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Why don’t ladies like receiving oral

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve been reading on some of the other posts that lots of ladies say they don’t like receiving oral sex.

I thought it would be the opposite.. what’s not to like?

Ladies, can you explain?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cause most men seem to think they’re amazing at it when they’re not.

It’s usually to gentle for me anyway.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

It gets quickly very very boring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it if done right

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

I tend to think most men either do it to long and don't change what or how they are doing it, which can make it very boring. There's more then the clit to lick and suck

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"It gets quickly very very boring. "

Yup, this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to think most men either do it to long and don't change what or how they are doing it, which can make it very boring. There's more then the clit to lick and suck"

This !

Latching onto my clit and sucking like a Dyson really is not going to work for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all about paying attention to how shes reacting... when you aint getting moans, twitches, shudders or a hand(s) forcing your face into their pussy you may as well just plug her with your cock and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cause most men seem to think they’re amazing at it when they’re not.

It’s usually to gentle for me anyway. "

I'm amazing at it... fact ask any of my verifications.....in fact it's my fave I'd be happy to meet a lady to just give her oral...no reciprocal treatment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it as an appetiser. Leave me wanting more.

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland


"I tend to think most men either do it to long and don't change what or how they are doing it, which can make it very boring. There's more then the clit to lick and suck

This !

Latching onto my clit and sucking like a Dyson really is not going to work for me."
I never used to be a fan but had one of the best oral experiences at the weekend ,done right its mind blowing ..

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire

Lol my Mrs loves it from either sex. If anything she worries it'll make her squirt though (shocked the hell out of one poor lady who got a face full lol)... A girl I knew in the past got no pleasurable feelings at all from having her pussy licked !, yet suck her breasts for just 5 seconds and she'd orgasm

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire


"Latching onto my clit and sucking like a Dyson really is not going to work for me.I never used to be a fan but had one of the best oral experiences at the weekend ,done right its mind blowing .. "

Exactly, there is an art to it. Making her feel that you are thoroughly enjoying it helps too . Reminds me of cold 'mechanical' bj's I've had, urgh !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would have thought it would be exactly the same as men

If someone isn’t sucking my cock in a way I enjoy then what’s the point? It’s extremely rare I actually cum from a blowjob but when done right I absolutely enjoy it!

As for women I would like to think the same applies. A pussy and a tongue do not make a one trick pony. Just as every one of us individual guys enjoys our cock sucked in a different manner... women also respond in different ways. Just because you’ve made one woman squirt scream gush or shudder and collapse doesn’t mean the next one will respond the same way or even enjoy the same technique, go with the flow, be aware of her responses to certain touches and don’t use your tongue like a rigid blunt object to stab away at her with (your cock does a good enough job at that)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont like it from meets on here because no one has ever done it the way I like it. Always too hard and they seem to suck away for ages. Everyone is so different with what they like it’s almost impossible to get it right on a first time meet. However hubby has obviously had plenty of practice with me and never fails to make me cum. So can’t say I don’t like oral......it’s great when it’s right but absolutely horrible when it’s wrong.

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By *spotpleasurerMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Top tip for men: Find out how the lady likes oral

Top tip for women: Let the man know how you like it

Communication is key, there's no point tonguing away for ages if it's not being enjoyed. On the other hand, if the lady just lies back quietly and gives no hints of what she likes, that's not helpful either.

First-time meets can be particularly challenging as you have to read the body language and adapt to the partner's reaction.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Because a lot of people talk about The One True Way to do it, which is often boring, painful, or both. It's more about them and their ego than me. Sod that.

And personally they're my least powerful orgasm type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Truthfully it does actually depend on the receivers body, i was with a girl who was impossible to make orgasm from anything, foreplay, oral, penetration. Some ppl just dont feel it no matter what you do. Though its a little different for men, i mean getting mine sucked feels real nice i could sit there for hours getting sucked off lol but it does actually take some skill and technique to make me cum from a blowjob. Sometimes its not your technique that could be bad, sometimes certain ppl are just a lot harder to pleasure than others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve been reading on some of the other posts that lots of ladies say they don’t like receiving oral sex.

I thought it would be the opposite.. what’s not to like?

Ladies, can you explain?"

