FabSwingers.com forum: Advice wanted please!!!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am a hotwife who meets guys on my own, my husband is a bit of a cuckold. He gets off on me meeting other guys.

My issue is that we both feel he doesn't get much out of my meets other than me telling him about it when I come home, which isn't a lot really.

I have videod a few meets in the past, but this makes me feel uncomfortable, so would prefer not to do this.

Have also had him present at a couple, which was great fun for both of us, but this isn't always possible.

I am looking for a way for him to get more out of my meets, but I am struggling for ideas.

Have thought about having him in the room next door, but this doesn't work for hotel meets which is often where I will meet someone.

Looking forward to hearing some creative suggestions!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you asked him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think having him present as much as possible will help.

Maybe have him hiding in the wardrobe/closet rather than ext door. Then he sees as well as hears.

Hope this helps OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about calling him while on the meet and leaving the line open throughout.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes - we have chatted about it a lot, he is keen to see or hear what I am doing, but we can't work out the best way.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

He can listen via your phone whilst you are playing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Love this!

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By *aenMan
over a year ago

Here and There

Audio recording to be listened to later? Or open phone with him listening on the other end?

Probably depends on what ticks the boxes for him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FaceTime? Much like a video... but live!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about a video chat on an iPad or laptop set up in the room if he can't be present?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about fucking in car so he can look from outside?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I like this, the car could work well x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about a video chat on an iPad or laptop set up in the room if he can't be present?"

Agreed ...We find this works well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes - we have chatted about it a lot, he is keen to see or hear what I am doing, but we can't work out the best way."

Heres a scenario that I came up with for a HW meet some time back:

The three of us went to a club. I entered as a single and HW & hubby as a couple but as soon as we got through the doors we switched. He went off to the downstairs singles changing room and HW & I went to the couples changing area.

Through the evening the hubby was a single guy in the club, mainly sat at the bar or in the jacuzzi whilst his HW & I played as a couple. He watched through the viewing area as we played in a small group in the couples room, and even watched as HW, I and a couple of guys we invited, had a mini gangbang in the open exhibitionists room.

Later in the evening he reclaimed his HW from me and they went off and had hot sex together for the rest of the night. Everyone was happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet a friend off here quite regular who likes to video call her hubby whilst we are having our fun and it seems to work great for both of them!

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By *spotpleasurerMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Is being in the room an option? I've had HW meets with the hubby enjoying watching the action. Also with the hubby present but blindfolded, imagining what the two of you are up to.

If he can participate, more than one male has said the best blowjob he's ever experienced was from the partner while she's being licked out at the same time.

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