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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you have a kink that you've always wanted to explore but were too afraid/nervous/never had the opportunity to explore?

No judgement in this thread at all and keep your shaming to yourself people x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sensory deprivation and rope suspension, we never had enough privacy or free time to do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you have a kink that you've always wanted to explore but were too afraid/nervous/never had the opportunity to explore?

No judgement in this thread at all and keep your shaming to yourself people x"

Just honest fun days and nights with nice couples or fems, share same interest and outlook, love slumming it in rickety old camper vans visiting some of the most gorgeous places in this country, sitting out in the evening with beer/wine and bbq on the go, who think the sex is a nice to have if we all get on and not the mission.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you have a kink that you've always wanted to explore but were too afraid/nervous/never had the opportunity to explore?

No judgement in this thread at all and keep your shaming to yourself people x

Just honest fun days and nights with nice couples or fems, share same interest and outlook, love slumming it in rickety old camper vans visiting some of the most gorgeous places in this country, sitting out in the evening with beer/wine and bbq on the go, who think the sex is a nice to have if we all get on and not the mission. "

Sounds lovely but not really what I was talking about. Lol

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I'm not kinky in the slightest so I'll just sit in the corner and watch

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool


"Sensory deprivation and rope suspension, we never had enough privacy or free time to do it"

Sensory deprivation is amazing. Definitely try and get the time to give it a shot. I think you guys would love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suspension, never had the opportunity, electro stuff.

P

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not kinky in the slightest so I'll just sit in the corner and watch"

Life's too short to pretend that you aren't into some kinky shit lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuckolding

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sensory deprivation and rope suspension, we never had enough privacy or free time to do it

Sensory deprivation is amazing. Definitely try and get the time to give it a shot. I think you guys would love it."

We have a night free in a few weeks so I think it will be on the cards.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Suspension, never had the opportunity, electro stuff.

P"

Yes, electro has peaked our interest once or twice, never had the guts to go through with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

CFNM. Like the idea of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you have a kink that you've always wanted to explore but were too afraid/nervous/never had the opportunity to explore?

No judgement in this thread at all and keep your shaming to yourself people x

Just honest fun days and nights with nice couples or fems, share same interest and outlook, love slumming it in rickety old camper vans visiting some of the most gorgeous places in this country, sitting out in the evening with beer/wine and bbq on the go, who think the sex is a nice to have if we all get on and not the mission.

Sounds lovely but not really what I was talking about. Lol"

LOL but you asked what we'd like to try and not what we have tried

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"I'm not kinky in the slightest so I'll just sit in the corner and watch

Life's too short to pretend that you aren't into some kinky shit lol

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I'm not pretending, unless my definition of a kink is too narrow.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"CFNM. Like the idea of that "

Don't make me Google CFNM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"CFNM. Like the idea of that

Don't make me Google CFNM "

It’s the only thing I’ve ever googled on here and thought ooooh I quite like that idea

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"CFNM. Like the idea of that

Don't make me Google CFNM

It’s the only thing I’ve ever googled on here and thought ooooh I quite like that idea "

Oh ... just say .. please

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"CFNM. Like the idea of that

Don't make me Google CFNM "

Not as bad as I feared

My own kink is the multiple creampie gang bang. Unlikely to ever try it for real, tho

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By *urple-roseWoman
over a year ago

Stoke


"CFNM. Like the idea of that "

I’m the opposite, I’d love a guy in a suit to bend me over

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough


"CFNM. Like the idea of that "

I've done that a couple of times...good fun

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

To be restrained and blindfolded on all fours and not be 100% sure who was spit roasting or sucking me

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"CFNM. Like the idea of that

I’m the opposite, I’d love a guy in a suit to bend me over "

I was wondering if there was a CMNF kink

D.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"CFNM. Like the idea of that

Don't make me Google CFNM

It’s the only thing I’ve ever googled on here and thought ooooh I quite like that idea

Oh ... just say .. please "

It’s one you can google

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By *urple-roseWoman
over a year ago

Stoke

There’s lots of things I’d like to do again lol

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By *urple-roseWoman
over a year ago

Stoke


"CFNM. Like the idea of that

I’m the opposite, I’d love a guy in a suit to bend me over

I was wondering if there was a CMNF kink

D."

