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By *na78 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I recently made a girl cum 13 times in one session and she refuses to verify me! What's a guy gotta do on here! Is she hoping to keep me to herself???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I recently made a girl cum 13 times in one session and she refuses to verify me! What's a guy gotta do on here! Is she hoping to keep me to herself??? "

13 times and no verification? How dare she??? Aim for 15 next time! LOL

Niki x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody is entitled to a verification.

Maybe she faked it?

Ask her. We don’t know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I recently made a girl cum 13 times in one session and she refuses to verify me! What's a guy gotta do on here! Is she hoping to keep me to herself???

13 times and no verification? How dare she??? Aim for 15 next time! LOL

Niki x"

15 times is the magic number. I always give a lady 20 orgasms just to make sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she keeping a secret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I recently made a girl cum 13 times in one session and she refuses to verify me! What's a guy gotta do on here! Is she hoping to keep me to herself???

13 times and no verification? How dare she??? Aim for 15 next time! LOL

Niki x

15 times is the magic number. I always give a lady 20 orgasms just to make sure. "

Wow - and may I ask how long you do this in. Do you time yourself? Like "oh last time she came 10 times in 10 minutes, so this time I'll beat that number???"

This thread has got me in stitches...... Seriously guys???

N x

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By *na78 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I know!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

13?? Come on man up your game, if its not 25 a meet you don't deserve a veri!!

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By *na78 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Oh, there was no faking involved, everyone was felt!!!

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By *na78 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Well I was over an evening/morning, and I cooked breakfast in bed! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some people don't want to verify for a few reasons, sometimes because they just don't want the paper trail of all of the people they have slept with. Other times its because they don't want to be known to have met a bi guy. But your not bi. The point is that people have their own individual reasons.

Meeting is not a transaction, so don't expect a verification. If it comes, great, if not, so what.

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By *abriellajackCouple
over a year ago

Newport

This needs to be looked into. I mean this is the 5th thread this week where an unverified guy has given a woman the night of her life and not received a verification! We have an epidemic on our hands!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I was over an evening/morning, and I cooked breakfast in bed! Lol"

Maybe that's it, she obviously prefers breakfast cooked in the kitchen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This needs to be looked into. I mean this is the 5th thread this week where an unverified guy has given a woman the night of her life and not received a verification! We have an epidemic on our hands!"

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By *na78 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Here here! Lol x

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

The unwritten rule here is:

20 orgasms, or no veri

15 orgasms + cake, or no veri

10 orgasms + cake + putting the toilet seat down, or no veri.

#iwish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I recently made a girl cum 13 times in one session and she refuses to verify me! What's a guy gotta do on here! Is she hoping to keep me to herself???

13 times and no verification? How dare she??? Aim for 15 next time! LOL

Niki x

15 times is the magic number. I always give a lady 20 orgasms just to make sure.

Wow - and may I ask how long you do this in. Do you time yourself? Like "oh last time she came 10 times in 10 minutes, so this time I'll beat that number???"

This thread has got me in stitches...... Seriously guys???

N x"

I aim for 1 orgasm every 3 minutes. So in an hour long session, I give a lady 20 orgasms. Isn't maths a marvel?

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By *na78 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

But I'm not unverified or I couldn't post?! Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The unwritten rule here is:

20 orgasms, or no veri

15 orgasms + cake, or no veri

10 orgasms + cake + putting the toilet seat down, or no veri.

#iwish "

See? This lady knows. 20 orgasms is the golden number!

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By *na78 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Cum feel the leg shaking orgasms that I give then judge!? Xxxx

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By *urplequeenWoman
over a year ago

Fife


"But I'm not unverified or I couldn't post?! Xxx"

Think you only need to be here a week to post if I remember correctly. Dont need to be verified

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By *na78 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

You do need to be verified, no matter how long you've been here!!! X

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By *na78 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Night just change the site name to "no single men"!!! Lol

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Did you ask her?

Did you fuck her to have sex or to be verified?

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By *na78 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

To have sex obviously, but why not share? Is it wrong that I ask? Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Night just change the site name to "no single men"!!! Lol"

Good at orgasms not great at catchy site names.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"To have sex obviously, but why not share? Is it wrong that I ask? Xxx"

If you want one, ask her for one. We can't help you with that.

