FabSwingers.com forum: Why?

By *nkedMilf OP Woman
over a year ago

Colchester

Why do some guys get so aggressive when you say no? I just told a guy from here but chat on kik that I wouldn't send pics, I then get a barrage of abuse culminating in "I hope you get r*ped so you can see how worthless you really are"

How is it ok to say shit like that to people? What do they hope to achieve?

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By *ob_nwMan
over a year ago

Cumbria

you don't need abuse like that, what a horrible thing to say

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By *eddyBearBazMan
over a year ago

St Helens

"Why do some guys get so aggressive when you say no? I just told a guy from here but chat on kik that I wouldn't send pics, I then get a barrage of abuse culminating in "I hope you get r*ped so you can see how worthless you really are"

How is it ok to say shit like that to people? What do they hope to achieve?

That guy needs locking up for saying crap like that. Nasty horrible person he is

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By *abonWoman
over a year ago

L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham

Shocking level of emotional immaturity. What are they hoping to achieve..? Some kind of way to disperse the rage and disappointment, my guess is, but a totally inappropriate way to do so. I’m sorry you had to deal with that xx

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

Wtf?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jaysus...thats terrible.

Been there plenty of times, esp on a daying site. Had to block alot of guys as they went spastic when I said I couldnt meet at the drop of a hat cause of my kids.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dating*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How awful block and report

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

There is no justification or excuse for something like that. Nobody should ever feel pressured to share photos. With anyone. Not even your wife or husband. Respecting another person and acting with a degree of integrity and honour really isn’t difficult. It absolutely baffles me why people cannot manage to behave in an appropriate manner. I hope you’re okay Xx

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By *nkedMilf OP Woman
over a year ago

Colchester

He's not the first and he certainly won't be the last. I just struggle to understand the reasoning for it, do they suddenly think I'll change my mind?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How awful block and report "

This, without a hesitation!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take a screen shot and circulate it to friends it happens all the time in some of the kik groups so people here know who is dangerous.

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By *am069Man
over a year ago

London

The world is full of hateful people who hide behind a keyboard while hurling abuse... it's unfortunate... just have to block them, and forget about them... sorry to hear about this, it can be really upsetting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How is it ok to say shit like that to people? What do they hope to achieve?

That’s awful can you report the profile for a start, very twisted and sick man!!

Needs a kicking too !!

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By *nkedMilf OP Woman
over a year ago

Colchester

How is it ok to say shit like that to people? What do they hope to achieve?

That’s awful can you report the profile for a start, very twisted and sick man!!

Needs a kicking too !!"

Annoyingly I can't remember his profile name on here

reported on kik though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrange a meet with him and have a welcoming party for him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a tosser he sounds delete block report x

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By *ackinabox19Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

That’s absolutely disgusting !! What a complete fucktard you should name and shame the creep and report him !!! I’m actually shocked !!! No wonder people get pissed off with this place receiving shit like that

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By *ackinabox19Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

"Arrange a meet with him and have a welcoming party for him. "

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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

Block and report the idiot.

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By *artyanna16TV/TS
over a year ago

seacroft

I suppose he thinks as its a swinging site his mysogyny wont be reported to the authorities, but it could be even if hes no longer on the site as his ip address is logged, That os a measure of his approach to relationships and shows your radar is working well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A no thanks or a simple message delete without reply is fine, people should respect that they are not for the person they messaged and move on, Being abusive just shows they have rejection issues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How is it ok to say shit like that to people? What do they hope to achieve?

Ive quickly found out theres a lot of horrible people on this site just looking for a quick fuck.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

How is it ok to say shit like that to people? What do they hope to achieve?

I’m sorry you had to deal with that lowlife

There’s plenty of nasty bastards that take delight in abusing women on here .... I used to get upset about it but now it’s water off a ducks back

Please report them to admin tho and let them kick them off otherwise they will abuse another girl that maybe isn’t as strong to deal with them x

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

How is it ok to say shit like that to people? What do they hope to achieve?

