FabSwingers.com forum: Single woman profiles that are actually cpls

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Annoying as fuck.

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

Ours started off as that, but it was explained on the profile. It was because I (the male) just wanted to watch... changed my mind though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's why I changed mine to a cpls. Even though we aren't married. I do wanna seek Threesommes or more with my FB. Hate misleading folk.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ours started off as that, but it was explained on the profile. It was because I (the male) just wanted to watch... changed my mind though

I get that mate, and fair enough.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That's why I changed mine to a cpls. Even though we aren't married. I do wanna seek Threesommes or more with my FB. Hate misleading folk. "

Saves a lot of time for ppl who don't look to meet couples.

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

But some women in couples meet alone so have single profiles?? As well as a couples profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get lots of messages from single ladies profiles. Then as the message goes on it is revealed they are a couple and only play as a couple. We don’t meet couples so I often wonder what the point is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We get lots of messages from single ladies profiles. Then as the message goes on it is revealed they are a couple and only play as a couple. We don’t meet couples so I often wonder what the point is! "

We've had sooo many of these over the years, plus of course the couples where the woman is otherwise engaged but has unselfishly given him permission to, blah, blah, yeah, yeah.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"But some women in couples meet alone so have single profiles?? As well as a couples profile"

What annoys there is in the profile it'll say "I only meet couples with him" & yet couples is in the looking for as an option which is clearly incorrect.

Also as far as we are concerned "Watch,Wank,Take pictures" whatever, you are there, ergo you are a couple...Are we going to talk & chat? Probably so we've met a couple fact one doesn't actually play is their choice but they are still a couple unless he/she stays at home.

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

"But some women in couples meet alone so have single profiles?? As well as a couples profile

What annoys there is in the profile it'll say "I only meet couples with him" & yet couples is in the looking for as an option which is clearly incorrect.

I do play solo very occasionally as will C but we don't have si gle profiles. If we were meeting solo it would be completely solo. But I tend to only consider it with repeat meets for my safety. Due to the fact too many single males pose as a couple

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By *inkyKittyWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

Yes very annoying, even ‘single’ men who aren’t single too!!!

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By *ADY VOLUPTUOUS OF KENTWoman
over a year ago

TONBRIDGE ROUNDABOUTS

"Yes very annoying, even ‘single’ men who aren’t single too!!!"

Agree totally

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By *is BitchCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Just report them

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By *anes HubbyCouple
over a year ago

Babbacombe Torquay

It's like anything, only annoying if you allow it to be annoying

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Or single men that pretend to he couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few who have single girls profiles we’ve spoken to have said they will meet with their fb or fella. Okay thats fine and respect that but no mention of it in the profile.

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By *ill-Ian KissesCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere over there

Both Ian and I had single profiles; esp Ian’s as he’s been on the scene a while

But when we decided to actually have a relationship outside fab, thought it was best to make a couples profile.

However. we both have each other’s agreement to play solo; I’ve just not done it as much as I would prefer a social meet than play meet first (primarily for seeing if we get on and also safety)

Happy I get best of both worlds

Millie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But some women in couples meet alone so have single profiles?? As well as a couples profile"

Why do they need another profile to promote themselves - you can just write you are meeting alone on your cpls profile?

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

"But some women in couples meet alone so have single profiles?? As well as a couples profile

Why do they need another profile to promote themselves - you can just write you are meeting alone on your cpls profile? "

But then they would not be included in searches as singles

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

"But some women in couples meet alone so have single profiles?? As well as a couples profile

Why do they need another profile to promote themselves - you can just write you are meeting alone on your cpls profile?

But then they would not be included in searches as singles "

That's really the problem with these incorrectly selected profiles.

It doesn't matter what the explanation is, or if it's mentioned on the profile.

It breaks or circumvents a number of the sites features, like searching, but also who can message whom etc.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"But some women in couples meet alone so have single profiles?? As well as a couples profile

Why do they need another profile to promote themselves - you can just write you are meeting alone on your cpls profile? "

Both me and my partner only meet alone so we both have separate profiles. It's a lot easier and makes sense for searches.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But some women in couples meet alone so have single profiles?? As well as a couples profile

Why do they need another profile to promote themselves - you can just write you are meeting alone on your cpls profile?

Both me and my partner only meet alone so we both have separate profiles. It's a lot easier and makes sense for searches.

So you haven't a cpls profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But some women in couples meet alone so have single profiles?? As well as a couples profile

Why do they need another profile to promote themselves - you can just write you are meeting alone on your cpls profile?

But then they would not be included in searches as singles "

Ok... I've had singles accounts for five years and decided on a cpls this time round. I've had loads more success.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"But some women in couples meet alone so have single profiles?? As well as a couples profile

Why do they need another profile to promote themselves - you can just write you are meeting alone on your cpls profile?

Both me and my partner only meet alone so we both have separate profiles. It's a lot easier and makes sense for searches.

So you haven't a cpls profile? "

Nope. But I can understand others doing so if they meet both alone and with their partner as they can use each one for those different purposes. It's especially useful when each partner is looking for very different people for solo meets when it comes to things like filters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But some women in couples meet alone so have single profiles?? As well as a couples profile

Why do they need another profile to promote themselves - you can just write you are meeting alone on your cpls profile?

Both me and my partner only meet alone so we both have separate profiles. It's a lot easier and makes sense for searches.

So you haven't a cpls profile?

