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How come nobody likes friend invites

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Always made me wonder why nobody likes friend invites ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always made me wonder why nobody likes friend invites ?"

It’s only ones where there’s not been any chat beforehand or they get sent uninvited.

People don’t mind them other than that.

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By *ng1983Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon tyne

We will only accept friend invites if it's someone we are chatting to with the intention to meet, or we have met. There are too many people that send friend invites just to steal people's friends only pics/get a bit of wank fodder. We don't see the point in having a massive friends list of people we haven't met or don't intend to meet. We're the same with social media.

Gem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friends invites are fine with me as long as they came from someone I have spoken with before or met or planning to meet in the future. Why would I want to show my 'friends only' pics to someone who never even bothered talking to me but just wants to perv my pics?

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Always made me wonder why nobody likes friend invites ?"

Do you accept all random friend requests you get OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friend adds out of the blue usually means they just want to get a look at the private gallery. And often the people sending the add don't have any pics in their own private gallery. Like you, op

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Never really get em so yeah haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That’s fair enough ??

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Id never accept an invite from someone with no friends only photos. What would be the point?

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

No one likes unsolicited friend invites. Or anything unsolicited.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Can be useful though, wait until they log off, have a look through, then block 'em if they don't please the eye....

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

My friends only pictures are ones I only want certain people to see. It's also a list of bookmarked profiles. That's hardly going to be a random person I've never encountered before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We will only accept friend invites if it's someone we are chatting to with the intention to meet, or we have met. There are too many people that send friend invites just to steal people's friends only pics/get a bit of wank fodder. We don't see the point in having a massive friends list of people we haven't met or don't intend to meet. We're the same with social media.

Gem"

Spot on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always made me wonder why nobody likes friend invites ?"

Because most of them aren’t my ‘friends’. I only have folk I have met on my list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always made me wonder why nobody likes friend invites ?

It’s only ones where there’s not been any chat beforehand or they get sent uninvited.

People don’t mind them other than that. "

What he said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because we aren’t friends.

I wouldn’t accept random friend requests on other social media, why would I on fab?

My friends only pictures are set to friends only for a reason. If I wanted any random person to see them, I’d have them set to public.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always made me wonder why nobody likes friend invites ?"
because if youve never talked to that person how are you a friend and many do it just to look at friends pics

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I like them, from people I want to be friends with. Not people I've never spoken to.

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

My hot list is my fantasy league to fab pics and now awesome vids. Friends list is people I know or they expressed interest in me. The first list is massive the second rather short

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We will only accept friend invites if it's someone we are chatting to with the intention to meet, or we have met. There are too many people that send friend invites just to steal people's friends only pics/get a bit of wank fodder. We don't see the point in having a massive friends list of people we haven't met or don't intend to meet. We're the same with social media.

Gem"

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

If it is someone we have met, then fine.

If it is someone we have exchanged a few messages with and there is a possibility we could meet, also fine.

If it is someone we have never seen or heard of that sends a random friend request, we delete.

Simple really.

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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago

Heaven in the Midlands

[Removed by poster at 09/11/19 13:28:02]

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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago

Heaven in the Midlands

I send friend invites to people who have winked us, then use that list to find what we're looking for at that time.

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By *otfabcouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Because we aren’t friends.

I wouldn’t accept random friend requests on other social media, why would I on fab?

My friends only pictures are set to friends only for a reason. If I wanted any random person to see them, I’d have them set to public. "

Pretty much this

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Always made me wonder why nobody likes friend invites ?"

Only from FRIENDS not some strangers.

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By *opite_xWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I have no friends on here, I don’t really get the point? If I like someone I’ll send a direct face pic so I have no friends only pictures, what other features are there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We won’t accept from anybody we don’t know/haven’t met. Most people who send random requests appear to be just picture collectors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi I’m a perfect stranger please give me access to your most intimate pictures in here !!!! Errrrrr no !!

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

A woman offering her private photos for you to see is a privilege so it's not done lightly.

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

stockport

Random friends invites are just presumptuous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think being a friend should be something that you earn over time. Thats why we have a hot list with the focus then with getting to know them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always made me wonder why nobody likes friend invites ?

It’s only ones where there’s not been any chat beforehand or they get sent uninvited.

People don’t mind them other than that. "

This

I just delete random ones.. and then block if they send again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always made me wonder why nobody likes friend invites ?"

What does a friend invite mean to you?

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


"I have no friends on here, I don’t really get the point? If I like someone I’ll send a direct face pic so I have no friends only pictures, what other features are there?"

Updates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t like them because they are 99.9% of the time unsolicited from people I have never spoken to.

