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By *rof_cpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Gerrards Cross

Some people on the forums seem to have trouble getting any attention, some people (generally single ladies) say they get so many they can't read them.

I'd be interested to know from a few singles and couples...

1) How many unsolicited winks do you get in an average day?

2) How many unsolicited messages?

3) Are you a single man/woman, couple etc?

4) Do you block any age ranges or singles from messaging you?

I say "unsolicited" because clearly if you're sending loads of winks and messages that's going to skew the results.

Not very scientific, I know, but I'd love to see a small sample of the results so we can compare.

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By *rof_cpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Gerrards Cross

And to answer this ourselves...

1) We get a few winks a day

2) Maybe 1 or 2 messages from people we don't know.

3) We're a couple

4) We block single men from messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One or two winks a day

Good few unsolicited messages a day

We are a couple

No singles can message us, think we have an age limit too.

Got 65 views today so far...dont know if thats alot or not. No one to compare to!

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Today 150 messages 1420 views and lots of winks

Reason for this was I uploaded a new pic

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

We blocked single men and now maybe get 3 winks a week and maybe a message or two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Today 150 messages 1420 views and lots of winks

Reason for this was I uploaded a new pic "

Holy crap!!

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru


"Today 150 messages 1420 views and lots of winks

Reason for this was I uploaded a new pic "

A single lady

Filters set and age range

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By *orksbiguyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

usually no winks

no messages

single male

open to everyone

no idea why im still on here lol

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By *ub_n_wifeCouple
over a year ago

Spilsby

1) A couple but nothing major

2) Depends on the status written on our profile but 1-2 if we’ve not been overly active.

3) we’re a couple

4) We don’t block anyone no, you just never know if there’s a diamond in there lol

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I would say a lovely sweet FA

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By *oguish1Man
over a year ago

Carrigrohane

Zero

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By *ocketman20Man
over a year ago

Douglas

Loads when I put a new spunking video on my profile.

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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago

Heaven in the Midlands

1 or 2 winks per day.

3 or 4 msgs per week.

We're a couple.

Age limited only.

RVx

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By *BW_and_BeauCouple
over a year ago

Tameside

1. Winks? About 7-8

2. Messages? Two or three a day

3. Couple f/m

4. 42+ can’t message (half your age plus seven rule)

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By *andyMinx_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds

1) Around 3 on average (4 today)

2) Somewhere between 1 and 5 on average (3 today)

3) I'm a single "etc"....

4) I have an age range set and cannot be messaged by newbies or those who are not verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a lot

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By *ilkchocolate87Man
over a year ago

sw london

None

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1) 0 winks per day

2) 0 messages per day

3) Single male

4) Single males, MM couples and TV/TS blocked from messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few here and there but all the good guys are getting lost with all the desperate and seedy guys that bombard women’s mail box as I chat and then nothing as I believe women now can’t be bothered to read their male

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By *ilkchocolate87Man
over a year ago

sw london

Mail ^

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By *rank speakerMan
over a year ago

Worcester


"Today 150 messages 1420 views and lots of winks

Reason for this was I uploaded a new pic "

I rem_mber when I was last on here as a couple our views rocketed whenever my partner loaded a new picture. We often got best part of a hundred messages a day but when she was previously on as a single girl frequently received 200,300 a day! I would think that is fairly typical? As a single guy if I get more than 20 views a day I think I've done well! And unsolicited mail from other than gay or bi guys is unheard of! I feel privileged if I actually get a reply from a lady who I've messaged!

Such is life??? Rather shows the ratio Male to female?

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

I get 00000 and more 0000

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

I used to get around 50 messages per day until I discovered filters, now maybe 10, but fabbed pics have gone up as they try to get attention

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By *ilver_StarMan
over a year ago

Warwickshire

All depends if I’m online and using mobile “see who is near” and/or participating in the forum. If I’m active then 3 or 4 winks/messages a day ... if offline, a couple a week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry, too busy with messages, winks, invites etc....

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

4/5 winks

Around 10/15 messages a day - only age filter in place.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

We're a couple - we have filters set to not allow messages from anyone without public pics but that doesn't work.

We don't really count and as there's two of us on and off here all day, it's hard to give definite figures but we get around ten winks and twenty messages each day. More if we've just uploaded pics or changed status.

Bry (and Char)

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By *pforfun1234562016Couple
over a year ago

leamington spa

Maybe 2 winks and very occasional message if we lucky lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely the whole point of winks and messages is to get to know people your interested in

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire

Lol I must get around 0.05 per day. A young lady I know 350/day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1) winks - 2 in past 4 weeks.

