FabSwingers.com forum: Old Time Swinging

By *irtySekrets OP Couple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

Are there any Old Time Swingers still about?

What we mean by this is:

Couples that meet Couples

Swap and enjoy the other.

Enjoy House Party’s where the above happens?

Or have we become the Social Meet, Play with your own partner and Single Male Quick Fix that’s most evident today?

Don’t berate us for this Post but we feel the Swinging World has sadly changed

N&S xxxx

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Have you got a PO Box for our answer? We're old school swingers. We're almost at anceint level between us!

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By *argarineCouple
over a year ago

Cradley Heath

Here here. We came into swinging expecting a heavy focus on couple swaps but it seems near impossible to meet couples who want to swing

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By *iMarried2016Man
over a year ago

Near you

Been swinging 25 yrs this year.... “man and boy!” The Swinging world has gone, this driven mass “look at me but don’t dare speak to me” culture and the googled swinging and thought it looks like a laugh, easy shag fest, escort opportunity has flooded the scene with dreamers, idiots and lunatics!!

When i first happened on the “scene” you had to know people who knew people or phone an 0898 number and leave messages on voice mail systems!!

I know i sound like a moaning old toad hey!!

Lol

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By *irtySekrets OP Couple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

"Been swinging 25 yrs this year.... “man and boy!” The Swinging world has gone, this driven mass “look at me but don’t dare speak to me” culture and the googled swinging and thought it looks like a laugh, easy shag fest, escort opportunity has flooded the scene with dreamers, idiots and lunatics!!

When i first happened on the “scene” you had to know people who knew people or phone an 0898 number and leave messages on voice mail systems!!

I know i sound like a moaning old toad hey!!

Lol "

Not at all

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

Definitely changed .. people use this as a sex site these days swinging has gone down the drain sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re a traditional couple at heart, however times have changed.

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By *iMarried2016Man
over a year ago

Near you

"Definitely changed .. people use this as a sex site these days swinging has gone down the drain sadly

Thats the difference i think... “Swinging” was about swappers, the odd single usually a known friend of a cpl.. now its just a term used for what used to be called one night stands and happend at 01:45 when the doormen where clearing out the night club!! Lol

“Lasties luck” haha

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Or swinging has just evolved?

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By *irtySekrets OP Couple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

"Or swinging has just evolved?"

For the worst in our opinion

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

This is what we came looking for and it seems it doesn't exist anymore such a shame

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By *irtySekrets OP Couple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

"This is what we came looking for and it seems it doesn't exist anymore such a shame "

Sadly we think you are spot on

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

"This is what we came looking for and it seems it doesn't exist anymore such a shame

Sadly we think you are spot on

xxx"

Most couples in our area are looking for single bi females and have about 6000 rules. Shame really we're quite new on the scene and it's not great down here in Cornwall

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Or swinging has just evolved?

For the worst in our opinion

You still meet single males though? I'm sure they might not like being referred to as a 'quick fix'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its Hardly suprising .

I bet none of you have Pampas grass outside of your abode.

There just Regular houses, How is anyone meant to know !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely we meet nice couples, love to have a drink and a good laugh, with lots of naughty flirting and all being well some great sexy fun

Really don't like revolving door meet

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By *irtySekrets OP Couple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

"Or swinging has just evolved?

For the worst in our opinion

You still meet single males though? I'm sure they might not like being referred to as a 'quick fix'."

We only play with single males in clubs.

Tonight we have had the numerous disrespectful first messages stating “I wanna fuck yo missus”

It’s a Hook Up quick shag zone now

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By *ovingittwoCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

We just meet couples and have 'regulars' we mainly swap partners but sometimes a bit of group stuff, the odd party. It's great!! You just need to know what you want and go for that. Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember my first swing that long ago met a couple via experience magazine had to write send pics get pics back drove to Dunstable from Bedford took 2 weeks to arrange. The excitement built great times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are mid-late 50’s still meet couples and select singles ????

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

I think the main thing is that “swinging” covers so much now ie voyeurism, threesomes etc.

I still think of swinging as just swapping partners though. Going to parties and watching others is completely different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This site(in our opinion) seems to be flooded with males just wanting to shag the wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember when this was all fields....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes its good to recall the hunt of tracking down the small ads in readers wives or other mags of the day and sending a hand written letter. Plus the difficulty in getting any even slightly naughty pictures developed unless you had your own darkroom. Then the ages it took to fix a meet but how the success rate was high. Everything was too difficult to attract timewasters. Everyone were serious players. Happy days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything is so now so easy, convenient and anonymous. A guy can get a hard on, create a Fab account, message 50 women with 'hi, how are you', and still have the same hard on. And all without his wife knowing a thing.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Try heading North

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By *irtySekrets OP Couple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

"Everything is so now so easy, convenient and anonymous. A guy can get a hard on, create a Fab account, message 50 women with 'hi, how are you', and still have the same hard on. And all without his wife knowing a thing.

Now this made us LOL Lots

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As mentioned above, there used to be a group of magazines mostly written by women that embodied the swingers lifestyle. Experience, Vibrations and Silk Swingers were the three I remember.

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By *est Wales WifeCouple
over a year ago

Near Carmarthen

Who remembers the contact adverts in Forum magazine?

You'd get a bunch of the replies sent in an envelope at one time and have 20 or 30 to open.

Pretty much the first reply we ever got had a raunchy photo enclosed that turned out to be the newsagent at the top of the road. Buying a newspaper was never the same again

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Swinging has moved with the times, but the original version still exists.

When meeting from my couple profile with hubby we are primarily looking to meet other couples.

We prefer to meet at clubs simply because that is easier and have had several repeat meets.