Yes I can see that benefits them. I wonder if people feel comfortable about any cpl on a singles profile, wanting to meet alone? It's difficult to tell if either one isn't cheating on each other. I never met cpls when on a singles profile for that reason!

(I'm hard work on the forum, always questions lol) thank you for getting back!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I meet as a single then I need a singles profile. The fact I'm part of a couple means what exactly? What's annoying?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But some women in couples meet alone so have single profiles?? As well as a couples profile"

Exactly that, thank you

. I have couple's profile with my partner, and I have my single profile, which is mainly for chatting with my friends and for forums now. I make it very clear on my single profile when I am available as a single woman, so nobody should get confused. Though single men still choose to ignore the line that I'm only meeting single men in a club, by chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But some women in couples meet alone so have single profiles?? As well as a couples profile

Exactly that, thank you

Yes exactly this. We have a couples profile to meet as a couple and I have this one to meet alone. I'm still really unclear about why this is a problem for anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had that all the time when I had a solo profile. I was only looking for ff meets. Would often get as far as arranging to meet when they’d casually drop a boyfriend or husband into the conversation and ask if they could be involved too.

One of the main reasons I deleted my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just going through some fun with this now. We've been on here as a couple for over a year, and Marie has decided that she'd like a single girl account for organising herself MMMF type meets.

She created that today and it got changed to a MF couple one, despite being in the photo verification alone. Which now means weve got two couples accounts, which is just silly.

Obviously we'll just delete that new one if we can't get it changed, but to be honest it took quite a bit of self confidence for Marie to do that so it's far from ideal.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"But some women in couples meet alone so have single profiles?? As well as a couples profile

Why do they need another profile to promote themselves - you can just write you are meeting alone on your cpls profile?

Both me and my partner only meet alone so we both have separate profiles. It's a lot easier and makes sense for searches.

So you haven't a cpls profile?

(I'm hard work on the forum, always questions lol) thank you for getting back! "

If anyone had concerns I'm happy for them to message his profile and him the same with me. Our pictures are quite clearly taken in the same room. We also both have a verification from a mutual friend. The one she left him states she knows me and can vouch that I'm aware he's on here and I'm fine about it.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"But some women in couples meet alone so have single profiles?? As well as a couples profile

Exactly that, thank you

Yes exactly this. We have a couples profile to meet as a couple and I have this one to meet alone. I'm still really unclear about why this is a problem for anyone

Not a problem if set up correctly as yours is but quite a few will have couples in the interested in meeting part so show up in searches & in the blurb say they only meet couples as a couple..

So they are not meeting couples as a single. so it shouldn't be there really..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But some women in couples meet alone so have single profiles?? As well as a couples profile

Exactly that, thank you

Yes exactly this. We have a couples profile to meet as a couple and I have this one to meet alone. I'm still really unclear about why this is a problem for anyone

Not a problem if set up correctly as yours is but quite a few will have couples in the interested in meeting part so show up in searches & in the blurb say they only meet couples as a couple..

So they are not meeting couples as a single. so it shouldn't be there really..

Ahhh right, thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I meet as a single then I need a singles profile. The fact I'm part of a couple means what exactly? What's annoying? "

That you aren't technically single? Just guessing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I meet as a single then I need a singles profile. The fact I'm part of a couple means what exactly? What's annoying?

That you aren't technically single? Just guessing! "

Why is that a problem? I'm going to be meeting on my own, what's the difference?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I meet as a single then I need a singles profile. The fact I'm part of a couple means what exactly? What's annoying?

That you aren't technically single? Just guessing!

Why is that a problem? I'm going to be meeting on my own, what's the difference? "

Think people want a little trust. How do they know you aren't cheating on your husband? Just a guess....

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"If I meet as a single then I need a singles profile. The fact I'm part of a couple means what exactly? What's annoying?

That you aren't technically single? Just guessing!

Why is that a problem? I'm going to be meeting on my own, what's the difference?

Think people want a little trust. How do they know you aren't cheating on your husband? Just a guess....

I explained above how people know I'm not cheating on my partner. I'm more suspicious over couples profiles where the female is suddenly unavailable but happy for the male to meet alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I meet as a single then I need a singles profile. The fact I'm part of a couple means what exactly? What's annoying?

That you aren't technically single? Just guessing!

Why is that a problem? I'm going to be meeting on my own, what's the difference?

Think people want a little trust. How do they know you aren't cheating on your husband? Just a guess....

I explained above how people know I'm not cheating on my partner. I'm more suspicious over couples profiles where the female is suddenly unavailable but happy for the male to meet alone. "

Well that's you and your profile. Not everybodies is set up the same way! I've read a cpls single profile who's on this thread and it doesn't mention they're part of a cpl. Is that fair, misleading or none of anybodies business? (I'm not married or living with my FB on my cpls account - so we're both free to meet alone)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I meet as a single then I need a singles profile. The fact I'm part of a couple means what exactly? What's annoying?

That you aren't technically single? Just guessing!

Why is that a problem? I'm going to be meeting on my own, what's the difference?

Think people want a little trust. How do they know you aren't cheating on your husband? Just a guess....

I'm not married. My bf and I have a couples profile here. I tell everyone straight away that I'm in an open relationship. It's never been a problem for anyone.

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

I've always taken the terms "single" and "couples" profiles to simply indicate how many people are involved. Not their relationship status.

If someone is part of a couple, and also meets singly, then two accounts makes eminent sense.

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