Love oral when it's done right by someone who knows what they are doing. Most guys are crap at it from my experiences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve been reading on some of the other posts that lots of ladies say they don’t like receiving oral sex.

I thought it would be the opposite.. what’s not to like?

Ladies, can you explain?"

Love oral when it's done right by someone who knows what they are doing. Most guys are crap at it from my experiences

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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago

Heaven in the Midlands


"I tend to think most men either do it to long and don't change what or how they are doing it, which can make it very boring. There's more then the clit to lick and suck

This !

Latching onto my clit and sucking like a Dyson really is not going to work for me."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve been reading on some of the other posts that lots of ladies say they don’t like receiving oral sex.

I thought it would be the opposite.. what’s not to like?

Ladies, can you explain?"

Love oral when it's done right by someone who knows what they are doing. Most guys are crap at it from my experiences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women prefer clitoral stimulation over penetration or vice versa or both to hit the big O. And sometimes it just depends on the mood at the time on which of the above is the preference!

Sometimes I want oral other times I want something else.

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By *atchusplay1000Couple
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

Oral is good in small doses. I wouldn't want to do it all night long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife loves it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men really delude themselves into thinking they are awesome at it when often they are not. Also not everyone is into it as not everyone is into anal a guy may think whats not to like about that.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Some men really delude themselves into thinking they are awesome at it when often they are not. Also not everyone is into it as not everyone is into anal a guy may think whats not to like about that."

This too.

Sitting through something boring, painful, or both, then being expected to stroke the guy's ego that he's an incredible lover and so selfless and giving doing this wonderful thing for you... Does that sound fun to you?

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By *ichiebigMan
over a year ago

nenagh

Do any of the ladies agree that it can be much more satisfying to receive oral from another woman than from a man, it seems obvious that a woman should know her way around a pussy better than a man as she has one herself, just as i find that as a man the best oral I have received is usually from another man because he has a cock himself and knows what makes them tick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally an issue with the skill of the person giving.

I have also experienced women with body insecurities not wishing to receive oral.

Mrs J.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Do any of the ladies agree that it can be much more satisfying to receive oral from another woman than from a man, it seems obvious that a woman should know her way around a pussy better than a man as she has one herself, just as i find that as a man the best oral I have received is usually from another man because he has a cock himself and knows what makes them tick"

Not really, because all women are different. I know what works for me, not what works for any other woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg it gets boring and so so many men think it's the be all and end all when they're not actually that gifted at it!

I can take it or leave it tbh ... when I'm in the mood with the right person the oh my yes yes yes, but usually just not that interested really!

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

Do it whilst making a Red Indian sound on her clit.....

Should get a reaction at least ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do it whilst making a Red Indian sound on her clit.....

Should get a reaction at least ??"

Probably Excessive laughter.

Communication is key. Every woman likes it differently. And very often if you're off by 1mm in the wrong place, or too low, too high, too central, or a million other things and you do one thing wrong, she loses it and you have to start over.

That's why you need to actually talk to each other.

The remarks from women who said latching on like a Dyson made me laugh. I suspect that's what happens when a guy learns his technique from porn movies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do it whilst making a Red Indian sound on her clit.....

Should get a reaction at least ??

Probably Excessive laughter.

Communication is key. Every woman likes it differently. And very often if you're off by 1mm in the wrong place, or too low, too high, too central, or a million other things and you do one thing wrong, she loses it and you have to start over.

That's why you need to actually talk to each other.

The remarks from women who said latching on like a Dyson made me laugh. I suspect that's what happens when a guy learns his technique from porn movies.

"

This.

Yes every woman is different but if you're attentive and actually observant of a woman's reactions then you shouldn't have too hard a time!

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole


"Would have thought it would be exactly the same as men

If someone isn’t sucking my cock in a way I enjoy then what’s the point? It’s extremely rare I actually cum from a blowjob but when done right I absolutely enjoy it!

