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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Apologies if this has been done to death.

Am I alone in having a long, but pointless Friends List on here? None of them ever speak, and I've just worked out that I've met 14 out of my 45 friends on here.

How does ratio compare with yours?

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By *ipseyTwoCouple
over a year ago

Biggleswade

Have 3 met 3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a clear out of picture collectors every so often. If we don’t regularly chat I delete x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met 3 out of the 11 friends....if I don't speak with any of them regularly I temove

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 10, have met 2... Expect to meet 3rd soon.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Interesting. So perhaps the problem is actually me bothering to keep them on friends list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I currently have 4. I’ve met 2 and I’m hoping to meet with the other 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have about 10 people on my friends list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 11 on mine and ive met 8 of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have around eight and have met two x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My ratio is all to cock (as they say in parts of the North). SO far this is proving that I should be culling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting. So perhaps the problem is actually me bothering to keep them on friends list."

I’d definitely be having a friends cull.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do a regular clear out of people who I stopped chatting with.

The list isn't long. People I intend to meet mostly, if circumstances allow.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do a regular clear out of people who I stopped chatting with.

The list isn't long. People I intend to meet mostly, if circumstances allow. "

This in my view, is really the point of the friends list - people you intend/intended to meet. Clearly there needs to be an expiry date.....best before date on people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I met 20% of them.. roughly. But by mid December it will be half.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

met 14 of my 18 most at asylum and they are good friends too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"met 14 of my 18 most at asylum and they are good friends too "

Aah yeah, actual friends from clubs skew the ratio in respect of this thread, but thanks for replying

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh I met 20% of them.. roughly. But by mid December it will be half. "

Someone has a busy few weeks coming up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have about 10 people on my friends list."

I forgot to add I met 7.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have about 10 people on my friends list.

I forgot to add I met 7."

See, this sort of ratio is way more sensible. I'm off to cull. I'll report back with my findings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have many, but the ones i do have, I've either met or would like to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have about 10 people on my friends list.

I forgot to add I met 7.

See, this sort of ratio is way more sensible. I'm off to cull. I'll report back with my findings "

Just delete and forget. It's only fab after all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have about 10 people on my friends list.

I forgot to add I met 7.

See, this sort of ratio is way more sensible. I'm off to cull. I'll report back with my findings

Just delete and forget. It's only fab after all "

Yeah, I've deleted more than half of them - very cathartic. Thanks x

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I've got 15 on my friends list. I've met 7 of them. I've got a handful of folk I chat to semi regularly but haven't met and a couple that I've added recently. Every so often I remove anyone I haven't spoken to in a long time that I don't consider to be an actual friend.

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By *lwayshorny79Woman
over a year ago

Leicester

I only add people I have met to my friends list. So I have 7 in my list.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cull complete. I now have 23 friends, 14 I've met, the rest I either speak to or plan to meet. Much tidier.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness

From our friends list.

About 32% we have been with intimately.

The rest we have either met socially or would like to meet in the future.

Its kind of a reminder list as we don't swing often. So it reminds us of who we have liked the sound of when chatting but not available to meet for some months.

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By *lack swanWoman
over a year ago

sunset

I’ve got 3 and met 2. Was meant to meet the 3rd but I broke my leg. Soon though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cull complete. I now have 23 friends, 14 I've met, the rest I either speak to or plan to meet. Much tidier."

Well done, OP. Have some rest now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have friends and met them both, don't see point adding loads, there's no benefit. A bit like social media and bragging you have X number of friends.

Ask your self how many of them will be at your funeral?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apologies if this has been done to death.

Am I alone in having a long, but pointless Friends List on here? None of them ever speak, and I've just worked out that I've met 14 out of my 45 friends on here.

How does ratio compare with yours?"
i haven't met any of my friends but met a few strangers

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

We have a very small friends list majority of people we have met in socials...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't add anyone to my friend list unless I've at the very least met them and had a conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have friends and met them both, don't see point adding loads, there's no benefit. A bit like social media and bragging you have X number of friends.

Ask your self how many of them will be at your funeral? "

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Never counted our friends list but it must be well into 100. Only met one of them.

Katie.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Have friends and met them both, don't see point adding loads, there's no benefit. A bit like social media and bragging you have X number of friends.

Ask your self how many of them will be at your funeral? "

From my friends list on here 3 almost certainly would if I died tomorrow. One is my partner so I'd come back to haunt him if he wasn't .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have friends and met them both, don't see point adding loads, there's no benefit. A bit like social media and bragging you have X number of friends.

Ask your self how many of them will be at your funeral?

From my friends list on here 3 almost certainly would if I died tomorrow. One is my partner so I'd come back to haunt him if he wasn't ."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe half so far the other half I might meet or might not im still undecided.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I have 4

One is my other half

2 i have met and 1 i have chatted to for years.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I have met 31 in my friends list.

Some I keep in contact through the chatroom and whatsapp.

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By *iberty RedWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I have seven & have met all seven, only add someone as a friend if I've met them.

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

I've met 14 of 17 on my list. If they go quiet for long, they are usually deleted.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I've got about 25-30 friends, some I've met, some I intend to meet, some are from the forum, and some haven't been online for ages but I don't have the heart to delete them.

I don't see the point in having a massive list of friends you'll never interact with.

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By *gcw2014Couple
over a year ago

just outside of liverpool

We have a clear out every so often if we dont keep in contact

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Most on ours are friends we have met and stay in touch with, there are only a couple on ours that we haven’t met but are hoping to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have 5 met 0

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By *anni and RicCouple
over a year ago

York

160 friends about 70 we've met...does that mean we need a clear out

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"We have a clear out every so often if we dont keep in contact "

Mine could do with a trim

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

My friends list is only people I have met and can class as chums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Culled a few today..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met 36 out of 38

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a clear out. It's 0 on the list.

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By *aughty50sCouple
over a year ago

Yorkshire - but we travel a lot

Just checked - 15 friends - 7 we've met, 6 we would like to meet, and 2 party organisers. We usually only accept a friend request if we think we would like to actually meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone want to be my friend

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We have 3 so far. Met one, hopong to meet the other 2 very soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 friend, from the add a friend post! Nothing to clear out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7 friends met them all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got 12.

A few ive been chatting to for years, a few I've met that I'd meet again, 1 who likes to perve over my friends only pics but doesn't want to meet, i don't mind because he's hot. And the rest are possible meets..

Did have alot more but had a clear out the other day. X

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