There is, I’ve just not experienced it yet

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

There’s a few if you find the right person, until then they shall remain hidden

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough


"There’s lots of things I’d like to do again lol"

A follower of the "Try it once and if I like it..do it again"

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By *anther81Man
over a year ago

Drogheda


"CFNM. Like the idea of that "

Big one for me although would like a couple of ladies if possible humiliate and laugh at me.

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By *urple-roseWoman
over a year ago

Stoke


"There’s lots of things I’d like to do again lol

A follower of the "Try it once and if I like it..do it again" "

I try everything at least twice as the first time might have not been a true representation

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough


"There’s lots of things I’d like to do again lol

A follower of the "Try it once and if I like it..do it again"

I try everything at least twice as the first time might have not been a true representation "

Good to get a second opinion

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"CFNM. Like the idea of that

I’m the opposite, I’d love a guy in a suit to bend me over "

I had a friend who liked something similar, but it was me in my bike leathers

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Suspension, never had the opportunity, electro stuff.

P

Yes, electro has peaked our interest once or twice, never had the guts to go through with it"

It's fun and only painful if you do it on high power. Lower power can be pleasurable or just a bit jumpy. An ex of mine had a remote controlled tens unit. He used to enjoy sticking the pads to my bum cheeks and sending me to the bar to get drinks and shocking me on the way back . He also used to pass the remote around at events the bastard!

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Having sex with a woman !! Might sound odd but never done it as Chloe xx

why would a woman want sex with a bloke in a dress ????

Would it mush my head ??

Strange world xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to suspend Peach. And I like the thought of being sounded

Fuzz

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"CFNM. Like the idea of that

I’m the opposite, I’d love a guy in a suit to bend me over

I was wondering if there was a CMNF kink

D."

There is! I've been to CMnf events too! Great fun! The dress code for men was suits or military uniforms.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough


"CFNM. Like the idea of that

I’m the opposite, I’d love a guy in a suit to bend me over

I was wondering if there was a CMNF kink

D.

There is! I've been to CMnf events too! Great fun! The dress code for men was suits or military uniforms."

I need to get to the gym more so I can get back into my Mess Dress

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"CFNM. Like the idea of that

I’m the opposite, I’d love a guy in a suit to bend me over

I was wondering if there was a CMNF kink

D.

There is, I’ve just not experienced it yet "


"CFNM. Like the idea of that

I’m the opposite, I’d love a guy in a suit to bend me over

I was wondering if there was a CMNF kink

D.

There is! I've been to CMnf events too! Great fun! The dress code for men was suits or military uniforms."

There you go Purple Rose Maybe Lacey can point you in the right direction for these events

D.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cmnf sounds like a brilliant time we will have to get involved in this. We envision men all in suits and the women wearing only masquerade masks and collars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"CFNM. Like the idea of that

Big one for me although would like a couple of ladies if possible humiliate and laugh at me."

I wouldn’t be into the humiliation side of it though.

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"CFNM. Like the idea of that

I’m the opposite, I’d love a guy in a suit to bend me over "

Ahem

*quickly dusts off suit*

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By *euschMan
over a year ago

peterborough

Wheelbarrow position spanking, and sounding

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By *anther81Man
over a year ago

Drogheda


"CFNM. Like the idea of that

Big one for me although would like a couple of ladies if possible humiliate and laugh at me.

I wouldn’t be into the humiliation side of it though. "

Fair enough what would you get up to with your nude male?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"CFNM. Like the idea of that

I’m the opposite, I’d love a guy in a suit to bend me over

I was wondering if there was a CMNF kink

D.

There is, I’ve just not experienced it yet

CFNM. Like the idea of that

I’m the opposite, I’d love a guy in a suit to bend me over

I was wondering if there was a CMNF kink

D.

There is! I've been to CMnf events too! Great fun! The dress code for men was suits or military uniforms.

There you go Purple Rose Maybe Lacey can point you in the right direction for these events

D."

The ones I used to go to are held twice a year in Liberty Elite in Lutterworth in South Leicestershire. A summer one and a winter one. At the summer one you can go outside naked as the outdoor area isn't overlooked. There are probably other events around too though .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flashing in public. Is it considered a kink? And how can it be permissible when those involved have not given informed consent? Genuinely curious about this one ...

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I realised a while ago that saying "no, never" was just limiting my experience and closing off things that I didn't understand.

There are quite a few things that I've tried that I would again in the right context with the right person, others that I would love to try.

