FabSwingers.com forum: What's the point in winking?

By *na78 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

That's right, I said winking! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone sent me a wink earlier, I winked back and now we’re chatting. I like the winks

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By *histlerMan
over a year ago

Guildford

"Someone sent me a wink earlier, I winked back and now we’re chatting. I like the winks "

... everyone rushes to wink at hippychick

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

My name is Goodnite and I am a wink deleter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Delete.

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By *na78 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Someone sent me a wink earlier, I winked back and now we’re chatting. I like the winks "

I'd wink over you anytime! Lol xxx

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By *na78 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"My name is Goodnite and I am a wink deleter. "

Bbbbooooo! Lol x

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

We like winks. It's a way of showing interest before messaging. Quick and efficient!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a good gauge if someone is interested

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

I only ever wink back. If they want to message after that then it's up to them

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We wink if we would be interested in meeting, they wink back engage, or vice versa

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Bit of an icebreaker...

Totally in favour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like winks.

I've had 2 meets off the back of them, all good.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I d9nt tend to look at winks

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By *na78 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Must just be unpopular in Scotland then?!

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By *na78 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I d9nt tend to look at winks

That's a shame because your pictures are prime winking material!!! Lol x

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By *hine100Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I've never had a wink

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By *na78 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I've never had a wink

You're a lying winker!!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never had a wink

Just sent you a wink so you don’t feel left out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We look at winks the same as the obviously random messages we get, who haven’t read profile or have any real understanding of us from our profile.

We don’t right them off and don’t blame them for casting the net as you never know

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By *otFun1976Man
over a year ago

Hove

"We like winks. It's a way of showing interest before messaging. Quick and efficient!"

Exactly this.

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By *rumcouple2013Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth

We like the option to wink. It’s a simple way of showing interest in someone/ couple. If the wink back we normally send a message and get the ball rolling.

Must say we do get very like response from the ladies. Guess it not their thing. No response, we just move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do love the rare wink, but whenever I mail them (or her) to say thank you, it never leads anywhere!

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

"Someone sent me a wink earlier, I winked back and now we’re chatting. I like the winks "

Yes that is the idea but I think we have a Winner

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

"I d9nt tend to look at winks

I wonder if she’s going to start looking now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone sent me a wink earlier, I winked back and now we’re chatting. I like the winks

... everyone rushes to wink at hippychick

Pahaha

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

For us winking is just a non-intrusive way of saying "nice profile/photos/body" without expecting any response. If anyone checks our profile and makes contact after a wink, so much the better.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"Someone sent me a wink earlier, I winked back and now we’re chatting. I like the winks "

Oh do you now?

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By *estinyIsAllCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

We like the wink feature.

So many people ask for a message, you can put the effort in to sending one (and it isn't a generic "copy and paste job like many do) and you get ignored. Why waste your time? Send a wink, get one back, send a message. At least you know there's a mutual interest at that point.

~ Her x

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I send winks as a nod of appreciation, usually as the profile is miles away and there's probably no possibility of ever meeting, but I still like their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone sent me a wink earlier, I winked back and now we’re chatting. I like the winks

Oh do you now?

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

We like winks.

Have met some lovely people through winks.

Delete quite a few as well though.

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

I ignore them as I regard them as lazy.

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

If someone looks at your profile it may be that it’s just curiosity - a wink means there’s more interest I think

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

We prefer a wink back and forth to see if there’s interest first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a single guy, I'll take any form of attention!

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

"We like the wink feature.

~ Her x"

Exactly! You guys are on my wavelength.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bulk delete them...

always...not even looking .

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By *awk90Man
over a year ago

Amsterdam

To me it's a probe for interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My name is Goodnite and I am a wink deleter. "

So are we!

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

None ... never get any

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We don't even look at them anymore, got so sick of replying to winks and never getting a reply. It now says in our profile we don't look at winks so if we do receive one it just shows said person has not been reading our profile. Job done, who needs to set filters when some filter themselves out

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By *H2002Couple
over a year ago

Burton on Trent

We love the wink system, easily identifies interested people. We normally use the wink, wink then message system

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By *haneleviMan
over a year ago

Kidderminster

I do it if I'm interested in someone and not got the balls to message randomly. If i get a wink back i know i can haha

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

"It’s a good gauge if someone is interested

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Not if you either ignore or delete winks like we do .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just delete them all.. they're pointless

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By *ony5Man
over a year ago

somewhere

I'm a big fan winking to express some interest.

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By *reason69Couple
over a year ago

Blackburn

Winks r OK, cant see the point of typing out or copy paste what is already on profile. Xx

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By *estinyIsAllCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I love the contrasting views on this, so many say they're pointless while others say the exact opposite. This is what the forums are all about!

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

I like a nice wink

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By *ature friendly coupleCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

we find winks lazy so ignore them,easy to just say hi

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"we find winks lazy so ignore them,easy to just say hi"

Its so easy to type out a quick message of introduction, expressing how much you like their profile and inviting them to drop a message back if they like your profile too. Much more personal and putting in effort is how we all get along in life successfully, no effort, no return

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By *nsatiablegreeneyesCouple
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"I d9nt tend to look at winks

Ha ha no wonder you’ve not seen my wink

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