FabSwingers.com forum: Distances willing to travel?

By *rad_ell12 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighouse

So I'm a very curious person tonight full of questions so bare with me when im posting a few different threads! But what distances are you all willing to travel for meets, if any? And if not how far would you let someone travel too you?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Local only.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Would depend what we traveling for

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By *rad_ell12 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighouse

"Local only. "

Fair enough, I drive and to be honest I dont think i'd be too fussy about travelling, if the opportunity arrises with someone I get along with then I'd probably find a way

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By *rad_ell12 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighouse

"Would depend what we traveling for "

So say you've been chatting to someone for a bit and get on, and organise a meet with both parties agreeing to meet for play?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Four hours on Sunday by car one way. But well worth it. And happily do it again

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By *rad_ell12 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighouse

"Four hours on Sunday by car one way. But well worth it. And happily do it again"

I think I'd be up for the same, but I find a lot of people not open to people travelling even to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twenty mile round trip, been let down too often and we know some decent pubs & restaurants within a ten mile radius of our location, so that way, a decent venue of our choosing, if it's a no show at least we're at the advantage of knowing the food & drink will be good.

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

We wouldnt travel anymore than 50 miles ,as too many let downs ,but saying that we were in Glasgow and a guy said he would make the nearly 4 hour drive to meet us ,NEVER thought he would as closer guys havent turned up ,but he did and was SO worth it , hope to meet again,,..

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I’ve done a 400 mile round trip and have someone do the same for me

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I travel just over 100 miles round trip to meet someone. Worth it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm currently planning a trip from yorkshire to devon, to meet someone. But and i stress this point, i'm going down for a week and making it a holiday so if it doesnt work out then i still get a holiday

win, win

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By *rad_ell12 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighouse

"I travel just over 100 miles round trip to meet someone. Worth it x"

Was this a one off? Just curious as your profile says that your wanting to meet local, or dod the person/people take your fancy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Local only. "

Id like to say the same, but it's hard enough to get a message from a women worldwide, nevermind local lol.. So i have to look further afield and if I clicked with someone who I liked, I wouldn't mind travelling anywhere in the UK to meet her.

It's not so much of a problem for me because I sometimes travel all over the UK for work and I choose where to go which makes it very convenient. However I've found that women want to meet local men for regular meets.

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By *rad_ell12 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighouse

Very intersting to hear eveyones different opinions on this, I'm of the thought that if I find someone I click with I have no issues travelling, but would most likely look at an overnight stay somewhere really long distance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very intersting to hear eveyones different opinions on this, I'm of the thought that if I find someone I click with I have no issues travelling, but would most likely look at an overnight stay somewhere really long distance"

Yeah over night stay for long distances. I stay in the same area for 2weeks at a time, but when I say I'm there working, they don't want to know. I must seem dodgy.

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By *rad_ell12 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighouse

Yeah over night stay for long distances. I stay in the same area for 2weeks at a time, but when I say I'm there working, they don't want to know. I must seem dodgy. "

To me it just seems like a single guy is cursed on here lol, just got to keep trying I guess, be nice to be able to travel a bit but most people do look for local I find

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By *rof_cplCouple
over a year ago

Gerrards Cross

If it's a club meet or somebody we know then we'd definitely travel a fair distance. We like visiting new places and get about most weekends.

A non-club meet with somebody we don't know though? Not very far, because as everyone has said they could easily bail on you.

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By *rad_ell12 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighouse

"If it's a club meet or somebody we know then we'd definitely travel a fair distance. We like visiting new places and get about most weekends.

A non-club meet with somebody we don't know though? Not very far, because as everyone has said they could easily bail on you."

I get that, but for me, unless it's a serious issue, I couldn't bail

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

I prefer to keep close to home and don’t want to travel more than 10 miles.

If someone was willing to travel further to meet me and put themselves up in a hotel with no expectations of getting more than a drink and some banter then I am ok with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer local but willing to travel up to an hour if we’ve chat for a while. So far it’s worked out with the travelling and lucky that I’ve had no time-wasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So I know people want locals and dont want to travel to far.

But what if someone is in your area for a few nights?