I consider myself open minded and find this thread intriguing

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

I'm a sadist. Cant explain why. But it just gives me a thrill. Finding someone who's into receiving, well that would be lovely.

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

I like violet wands a lot so definitely more electricity for me but the main more for me is medical play. I did an amazing workshop with a nurse who taught us how to do suturing needles and stapling safely. I just need to be more vocal and get back out on the local scene more, anything’s possible if you want it enough.

Lex

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough


"Flashing in public. Is it considered a kink? And how can it be permissible when those involved have not given informed consent? Genuinely curious about this one ... "

I've been out in public with a Fab lady friend who got off on flashing her stocking tops and knickers either to me or any other adults who were in the vicinity... "accidentally" letting her short skirt ride up. No complaints received.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

The CmNf events at liberty elite are definitely on our list!

We have a violet wand we've had a brief play with one before but yet to explore fully cant wait for the opportunity.

Sensation play can be amazing and you dont need the kids to be out to do it lol. Well worth exploring.

More opportunity for impact play would be great! We have to take advantage when we can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to play with two bi guys at the same time. I love the idea meeting with someone and stripping them naked, playing with them and they aren't allowed to remove my clothes or touch me, so cfnm pretty much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a fantasy of being on the receiving end of bukkake, directed by Ms D. Whether I'd actually go through with it is another matter!

Mr R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm enjoying exploring my dominant side more just now. I like to be dominant with naturally dominant men though, not ones who are submissive anyway - does that make sense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"CFNM. Like the idea of that "

Yes !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Foot fetish - worship, domination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to explore voyeurism , Id like to watch others have sex

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

Electro play. Might be dipping my toe in quite soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a reverse gangbang with more than 4 women.

Or

Being pegged

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By *ifty69Man
over a year ago

north tyneside

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like violet wands a lot so definitely more electricity for me but the main more for me is medical play. I did an amazing workshop with a nurse who taught us how to do suturing needles and stapling safely. I just need to be more vocal and get back out on the local scene more, anything’s possible if you want it enough.

Lex"

Same here, haven't been to a munch in over a year

Darlington munch has stopped so we need to go further afield

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By *n_thy_kneesMan
over a year ago

Ipswich

Femdom-led milking table. Not necessarily rough or humiliating to the guy, but with the woman admiring, teasing and edging a rock hard, throbbing beautiful cock with her fingers, tongue and mouth, until the precum flows. Her getting off on getting him off...enjoying the unbearable teasing, allowing his precum to drip over her body, face, mouth, until she FINALLY allows his to explode...wherever she wants.

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By *n_thy_kneesMan
over a year ago

Ipswich

Oh, and a mmmm(mmmm)f sex swing scenario

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By *rof_cplCouple
over a year ago

Gerrards Cross


"I like violet wands a lot so definitely more electricity for me but the main more for me is medical play. I did an amazing workshop with a nurse who taught us how to do suturing needles and stapling safely. I just need to be more vocal and get back out on the local scene more, anything’s possible if you want it enough.

Lex

Same here, haven't been to a munch in over a year

Darlington munch has stopped so we need to go further afield"

Might be a stupid question, but what is a munch?

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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago

London

I have a huge foot fetish. Is that still considered a kink or is it too mainstream now? Lol

Oh and love sexy heels too but of course the foot fetish and heels do complement each other.

By the way, for those asking, CFNM = clothed female naked male.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like violet wands a lot so definitely more electricity for me but the main more for me is medical play. I did an amazing workshop with a nurse who taught us how to do suturing needles and stapling safely. I just need to be more vocal and get back out on the local scene more, anything’s possible if you want it enough.

Lex

Same here, haven't been to a munch in over a year

Darlington munch has stopped so we need to go further afield

Might be a stupid question, but what is a munch?"

A meeting of people who like kink in a vanilla setting like a pub, not to play, just socialise

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By *inkykat dirtydogCouple
over a year ago

Cov

For us, outdoor fun, we've done a bit but it's always too cold and raining.

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By *inkykat dirtydogCouple
over a year ago

Cov


"Sensory deprivation and rope suspension, we never had enough privacy or free time to do it

Sensory deprivation is amazing. Definitely try and get the time to give it a shot. I think you guys would love it."

Definately should do it, we love it too.

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By *ez1987Man
over a year ago

Great Harwood, Blackburn

Pegging,

Electro play

Chastity

Are on my kink list.

