FabSwingers.com forum: The lost art of kissing

By *indMasterUK OP Man
over a year ago

All over England

For the 1st time in ages I met a couple at Chams on Wed night where the lady absolutley loved/adored/demanded long, deep kissing. "Passion" she exclaimed "all starts with kissing!" I agree wholeheartedly. Have the swinging males forgotten that kissing is a great way to start foreplay, end 'afterplay' and can also be applied in-between!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a man cant or won't kiss then end og as its my biggest turn on and something im amazing at

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I don't think it's lost? Most people I meet do it quite well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could not agree more. I love watching my partner being kissed. It's all part of it for us...Tho sometimes it is just the visceral needed. Think this ties in with the affection thread too. I like to see swinging with kissing and genuine affection as well as filth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I love a good kiss ..Cant beat a right good snog to get things going

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I love a good snog. But i think i can get a bit too intense. I could literally snog someone for hours if they’re a good kisser and then they’re a bit like “put me down woman, i’m dehydrating!”

My favourite form of foreplay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recently had a lady kiss me that was so amazing that I was the most turned on I’ve ever been....now simply love it x

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By *rK MrsJCouple
over a year ago

Kidderminster

"I love a good snog. But i think i can get a bit too intense. I could literally snog someone for hours if they’re a good kisser and then they’re a bit like “put me down woman, i’m dehydrating!”

My favourite form of foreplay.

Kissing is a very important part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It sounds a contradiction but maybe some people are ok with the intimacy of sex but not the far more intimate act of kissing

For me it has to be a part of any type of meet

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I only meet men who love kissing for ages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its such a massive part of the build up of good play - without it seems so cold and mechanical.

Back when we first started our journey we did give consideration to not kissing others, but decided to try and it wouldn't feel right any other way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think ours is the only couple profile to answer yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I was typing another couple answered lol

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By *rof_cplCouple
over a year ago

Gerrards Cross

Another couple that loves kissing here. I think we even say that on our profile.

Each to their own and everything but no kissing = no sex for us.

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

I love kissing...... Always willing to go on a refresher course.....!!!

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By *nglishCharmMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Kissing in my opinion is a part of passion, shows how passionate you are from soft to full on, sex wouldn't feel the same..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a nice kiss. For me slow and gentle gets me going, esp when I'm on top

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By *indMasterUK OP Man
over a year ago

All over England

I see the 'kissing fans' are on this afternoon. lol. Perhaps I should start another thread: The best and worst experiences of kissing.....

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By *emptress and GentCouple
over a year ago

leeds / London

Another kissing loving couple here! Such a massive part of the enjoyment of swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is overrated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our profile states quite clearly that we love kissing, both each other and the people we meet

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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago

gillingham

Kissing is all part of it I think love a passionate kiss yer do meet people here and in clubs and see profiles where people won't kiss there missing out if you ask me.

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By *rviennaCouple
over a year ago

Kent

Love a long smooch and tickling tongues

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By *hine100Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

It's essential. Without good kissing first then what follows is just mechanical. The passion and total pleasure always start with the kissing for me.

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By *jr41Couple
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Kissing is wifey's kryptonite. Be good at it and the panties literally drop.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

Kissing is delicious... without it, we don’t enjoy playing anywhere near as much. Xx

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

"If a man cant or won't kiss then end og as its my biggest turn on and something im amazing at"

This

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By *nkedMilfWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

I've only had 1 meet where there was no kissing, needless to say I didn't meet him again.

I simply don't get people that don't kiss! That's where it all starts!

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By *inky kissersCouple
over a year ago

South East

Kissing is absolutely essential with anyone we are playing with. Have been surprised to meet some people who were not very good at it

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

"I've only had 1 meet where there was no kissing, needless to say I didn't meet him again.

I simply don't get people that don't kiss! That's where it all starts!"

Same. Our first ever meet was with a lady who didn’t kiss. It just wasn’t right. Kissing makes everything better Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a meet, 2 hours rolling around kissing, still one of my best meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really need the kissing element as part of the play. Ive met couples in clubs who only reserve the kissing for themselves and frankly whilst I respect and understand their wishes its a real turn off for me.

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

"I've only had 1 meet where there was no kissing, needless to say I didn't meet him again.

I simply don't get people that don't kiss! That's where it all starts!

Same. Our first ever meet was with a lady who didn’t kiss. It just wasn’t right. Kissing makes everything better Xx"

It just doesn’t feel the same without the intimacy of kissing, does it. It’s the whole body experience I love. Tongues lips hands and bodies entwined. Just so wonderful I can’t imagine playing without that being at the start and the heart of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't experienced kissing being a lost art.

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

Had 2 meets with no kissing ,we made it work but certainly wasnt as exciting and intense as others ,im old fashioned and loved to flirt and be touched and kissed ,we dont have a no kissing rule as it means nothing without it ..

