FabSwingers.com forum: You won't be disappointed

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What makes a guy state this?

Is it themselves they are trying to convince?

Is it arrogance?

Is it just another form of desperate plea to be given a chance?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sorry guys I cannot think of any positive perspectives, so over to you...

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Yet they never read a profile before sending those bold statements... I'm disappointed from the start!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m going to go with desperate plea?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont do this as it's even more pressure if you get a meet to leave them satisfied.

I reckon men do it to boost their ego and they have probably had a few meets where they have made the woman cum a couple of times or the woman has said she has enjoyed it

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By *hampagne_Supernova_91Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"You won't be disappointed"

Disappoints even more than originally thought

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By *eddyBearBazMan
over a year ago

St Helens

Its 1 thing i never have and never will say cause dont believe in sounding desperate. Rather a woman want to meet me for how i am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What makes a guy state this?

Is it themselves they are trying to convince?

Is it arrogance?

Is it just another form of desperate plea to be given a chance?

Deferring to the feminine, something men tend to do a lot nowadays. Unbeknownst to them, it actually works against them

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By *iBBW and hubbyCouple
over a year ago

oxford

‘You won’t be disappointed’

Generally is more disappointing than usual

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

With so many decent fellas on this site why do people continue to talk about the the desperate ones who send crude messages, Have shit pics/profiles or give abuse

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The consensus seems to be that the guy is setting himself up for a fall. I assume by raising expectations.

I feel this way when a profile states handsome/good-looking guy.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

That generally means I will be lol.

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By *ackinabox19Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

Definitely desperate plea I think single guys get caught up in trying to be different rather than just being themselves .... oh wait I’m a single guy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"With so many decent fellas on this site why do people continue to talk about the the desperate ones who send crude messages, Have shit pics/profiles or give abuse "

I don't feel this is relevant to the thread (certainly not to whom triggered this topic).

I was hoping for some positive perspectives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's why I put, i will disappoint but hey it's worth a try pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found this to be a lie, when tested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What makes a guy state this?

Is it themselves they are trying to convince?

Is it arrogance?

Is it just another form of desperate plea to be given a chance?

Read between the lines, don't set high expectations and you (women) won't be disappointed.

Not arrogance, caveat for readers/reciever

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Translation- if you don’t have any expectations you be fine

Take the pressure of these guys just come see us we’re fucking awesome

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Translation- if you don’t have any expectations you be fine

Take the pressure of these guys just come see us we’re fucking awesome

A wand is awesome. A man is someone to talk to ante and post coitus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What makes a guy state this?

Is it themselves they are trying to convince?

Is it arrogance?

Is it just another form of desperate plea to be given a chance?

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What makes a guy state this?

Is it themselves they are trying to convince?

Is it arrogance?

Is it just another form of desperate plea to be given a chance?

Yes."

Succinct

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Maybe he makes a mean cupcake and thinks your profile name indicates you would like that.

I like a good cupcake if anyone is offering.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe he makes a mean cupcake and thinks your profile name indicates you would like that.

I like a good cupcake if anyone is offering. "

I don't actually like cup cakes but Yankee candle don't do a vanilla carrot cake

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Maybe he makes a mean cupcake and thinks your profile name indicates you would like that.

I like a good cupcake if anyone is offering.

I don't actually like cup cakes but Yankee candle don't do a vanilla carrot cake

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What ..... you don’t like cupcakes. I am however partial to carrot cake as well Not Yankee candles as they give me a headache. I will continue to eat all cakes. I will gift you all the candles people keep buying me and are gathering dust.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe he makes a mean cupcake and thinks your profile name indicates you would like that.

I like a good cupcake if anyone is offering.

I don't actually like cup cakes but Yankee candle don't do a vanilla carrot cake

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Floral scents including in candles give me headaches. Fruit scents are my favourite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely desperate plea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *kbull2000Man
over a year ago

Carluke

Fantastic....a rant about guys. An original thread.

Shall we dissect another category of profile and piss about those next? Guys with beards, guys with long hair, cock pics, no pics, scots guys, English guys....ah fuck it, just guys will do.

Oh, hold on. I totally forgot to blindly agree, for fear of being categorised in the same group because that's what we're doing, right - Categorising people?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fantastic....a rant about guys. An original thread.