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

I'd like a fit, virile restrained man in my room while I go about my day. I come home occasionally seriously tease him, use him, plenty of edging but no penetration. Maybe I'll invite a friend round for coffee who has no idea he is upstairs, or go on a short date with some regular guy.

Eventually, I'll free him to fully have me, with all that raw pent up energy bursting all over me!

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Oh, pegging is on my list too.

And shibari (practiced on me) x

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Pegging and edging

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By *ifty69Man
over a year ago

north tyneside


"Oh, pegging is on my list too.

And shibari (practiced on me) x"
what is shibari

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Flashing in public. Is it considered a kink? And how can it be permissible when those involved have not given informed consent? Genuinely curious about this one ...

I've been out in public with a Fab lady friend who got off on flashing her stocking tops and knickers either to me or any other adults who were in the vicinity... "accidentally" letting her short skirt ride up. No complaints received."

This seems a bit milder than some of the possible scenarios tbh. Where is the line of acceptable behaviour, I wonder. I’d be reporting someone to the police who flashed their genitals at me deliberately in public. But I wouldn’t if I just caught a glimpse of a person’s underwear as I’d assume this was accidental. Interesting debate isn’t it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh, pegging is on my list too.

And shibari (practiced on me) x"

Always looking for a rope bunny to practice on. Unfortunately your a bit far away to make it a regular thing

Fuzz

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By *ifty69Man
over a year ago

north tyneside


"Flashing in public. Is it considered a kink? And how can it be permissible when those involved have not given informed consent? Genuinely curious about this one ...

I've been out in public with a Fab lady friend who got off on flashing her stocking tops and knickers either to me or any other adults who were in the vicinity... "accidentally" letting her short skirt ride up. No complaints received.

This seems a bit milder than some of the possible scenarios tbh. Where is the line of acceptable behaviour, I wonder. I’d be reporting someone to the police who flashed their genitals at me deliberately in public. But I wouldn’t if I just caught a glimpse of a person’s underwear as I’d assume this was accidental. Interesting debate isn’t it... "
i was flashed by a female flight attendant at Malaga airport, i didnt complain, it was a wonderful unexpected sight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bisexual orgy. Something about group play really arouses me.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


" i was flashed by a female flight attendant at Malaga airport"

I saw Judith Charmers at Malaga airport but she didn't flash me.

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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago

London


" i was flashed by a female flight attendant at Malaga airport

I saw Judith Charmers at Malaga airport but she didn't flash me. "

Lucky you (not being flashed at by her I mean rather than seeing Judith Chalmers)

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Oh, pegging is on my list too.

And shibari (practiced on me) xwhat is shibari "

A Japanese style of rope bondage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Flashing in public. Is it considered a kink? And how can it be permissible when those involved have not given informed consent? Genuinely curious about this one ...

I've been out in public with a Fab lady friend who got off on flashing her stocking tops and knickers either to me or any other adults who were in the vicinity... "accidentally" letting her short skirt ride up. No complaints received.

This seems a bit milder than some of the possible scenarios tbh. Where is the line of acceptable behaviour, I wonder. I’d be reporting someone to the police who flashed their genitals at me deliberately in public. But I wouldn’t if I just caught a glimpse of a person’s underwear as I’d assume this was accidental. Interesting debate isn’t it... i was flashed by a female flight attendant at Malaga airport, i didnt complain, it was a wonderful unexpected sight "

Which is nice for you, as you enjoyed it. However, if a man showed me his genitals while I was out and about with my daughter, for example, I’d report him to the police. So my curiosity still remains ... where do we find the line with this type of behaviour?

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By *ifty69Man
over a year ago

north tyneside


"Flashing in public. Is it considered a kink? And how can it be permissible when those involved have not given informed consent? Genuinely curious about this one ...

I've been out in public with a Fab lady friend who got off on flashing her stocking tops and knickers either to me or any other adults who were in the vicinity... "accidentally" letting her short skirt ride up. No complaints received.

This seems a bit milder than some of the possible scenarios tbh. Where is the line of acceptable behaviour, I wonder. I’d be reporting someone to the police who flashed their genitals at me deliberately in public. But I wouldn’t if I just caught a glimpse of a person’s underwear as I’d assume this was accidental. Interesting debate isn’t it... i was flashed by a female flight attendant at Malaga airport, i didnt complain, it was a wonderful unexpected sight

Which is nice for you, as you enjoyed it. However, if a man showed me his genitals while I was out and about with my daughter, for example, I’d report him to the police. So my curiosity still remains ... where do we find the line with this type of behaviour?"
i agree with you, have to draw the line with guys flashing their bits, the woman who flashed me just showed her knickers .