However, we are quite picky so would be unlikely to attend a house party, unless we knew that there would be couples we know and have met with previously.

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Down here in Cornwall we have no clubs and very little scene.

We tried xtasia a while back thinking it might be better it was like one big social!! Fine if you live local and go week on week you may have some success. Not so great when you're only away for the weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Down here in Cornwall we have no clubs and very little scene.

There is a very active scene down here tbh parties and socials

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

"Down here in Cornwall we have no clubs and very little scene.

There is a very active scene down here tbh parties and socials "

Is there?? Theres socials which are few and far between with lots of rules. Secrets is the closest party I've seen in Devon and theres no clubs. Everything seems really quiet or maybe it's just us haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forum mag. Now thats going back a bit. Looking back it seems so primative and laborious but it worked well!!

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By *iMarried2016Man
over a year ago

Near you

"Or swinging has just evolved?"

Devolved perhaps

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Are there any Old Time Swingers still about?

What we mean by this is:

Couples that meet Couples

Swap and enjoy the other.

Enjoy House Party’s where the above happens?

Or have we become the Social Meet, Play with your own partner and Single Male Quick Fix that’s most evident today?

Don’t berate us for this Post but we feel the Swinging World has sadly changed

N&S xxxx

Our preference is for couples, although we do sometimes play with singles (male or female). Most often we meet and chat with people at clubs and if everyone is up for it head to a play room. We prefer something a bit more inclusive than just swapping, with both ladies playing with both guys and each other too.... it's even better if there's more than 2 couple.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s a shame that couples try to fence off ‘real swinging’ for themselves. I think there’s a huge difference between people who meet up and enjoy recreational sex and socialising and those just looking for serial 121 shags.

I wasn’t here when it was all fields, but I quite like the carparks. You just need to focus on the parts of the carpark you enjoy, to torture an analogy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve learnt that clubs are actually the best way. We do seek out singles now and then, or even go on meets alone but we mostly work as a couple and prefer other couples. All we’ve found recently is anywhere between 20-50 messages a day along the lines of;

She’s fit meet tonight. Then loads of dick pics attached.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you got a PO Box for our answer? We're old school swingers. We're almost at anceint level between us! "

I remember the old ads in the back of a paper

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Or swinging has just evolved?

Devolved perhaps

I don't agree at all. I also don't like how alot of couples think singles can't be swingers or that we have somehow ruined the scene yet they are happy to fuck us if it suits them.

I point blank refuse to play with couples now because of how some have treated me, I even had to change my profile to straight because of the amount of 'can you come and play with the wife while I watch? She's bi selfish though and I won't play with you either'. Honestly, not only single males have an entitled attitude.

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

"Or swinging has just evolved?

Devolved perhaps

I don't agree at all. I also don't like how alot of couples think singles can't be swingers or that we have somehow ruined the scene yet they are happy to fuck us if it suits them.

Weve had to change our profile. As I the female happy to meet couples solo. However stating that led to everyone just contacting us for that purpose.

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By *irtySekrets OP Couple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

"Or swinging has just evolved?

Devolved perhaps

I don't agree at all. I also don't like how alot of couples think singles can't be swingers or that we have somehow ruined the scene yet they are happy to fuck us if it suits them.

We are sorry that you feel like this and the intention of this Post is not to knock others. We are just saying that the dynamics have changed and whereas Group Sex was more the norm a few years ago, it’s more and more people playing with their own partners in clubs without any “Swapping” with other couples.

And yes. Unfortunately it is now the time of the “Your Mrs is hot I want to come and fuck her” kind of dynamic that is the mainstream of the Site today.

But that is due to instant access on Phones etc and the fact that very few younger people have no respect or manners.

Certainly anything but entitled here xxx

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

"Or swinging has just evolved?

Devolved perhaps

I don't agree at all. I also don't like how alot of couples think singles can't be swingers or that we have somehow ruined the scene yet they are happy to fuck us if it suits them.

And yes. Unfortunately it is now the time of the “Your Mrs is hot I want to come and fuck her” kind of dynamic that is the mainstream of the Site today.

But that is due to instant access on Phones etc and the fact that very few younger people have no respect or manners.

Certainly anything but entitled here xxx"

We're young ish and we are always respectful and have manners. We appreciate we are an acquired taste haha.

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

We've only been involved for the best part of 3 years but even in that short time there has been dramatic changes that we have seen. Now it's the time of the pic collectors, "couples" which are just the guy, fakes or the one that really gets our goat, the single lady that only plays with a fuck buddy and looking for a couple. It is what it is and one of the reasons why we haven't played for ages.

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By *rben112Man
over a year ago

worcester

First couple meet was 20 years ago. I used to use the chat on msn.

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By *ingle Dad SeekingMan
over a year ago

Northern England

Who else remembers "Rendezvous" Magazine?

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By *iMarried2016Man
over a year ago

Near you

"Or swinging has just evolved?

Devolved perhaps

I don't agree at all. I also don't like how alot of couples think singles can't be swingers or that we have somehow ruined the scene yet they are happy to fuck us if it suits them.

You realise i am a SINGLE guy? not a cpl!?

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By *iMarried2016Man
over a year ago

Near you

"First couple meet was 20 years ago. I used to use the chat on msn. "

Haha snap!! The good ol’ days

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Or swinging has just evolved?

Devolved perhaps

I don't agree at all. I also don't like how alot of couples think singles can't be swingers or that we have somehow ruined the scene yet they are happy to fuck us if it suits them.

You realise i am a SINGLE guy? not a cpl!? "

Read your username.

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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

We've had decent luck on Fab finding nice couples. However, it really is like panning for gold!

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