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anyone experienced dishonesty

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

wondered if any couples here have ever experienced the single guy who has been invited in for a mmf 3some ever had the guy trying to see their wife or partner behind the back of the husband? wondered if this was a common occurence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not happened to us but i suppose anythings possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Infidelity and attempted infidelity is an everyday occurrence in life so i dont see why it would be any different in the swinging world.

Shame that guys cant be trusted and cant control themselves but thats life

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By *ntelligent Gent.Man
over a year ago

Solihull

guys and gals that is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so who is being dishonest ?

not the single guy

if he is chancing his arm and not telling lies to anyone then he isn't being dishonest

dishonourable maybe, dishonest no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when i was in a couple with an ex partner we had it from guys and girls alike trying to see one of us behind the others back .

its not just guys folks its women too .

i get a little peed off to say the least hearing single guys getting slated as the bad ones as i had been married twice and divorced the same number of times by cheating wifes .

thats the reason i ended up here and glad i did

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

We have had single guys come to the house and seem lovely and chatty but then pounce as soon as hubby goes in kitchen or to the bathroom.

This really pisses me off as they go back to the settee as soon as hubby walks back in the room

Come on/.....he,s not that bloody scary and we do clearly state that we play together

Do these guys really think this is a turn on..........

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By *rs and mr sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

Boldon

When I was on here as single fem, I had a guy from a couple I used to see constantly messaging me for a meet on his own. As soon as he sent the first text, I stopped seeing them. I wasn't going to be party to that. Have heard since (off his previous ex girlfriend ) that they have split up because of his infidelity to her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"guys and gals that is."
exactly single guys get a hard time on here some are arseholes but wrong to tar all with the same brush and agree not just the males who could be dishonest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet loads of single guys off here and must be lucky as we've never had any trouble with any of them. All respect that we play as a couple and the only guy we had a little problem with was a one off meet, no verification and certainly not added as a friend.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ty for all the replies folks,,do appreciate it

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY


"wondered if any couples here have ever experienced the single guy who has been invited in for a mmf 3some ever had the guy trying to see their wife or partner behind the back of the husband? wondered if this was a common occurence."

I don't think this classes as dishonest

yes disrespectful,

But it happens loads of times when we are both in the chat rooms,

single guys wanting to meet my partner with out me.

One even told me to butt out of the conversation as it was the lady he wanted to shag and what did it have to do with me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yea disrespectfull was probably the word i should have used not dishonesty,,,still it all boils down tothe fact that there are a few idiots out there who spoil it for the decent peeps

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"wondered if any couples here have ever experienced the single guy who has been invited in for a mmf 3some ever had the guy trying to see their wife or partner behind the back of the husband? wondered if this was a common occurence."

No have never had this problem with any single guys we have met. But have had it twice from the male of couples that we have previously met.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

i am glad that someone said that it does happen the other way round... because i have had on one or two occasions where people have wanted to meet me on my own.. and i always check, whether that is in a club or a private meet, that is okay....

the last thing I would ever want anyone doing this would be to be hurt and be a part of anyones deception....

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By *lexaWoman
over a year ago

southampton

I'm not a couple so I can't answer the question regarding a guy trying to meet the woman of an established couple dishonestly. Guys from couple profiles are forever trying to arrange to meet me without their partners knowledge though, so I'm sure it happens all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have both stipulated that if either party male of female who we are having fun with even suggest meeting alone, knowing that we make it exceptionally clear we come as a pair, we would immediately tell them to leave or we would leave. We are here to have fun as a couple, if we wanted to be playing alone then we would have set up a profile on our own. If one of us leaves the room and the other person mentions about meeting alone thinking the other won't tell their partner they are far mistaken. It is a shame that a lot of guys get slated there are a lot of respectful ones out there who understand the boundaries, if they don't then they would be told to leave and would stop any play immediately. Guess there are a few who will try it on but they are soon ed out and told to get a life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never. Every single guy we have met have been very respectful.

Why are people always looking to put the single guy down?

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral


"wondered if any couples here have ever experienced the single guy who has been invited in for a mmf 3some ever had the guy trying to see their wife or partner behind the back of the husband? wondered if this was a common occurence."

yes...i met someone who i was prepared to have an affair with a few years ago....think in hindsight it was just cos my ex didnt want me to see him again. hmmmm

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