FabSwingers.com forum: Who's had a bad dogging experience?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A friend of mine was attacked while dogging. She almost ran over the guy trying to escape. Wondering how often this happens?

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"A friend of mine was attacked while dogging. She almost ran over the guy trying to escape. Wondering how often this happens?

I've always thought that dogging seems a risky hobby, there's no checks, no security, and it's possible that the police might turn up and arrest you all. We prefer clubs for random meets with strangers... and you don't need to wash & valet your car afterwards.

Cal

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By *uckypups1000Couple
over a year ago

peterborough

Yes we had a bad experience too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes we had a bad experience too"

What happened?

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"A friend of mine was attacked while dogging. She almost ran over the guy trying to escape. Wondering how often this happens?

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It's not particularly safe for anyone, let alone a lady on her own, anything could happen.

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By *uckypups1000Couple
over a year ago

peterborough

After a good bit of fun with four guys watching we left but were followed by a guy in his pick up! It was scary for pups we drove around an estate ! Had to throw him off scent before we went home

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By *oney to the beeWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Not personally but a guy told me of a tail when he went and they shut the window on his cock trapping it between the glass and frame.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"After a good bit of fun with four guys watching we left but were followed by a guy in his pick up! It was scary for pups we drove around an estate ! Had to throw him off scent before we went home"

That is really scary. Haven't done this for years, boy racers spoiled it by being abusive and chucking bricks at cars.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Not personally but a guy told me of a tail when he went and they shut the window on his cock trapping it between the glass and frame.

Ouch

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not personally but a guy told me of a tail when he went and they shut the window on his cock trapping it between the glass and frame.

Ouch!!! That made me draw in like a box turtle!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A friend of mine was attacked while dogging. She almost ran over the guy trying to escape. Wondering how often this happens?

It's not particularly safe for anyone, let alone a lady on her own, anything could happen."

Exactly! Fortunately, my lady has no interest in this. If she did, I certainly wouldn't let her go alone!

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"A friend of mine was attacked while dogging. She almost ran over the guy trying to escape. Wondering how often this happens?

It's not particularly safe for anyone, let alone a lady on her own, anything could happen.

Exactly! Fortunately, my lady has no interest in this. If she did, I certainly wouldn't let her go alone!"

Absolutely, it's changed for the worse over the years.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes, and seems like a logical venue for predators.

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
over a year ago

London

Investigated it once years ago and thought most of the guys were rather odd/ scary/ sad (take your pick!). No inclination to try again, but I did enjoy a VERY pre-arranged meet with a couple in a 'dogging like location', which was rather fun … if not entirely comfortable!! Regards traditional dogging, like so many tings it's a great idea, but the reality is not quite s exciting as you imagine.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

We used to meet a regular group of friends, couples and single guys. Used to have lots of fun until the yobs spoiled it.

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By *kbull2000Man
over a year ago

Carluke

A friend and his wife were returning one evening from a weekend away and got frisky. They stopped at an industrial estate and caught by Police whilst at it.

They apologised and treated it as a joke until the police arrested them. They were offered a caution and accepted.

The prob was that he's a teacher and when the letter arrived, he realised that by accepting the caution he accepted being guilty and had to declare to his employer and to the agency dealing with clearing him to work with kids and vulnerable persons.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"A friend and his wife were returning one evening from a weekend away and got frisky. They stopped at an industrial estate and caught by Police whilst at it.

They apologised and treated it as a joke until the police arrested them. They were offered a caution and accepted.

The laws very ambiguous on dogging. We were ok, we used to have an off duty policeman join us.

. The police used to drive through and as long as we were discrete, they

weren't bothered. Your fiend was very unlucky.

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By *kbull2000Man
over a year ago

Carluke

Oh, I heartily agree.

But it certainly put a dent on my dogging activities. Even if they were pre-arranged

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Oh, I heartily agree.

