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By *rad_ell12 OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighouse

Anyone else struggling with this site? I've chatted to a few people and met one or 2 but that's been very few and far between! Seems so many people are just window shopping and never even want to chat let alone, god forbid meet up! Feels like I'm on a hide into nowhere being on here now.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single bloke mate ....for the ladies here it's like candy in a sweet shop... ..massive choice..

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By *rad_ell12 OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighouse

But even so, like the people I have managed to chat too, it's like theres never an intention of following through with anything, becoming so frustrating to even bother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd been chatting to one bloke, all going well, pics exchanged, offered to visit him on two separate dates, never bothered to reply, no messages to ask to rearrange or otherwise.

We blocked him after a week of waiting for an excuse or similar.

We should've learned our lesson on the previous times we've had 'single men' contact us, and again our better judgements, responded.

That my friends was the final straw.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, totally agree, I had a lady tell me it's like going into a shop, she wants a LOAF of bread, yet there is like 50 loafs of bread to choose from. Yet she only wants one loaf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But im always up for chatting and always reply to any messages I receive , and maybe just a meet may happen someday

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By *rad_ell12 OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighouse


"We'd been chatting to one bloke, all going well, pics exchanged, offered to visit him on two separate dates, never bothered to reply, no messages to ask to rearrange or otherwise.

We blocked him after a week of waiting for an excuse or similar.

We should've learned our lesson on the previous times we've had

'single men' contact us, and again our better judgements, responded.

That my friends was the final straw. "

Yeah I was chatting to a couple, arranged a meet this weekend, they pulled out about an hour before we were due to meet then just stopped responding, gets so tedious!

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By *rad_ell12 OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighouse


"But im always up for chatting and always reply to any messages I receive , and maybe just a meet may happen someday "

Yeah that was my attitude up till recently, getting a bit of a pain now, like the site seems to be full of time wasters and people just wanting the attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But im always up for chatting and always reply to any messages I receive , and maybe just a meet may happen someday

Yeah that was my attitude up till recently, getting a bit of a pain now, like the site seems to be full of time wasters and people just wanting the attention"

Aye I know everyone is different and only so many times you can be let down isn't there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, the answer I get is "your not meet varified" but I'll keep trying.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Yep, totally agree, I had a lady tell me it's like going into a shop, she wants a LOAF of bread, yet there is like 50 loafs of bread to choose from. Yet she only wants one loaf "

But who wants just one loaf ? It will go stale. Much better to have a couple of fresh ones every day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep, totally agree, I had a lady tell me it's like going into a shop, she wants a LOAF of bread, yet there is like 50 loafs of bread to choose from. Yet she only wants one loaf

But who wants just one loaf ? It will go stale. Much better to have a couple of fresh ones every day. "

But Sally there’s only so much bread I can feel in a day to see how fresh it is..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep, totally agree, I had a lady tell me it's like going into a shop, she wants a LOAF of bread, yet there is like 50 loafs of bread to choose from. Yet she only wants one loaf

But who wants just one loaf ? It will go stale. Much better to have a couple of fresh ones every day.

But Sally there’s only so much bread I can feel in a day to see how fresh it is.."

Ah ain't that the kicker and also some people just have a set preference of what loaf they want and won't ever change it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sure there is an element of people wanting some attention.

I certainly do, but I also meet men and have sex with them if I find them attractive, the circumstances are right and we click.

That clearly just isn’t happening for you.

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By *rad_ell12 OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighouse


"I’m sure there is an element of people wanting some attention.

I certainly do, but I also meet men and have sex with them if I find them attractive, the circumstances are right and we click.

That clearly just isn’t happening for you.

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I guess but to me would seem you are one of a few as some people chat, organise meets then back out, or just stop talking and then mpst just never respond, even a polite no thanks wouldnt go a miss

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