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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago

shropshire

Love a good kiss. mouth tongue exploring..makes the whole naughty meet better

Foxy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it. So sensual, intimate.

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By *oneypot40Woman
over a year ago

Taunton

"Kissing in my opinion is a part of passion, shows how passionate you are from soft to full on, sex wouldn't feel the same.."

Agree fully, although I respect the feeling of one or two of my regular partners that kissing is for their other halves only, but I proffer a (facial) cheek for a goodbye peck on their way out the door. They ain't getting away scot free....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing? No sex.

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

"Had 2 meets with no kissing ,we made it work but certainly wasnt as exciting and intense as others ,im old fashioned and loved to flirt and be touched and kissed ,we dont have a no kissing rule as it means nothing without it ..

So pleased you feel the same way I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it, think the best way to start and end a meet, lots of kissing and sensual snogging.

Makes me so hard and guaranteed to repeat quick and harden whilst still deep inside with kissing. Hmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I LOVE KISSING!

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

So pleased you feel the same way I do

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And why would that be ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is the first step towards intimate sex .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it. Always the best place to start.

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

I’d need to meet n n enjoy a good kissing before sex tbh

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

So pleased you feel the same way I do

And why would that be ?

Oohh....I do love a tease

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first made love to a girl in Ibiza we kissed for almost an hour. We had slow passionate sex, but our main focus was in kissing the whole time while we did it. We were both locked in a passionate embrace and it felt like our bodies had become one. Hard to describe unless you've experienced it. We also exchanged our drinks from each other's mouths and it was the most memorable night of my life. I have had many sexual partners and experiences over the years, but that night was the most passionate and memorable by far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See our username, lol... It's a must for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to love a good kiss

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By *urygent1Man
over a year ago

North West

Nothing wrong with intense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recently had a first social meet where we stood kissing in the pub car park in the rain for two hours.... I was so wet!

Good kissing is amazing foreplay x

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By *embudWoman
over a year ago

LONDON

Kissing is the best part of foreplay!

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By *embudWoman
over a year ago

LONDON

Having sex with someone you didn't really fancy, just for the sake of having sex!

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By *ummer breeze300Woman
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Kissing before during and after a must it's the biggest turn on for me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kissing before during and after a must it's the biggest turn on for me xx"

Totally agree xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing

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By *unningFoxWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I love kissing. Short teasing, biting lip going into more passionate and than some french but hate wet sloppy kisses when your face is dripping after them. To be honest only 50% know how to kiss and build intimacy and that’s really sad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Massive fan of long, passionate, messy kisses. Love having my lips bitten and having my tongue sucked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing. Kissing my lady passionately and dancing with her tongue with mine is what gives me intense pleasure. The longer the better I enjoy!

That thought turns me on.

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By *hezzie BikersCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Love a good song

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite like laying between 2 men kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve always enjoyed a passionate kiss , add a bit of lip biting and mmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is an art!

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

It definitely isn't lost.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is amazing, im not judging in any way but get my head around those people who wont kiss but each to their own i guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kissing is amazing, im not judging in any way but get my head around those people who wont kiss but each to their own i guess"

*cant get my head around

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

It’s not lost, I love kissing, males and females

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For the 1st time in ages I met a couple at Chams on Wed night where the lady absolutley loved/adored/demanded long, deep kissing. "Passion" she exclaimed "all starts with kissing!" I agree wholeheartedly. Have the swinging males forgotten that kissing is a great way to start foreplay, end 'afterplay' and can also be applied in-between!?

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its too personal, she may fall in love with you and leave her man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I quite like laying between 2 men kissing

Both at the same time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I quite like laying between 2 men kissing

Both at the same time?

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yes they kiss over her and use her face as a chin rest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I quite like laying between 2 men kissing

Both at the same time?

yes they kiss over her and use her face as a chin rest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is my favourite foreplay. Never understood people who allow the most intimate actions but add “no kissing!”

Kissing is such a turn on without it sex is much less fun.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I adore kissing. If a kiss is bad it doesn't go any further. If it's good then I'm putty in their hands x

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London

Nothing guarantees a faster boner that a good old snog

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By *aughtybutniceBBWWoman
over a year ago

The County of Northamptonshire

Deep, passionate kissing is the precursor to all good things

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By *ammy lynWoman
over a year ago

Stoke-on-trent

"Could not agree more. I love watching my partner being kissed. It's all part of it for us...Tho sometimes it is just the visceral needed. Think this ties in with the affection thread too. I like to see swinging with kissing and genuine affection as well as filth

Dx"

Couldn't agree more, well said xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it weird that some couples don’t allow kissing

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

I had a regular friend a few years back from a different site who wouldn’t kiss with open mouths. Everything else was great, but it made for a slightly weird dynamic. It just want her thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to kiss such a turn on xx

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By *ravellerukMan
over a year ago

highbridge/Burnham

When we first started swinging we had agreed that kissing was out of bounds. However on our recent resurgence we have opened the door to kissing and it feels like it has added something more to meets.