As for women I would like to think the same applies. A pussy and a tongue do not make a one trick pony. Just as every one of us individual guys enjoys our cock sucked in a different manner... women also respond in different ways. Just because you’ve made one woman squirt scream gush or shudder and collapse doesn’t mean the next one will respond the same way or even enjoy the same technique, go with the flow, be aware of her responses to certain touches and don’t use your tongue like a rigid blunt object to stab away at her with (your cock does a good enough job at that) "

Omg, that was never written by a man! So well written, must of been by a woman. This is exactly it! I could not of written it better myself. Well done

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Mainly a guy's stubble

'gonna lick till you cum' - off putting

too intense, not at all sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to think most men either do it to long and don't change what or how they are doing it, which can make it very boring. There's more then the clit to lick and suck"

Absolutely this...

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By *ubmissive guyMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I was gutted, when I joined this site and read all these posts about Women not enjoying oral. Im sexually submissive, a bit to sexual for BDSM sites and not sexual enough, for FAB. I only joined, in the hope, I would find someone local who enjoys oral Oh well back to BDSM sites then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer a mixture...licking and fingering at same time. Or toy and licking.

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By *rof_cplCouple
over a year ago

Gerrards Cross


"Top tip for men: Find out how the lady likes oral

Top tip for women: Let the man know how you like it

Communication is key

"

^^^ Absolutely this. Same the other way round too. Not all blow jobs are equal.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Top tip for men: Find out how the lady likes oral

Top tip for women: Let the man know how you like it

Communication is key

^^^ Absolutely this. Same the other way round too. Not all blow jobs are equal."

Definitely. Talk to the people you're fucking. And listen.

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By *c1989Woman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Cause most men seem to think they’re amazing at it when they’re not.

It’s usually to gentle for me anyway.

I'm amazing at it... fact ask any of my verifications.....in fact it's my fave I'd be happy to meet a lady to just give her oral...no reciprocal treatment "

That's part of the problem. Its foreplay. Not the main attraction.

I get first messages that go on like you do. It's an instant no thanks.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Omg it gets boring and so so many men think it's the be all and end all when they're not actually that gifted at it!

I can take it or leave it tbh ... when I'm in the mood with the right person the oh my yes yes yes, but usually just not that interested really! "

It's like I'm expected to like it and be grateful for something I'm not that fussed about. And then I feel obligated to act that way and meh. I'd much rather my partner focused on what I actually enjoy and not treat me as an identikit.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Omg it gets boring and so so many men think it's the be all and end all when they're not actually that gifted at it!

I can take it or leave it tbh ... when I'm in the mood with the right person the oh my yes yes yes, but usually just not that interested really!

It's like I'm expected to like it and be grateful for something I'm not that fussed about. And then I feel obligated to act that way and meh. I'd much rather my partner focused on what I actually enjoy and not treat me as an identikit."

Yes. I'm not going to be grateful for something I don't want.

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By *achelnMarkCouple
over a year ago

Mid Wiltshire


"It gets quickly very very boring.

Yup, this. "

Sadly this. Very very unlikley to be successful with just oral or anyone with an oral fixation

Get rather fed up of all the guys comments on its all down to technique and how good they are. Anyone with "oral expert" gets and deleted.

Fair to say do enjoy it from M and F but not for long, and fair to say its guys mainly that think its the ultimate success

But can't complain, I can cum from penetration which many can't.

We are all different

x

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By *ir-spunk-alotMan
over a year ago

Southern England

So many males claiming the way to do it hoping it will lead to a meet. Cringe.

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By *c1989Woman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Do any of the ladies agree that it can be much more satisfying to receive oral from another woman than from a man, it seems obvious that a woman should know her way around a pussy better than a man as she has one herself, just as i find that as a man the best oral I have received is usually from another man because he has a cock himself and knows what makes them tick"

There are some statistic to suggest its more likely a woman will orgasm when with another woman.

But you know what they say about statistics.

I couldnt quote them but they are on the Netflix series Explained episode that is all about the female orgasm and why it's so difficult to achieve when there is a man involved.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I’ve been reading on some of the other posts that lots of ladies say they don’t like receiving oral sex.

I thought it would be the opposite.. what’s not to like?

Ladies, can you explain?"

I don't like receiving oral, I appreciate it when men accept that I don't and don't question of disbelieve me.

I notice that most responses from men and women imply that women will like oral sex if only it's done right. I'm happy to accept that I'm unusual but I'm quite happy to never receive oral again and I genuinely wish people would accept that.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Throw me in a swing and pretend I’m spaghetti

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By *na78Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Mostly because guys go at it like a tramp eating a steak bake!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no cock involved in me receiving oral sex

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By *na78Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Again, some do and some don't, accept it and move onto something she does want, women have so many erogenous zones, why not ask her what she really enjoys and try giving that to her!?