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Flashing in public. Is it considered a kink? And how can it be permissible when those involved have not given informed consent? Genuinely curious about this one ...

I've been out in public with a Fab lady friend who got off on flashing her stocking tops and knickers either to me or any other adults who were in the vicinity... "accidentally" letting her short skirt ride up. No complaints received.

This seems a bit milder than some of the possible scenarios tbh. Where is the line of acceptable behaviour, I wonder. I’d be reporting someone to the police who flashed their genitals at me deliberately in public. But I wouldn’t if I just caught a glimpse of a person’s underwear as I’d assume this was accidental. Interesting debate isn’t it... i was flashed by a female flight attendant at Malaga airport, i didnt complain, it was a wonderful unexpected sight

Which is nice for you, as you enjoyed it. However, if a man showed me his genitals while I was out and about with my daughter, for example, I’d report him to the police. So my curiosity still remains ... where do we find the line with this type of behaviour?"

Personally I would never deliberately involve anyone in my sexual activity who had not consented to it. Maybe flashers need to develop some signals like doggers have

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

What airline was she representing ?

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By *entleRMan
over a year ago

Telford


"Do you have a kink that you've always wanted to explore but were too afraid/nervous/never had the opportunity to explore?

No judgement in this thread at all and keep your shaming to yourself people x"

Having a guy suck me during a mfm, always in the back of my mind, never mentioned it ??

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru


"Cmnf sounds like a brilliant time we will have to get involved in this. We envision men all in suits and the women wearing only masquerade masks and collars "

this

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By *ifty69Man
over a year ago

north tyneside

Lol good idea. Guys flashing usually leads to more serious behaviour.

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By *ifty69Man
over a year ago

north tyneside


"What airline was she representing ?"
i think it was a swedish airline, Ryan air would charge a fee

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over a year ago


"Flashing in public. Is it considered a kink? And how can it be permissible when those involved have not given informed consent? Genuinely curious about this one ...

I've been out in public with a Fab lady friend who got off on flashing her stocking tops and knickers either to me or any other adults who were in the vicinity... "accidentally" letting her short skirt ride up. No complaints received.

This seems a bit milder than some of the possible scenarios tbh. Where is the line of acceptable behaviour, I wonder. I’d be reporting someone to the police who flashed their genitals at me deliberately in public. But I wouldn’t if I just caught a glimpse of a person’s underwear as I’d assume this was accidental. Interesting debate isn’t it... i was flashed by a female flight attendant at Malaga airport, i didnt complain, it was a wonderful unexpected sight

Which is nice for you, as you enjoyed it. However, if a man showed me his genitals while I was out and about with my daughter, for example, I’d report him to the police. So my curiosity still remains ... where do we find the line with this type of behaviour?

Personally I would never deliberately involve anyone in my sexual activity who had not consented to it. Maybe flashers need to develop some signals like doggers have "

Yes maybe... so when you’re down the cereal aisle in Tesco, you can politely decline to view another person’s genitals if you so wish

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay


"Oh, pegging is on my list too.

And shibari (practiced on me) xwhat is shibari "

Japanese rope restraining and bondage .. it's an art! Google it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love this thread; I want to try (almost) everything.

Shibari is top of my list.

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By *ifty69Man
over a year ago

north tyneside


"Oh, pegging is on my list too.

And shibari (practiced on me) xwhat is shibari

Japanese rope restraining and bondage .. it's an art! Google it x "
thanks i will look.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Id like to be a Hucow.

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

I've got a estim kit which I'd love to use on a guy with the aim of making him cum hands free

Also got a sounding kit and looking for guys to try it out on

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By *ifty69Man
over a year ago

north tyneside


"I've got a estim kit which I'd love to use on a guy with the aim of making him cum hands free

Also got a sounding kit and looking for guys to try it out on "
sounding is on the increase

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got a estim kit which I'd love to use on a guy with the aim of making him cum hands free

Also got a sounding kit and looking for guys to try it out on sounding is on the increase "

That's what I hear

Fuzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pegging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not kinky in the slightest so I'll just sit in the corner and watch"

I like what you did there lol

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster


"I've got a estim kit which I'd love to use on a guy with the aim of making him cum hands free

Also got a sounding kit and looking for guys to try it out on sounding is on the increase "
is it so

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I'm not kinky in the slightest so I'll just sit in the corner and watch"

Maybe your kink is voyeurism

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By *ifty69Man
over a year ago

north tyneside


"I've got a estim kit which I'd love to use on a guy with the aim of making him cum hands free

Also got a sounding kit and looking for guys to try it out on sounding is on the increase is it so "
it is and so is pegging, lots of guys wanting to be pegged

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Would love to try fucklicking with me on the bottom licking a hard cock as they fuck their partner

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh, pegging is on my list too.