Although I will say it’s only been my OH with anyone to kiss so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems a lot of women in Leeds/Wakefield don’t enjoy a long sensual kiss anymore ?? shame really

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By *isstonguetasticjoWoman
over a year ago

widnes

There is nothing worse than men who just want to meet u for a fuck or bj then judt guck off

U cant beat a natural starting point in a meet thsn a nice long passionate kissin session builds the horninrss up

Then wandering hands start

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By *ueen of sleezeWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"If a man cant or won't kiss then end og as its my biggest turn on and something im amazing at

This

Me too xx

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex

"If a man cant or won't kiss then end og as its my biggest turn on and something im amazing at"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is nothing worse than men who just want to meet u for a fuck or bj then judt guck off

U cant beat a natural starting point in a meet thsn a nice long passionate kissin session builds the horninrss up

Then wandering hands start

This

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex

"I haven't experienced kissing being a lost art. "
Smoochable lips

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By *ensual EroticismCouple
over a year ago

derby

Slow sensual snogging is the most amazing start to play

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By *esse1972Man
over a year ago

Rugeley

Can't meet a lady that wont kiss, its sets the mood for the foreplay, a big turn on. Love to spend ages kissing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Slow sensual snogging is the most amazing start to play "

Totally agree

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By *oneypot40Woman
over a year ago

Taunton

"When I first made love to a girl in Ibiza we kissed for almost an hour. We had slow passionate sex, but our main focus was in kissing the whole time while we did it. We were both locked in a passionate embrace and it felt like our bodies had become one. Hard to describe unless you've experienced it. We also exchanged our drinks from each other's mouths and it was the most memorable night of my life. I have had many sexual partners and experiences over the years, but that night was the most passionate and memorable by far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can immediately guage a persons sensuality by their kiss. Has to be someone who lets go completely and let's the passion course through the kiss. Not over the top and think that a bite mid kiss is a real mood killer.

A long passionate snog is incredible and highly erotic experience as it can hint at the pleasure that follows. Always amazing how everyone kisses differently.

Happy kissing fabbers xxx

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I couldn't meet any man who didnt like kissing.... I find it so sensual and such a turn on xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn't meet any man who didnt like kissing.... I find it so sensual and such a turn on xx"

Exactly how I feel expect I couldn't meet a women who didn't like to kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn't meet any man who didnt like kissing.... I find it so sensual and such a turn on xx"

Oh you can't beat a good old fashioned snog . It gets me going evertime x

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Like others have said kissing is essential for me I couldn't have sex with someone who didn't want to kiss. It's that first kiss when you know if there is proper chemistry. The first kiss makes or breaks it for me. A bad kiss will kill the mood but a good kiss is great and an amazing kiss when you both just click well that leads to some pretty amazing sex I find.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I recently had a meet with another couple and a lady friend of mine. The other couple didn’t kiss, their rules so we respected them. Big disappointment.

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By *ornyboy189Man
over a year ago

cheshire

Love kissing, biggest turn on for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you think other men have lost the art OP?

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Exactly i just luv KISSING but my lady friend hate KISSING i think i will have to send her to KISSING school lol

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By *r_TrojanMan
over a year ago

In The North

Nothing beats a good kissing session and it's a sure fire way to get me really turned on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they won't kiss i won't play....you should meet me at chams! Id be happy to have a good kissing sesh...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems a lot of women in Leeds/Wakefield don’t enjoy a long sensual kiss anymore ?? shame really "

Not my experience of Leeds and Wakefield women. Or men.

I really don’t think kissing is a lost art OP.

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By *ihimbiherCouple
over a year ago

lightwater

Julie Roberts said it well in pretty women.

Too personal for some however like most, we love love love a good snog!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I quite like laying between 2 men kissing

Both at the same time?

yes they kiss over her and use her face as a chin rest

My mouth is big enough for a side each for them

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

"Julie Roberts said it well in pretty women.

Too personal for some however like most, we love love love a good snog!"

Ksiising and watching others kiss is just so erotic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's nothing I enjoy more than kissing , it's such a big turn on for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Won’t even consider play without kissing. It sets the mood better than anything.

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

Had a meet today where the kissing made if so much more special .no kissing rule doesnt apply to us !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since joining fab I have noticed this, I haven't had a good passionate kiss, I've been disappointed on that front. I just love a good kiss.

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By *cloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull

We love long passionate kissing sessions - they are such a turn on.

I can quite often find myself on the edge of orgasm with kissing - knee buckling stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We love long passionate kissing sessions - they are such a turn on.

I can quite often find myself on the edge of orgasm with kissing - knee buckling stuff "

Love a long kissing session

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