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By *na78Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"There's no cock involved in me receiving oral sex "

So you've never had oral while a cock is involved???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Omg it gets boring and so so many men think it's the be all and end all when they're not actually that gifted at it!

I can take it or leave it tbh ... when I'm in the mood with the right person the oh my yes yes yes, but usually just not that interested really!

It's like I'm expected to like it and be grateful for something I'm not that fussed about. And then I feel obligated to act that way and meh. I'd much rather my partner focused on what I actually enjoy and not treat me as an identikit."

Oh so this ^^^

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Maybe because so many guys say, I can give amazing oral for hours till you’re fully satisfied.

Translation can’t get a stiffy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's no cock involved in me receiving oral sex

So you've never had oral while a cock is involved???"

Doesn't interest me

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I just find it boring and annoying, I tend to just avoid it now cos I'm sick of staring at the ceiling until they take the hint.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

I Love it, I’m surprised to read people don’t enjoy it, there was another post on the other day with lots of people saying they don’t. Wills the best at it though, so I’m spoilt, gives me body shaking Orgasm’s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because one has to be best to give oral to a woman, it's not everyones cup of tea. Our experience tells us men under 40 take time to find the clit and in that melle they nibble whatever they can find around pussy except the real part .

Stubbles and beards make more difficult to get pleasure.

Using teeth ,dry fingers,nails ...fuck sake ...lots of things to consider

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Cause most men seem to think they’re amazing at it when they’re not.

It’s usually to gentle for me anyway.

I'm amazing at it... fact ask any of my verifications.....in fact it's my fave I'd be happy to meet a lady to just give her oral...no reciprocal treatment "

Only one of your verifications said you're good at oral, out of 12 veris.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cause most men seem to think they’re amazing at it when they’re not.

It’s usually to gentle for me anyway.

I'm amazing at it... fact ask any of my verifications.....in fact it's my fave I'd be happy to meet a lady to just give her oral...no reciprocal treatment

Only one of your verifications said you're good at oral, out of 12 veris. "

Never met a women that didn't like getting her clit sucked.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Cause most men seem to think they’re amazing at it when they’re not.

It’s usually to gentle for me anyway.

I'm amazing at it... fact ask any of my verifications.....in fact it's my fave I'd be happy to meet a lady to just give her oral...no reciprocal treatment

Only one of your verifications said you're good at oral, out of 12 veris.

Never met a women that didn't like getting her clit sucked. "

I don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I Love it, I’m surprised to read people don’t enjoy it, there was another post on the other day with lots of people saying they don’t. Wills the best at it though, so I’m spoilt, gives me body shaking Orgasm’s "

Im the same, I have my most intense orgasms from oral. But like you I have a partner who knows exactly how to do it which I think makes all the difference for enjoyment really. I’ve had it from others and been sort of meh, it was alright, but my OH blows my mind

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Because most men only pass by or do the bare minimum, most ladies think men spend longer licking a stamp before putting the letter in the envelope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's dull.

Only one man has ever made me feel anything pleasurable through oral. More often, it's too protracted, either too gentle or too painful, and wastes time when all I really want is penetration. Yes, I do communicate this. No: the guy is usually too egotistical/fixated/stubborn to listen.

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By *ilver_StarMan
over a year ago

Warwickshire

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By *ilver_StarMan
over a year ago

Warwickshire

It's so variable!

I had a girlfriend who totally craved oral... she loved cock, but her favourite was getting licked/sucked to orgasm.

My ex-wife enjoyed oral, but had never cum through oral until we met.

Current partner loves oral, but it's not a big thing for her and rarely orgasms through it... but she loves sucking cock - i swear she cums when i cum in her mouth. She is exceptional at it too.

Everyone is different - thank god!

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By *na78Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"It's dull.

Only one man has ever made me feel anything pleasurable through oral. More often, it's too protracted, either too gentle or too painful, and wastes time when all I really want is penetration. Yes, I do communicate this. No: the guy is usually too egotistical/fixated/stubborn to listen. "

What an arse then, communication and reaction is key! If she's not liking it you should stop! Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most of them can't be arsed cleaning their stinking fannies

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By *ng1983Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon tyne

Because *most* guys do it to massage their own ego and not because they want to pleasure a woman. Too much pressure to cum is off putting.