And shibari (practiced on me) xwhat is shibari

Japanese rope restraining and bondage .. it's an art! Google it x "

Love it. The shibari used for decoration and club looks amazing.

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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago

London


"I'm not kinky in the slightest so I'll just sit in the corner and watch

Maybe your kink is voyeurism "

I reckon that's what he was referring to in a subtle way which nobody got except you and I.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm interested in bondage, threesomes and full in BDSM but I guess my main kink is watching.

I've been to clubs and just sat watching everyone around me fuck while enjoying my drink. It's one heck of a trip!

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By *illyDudeMan
over a year ago

norh east

I've done nearly everything I want to do. I think cuckolding is the only thing left on the list. Which is pretty sad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bound and gagged gangbangs

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Being a rope bunny, never found anyone who can do that.

Not sure that's a kink though tbh.

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By *obertBob41Man
over a year ago

Hyde

I would like to play with women which wear strap on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive always want a couple have me round and make me sit the corner in chastity while they have their fum bareback and when they've finished beccon me over to clean them both up before releasing me and sending me home horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got a estim kit which I'd love to use on a guy with the aim of making him cum hands free

Also got a sounding kit and looking for guys to try it out on sounding is on the increase is it so it is and so is pegging, lots of guys wanting to be pegged "

Love being pegged while sucking a male, it was my biggest fantasy until about 2 years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still find the right person for every day fun..

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By *moothLeanBodMan
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

Femdom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pegging and being sub in a mfm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being a rope bunny, never found anyone who can do that.

Not sure that's a kink though tbh."

Why didn't you say! FFS your Ladyship

Fuzz

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

So, no other Hucow fans eh? Dam it!

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By *entle giraffeMan
over a year ago

Minehead


"So, no other Hucow fans eh? Dam it!"

Go on then, I'll ask. hucow?

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By *xperimentalistMan
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Shibari, art and kink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Playing with a cuckold couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I may be strange but I take on other peoples,well my partners kinks. Im not at all sub in fact im naturally dominant so its not from just being a pleaser. But LOVE kink mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be used by a Domanatrix

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By *aimeSmithTV/TS
over a year ago

Cliss


"CFNM. Like the idea of that "

I like to be clothed as a female, does that count?

I’m interested in bagging breathplay xx

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By *nSearchOf12Couple
over a year ago

London


"Flashing in public. Is it considered a kink? And how can it be permissible when those involved have not given informed consent? Genuinely curious about this one ... "

Kudos for identifying the consent question on this... (we think random passers by cannot have consented to seeing our shennanigans, so in our opinion: no)

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By *aimeSmithTV/TS
over a year ago

Cliss


"Id like to be a Hucow."

I like watching hucow porn xx

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Id like to be a Hucow.

I like watching hucow porn xx"

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By *entle giraffeMan
over a year ago

Minehead


"Id like to be a Hucow.

I like watching hucow porn xx

"

Ok.... I've googled it now.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Id like to be a Hucow.

I like watching hucow porn xx

Ok.... I've googled it now."

Sorry! Missed your post!

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By *entle giraffeMan
over a year ago

Minehead


"Id like to be a Hucow.

I like watching hucow porn xx

Ok.... I've googled it now.

Sorry! Missed your post! "

It's ok, no need to blush.

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By *antrelWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham/Cardiff


"I'd like a fit, virile restrained man in my room while I go about my day. I come home occasionally seriously tease him, use him, plenty of edging but no penetration. Maybe I'll invite a friend round for coffee who has no idea he is upstairs, or go on a short date with some regular guy.

Eventually, I'll free him to fully have me, with all that raw pent up energy bursting all over me!

"

This!!

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Love to do some rope play!!

I really like being degraded (female half) would love to push this further with group humiliation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love to do some rope play!!