It sounds like you put in an effort and feel like you didn't get anything out of it.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Did you give her a verification?

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By *na78 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Oh I got lot's, just that she shared my verification and didn't give me one!? X

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By *na78 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

See my earlier response! Xxx

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By *heRainManMan
over a year ago

Warrington & Glasgow


"You do need to be verified, no matter how long you've been here!!! X"

Nonsense!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're actually for real, sorry you didn't get your veri. These things happen, though. Move on. Maybe the next lady will give you 1.

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By *ittlemisssassypantsCouple
over a year ago

South East Wales

So you actually managed to get a meet, after being on here only 8 weeks, and had sex but now you’re raging because she didn’t leave a veri?

Single men really will complain about anything!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"So you actually managed to get a meet, after being on here only 8 weeks, and had sex but now you’re raging because she didn’t leave a veri?

Single men really will complain about anything! "

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By *oolguy1989Man
over a year ago

Middlesx

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By *na78 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

As a single guy you need verification before you can post, sorry but it's true! X

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"As a single guy you need verification before you can post, sorry but it's true! X"

Anyone needs to be meet or photo verified before you can post. It's not just men. You have a green tick, so you can post.

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By *na78 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Never said I was raging, just thought if I verified her it might be nice to get one back!? Xxx

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Never said I was raging, just thought if I verified her it might be nice to get one back!? Xxx"

The way your OP is written sounds really angry.

You should ask her.

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By *ittlemisssassypantsCouple
over a year ago

South East Wales


"Never said I was raging, just thought if I verified her it might be nice to get one back!? Xxx"

Sorry, you just seemed angry because of all the exclamation marks you’ve used in all of your replies

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By *na78 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

You are quite correct, someone just suggested if I was in here long enough I didn't need to be verified, which is wrong! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she's still shaking from all the orgasms. Did you leave a pen and paper close by, before you left?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tna you use a lot of !!!

You might come across as less angry if you use fewer. Maybe that's why people think you're angry and bitter.

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By *ittlemisssassypantsCouple
over a year ago

South East Wales


"You are quite correct, someone just suggested if I was in here long enough I didn't need to be verified, which is wrong! X"

You don’t need to be meet verified to use the forums- I think that’s where the confusion is coming from.

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By *na78 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Not angry at all, just wondering why it's ok to be one sided, it's hard enough to be a single guy on here, but hey ho!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she got a bit pee’d off at you keeping a running total ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe she got a bit pee’d off at you keeping a running total ?? "

I think it was because every time she came, he set off an airhorn.

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By *na78 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Not so sure, she thanked me and told me how many times. Not a control freak! Xx

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By *na78 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I know her! Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know her! Lol x"

If you know her ask her !! She may not like the idea of you bitching about her on here ?!??

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By *na78 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Just so everyone knows, not angry, just wondered y someone wouldn't share verification when it was previously discussed, and she had a good time. The number of exclamations is only to show my confusion!? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate it when I wake up from a dream and think it's real too...

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By *na78 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Not birching, she's now gone rs on me which is odd. Suppose she had a husband or something and wasn't being honest, which would suck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she saw you don’t display verifications so thought what’s the point?

Maybe she’s not had time to write about all those orgasms

Do you feel you need the verification like a souvenir?

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Maybe "she does not do verifications """....!!!

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By *na78 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Honestly? Was looking for sum advice, sarccy comments r not appreciated!!

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


"As a single guy you need verification before you can post, sorry but it's true! X"

Photo verification.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly? Was looking for sum advice, sarccy comments r not appreciated!!"

I did give advice earlier. You ignored it.

You're getting lots of silly comments as your posts here seem v angry. Plus I suspect some people doubt you gave her so many orgasms. Those evil doubters.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


"Honestly? Was looking for sum advice, sarccy comments r not appreciated!!"

What kind of advice?

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By *na78 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Tbh honest I didn't want trolls to bother me, just looking for advice, the shite messages I've had since posting this will probably make me leave the site!!! Thx

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Not too sure what advice anyone can give you. Sarky remark not intended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

13.. Unlucky for some

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton


"Tbh honest I didn't want trolls to bother me, just looking for advice, the shite messages I've had since posting this will probably make me leave the site!!! Thx"

Are you not being a bit "sensitive" ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"13.. Unlucky for some"

Lucky for her, though, from the sounds of it.