Shall we dissect another category of profile and piss about those next? Guys with beards, guys with long hair, cock pics, no pics, scots guys, English guys....ah fuck it, just guys will do.

Oh, hold on. I totally forgot to blindly agree, for fear of being categorised in the same group because that's what we're doing, right - Categorising people?"

Try reading before you throw your toys out of the pram.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"What makes a guy state this?

Is it themselves they are trying to convince?

Is it arrogance?

Is it just another form of desperate plea to be given a chance?

You won’t be so don’t disappoint me?

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

It really bugs me when I read verifs saying you won't be disappointed ,how the Eck do they know that

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

My strap line is "you *will* be disappointed" so not sure I'm qualified to comment...

...but I suspect those that say things like that somehow think it will make them stand out or help with getting a meet without realising it actually has the opposite effect.

In the name of balance though, *some* people on here, of all categories men and women, couples and TVs alike, make spurious claims like that as a means to stand out, or big themselves up etc - it's not just men - but seems that way because there are more of them.

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By *kbull2000Man
over a year ago

Carluke

"What makes a guy state this?

Is it themselves they are trying to convince?

Is it arrogance?

Is it just another form of desperate plea to be given a chance?

Yup...absolutely did read it. I didn't start the rant.

Question to self....why can't some accept that we're all different? Some profiles we'll like, some we won't. Profile bashing is easy and lazy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My strap line is "you *will* be disappointed" so not sure I'm qualified to comment...

...but I suspect those that say things like that somehow think it will make them stand out or help with getting a meet without realising it actually has the opposite effect.

I would assume so.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What makes a guy state this?

Is it themselves they are trying to convince?

Is it arrogance?

Is it just another form of desperate plea to be given a chance?

Yup...absolutely did read it. I didn't start the rant.

Question to self....why can't some accept that we're all different? Some profiles we'll like, some we won't. Profile bashing is easy and lazy."

It wasn't a rant because I wasn't angry. BTW I didn't state it was on a profile (because it wasn't). Also, in the second post, I asked for positive perspectives cos I couldn't think of any.

You're welcome

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"What makes a guy state this?

Is it themselves they are trying to convince?

Is it arrogance?

Is it just another form of desperate plea to be given a chance?

Yup...absolutely did read it. I didn't start the rant.

Question to self....why can't some accept that we're all different? Some profiles we'll like, some we won't. Profile bashing is easy and lazy."

Chill your beans my friend - it wasn't a rant or profile bashing - but a question, and one which baffles me at times too, as statements like that, regardless of the gender they are made by, are somewhat ridiculous as it's impossible to *know* you won't disappoint someone when you don't *know* them, their likes/dislikes etc.

Sure people are entitled to put what the heck they like on their profiles, but just the same people are entitled to query the value of them - especially as invariably it's someone with something like that on their profile that then bemoans their lack of "luck" on here.

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

I already was! The end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They don’t know your threshold for disappointment?

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

When I read that I won't be disappointed the honest truth is I already am disappointed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“no, because ‘disappointment’ will be inadequate to describe the gaping void of meh that will result in pursuing”

Is probably what it should read. it’s always better to subtly manage expectations

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By *kbull2000Man
over a year ago

Carluke

Oh, come on. There's absolutely no opportunity for anyone taking the moral high ground.

You don't like something in a profile? Fine, move on and read another. Term it a question, a rant, a snide comment , an insult or however you wish. Profile bashing is just another form of pointing the finger.

And at the risk of digging a bigger hole for myself, women get away with it far easier than guys. Because when horny, guys do most of their thinking with their little heads. Me included

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

Not all guys are the same, so the reason one guy might say this could well be different to the next guy who says it.

For some it will be arrogance - there are a lot of arrogant men and women in the world. For some it could be desperation, as there are, unsurprisingly, some desperate people too.

I suspect however that for many men, it is an attempt to project an air of confidence, and perhaps experience. It is often said that confidence is an attractive quality, and unlike muscles or skin colour or the size of one’s cock, it is a quality that can faked.

Right now in the UK we are experiencing an epidemic of male sucides. The figures are sobering. So it’s possible that male confidence is in short supply. Men like to feel attractive and desired just as much as any lady, but here, on Fab, because of the demographics, they must work 100 times harder to achieve those feelings.