I really like being degraded (female half) would love to push this further with group humiliation. "

See we do our BDSM/kink without the humiliation and degradation, we don't like that aspect, but understand others do

Fuzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh, pegging is on my list too.

And shibari (practiced on me) x"

Pegging and shibari for me too

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth


"Love to do some rope play!!

I really like being degraded (female half) would love to push this further with group humiliation.

See we do our BDSM/kink without the humiliation and degradation, we don't like that aspect, but understand others do

Fuzz"

It's something I the female really enjoys. Totally respect that others don't. Everyone is different

I thought of another thing cuckqueaning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done most of mine need to think of something new

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like a fit, virile restrained man in my room while I go about my day. I come home occasionally seriously tease him, use him, plenty of edging but no penetration. Maybe I'll invite a friend round for coffee who has no idea he is upstairs, or go on a short date with some regular guy.

Eventually, I'll free him to fully have me, with all that raw pent up energy bursting all over me!

"

Hmmm this but with some foot teasing domination worship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve recently become curious with pegging. Haven’t found the right woman to trust with it yet though.

Most of my other kinks I have tried at least once

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

Would like to find a guy or two that are actually dominant

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"CFNM. Like the idea of that

I’m the opposite, I’d love a guy in a suit to bend me over

I was wondering if there was a CMNF kink

D.

There is! I've been to CMnf events too! Great fun! The dress code for men was suits or military uniforms."

OMG sorry to jump in but I would ADORE this

Mrs TMN x

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

I would like to be naked, collared and caged.

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Foot fetish, is that a kink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooh tied and blind folded by a trusted lady who then invites a group of guys in to use me anonomously.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I would like to be naked, collared and caged.

Mrs TMN x "

Mmmm this is fun!

As were the CMnf events! I love being makes and all those men in suits

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Foot fetish, is that a kink "

It sure is!

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"I would like to be naked, collared and caged.

Mrs TMN x

Mmmm this is fun!

As were the CMnf events! I love being makes and all those men in suits "

Honestly, sounds like my perfect scenario. The power dynamic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Foot fetish, is that a kink

It sure is! "

Love it! Painted nails, smooth soles...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love to do some rope play!!

I really like being degraded (female half) would love to push this further with group humiliation.

See we do our BDSM/kink without the humiliation and degradation, we don't like that aspect, but understand others do

Fuzz

It's something I the female really enjoys. Totally respect that others don't. Everyone is different

I thought of another thing cuckqueaning."

Respect to preference

How is cuckqueaning different to a "typical" D/s relationships? They're very similar to me.

Fuzz

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth


"Love to do some rope play!!

I really like being degraded (female half) would love to push this further with group humiliation.

See we do our BDSM/kink without the humiliation and degradation, we don't like that aspect, but understand others do

Fuzz

It's something I the female really enjoys. Totally respect that others don't. Everyone is different

I thought of another thing cuckqueaning.

Respect to preference

How is cuckqueaning different to a "typical" D/s relationships? They're very similar to me.

Fuzz"

I meant it's another thing for my list I want to try. Sorry lol

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Definitely cuckold play.

I’d love to meet a couple who enjoy being dominated and used by a bull. I’ve been a master in the past but that dynamic with a couple feels like it would be so intense!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I would like to be naked, collared and caged.

Mrs TMN x

Mmmm this is fun!

As were the CMnf events! I love being makes and all those men in suits

Honestly, sounds like my perfect scenario. The power dynamic "

It really does help to emphasise it. Even better if they sit with a foot on their knee reading a paper while sipping something like whiskey over ice *fans self*

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Foot fetish, is that a kink

It sure is!

Love it! Painted nails, smooth soles... "

Any preference of colour?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Want to be pegged by a female after she has watched me fuck a guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love to do some rope play!!

I really like being degraded (female half) would love to push this further with group humiliation.

See we do our BDSM/kink without the humiliation and degradation, we don't like that aspect, but understand others do

Fuzz

It's something I the female really enjoys. Totally respect that others don't. Everyone is different

I thought of another thing cuckqueaning.

Respect to preference

How is cuckqueaning different to a "typical" D/s relationships? They're very similar to me.

Fuzz

I meant it's another thing for my list I want to try. Sorry lol"

No need to apologise. I was just asking for clarification. There must be a difference, thought you might know.

