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By *ill74 OP   Man
over a year ago

New forest area

Hi all

I'm contemplating going to my local munch.

But I have no idea what to expect.

I have an interest in BDSM. But it isn't a 24/7 interest.

Advice appreciated.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I didn't go to many but the ones I went to I enjoyed.

There were a variety of people there, not all 24/7 TPE types. It was a bit cliquey, there was a slight snobbery about collared subs vs session bottoms, but that was a very small minority of people.

I found them great, and I'd highly recommend them.

Give one a go and if you don't enjoy it then don't go to another- simple!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're curious you should definitely go - life is too short not to.

You will find a mix of all sorts of kinksters from those in 24/7 D/s dynamics, to those who partake in things occasionally. Everyone remembers what it was like to be new, and for some, how little they knew or had done when they first started going to stuff. I'm sure you will find everyone very welcoming, supportive and non-judgemental.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and if it's a munch in a pub, chances are people will be chatting about anything from music, films, sport, etc.

I always got the impression people preferred to keep their kinks somewhat private until a friendship had be struck up.

So it's not an intimidating environment, not much different to any other night in a pub.

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By *ill74 OP   Man
over a year ago

New forest area


"I didn't go to many but the ones I went to I enjoyed.

There were a variety of people there, not all 24/7 TPE types. It was a bit cliquey, there was a slight snobbery about collared subs vs session bottoms, but that was a very small minority of people.

I found them great, and I'd highly recommend them.

Give one a go and if you don't enjoy it then don't go to another- simple!"

What is TPE?

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By *ill74 OP   Man
over a year ago

New forest area


"If you're curious you should definitely go - life is too short not to.

You will find a mix of all sorts of kinksters from those in 24/7 D/s dynamics, to those who partake in things occasionally. Everyone remembers what it was like to be new, and for some, how little they knew or had done when they first started going to stuff. I'm sure you will find everyone very welcoming, supportive and non-judgemental. "

Thank you.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

I would be very interested in attending a munch. Are there any in central London?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would be very interested in attending a munch. Are there any in central London?"

Loads. You'll find more information on kink sites than here though.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"I would be very interested in attending a munch. Are there any in central London?

Loads. You'll find more information on kink sites than here though."

I will have to have a look so..thanks

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

I regularly go to munches, through another website, for those who enjoy a fetish lifestyle.

Sometimes we talk about kink, sometimes we talk about everything else.

It's not about trying to hook up, but just being social and being able to relax in a group setting where you can be yourself.

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By *ill74 OP   Man
over a year ago

New forest area


"I regularly go to munches, through another website, for those who enjoy a fetish lifestyle.

Sometimes we talk about kink, sometimes we talk about everything else.

It's not about trying to hook up, but just being social and being able to relax in a group setting where you can be yourself.

"

Ok. I'm probably on the same site.

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By *ill74 OP   Man
over a year ago

New forest area

Does anybody go to the Bournemouth munch?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been to a few munches and they are fairly cliquey unfortunately. There is another website I won't mention where you can find out more about your local scene.Fab isn't really the place.

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By *ill74 OP   Man
over a year ago

New forest area


"I've been to a few munches and they are fairly cliquey unfortunately. There is another website I won't mention where you can find out more about your local scene.Fab isn't really the place."

That's what I am wondering?

I am on that site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would be very interested in attending a munch. Are there any in central London?"

You could probably go to 2 or 3 a week in London. There are loads. Based on geography and interests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You wondered right. If you look for members on there in Bournemouth, I'm sure there'll be a link to a local munch.

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By *illyDudeMan
over a year ago

norh east

Went to the aylesbury one a few years ago beat decision we made. They were some of our friends anyway lol and gave he Mrs a new Warren to play in boosted her confidence to no end

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By *ill74 OP   Man
over a year ago

New forest area


"You wondered right. If you look for members on there in Bournemouth, I'm sure there'll be a link to a local munch."

There is. Just wondering if anyone from here goes to it.

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