Gem

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"most of them can't be arsed cleaning their stinking fannies "

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By *ng1983Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon tyne


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Never met a women that didn't like getting her clit sucked. "

I can't stand my clit being sucked, it just hurts

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By *ackinabox19Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

I’m certainly not going to pretend im a expert but if you have the right connection mentally with the person the intensity and mind set definitely changes how any sexual contact works and feels, some guys just think they can flick or lick a clit and it’s going to be monsoon season !! Personally I have to get the mind engaged first and that’s both not just mine. Think of receiving a blow job ? Some times its nice for her to go slow and intense maintaining eye contact during, sometimes its nicer when she just goes for it !! The scenario and build up changes how it feels and that the mind working not just your cock and I can imagine it’s the same for her ??? Unless I’m mistaken ???

Ladies ???????

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I’m certainly not going to pretend im a expert but if you have the right connection mentally with the person the intensity and mind set definitely changes how any sexual contact works and feels, some guys just think they can flick or lick a clit and it’s going to be monsoon season !! Personally I have to get the mind engaged first and that’s both not just mine. Think of receiving a blow job ? Some times its nice for her to go slow and intense maintaining eye contact during, sometimes its nicer when she just goes for it !! The scenario and build up changes how it feels and that the mind working not just your cock and I can imagine it’s the same for her ??? Unless I’m mistaken ???

Ladies ???????"

Yep! Any guy who understands this will also understand that if a woman says she doesn't like oral there are a thousand other ways for them to enjoy each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's dull.

Only one man has ever made me feel anything pleasurable through oral. More often, it's too protracted, either too gentle or too painful, and wastes time when all I really want is penetration. Yes, I do communicate this. No: the guy is usually too egotistical/fixated/stubborn to listen. "

This

Up until my partner the best oral received was from other ladies. Until then all I was getting is a quick lick and a flick. Before they wanted to go for their target which was the dip and the only thing they are really interested in.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I love it.

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

I love receiving oral when it’s done in the right way for me, but not many men get it right. The women have been better, but there have also been some men that were absolutely Amaaazing at it. Not least because you could tell they really enjoy doing it.

Sadly there are a lot of men that think that licking your clit halfheartedly for a couple of minutes entitles them to a blow job

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By *incsladyandscotsmanCouple
over a year ago

North fife

For me oral is something I prefer to keep to long term partners for many of the reasons above..

I want to feel comfortable enough with someone that I can tell them what I like and don't like.

I've had a bad experience with stubble and it was not pleasant!

I find it incredibly difficult to cum from oral so often get frustrated by it haha much prefer oral and fingering at the same time.

L xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cause most men seem to think they’re amazing at it when they’re not.

It’s usually to gentle for me anyway. "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it

But like anything if it's not done right for me then it's a bit meh ...

And some men need to realise that stubble hurts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love it

But like anything if it's not done right for me then it's a bit meh ...

And some men need to realise that stubble hurts "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve been reading on some of the other posts that lots of ladies say they don’t like receiving oral sex.

I thought it would be the opposite.. what’s not to like?

Ladies, can you explain?

I don't like receiving oral, I appreciate it when men accept that I don't and don't question of disbelieve me.

I notice that most responses from men and women imply that women will like oral sex if only it's done right. I'm happy to accept that I'm unusual but I'm quite happy to never receive oral again and I genuinely wish people would accept that. "

Oh yes you're not alone. They're quite a few of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's about watching her movements and changing the place, speed, tempo and friction to play her right. When you get her responding then slow it and starting again to build it up, Repetitive licking etc with no interaction or change ain't going to cut it. Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh I can lick for hours = oh im so not meeting you ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to start of slow by lickin her clit den you start to skudevur tongue in to that wet pussy till u taste them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're having to lick for hours then you're doing something wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it if done correctly!

Hate when they have the right tempo and speed then they switch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I cant feel much down there sensation wise. I can feel someone is touching/licking etc but theres no sensation. It's not unpleasant but also doesn't really do anything either.