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London

I won’t accept friends requests from random people who I have never spoken too. I only accept from people I have spoken to for a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who are friends don't mind its when its a stranger invite people get narked.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We always accept friend invites from people we have met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like them, from people I want to be friends with. Not people I've never spoken to. "

This.

And no matter what I say on my profile, they keep piling up from people I have never spoken to. My hubby and I have to assume that either the senders are dumb as a sack of hammers, or are bat-shit crazy.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I like them, from people I want to be friends with. Not people I've never spoken to.

This.

And no matter what I say on my profile, they keep piling up from people I have never spoken to. My hubby and I have to assume that either the senders are dumb as a sack of hammers, or are bat-shit crazy."

Reading is for suckers.

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

We dont mind people sending them once weve been chatting, but out of the blue invites scream "we want to look at your private pics without making the effort to talk."

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

We have our face pics there and don’t want to share with everyone, don’t understand why people send random invites when never even chatted to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly.

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Always made me wonder why nobody likes friend invites ?"

We accept them from people we're chatting to. So not everyone dislikes them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always made me wonder why nobody likes friend invites ?"

people do, maybe its something about your pe, we tenf to only friend people we have met or are going to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The that ger us are those that fab your pics then send a friends invite, not even a pic aded to message and none in public, delete.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

If they are sent no previous contact its rude and if I wanted everyone to see my pics,I'd put them public.

I don't mind after i have chatted to someone for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't accept random requests on social media and I think it's rude to just send them with chatting first. I've got my face pic in there so only add who I'm planning on meeting.

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

We like friends invites after we have talke,genuine profile ,photos on profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like friend invites. From people who I want to meet. And after some chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like them, from people I want to be friends with. Not people I've never spoken to.

This.

And no matter what I say on my profile, they keep piling up from people I have never spoken to. My hubby and I have to assume that either the senders are dumb as a sack of hammers, or are bat-shit crazy."

Same here.

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

The hint is In the name

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"We will only accept friend invites if it's someone we are chatting to with the intention to meet, or we have met. There are too many people that send friend invites just to steal people's friends only pics/get a bit of wank fodder. We don't see the point in having a massive friends list of people we haven't met or don't intend to meet. We're the same with social media.

Gem"

This exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Imagine if someone ran up to you in the que at Tesco, grabbed your arm and shouted "FRIENDS" at the top of their voice. Then they rummage around in your phone for some private photos you would only really share with someone your intimate with. You get offended by this and they don't like it, so they start showing everyone in Tesco some choice images of you getting your rocks off. What a kafuffle

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire


"We will only accept friend invites if it's someone we are chatting to with the intention to meet, or we have met. There are too many people that send friend invites just to steal people's friends only pics/get a bit of wank fodder. We don't see the point in having a massive friends list of people we haven't met or don't intend to meet. We're the same with social media.

Gem

This exactly "

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Imagine if someone ran up to you in the que at Tesco, grabbed your arm and shouted "FRIENDS" at the top of their voice. Then they rummage around in your phone for some private photos you would only really share with someone your intimate with. You get offended by this and they don't like it, so they start showing everyone in Tesco some choice images of you getting your rocks off. What a kafuffle "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always made me wonder why nobody likes friend invites ?"

I like them. I see them as an invitation to look at friends only pics before deciding if I'm interested. Doesn't mean they stay on my friends list after I've looked through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id never accept an invite from someone with no friends only photos. What would be the point?"

That always makes me chuckle, no friends only pic but sends friends invite, I always ask why ? You’ve no pics, you certainly ain’t seeing mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The hint is In the name "

I perve then I unfriend

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"The hint is In the name

I perve then I unfriend "

Wont lie. Weve been guilty of this in the past!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always made me wonder why nobody likes friend invites ?

It’s only ones where there’s not been any chat beforehand or they get sent uninvited.

People don’t mind them other than that. "

This ^

Wank hounds hunting pictures for their collection are just an annoyance

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

Because no one is friendly nowadays

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By *eresa_cdslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Bodmin

My friends are just that, people I have met, enjoyed and who I will meet again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always made me wonder why nobody likes friend invites ?"

We only do frien invite if e have already chatted or met them..

To many picture hunters on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's intrusion .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always made me wonder why nobody likes friend invites ?

We only do frien invite if e have already chatted or met them..

To many picture hunters on here! "
what do they do with the pics......... i mean a pics no good to me i want the woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually have 0

Friends on my list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always made me wonder why nobody likes friend invites ?

We only do frien invite if e have already chatted or met them..

To many picture hunters on here! what do they do with the pics......... i mean a pics no good to me i want the woman "

Probably have a wank when the wife/girlfriend is asleep!

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