But it certainly put a dent on my dogging activities. Even if they were pre-arranged "

We haven't been for years. Don't like the cold now

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By *kbull2000Man
over a year ago

Carluke

Ha....I did meet a few wives around Chelmsford and Essex in the early 2000s. Whilst in the Army.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Ha....I did meet a few wives around Chelmsford and Essex in the early 2000s. Whilst in the Army."

Haha, wouldn't be us, we went way out of our area

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By *kbull2000Man
over a year ago

Carluke

Unfortunately true. I've had a peek at your pics and would certainly have remembered you.

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By *ill-Ian KissesCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere over there

(Before I met Ian) Been caught a couple of times by police with a vanilla ex bf but no caution. One was a site that was ‘remote’ but then roadworks forced us to move locations which meant we got spotted but as we had most of our clothes on, no caution issued.

Did go to one known site but didn’t enjoy it; too weird.

Millie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not personally but a guy told me of a tail when he went and they shut the window on his cock trapping it between the glass and frame.

How tall was the guy ? A car window frame is pretty high.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Was thinking of doing this ...

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By *unshine05Man
over a year ago

Sherborne

Yeah mine pissed on my brothel creepers again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never done it, thought a lot about trying it out with someone, but I’m scared the shit out of it from the stories one reads...

I think playing out a dogging scenario in a remote outdoors location is as far as I would go

But hey maybe I’m just a chicken!

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By *ressed4fun03TV/TS
over a year ago

Midlands

Been spoken to by the police before when i stopped in a layby for a ciggy. I was wearing a pink leather dress and high heels at the time though. As i wasnt doing anything illeagal there was nothing they could do! X

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By *heSidheCouple
over a year ago

Colchester

Seems a little seedy and dangerous, there is no way I'd put my partner in that situation.

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By *ina330Couple
over a year ago

havant

we was with a man 1 night having fun a unmarked police car pulled up we thought it was a other dogger lucky for us he just told us to move on and go home scared us though

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Unfortunately true. I've had a peek at your pics and would certainly have remembered you.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Been spoken to by the police before when i stopped in a layby for a ciggy. I was wearing a pink leather dress and high heels at the time though. As i wasnt doing anything illeagal there was nothing they could do! X"

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Seems a little seedy and dangerous, there is no way I'd put my partner in that situation."

It wasn't seedy for us as they were known to us and the men looked after the ladies. It was just outdoor fun

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
over a year ago

London

I guess it's just the same that dogging has been spoilt by too many weirdos, boy racers and lack of discreet places to meet known only to those that participate …. hey ho! LOL

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By *ob_nwMan
over a year ago

Cumbria

does the weather put people off at this time of year, or does the dark night make it better ?

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By *heeseandWineCouple
over a year ago

Reading and Southampton

"A friend of mine was attacked while dogging. She almost ran over the guy trying to escape. Wondering how often this happens?

Cal"
We agree, also how do you know when the strangers you're dogging with last had a wash or shower?

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By *sian_coupleukCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We used to love going dogging with the trill of being watched but in recent years it has got more dangerous. We have had someone try follow us and we having to duck and dive through estates to loose them.

Also found some guys not only get their dicks out but camera phones out and we don’t wish to be be on anyone’s device with our faces showing so unfortunately had to stop.

May try having a little in car in a quiet spot but will be on high alert of yobs and sneaky footage collectors.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We used to love going dogging with the trill of being watched but in recent years it has got more dangerous. We have had someone try follow us and we having to duck and dive through estates to loose them.

Also found some guys not only get their dicks out but camera phones out and we don’t wish to be be on anyone’s device with our faces showing so unfortunately had to stop.

May try having a little in car in a quiet spot but will be on high alert of yobs and sneaky footage collectors. "

That's one of my biggest concerns for my single lady friends, that they'd be followed home by someone that means them harm.

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By *ORDERMANMan
over a year ago

wrexham

How is dogging perceived your side of the Atlantic...