Fuzz

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Orgasm control and breath play are the easier to mention ones. The former I've done "to" others quite a few times but not had it done to me. Breath play seems very hot but it would require a particular partner and level of trust.

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By *orkmalewithPAMan
over a year ago

York

I have the fantasy of being pegged by a woman during a long night of fun.

I have thought about letting a guy while his gf/partner is sitting on my face, but I would really need to know the couple for that to happen!

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"I would like to be naked, collared and caged.

Mrs TMN x

Mmmm this is fun!

As were the CMnf events! I love being makes and all those men in suits

Honestly, sounds like my perfect scenario. The power dynamic

It really does help to emphasise it. Even better if they sit with a foot on their knee reading a paper while sipping something like whiskey over ice *fans self*"

I would gladly be the footstool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would like to be naked, collared and caged.

Mrs TMN x

Mmmm this is fun!

As were the CMnf events! I love being makes and all those men in suits

Honestly, sounds like my perfect scenario. The power dynamic

It really does help to emphasise it. Even better if they sit with a foot on their knee reading a paper while sipping something like whiskey over ice *fans self*

I would gladly be the footstool "

Great i was just shopping for one. I wil be waiting x

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I would like to be naked, collared and caged.

Mrs TMN x

Mmmm this is fun!

As were the CMnf events! I love being makes and all those men in suits

Honestly, sounds like my perfect scenario. The power dynamic

It really does help to emphasise it. Even better if they sit with a foot on their knee reading a paper while sipping something like whiskey over ice *fans self*

I would gladly be the footstool "

Human furniture too! So many shared kinks!

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By *allgirthyMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

Another for human furniture here. And latex. And watersports. Am I weird?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Foot fetish, is that a kink

It sure is!

Love it! Painted nails, smooth soles...

Any preference of colour? "

Oh red or purple

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Another for human furniture here. And latex. And watersports. Am I weird? "

Not to me at all

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Foot fetish, is that a kink

It sure is!

Love it! Painted nails, smooth soles...

Any preference of colour?

Oh red or purple "

Purple is my favourite colour!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Foot fetish, is that a kink

It sure is!

Love it! Painted nails, smooth soles...

Any preference of colour?

Oh red or purple

Purple is my favourite colour!"

Like wise, purple lingerie is just the best as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Foot fetish, is that a kink

It sure is!

Love it! Painted nails, smooth soles...

Any preference of colour?

Id love to chat over some kink with you if you fancy it sometime

Oh red or purple

Purple is my favourite colour!"

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

All kinks and aspects of sexuality fascinate me - some may hold an interest, others I just find interesting understanding them and I find it a shame when anyone is judgemental of them out of pure ignorance or lack of at least trying to understand them - it's fine if something is not for you, or you don't think is for you - but at least accept it may be for others without needing to resort to derogatory terms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can take on others kinks easily. I love kinks and people's minds. Love to encourage my partnerskinks and fantasies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shibari.....quite literally need someone to show me the ropes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hmm where to start .........

sounding -male and female .

watersports =more than just peeing on each other in shower,

fisting -got big hands tho ....,

chastity -both ways.......

maybe sub to a dom female.......

face sitting.......

breast worship ....

genital piercings........

vacuum pumping .......

lack ot willing participants and free time .........

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london


"I'd like to play with two bi guys at the same time. I love the idea meeting with someone and stripping them naked, playing with them and they aren't allowed to remove my clothes or touch me, so cfnm pretty much. "

Mmmmmm I love both of those ideas

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

Many years ago when I started out my fantasy was was be cruelly teased and ordered around to give pleasure to a woman. When I finally met someone by the third time we met the roles got reversed and since then it is my dominant side that has been nurtured. Its an itch I would still very much love to scratch and scratch again if I met the right woman though.

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over a year ago

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

A proper fuck and leave night. Hog tied, they walk in, no talking, no kissing, no anything except fuck and leave. How many guys to do that I'd leave to hubby. If we didn't live in a world full of rampant std's I'd quite like to try the above but BB.

Also, just to be used and abused by a group of guys. No mercy shown and definitely no mercy asked for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interested in learning a bit more about cuckolding and the dynamics from the Male sub/bull and female perspective.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Foot fetish, is that a kink

It sure is!

Love it! Painted nails, smooth soles...

Any preference of colour?

Oh red or purple

Purple is my favourite colour!"

Purple looks good on you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curious about watersports

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've tried nearly every kink I'm curious about, for me it's more about finding time and opportunity

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