So statements such as these are likely to be an attempt to just stand out, to appear confident, made by guys who are not experienced at playing this game, or not that experienced with women full stop.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"“no, because ‘disappointment’ will be inadequate to describe the gaping void of meh that will result in pursuing”

Is probably what it should read. it’s always better to subtly manage expectations "

Sounds like it should read as I won't have a gaping void

, is that synonymous with bucket fanny...

Ohhhh is he saying he has a tiny cock?

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

"Not all guys are the same, so the reason one guy might say this could well be different to the next guy who says it.

For some it will be arrogance - there are a lot of arrogant men and women in the world. For some it could be desperation, as there are, unsurprisingly, some desperate people too.

You make some good points here, the Male suicide rates are quite frightening now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh, come on. There's absolutely no opportunity for anyone taking the moral high ground.

And at the risk of digging a bigger hole for myself, women get away with it far easier than guys. Because when horny, guys do most of their thinking with their little heads. Me included

You're obviously reading with you're little head!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not all guys are the same, so the reason one guy might say this could well be different to the next guy who says it.

For some it will be arrogance - there are a lot of arrogant men and women in the world. For some it could be desperation, as there are, unsurprisingly, some desperate people too.

Thank you for this well thought out response.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh, come on. There's absolutely no opportunity for anyone taking the moral high ground.

And at the risk of digging a bigger hole for myself, women get away with it far easier than guys. Because when horny, guys do most of their thinking with their little heads. Me included

You're obviously reading with you're little head! "

Oops your

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By *kbull2000Man
over a year ago

Carluke

You're obviously reading with you're little head! "

' I love it when someone insults me. It means I don't have to be nice any more. '

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You're obviously reading with you're little head!

' I love it when someone insults me. It means I don't have to be nice any more. '

I wasn't being insulting but making an assumption due to the fact you "didn't see" that this thread has nothing whatsoever to do with profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if he feels more comfortable with a plank strapped on, that’s his business..

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By *kbull2000Man
over a year ago

Carluke

Blah, blah. Nor was there a statement of origin.

You obviously have issues with guys who boast and I dislike the propensity for public finger pointing.

Time to take the dog for its last walk.

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By *oinus1961Couple
over a year ago

Huntingdon

"When I read that I won't be disappointed the honest truth is I already am disappointed"

This??

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By *oinus1961Couple
over a year ago

Huntingdon

No idea where 2 question marks came from!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With so many decent fellas on this site why do people continue to talk about the the desperate ones who send crude messages, Have shit pics/profiles or give abuse "

Well because the decent ones don't need discussing. You just meet them and enjoy them if you want to. I bet if you started a thread about the best male meet women have had or their favourite man here you'd get loads of replies. But do you think it would make the rest of the men here feel better to hear us all cooing over some other guy who's rocked our world? I don't see what the point of a thread like that would be. This is something the OP wants opinions on. She won't want opinions on guys she likes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What makes a guy state this?

Is it themselves they are trying to convince?

Is it arrogance?

Is it just another form of desperate plea to be given a chance?

I gave three chances to a guy who claimed I won't be disappointed. I've never been more disappointed (in sexual way) in my life. All three times. Why three times? Well there was always an excuse of why he wasn't any good and how brilliant he'll be next time if I gave him another chance

So now I could be loving everything about a man but as soon as I see/hear him saying "you won't be disappointed" - that's it, will never meet him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It gets an eye roll from me and a "right" statement.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Stupidity and desperation generally, in my experience

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"if he feels more comfortable with a plank strapped on, that’s his business.. "

Sorry, I'm lost.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'd like to thank everyone for their input

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What makes a guy state this?

Is it themselves they are trying to convince?

Is it arrogance?

Is it just another form of desperate plea to be given a chance?

This is something I would never put on a message or my profile. Mainly because one man’s idea of ‘not disappointing’ is different to another man’s. And it sounds desperate. Just go with the flow and take it easy is all I would suggest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always respond to those messages with;

"It looks a bit like a Cock, only SMALLER!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We always respond to those messages with;

"It looks a bit like a Cock, only SMALLER!

Harsh

(Steals line for later usage...)

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