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By *urple-roseWoman
over a year ago

Stoke

I find that if it’s over half hour travel the guys mostly won’t unless I guarantee a fuck, I only stay local unless I’m meeting at a club as too many cancel/ don’t turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had I guy do a 3 hour drive to come see me.. Had been chatting an camming for awhile still talk now need to organise round 3

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

"So I know people want locals and dont want to travel to far.

But what if someone is in your area for a few nights?"
few nights yes please

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By *rof_cplCouple
over a year ago

Gerrards Cross

"I find that if it’s over half hour travel the guys mostly won’t unless I guarantee a fuck."

I know some people do, but I/we would never guarantee a fuck with anybody we hadn't met yet!

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I would say more or less two hours

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

"I find that if it’s over half hour travel the guys mostly won’t unless I guarantee a fuck, I only stay local unless I’m meeting at a club as too many cancel/ don’t turn up"

What if you don't hit it off when you meet and they think they definitely getting to fuck you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Japan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had someone from Dublin join us in East Sussex x

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By *rad_ell12 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighouse

"We had someone from Dublin join us in East Sussex x"

International! Fair play!

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By *rad_ell12 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighouse

"We had someone from Dublin join us in East Sussex x"

International! Fair play!

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I've travelled 200 miles for someone, I thought they were worth it. It massively depends on the person involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Distance is irrelevant for the right one.

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By *rad_ell12 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighouse

"I've travelled 200 miles for someone, I thought they were worth it. It massively depends on the person involved. "

If I could find someone that eould chat for longer than a couple.of messages I reckon I'd travel fairly far if there worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Distance is irrelevant for the right one."

Exactly this

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

"Japan"

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

"I've travelled 200 miles for someone, I thought they were worth it. It massively depends on the person involved. "

Very good there miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Around an hour for a straight meet, up to 90 mins if I’m bribed with food, more if it’s a good party and I know people there or am going with someone.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Spain

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By *eddyBearBazMan
over a year ago

St Helens

I have travelled 100 miles for someone and id go further if had connection with someone

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By *actilemale4uMan
over a year ago

London

Cumbria from Essex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if it ment getting a flight for a potential amazing weekend?

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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago

Nottingham/and everywhere my location says i am ;)

"What if it ment getting a flight for a potential amazing weekend? "

Flew from Canada to Glasgow to surprise someone.. We’d met before. I’d drive from Nottingham to Hers every few weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have no real limits, if the people that we like, and they in turn like us are a distance away. Just requires planning for the right people.

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

I have, and would again, travelled 4 hours for a meet before now.

I live in a pretty rural area so travelling a fair distance is something I accept is necessary, and for the right people distance is no object

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bout 2 hrs in a car

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love travel and adventures so have no real limits ... also living in the arse end of nowhere (nearest motorway is 100 miles or nearly 2hrs!) So pretty much used to travelling lots!

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

"I love travel and adventures so have no real limits ... also living in the arse end of nowhere (nearest motorway is 100 miles or nearly 2hrs!) So pretty much used to travelling lots! "

Similar with me... have to travel for most things so I make a trip out of it

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

ended up in spain once!

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By *entlecaressMan
over a year ago

Wakefield/ Beverley

Overnight stays are great and you get to see other parts of the country making a weekend of it.

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By *oneyBear100Couple
over a year ago

Gatwick area

For the right couple/person we travel but then make a weekend of it if it's 2+ hours away. But that's also the joy of no kids/responsibilities at home so makes it an easy choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm prepared to travel uk wide for genuine meets that I believe are with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a guy travel from Kent to Liverpool to have a social dinner with me. Sadly he was the most boring man in the world and I didn’t meet him on here it was a more vanilla place, so I can’t embarrass him.

He was trying to psychoanalysis me all evening. I could wait to get back to my hotel room alone. I told a girlfriend about the awful evening and she set up a Fab account for me!

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By *iking SoftiesCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield

We have incorporated meets into our travels, well when we could travel. It might only be a one off but it adds some extra interest to our tours.

Usually though a couple of hours for a specific meet.

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

Across the continent

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

"What if it ment getting a flight for a potential amazing weekend? "

I've done that...and it was amazing!

I enjoy road trips though...I get to see a different part of the country as well as meet someone new and potentially have sexy time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An hour drive is max usually xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends really if it’s tied in with a club night national if we’re staying over, but normally a hour realistically x

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