2 messages - 7 in past 4 weeks. 1 from a couple who I did try to respond to and the rest from guys asking me to try bi - which I'm not interested in

3) Single guy

4) I don't think I have blocked anyone

I dread to think how many unsolicited mail and winks are received by women so at least try to make mine relevant to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 5 a day,,,,,oops you meant WINKS

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By *rK MrsJCouple
over a year ago

Kidderminster


"Some people on the forums seem to have trouble getting any attention, some people (generally single ladies) say they get so many they can't read them.

I'd be interested to know from a few singles and couples...

1) How many unsolicited winks do you get in an average day?

2) How many unsolicited messages?

3) Are you a single man/woman, couple etc?

4) Do you block any age ranges or singles from messaging you?

I say "unsolicited" because clearly if you're sending loads of winks and messages that's going to skew the results.

Not very scientific, I know, but I'd love to see a small sample of the results so we can compare.

"

1) 0-1

2) 0-1

3) Couple

4) over 60s, males and tv/ts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Few winks

Occasional message

Single guy (obviously)

Filters on men, mm, tv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1) How many unsolicited winks do you get in an average day?

As few as none, as many as a dozen depending on the day and whether we're online I guess!

2) How many unsolicited messages?

1 or 2

3) Are you a single man/woman, couple etc?

A couple

4) Do you block any age ranges or singles from messaging you?

Single males blocked from messaging most of the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no messages just looks off of TV/TS and occasionally ladies, but no ladies ever message me sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very little

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Maybe one wink a week.

No random messages

We’re a couple.

We did get a lot of attention at the start though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people on the forums seem to have trouble getting any attention, some people (generally single ladies) say they get so many they can't read them.

I'd be interested to know from a few singles and couples...

1) How many unsolicited winks do you get in an average day?

2) How many unsolicited messages?

3) Are you a single man/woman, couple etc?

4) Do you block any age ranges or singles from messaging you?

I say "unsolicited" because clearly if you're sending loads of winks and messages that's going to skew the results.

Not very scientific, I know, but I'd love to see a small sample of the results so we can compare.

"

As a "single" (here anyway) male, after extensive review and careful calculations, on average I get:

1) Winks - 0

2) Messages - 0

4) Don't block anyone at all.

It's a cruel, cruel world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1) How many unsolicited winks do you get in an average day?

Not sure really between 6/10 a day.

2) How many unsolicited messages? between 5/15 a day

3) Are you a single man/woman, couple etc?

We are a couple

4) Do you block any age ranges or singles from messaging you?

Yes age 35+

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"Some people on the forums seem to have trouble getting any attention, some people (generally single ladies) say they get so many they can't read them.

I'd be interested to know from a few singles and couples...

1) How many unsolicited winks do you get in an average day?

2) How many unsolicited messages?

3) Are you a single man/woman, couple etc?

4) Do you block any age ranges or singles from messaging you?

I say "unsolicited" because clearly if you're sending loads of winks and messages that's going to skew the results.

Not very scientific, I know, but I'd love to see a small sample of the results so we can compare.

"

1 - don't know as we bulk delete them

2 - will vary from day to day but in the range of 200 to 300

3 - we are a couple

4 - no we don't filter people out

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By *rof_cpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Gerrards Cross


"

1 - don't know as we bulk delete them

2 - will vary from day to day but in the range of 200 to 300

3 - we are a couple

4 - no we don't filter people out"

Wow, that's a lot for a couple compared to the other couples. Do you post photos regularly? Do they generally come from men or couples?

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

Hardly any !

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By *rof_cpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Gerrards Cross

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No messages, no winks, very few profile views. But I'm.ok with that as it means my time isn't getting wasted.

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent

We haven't blocked anyone from messaging. We get on average 2 or 3 winks a day plus the off message.

Just how we like it

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By *rof_cpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Gerrards Cross


"1) How many unsolicited winks do you get in an average day?

Not sure really between 6/10 a day.

2) How many unsolicited messages? between 5/15 a day

3) Are you a single man/woman, couple etc?

We are a couple

4) Do you block any age ranges or singles from messaging you?

Yes age 35+"

That's interesting. We definitely noticed that the number of messages we got dropped the day we turned 40, presumably because so many set their filters at 40.

Also, I read that last bit as "we block anybody over the age of 35" until I realised it was the other way around.

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By *arkndirtyMan
over a year ago

sale

1) About 10 or if I'm online more, about 15/20

2) 5-15

3) single man

4) Don't block but think I have preferences up.

If on forums then messages, views, winks go up but tend to be from straight / bi curious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last message 3 days ago.

I've had pics at top of fab list then 2 or 300 in day.