Oh god. that's disgusting. So sorry you had to hear that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How is it ok to say shit like that to people? What do they hope to achieve?

F*cking hell that's terrible! Are you ok? I hope you reported him!

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

How is it ok to say shit like that to people? What do they hope to achieve?

Report and block, I've had similar and worse, including death threats. Just ignore them, if you let it get to you, they've won.

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By *amesJay21Man
over a year ago

Ashford

I don't think there is much reasoning behind it in all honesty. Some men just obviously don't take to rejection and are on here for all the wrong reasons, I feel some do it out of spite others because sometimes after time and time of being ignored abuse generates the attention and response at times which they obviously crave.

Also sorry that this happens to not just you but all women on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's horrible, I'm sorry he said that to you xxx Mrs k x

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By *apomanMan
over a year ago

chester,ish

Youve had a lucky escape and found out early doors that he is worse than piece of shit on your shoe... least youve seen him for what he really is and not arranged to meet the fuckwit coz god knows what could have happened ??

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

Some should meet him cut his balls off and tell him that's him permanently blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately these guys really are the scum of the earth. Hopefully you'll not encounter too many like this.

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By *K430Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

Of course it's not ok , a very warped keyboard warrior I'm afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some guys are just thick, ignorant and rude. You can do much better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He's not the first and he certainly won't be the last. I just struggle to understand the reasoning for it, do they suddenly think I'll change my mind?!

Really no excuse for these vile idiots, unfortunately if they get kicked they seem to be able to open another profile just as quick. I hope you are ok though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How is it ok to say shit like that to people? What do they hope to achieve?

You missed out on a charmer there

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By *ardyBumMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Wow, that’s awful!! I’ll never understand why people react like that!

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By *ain and sortedMan
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

How is it ok to say shit like that to people? What do they hope to achieve?

Think a lot of people hide behind the internet on here , properly a sad individual who needs attention in whatever way he can get it, no excuse for such behaviour , but the internet opens up avenues for these individuals x

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By *969BewitchedWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

wow that really is horrible. I've had plenty of mardy snowflakes resort to name calling when you say no but that is really just plain nasty. Hope you reported him

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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago

shropshire

"How awful block and report

This, without a hesitation!!"

Totally agree too

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By *oinus1961Couple
over a year ago

Huntingdon

Trouble is an awful lot of people on here think that because it is a swinging site, sex (or pics or smutty chat) is an entitlement.

Glad you swerved a meet with someone who is clearly an absolute dick with the desirability of a dose of the plague.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How is it ok to say shit like that to people? What do they hope to achieve?

What a fucking prick!!!

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By *nkedMilf OP Woman
over a year ago

Colchester

Thanks everyone for your comments- I'm fine, takes more than a silly little boy to get to me

Was just hoping to gain an understanding as to what they get out of it

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

How is it ok to say shit like that to people? What do they hope to achieve?

Your safety valves just filtered out a piece of sh*t at an early stage of engagement.

That's good. There will be more like him out there, so take confidence in being able to flush them out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How is it ok to say shit like that to people? What do they hope to achieve?

Good thing it never got as far as a meet then.

We think you've had a lucky escape and that you ought to report him if he's on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jaysus...thats terrible.

Been there plenty of times, esp on a daying site. Had to block alot of guys as they went spastic when I said I couldnt meet at the drop of a hat cause of my kids. "

Spastic!!!

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

NO! it's not ok for him to talk to you like that. He was ok when he thought he had a chance of getting in your knickers. Then boom, HE could'nt handle the rejection.

Block and report.

Just remember your doing this for you and your fun. Don't let some fuckwit spoil your day. Sending verchal hugs. () ()

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it’s truly awful!

So, talk to the site admins. They should be able to work out whose profiles you have looked at, just like you can see who viewed you. Then you can block him, and I think this is verging on a matter to report to the police. They could help do that.

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