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By *indMasterUKMan
over a year ago

All over England

A number of F and MF profiles state that they will only meet single men with verifications in an attempt to separate out the timewasters from the genuine. This is quite understandable. One of the downsides is the pressure it puts on the single guys to get verified which invariably means asking for one.... personally I have given up asking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh honest I didn't want trolls to bother me, just looking for advice, the shite messages I've had since posting this will probably make me leave the site!!! Thx"

What advice were you expecting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I recently made a girl cum 13 times in one session and she refuses to verify me! What's a guy gotta do on here! Is she hoping to keep me to herself??? "
omg you are like the orgasm king you are worthy of a veri

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Tbh honest I didn't want trolls to bother me, just looking for advice, the shite messages I've had since posting this will probably make me leave the site!!! Thx"

If you're being trolled, report and block.

If you mean in this thread, I suggest Fab requires slightly thicker skin.

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
over a year ago

Didcot

A lot of people don't bother to verify, for me personally it's no big deal I'm not interested in a score card

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By *na78 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Not being sensitive, didn't expect to be trolled is all! End of my comments on this thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where’s that drop the mic emoji !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where’s that drop the mic emoji !! "

___o---___

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where’s that drop the mic emoji !!

___o---___"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not being sensitive, didn't expect to be trolled is all! End of my comments on this thread!"

You aren't being trolled. How is anybody supposed to answer such a silly question in a sensible way. No one can answer you're question apart from the person you met. Coming on the forum and trying to boast about yourself isn't the right way about it personally..

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

kells

Stories and fantasies are further down the page..

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By *ark-Nat 2016Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

Another true story hitting the headlines

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where’s that drop the mic emoji !!

___o---___

"

You sure that’s a mic dropped and not that wand that gave her the 13 orgasms?

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By *ain n MableWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Maybe she didn't think you were as good as you obviously think you were.

Maybe she was going to have 13 orgasm's whether you were there or not.

Maybe she was hoping to have 20 orgasm's but you bored her after 13 so she stopped.

Who knows. Move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But I'm not unverified or I couldn't post?! Xxx

Think you only need to be here a week to post if I remember correctly. Dont need to be verified"

You actually need to be verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe coz she realised you're fab straight afterwards.

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We have a spreadsheet by the side of the bed, use it to record our time/orgasm ratio so that we can make sure we get verified, only caused a problem when a lovely lady friend of ours took a swinging stopwatch to the eye.

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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago

Fairy Land


" I recently made a girl cum 13 times in one session and she refuses to verify me! What's a guy gotta do on here! Is she hoping to keep me to herself??? "

Possibly for the same reason that Father Christmas, the Tooth Fairy and the Bogey Man don’t leave veris?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I recently made a girl cum 13 times in one session and she refuses to verify me! What's a guy gotta do on here! Is she hoping to keep me to herself??? "

13 times?

Unlucky for some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure this thread will produce a long queue of orgasm hungry ladies

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By *na78 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

So much encouragement and help on here, thanks!!!!

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


"So much encouragement and help on here, thanks!!!!"

Encouragement: you go boy.

Help: phone her and ask for a verification.

Job done!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So much encouragement and help on here, thanks!!!!

Encouragement: you go boy.

Help: phone her and ask for a verification.

Job done! "

Or don’t phone her as that’s probably harrasment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she thinks you’re a verification slut

Just using veris to get the next lay.

Just respect the decision, the whinging is distasteful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a guy who didn’t verify me after a meet last week. I assumed he didn’t like my look or the fun we had as I’d messaged him the next day and he ignored my messages.

Then received a message yesterday from him saying he loved my look and fun and wants to do it again. I’m now thinking that he just wants me as a dirty secret and doesn’t want associated with a tgirl x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So much encouragement and help on here, thanks!!!!"

I thought from an earlier comment you weren't commenting on this post anymore OP?

Maybe that's your issue in not getting the verification and you don't stick to what you say?

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