It takes a really, really long time to get me off through oral, absolutely nothing to do with the guy I'm with I just seem defective in that area and certainly wouldnt want a one off meet to waste time trying.

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

Because I'm bloody bored and busy planning my shopping list after about 10 mins.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

We are all different and like oral performed in a way unique to us. Same as a BJ. Sometimes however I just want to fuck. No foreplay.

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

Because everyone has different things they like simple

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

The simple answer is.. because they don't.

Brat never liked it. When we first got together, she out right told me, so we didn't do it.

One night she decided she wanted me try.

So I did and she loved it. Now it's a regular occurrence.

She still doesn't like it when others do it.. and she'll make that clear she doesn't like it and it won't happen with anyone and still gets crap like "oh you'll like it when I do it.. I'm great.. I can do it for hours.. I never have complaints.." And that's men and women.

It's just embarrassing. People need to put their ego down and respect people's preferences.

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By *khotcouple20Couple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

I love jakes tongue teasing all of my holes.. Not gonna lie..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would have thought it would be exactly the same as men

If someone isn’t sucking my cock in a way I enjoy then what’s the point? It’s extremely rare I actually cum from a blowjob but when done right I absolutely enjoy it!

As for women I would like to think the same applies. A pussy and a tongue do not make a one trick pony. Just as every one of us individual guys enjoys our cock sucked in a different manner... women also respond in different ways. Just because you’ve made one woman squirt scream gush or shudder and collapse doesn’t mean the next one will respond the same way or even enjoy the same technique, go with the flow, be aware of her responses to certain touches and don’t use your tongue like a rigid blunt object to stab away at her with (your cock does a good enough job at that)

Omg, that was never written by a man! So well written, must of been by a woman. This is exactly it! I could not of written it better myself. Well done "

I just had to check in my trousers..... definitely Male here But thank you for the compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s something I love doing and as I’ve had a hand on the back of my head pushing me closer and lost count of the amount of tines I’ve had thighs clamped around my head. I can only assume not all women find it boring

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"It’s something I love doing and as I’ve had a hand on the back of my head pushing me closer and lost count of the amount of tines I’ve had thighs clamped around my head. I can only assume not all women find it boring"

Obviously not all women find it boring. You know women aren't all the same right?

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

I thought that licking a clit would be the best way to make a lady cum

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"I thought that licking a clit would be the best way to make a lady cum "

You thought wrong Sonny Jim!

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Hurts if you lick directly on the clit for too long.

Same as a woman rubbing her finger on the very tip of a cock for a long period of time, it becomes sore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally this!!!


"I tend to think most men either do it to long and don't change what or how they are doing it, which can make it very boring. There's more then the clit to lick and suck

This !

Latching onto my clit and sucking like a Dyson really is not going to work for me."

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Thought I was the only one who did lists whilst receiving oral

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

My apologies ladies

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Lets talk to eachother during sex.

We're all different and like subtly and sometimes radically different techniques. When I'm with someone new I wanna know what pleasures them .. and if my 'go to' techniques arent quite doin it .. I'm not going to take it personally..I've had plenty success already .. but I wanna know what I can do to switch it up. Their pleasure is my pleasure. I dont repeat with partners who can't communicate around the experience.

And vice versa .. I'm going to say what I like.

Nothing more sexy than communication in bed.. and that includes saying what you want/hearing what they want.

X

Tell it how it is .. it's sexy and better for everyone!

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Lets talk to eachother during sex.

We're all different and like subtly and sometimes radically different techniques. When I'm with someone new I wanna know what pleasures them .. and if my 'go to' techniques arent quite doin it .. I'm not going to take it personally..I've had plenty success already .. but I wanna know what I can do to switch it up. Their pleasure is my pleasure. I dont repeat with partners who can't communicate around the experience.

And vice versa .. I'm going to say what I like.

Nothing more sexy than communication in bed.. and that includes saying what you want/hearing what they want.

X

Tell it how it is .. it's sexy and better for everyone! "

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

Well I would love to talk to you more about this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different for all women, you have to judge reactions and work on different parts! I find some like slow clit play where as some just like it sucked and nibble and caressed with the tounge all over! Staying aware of her breathing patterns while playing helps to judge wether she is enjoying it or not. And some will just tell you what they want!

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