people just seem to disappear or ignore, although you never know what problems people have going on away from fab.

To be fair we have done the same though, sometimes they have said something or sent a picture that just down right put us off. Mainly guys pressuring for meets though

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We expect nothing from our meets. People might say we're cynics but the reality is that to most people we're disposable and the normal rules of social engagement don't apply to the way they treat us.

So very true...... it seems like swinging has become using people for what you want, then moving on to the new toy.....

That’s why I have tempered my expectations "

Yep.

We have met some very genuine people in our time here. However we're not under the illusion that we figure in their thoughts once they've shut the door on us.

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