I've 211 unopened I haven't the energy to read

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

On average none lol.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


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1 - don't know as we bulk delete them

2 - will vary from day to day but in the range of 200 to 300

3 - we are a couple

4 - no we don't filter people out

Wow, that's a lot for a couple compared to the other couples. Do you post photos regularly? Do they generally come from men or couples?"

It depends on how active we are in the forums or chat rooms plus it goes up if we post pics or videos. The are from a variety but firstly men, then couples and a few from single women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never counted, don't think I've actually left my profile on show for a full day. I post in forums. Single female, age filters etc set. I get a message wink or friend request every few minutes when I am on with profile on show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 0.04

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

1. 1 or 2

2. 1 or 2

3. Couple

4. No blocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1.winks between 5-10 more if add new vid or pic

2. anywhere from 1 to 10 messages

3.we are a couple

4. We have an age limit but also a range we are willing to travel for

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

Last time I left my profile active for 24 hours I got 166 messages.

Didn't count the winks, looks or friend requests.

Female

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston


"Last time I left my profile active for 24 hours I got 166 messages.

Didn't count the winks, looks or friend requests.

Female"

Oh and I do have filters

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By *arkndirtyMan
over a year ago

sale

Seriously amazed at the volume people get. I always try to be polite even if not for me so how people cope with 100s no idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0

Don't think I've sent a message first in months, & very rarely receive any.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Knew ladies and couples were in demand on here but that us ridiculous!!!

I get maybe 1 message every couple of days (mainly men asking if they can come and fuck me now!) Probably the same for winks

As others have said I am really appreciative if I get a reply from a lady I have messaged.

Don't think i have any restriction.

Was actually wondering what I am here for, as it seems the only men in demand are the young with a 6 pack types

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single lady. I get 200+ messages a day. Theres no chance of getting through them all xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As most of the single blokes.

No winks or one a month if I’m lucky.

Not many messages either, unlike one of the bloke commenting I know why I’m still on the site.

This site has a way of surprising sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

40/50 not bad for a guy women get in the 100s

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By *ackinabox19Man
over a year ago

Harrogate


"Today 150 messages 1420 views and lots of winks

Reason for this was I uploaded a new pic "

WTF !!!

I got half a wink because a fly flew in somebody’s eye and 1 message off a single guy asking how much to give him a baby oh and they must be the 2 winks I received but only after messaging the single guy back

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

One wink and 2 unsolicited messages in 4 months. 2 forum related messages in that time also. No views in 4 days. Age filter and other males blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None, generally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8 winks 6 from men 3 messages all from men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually none. If I'm lucky il get a reply back from a message which I have sent.

I had a wink from a man today and that was the first wink for a few months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On average 0

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do get messages from men asking to suck my cock whenever I use the sat nav on my phone though

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

1) 500 - 550 if a new pic was posted

2) 35 winks yesterday

3) 27 messages , unsolicited

4) Single female

5) My preferences are set.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100-200 winks

10-20 message

1000-2000 fabbing on pics

Don't count 1 and 2 while reading

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0 winks

0 initial messages

5 views a day mainly men

But if I send a message 7 out of 10 reply.. I read persons profile and spend time writing message..

Unfortunately I'm nearly 50 haven't been to the gym in 10 years and not packing a huge toten pole cock... so I can't blame ladies for passing me by.

There are some blokes on here getting lots of attention and the rest are here to make the numbers up...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 winks weekly - all men

0 messages a day

It’s all systems go with me !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"3 winks weekly - all men

0 messages a day

It’s all systems go with me ! "

It's a wounder when I got my pics fabbed, then see that 9 times out of 10 it was a gay guy that fabbed em!

Turned off fabs on my pics today lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1/2 winks and messages a day.

Single female.

Filters ON!

Tried no filters and averaged 150-500 a day. Put the filters on and less traffic, less hassle and better quality

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

Maybe a couple of winks and messages a week. But really not that many.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1) About 2 unsolicited winks per week on avearge (sometimes none, sometimes 4 or 5)

2) About 1 or 2 unsolicited messages per week

3) I'm a single man

4) I block single males and TVs

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Very very few, venturing on none

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sweet FA

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1/2 winks per week, probably similar with messages.

We usually ignore and delete both.

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

2-4 winks

4-8 messages

But if I put new photos on

10-20 winks

30-40 messages

Mostly straight men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1-3 winks

Couple of messages per week

Single male

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Deonds in the way and how active I have been in forums or putting pice up etc.

But can get up to 20 winks

Usually about 5 to 10 new messages the odd time more.

Have 132 views so far today.

Ye I'm a single woman I have my filters set pretty right. Age is 38 to 51 I think no newbies or no one with no publics pics can message mind you people cheat to get past that one. Cos of my filters I don't get too many before that it was a nightmare.