At the end of the day some of you will be driving round with guns in the glove box...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a bad time at our local spotxx not been back since. Know a few couples who won't go anymore too now xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also found some guys not only get their dicks out but camera phones out and we don’t wish to be be on anyone’s device with our faces showing so unfortunately had to stop.

May try having a little in car in a quiet spot but will be on high alert of yobs and sneaky footage collectors. "

That's scary

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Had a bad time at our local spotxx not been back since. Know a few couples who won't go anymore too now xx"

There is always some idiot, who tries to spoil other's fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whole Dogging idea is scary to me... With group of strangers alone, very little space to manevour, if something bad happens. Risky fun not my cup of tea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tried dogging a few years ago.....got my tickets for Crufts and.....ummm...........it didn’t end well. As the nice policeman asked ‘how low can you get?’ ...to which I replied ‘oh, about a dachshund’

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Whole Dogging idea is scary to me... With group of strangers alone, very little space to manevour, if something bad happens. Risky fun not my cup of tea. "

Which is why we had a regular group, much safer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whole Dogging idea is scary to me... With group of strangers alone, very little space to manevour, if something bad happens. Risky fun not my cup of tea.

Which is why we had a regular group, much safer

Is it like arranged meeting and pretend to be strangers?

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Do bad doggers get hit on the nose with a rolled up magazine

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Whole Dogging idea is scary to me... With group of strangers alone, very little space to manevour, if something bad happens. Risky fun not my cup of tea.

Which is why we had a regular group, much safer

Is it like arranged meeting and pretend to be strangers?

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It was allsorts, others watching others play, in a car and maybe joining in, having sex in the woods, just outdoor fun. You would get new doggers come along, but there were enough people there, so we felt safe

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Do bad doggers get hit on the nose with a rolled up magazine "

Not seen that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whole Dogging idea is scary to me... With group of strangers alone, very little space to manevour, if something bad happens. Risky fun not my cup of tea.

Which is why we had a regular group, much safer

Is it like arranged meeting and pretend to be strangers?

So it can be called outdoor club meet, without any club

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Whole Dogging idea is scary to me... With group of strangers alone, very little space to manevour, if something bad happens. Risky fun not my cup of tea.

Which is why we had a regular group, much safer

Is it like arranged meeting and pretend to be strangers?

So it can be called outdoor club meet, without any club

You can call it what you like, it was fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whole Dogging idea is scary to me... With group of strangers alone, very little space to manevour, if something bad happens. Risky fun not my cup of tea.

Which is why we had a regular group, much safer

Is it like arranged meeting and pretend to be strangers?

So it can be called outdoor club meet, without any club

You can call it what you like, it was fun

I am sure it would have been confused fun.

Dogger saw new guy: hey you seems new, we liked you, want to join,

New guy: yeah sure I was just passing by, happy to join but don't have gloves hope it is fine?

Just imagining

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Whole Dogging idea is scary to me... With group of strangers alone, very little space to manevour, if something bad happens. Risky fun not my cup of tea.

Which is why we had a regular group, much safer

Is it like arranged meeting and pretend to be strangers?

So it can be called outdoor club meet, without any club

You can call it what you like, it was fun

I am sure it would have been confused fun.

Dogger saw new guy: hey you seems new, we liked you, want to join,

New guy: yeah sure I was just passing by, happy to join but don't have gloves hope it is fine?

Just imagining

You always have gloves in the winter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whole Dogging idea is scary to me... With group of strangers alone, very little space to manevour, if something bad happens. Risky fun not my cup of tea.

Which is why we had a regular group, much safer

Is it like arranged meeting and pretend to be strangers?

So it can be called outdoor club meet, without any club

You can call it what you like, it was fun

I am sure it would have been confused fun.

Dogger saw new guy: hey you seems new, we liked you, want to join,

New guy: yeah sure I was just passing by, happy to join but don't have gloves hope it is fine?

