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My wife doesn't know, I wanna surprise her

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have been getting quite a few meet requests for this type of meet from husbands who have spoken to their wives about swinging. What is the general feeling around this type of scenario

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.


"I have been getting quite a few meet requests for this type of meet from husbands who have spoken to their wives about swinging. What is the general feeling around this type of scenario "

Sounds very dodgy.

It’s a huge red flag in regards to consent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do too, I think it’s usually just a guy by himself, when questioned about things they get defensive and leave the site, says it all really

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am guessing I this is quite common

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been getting quite a few meet requests for this type of meet from husbands who have spoken to their wives about swinging. What is the general feeling around this type of scenario "

They are just catfish and fantasists, avoid

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Don’t ruin the senders day, just tell him how much you want to abuse. The lad just needs a good wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am guessing I this is quite common "

Can’t say about anyone else but it happens to me loads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been getting quite a few meet requests for this type of meet from husbands who have spoken to their wives about swinging. What is the general feeling around this type of scenario

Sounds very dodgy.

It’s a huge red flag in regards to consent"

This, absolutely

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By *ourneblondeWoman
over a year ago

Bourne


"I have been getting quite a few meet requests for this type of meet from husbands who have spoken to their wives about swinging. What is the general feeling around this type of scenario "

Seriously?

This is far from normal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am guessing I this is quite common "
yes the guys want your BBC no woman involved lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get 5 of these emails per week..... just block them...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am guessing I this is quite common yes the guys want your BBC no woman involved lol "

Where is the vomit emoji when u need it lol

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

Even if it were real, it sounds like a rather unpredictable situation!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am guessing I this is quite common yes the guys want your BBC no woman involved lol "

I get it too and I’m white, it’s not just a bbc thing, it’s a fantasy thing. I usually avoid these, if I’m ever feeling like I want to indulge these guys it never lasts more than a few messages/days and they disappear. Avoid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I must be missing something.

Your wife doesn't know what?

That you're on a swinging site?

If you want to surprise her, just show her your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I must be missing something.

Your wife doesn't know what?

That you're on a swinging site?

If you want to surprise her, just show her your profile"

Lol I was like that as well but I think the OP is saying men are contacting him to say they want to surprise their poor oblivious wives and arrange a meet between them and the OP.

I can only imagine the type of surprise it will be!

V

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

Over the years I've lost count of the number of guys who've sent me "I want to watch you with my wife" type messages - some of whom have then openly admitted at some point that she (if she even exists) 'doesn't know'...

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I have been getting quite a few meet requests for this type of meet from husbands who have spoken to their wives about swinging. What is the general feeling around this type of scenario "

Does the wife know nothing about it? Avoid avoid avoid.

If she knows and has just tasked her husband with finding a person, so maybe she knows the scenario but just not the who, then that's different.

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell


"If she knows and has just tasked her husband with finding a person, so maybe she knows the scenario but just not the who, then that's different. "

That type of contact tends to come from couples profiles - I've had a few meets under those sort of circumstances...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I have been getting quite a few meet requests for this type of meet from husbands who have spoken to their wives about swinging. What is the general feeling around this type of scenario "

My general feeling is not printable

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have been getting quite a few meet requests for this type of meet from husbands who have spoken to their wives about swinging. What is the general feeling around this type of scenario

My general feeling is not printable"

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I have been getting quite a few meet requests for this type of meet from husbands who have spoken to their wives about swinging. What is the general feeling around this type of scenario

My general feeling is not printable "

Lol. I wonder what these men would say when you turned up.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I have been getting quite a few meet requests for this type of meet from husbands who have spoken to their wives about swinging. What is the general feeling around this type of scenario

My general feeling is not printable

Lol. I wonder what these men would say when you turned up. "

My wife will be here soon, here let me help you out of those uncomfortable clothes while we wait...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I have been getting quite a few meet requests for this type of meet from husbands who have spoken to their wives about swinging. What is the general feeling around this type of scenario

My general feeling is not printable

Lol. I wonder what these men would say when you turned up.

My wife will be here soon, here let me help you out of those uncomfortable clothes while we wait... "
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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have been getting quite a few meet requests for this type of meet from husbands who have spoken to their wives about swinging. What is the general feeling around this type of scenario

My general feeling is not printable

Lol. I wonder what these men would say when you turned up.

My wife will be here soon, here let me help you out of those uncomfortable clothes while we wait... ,

. "

The latest scenario is to meet them up at a bar , but don't mention fab. We will pretend we know each other from work

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I have been getting quite a few meet requests for this type of meet from husbands who have spoken to their wives about swinging. What is the general feeling around this type of scenario

My general feeling is not printable

Lol. I wonder what these men would say when you turned up.

My wife will be here soon, here let me help you out of those uncomfortable clothes while we wait... ,

.

The latest scenario is to meet them up at a bar , but don't mention fab. We will pretend we know each other from work "

While I find it highly amusing I also find it really sad. Why would anyone want to trick somebody they love?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been getting quite a few meet requests for this type of meet from husbands who have spoken to their wives about swinging. What is the general feeling around this type of scenario

My general feeling is not printable

Lol. I wonder what these men would say when you turned up.

My wife will be here soon, here let me help you out of those uncomfortable clothes while we wait... ,

.

The latest scenario is to meet them up at a bar , but don't mention fab. We will pretend we know each other from work

While I find it highly amusing I also find it really sad. Why would anyone want to trick somebody they love?

"
Halloween........ trick or treat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been getting quite a few meet requests for this type of meet from husbands who have spoken to their wives about swinging. What is the general feeling around this type of scenario

My general feeling is not printable

Lol. I wonder what these men would say when you turned up.

My wife will be here soon, here let me help you out of those uncomfortable clothes while we wait... ,

.

The latest scenario is to meet them up at a bar , but don't mention fab. We will pretend we know each other from work

While I find it highly amusing I also find it really sad. Why would anyone want to trick somebody they love?

"

My thoughts exactly. I’d be devastated

V

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think majority of those sending these messages are fantasists.... just be aware. I’m not saying 100% are just messaging for their own tug pleasures but certainly close!

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By *elrose57Couple
over a year ago

reading

the wife needs to know, it cant be just from the husband who so called wants to surprise his wife, couples going to meet a guy has to be about open fun, not just from her husband's side, he sounds a right zoom, you stick to real couples who would both love and appreciate your sexy company

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By *eegh0stsMan
over a year ago

I’ve met two ‘couples’ for a drink off here in my times over numerous profiles after receiving similar messages after I’d been on cam in the chat rooms.

Both times the guy has just turned up alone and claimed his wife wasn’t able to make it last minute. Both of these men have them suggested we just have a drink together.

Just fantasists unfortunately.

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