Even with them set it's hard to keep chats going with people who you talk to and answer new mails it's why recently I've become more fussy about answering mails.

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By *oul BrothaMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy far far away

Aaahhhhh So I'm not the only single guy that's struggling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It averages out to none.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Some people on the forums seem to have trouble getting any attention, some people (generally single ladies) say they get so many they can't read them.

I'd be interested to know from a few singles and couples...

1) How many unsolicited winks do you get in an average day?

2) How many unsolicited messages?

3) Are you a single man/woman, couple etc?

4) Do you block any age ranges or singles from messaging you?

I say "unsolicited" because clearly if you're sending loads of winks and messages that's going to skew the results.

Not very scientific, I know, but I'd love to see a small sample of the results so we can compare.

1 - don't know as we bulk delete them

2 - will vary from day to day but in the range of 200 to 300

3 - we are a couple

4 - no we don't filter people out"

Wow! That's 50-60,000 messages per year, do you employ a fab secretary?

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By *rof_cpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Gerrards Cross

Well, we changed our filters to allow single men to message us for 24 hours and we got 13 winks and 10 messages.

I can see why people filter them out though. Our favourite one just said "I bet she couldn't take my whole cock in her mouth and pussy"

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

1. None

2. Usually none. Very occasionally one

3. Single male

4. No, I don't

Good job I use this site predominantly as a way of passing the time once I've set the machine to run at work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Standard day none

Day on the forums 1 or 2 messages maybe one wink at a push

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By *iner69erMan
over a year ago

inverness

Single male, no winks, no messages, no nuthin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put two new pics up today

31 Views

1 wink

1 message.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Well, we changed our filters to allow single men to message us for 24 hours and we got 13 winks and 10 messages.

I can see why people filter them out though. Our favourite one just said "I bet she couldn't take my whole cock in her mouth and pussy" "

We used to get 10-15 per day - We added No Married Men and No Dick Pics to our profile and it dropped to 3-4, added Face Pic req. and it dropped to 1 or 2 which means I can use message notification

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By *awk90Man
over a year ago

Amsterdam

None, normally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

1) How many unsolicited winks do you get in an average day?

2) How many unsolicited messages?

3) Are you a single man/woman, couple etc?

4) Do you block any age ranges or singles from messaging you?

"

As a pair of "fatties" we don't get a great deal of attention. If we put a new picture up, then we get one or 2 winks, but on an average day we get zero winks or messages.

1). Maybe 1 or 2 if we put a new picture up

2). Again, but a lot, usually zero messages, but if New picture then 1 or 2

3). Couple

4). Never block any range, but will block individuals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually 3-5 winks a day and 2-3 messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Knew ladies and couples were in demand on here but that us ridiculous!!!

I get maybe 1 message every couple of days (mainly men asking if they can come and fuck me now!) Probably the same for winks

As others have said I am really appreciative if I get a reply from a lady I have messaged.

Don't think i have any restriction.

Was actually wondering what I am here for, as it seems the only men in demand are the young with a 6 pack types "

Resonates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get reasonably good amount ,most of them from single guys.

Funniest part is, they wink and then also send friends request same time , needless to say , we block them lol

We get two or four winks from cpls .

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By *otTonite1Man
over a year ago

Falkirk

Most days zero winks or messages, afterall I am single guy so not most sought after.

Every now and then get some which is always nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1.No winks

2.No messages

3. I'm straight so block single males, MM etc but I tend to get single males Fab my photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1.No winks

2.No messages

3. I'm straight so block single males, MM etc but I tend to get single males Fab my photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people on the forums seem to have trouble getting any attention, some people (generally single ladies) say they get so many they can't read them.

I'd be interested to know from a few singles and couples...

1) How many unsolicited winks do you get in an average day?

2) How many unsolicited messages?

3) Are you a single man/woman, couple etc?

4) Do you block any age ranges or singles from messaging you?

I say "unsolicited" because clearly if you're sending loads of winks and messages that's going to skew the results.

Not very scientific, I know, but I'd love to see a small sample of the results so we can compare.

1 - don't know as we bulk delete them

2 - will vary from day to day but in the range of 200 to 300

3 - we are a couple

4 - no we don't filter people out

Wow! That's 50-60,000 messages per year, do you employ a fab secretary? "

I don't believe the 200 to 300 a day . Especially as no one else is even close

I got it once for a day when top of fab photos . Certainly not a regular day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can count them on two fingers

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By *khotcouple20Couple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Not very many to be honest.. ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really should send more messages than wink tbh and we do get a good few winks and messages with no face picture x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get none

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