Just imagining

You always have gloves in the winter

Ouch even lube will not help if such gloves are used, can't imagine both (guy and lady) both will get scar one outside other inside.....

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Most of you start off as strangers, bit like going to a house party, but outside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most of you start off as strangers, bit like going to a house party, but outside

Caveat with outside

we have hijack topic... Surely OP will not appreciate, and won't hesitate to use hand gloves without lube on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instead of dogging we took ourselves to an adult cinema. Warm, dark, safe and lots of non threatening gents.

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

Better to meet someone from here at a dogging location. We’ve done that and it was great

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

Been followed home a couple of times - well they tried to but both got bored when they realised I was driving back up to Newcastle and not back to Leeds city centre.

Saying that I've been followed home twice from socials too

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Instead of dogging we took ourselves to an adult cinema. Warm, dark, safe and lots of non threatening gents. "

Fortunately we had no threatening gents, just knobhead not racers. Cinemas are good too

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Better to meet someone from here at a dogging location. We’ve done that and it was great

Yep done that in the past

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Been followed home a couple of times - well they tried to but both got bored when they realised I was driving back up to Newcastle and not back to Leeds city centre.

Saying that I've been followed home twice from socials too"

Yes that can happen anywhere, be safe

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Instead of dogging we took ourselves to an adult cinema. Warm, dark, safe and lots of non threatening gents.

Fortunately we had no threatening gents, just knobhead not racers. Cinemas are good too

*boy* racers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not personally but a guy told me of a tail when he went and they shut the window on his cock trapping it between the glass and frame.

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.. bloody hell that's awful.. theres some rite dicks out there ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been followed home a few times in the past.. were really cautious tbh do spotted em straight away.. dogging was great at one time but boy racers , carpark closures have fooked it ..

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By *ill-Ian KissesCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere over there

"Instead of dogging we took ourselves to an adult cinema. Warm, dark, safe and lots of non threatening gents.

Fortunately we had no threatening gents, just knobhead not racers. Cinemas are good too

Did that in a cinema i was working in at the time

Millie x

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"We have been followed home a few times in the past.. were really cautious tbh do spotted em straight away.. dogging was great at one time but boy racers , carpark closures have fooked it .. "

Same here

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Instead of dogging we took ourselves to an adult cinema. Warm, dark, safe and lots of non threatening gents.

Fortunately we had no threatening gents, just knobhead not racers. Cinemas are good too

Did that in a cinema i was working in at the time

Millie x"

Haha

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By *sian_coupleukCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Dashcams don’t help, known or incidents where people have been playing and someone simply recored the footage and threatened the couple to leak it online with faces showing and all.

That’s our biggest worry, not being exposed as it’s a private lifestyle we chose to have and not for the whole world to know about it and identify us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Dashcams don’t help, known or incidents where people have been playing and someone simply recored the footage and threatened the couple to leak it online with faces showing and all.

That’s our biggest worry, not being exposed as it’s a private lifestyle we chose to have and not for the whole world to know about it and identify us. "

It's a shame there are people like that.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

What if you’re flask runs out, that’s got to be the worst thing ever

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Dashcams don’t help, known or incidents where people have been playing and someone simply recored the footage and threatened the couple to leak it online with faces showing and all.

That’s our biggest worry, not being exposed as it’s a private lifestyle we chose to have and not for the whole world to know about it and identify us. "

That definitely is a problem

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"What if you’re flask runs out, that’s got to be the worst thing ever "

No always plenty of coffee

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By *rainmanoneMan
over a year ago

stockport

I always disconect my dash cam when going dogging

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I always disconect my dash cam when going dogging

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By *picy2Couple
over a year ago

essex

Mrs naughty was followed by a car for about 20miles , I had to go and meet her and he drove passed us and left , she won’t try it again

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By *lay 4 uMan
over a year ago

bolton

Be easy to spot him he'd have to be 10 foot tall lol

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