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Same room vs. Separate room Swapping

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wifey and I prefer separate room. Our reason is, we want to focus on pleasing the person we're with and not be distracted by what's going on in the same bed or the bed beside us. I know other couples find it a turn-on to see their spouse being pleasured, hence same room, but I can be turned on knowing she's in another room being pleasured, maybe more so. Thoughts both pro and con?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer same room it turns me on watching hubby have fun.

Though with a couple we have met a few times before, it would be hot to mix it up and separate xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If playing was just about swapping then we’d have stopped a long time ago, we’ve done the odd separate room swap but in the main we want girl on girl, spit roast, double blowjobs etc etc, not possible if we separate room swap.

In our experience the separate room swappers seem to have issues and hang ups seeing their other halves with someone else, but hey that’s just in our experience

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If playing was just about swapping then we’d have stopped a long time ago, we’ve done the odd separate room swap but in the main we want girl on girl, spit roast, double blowjobs etc etc, not possible if we separate room swap.

In our experience the separate room swappers seem to have issues and hang ups seeing their other halves with someone else, but hey that’s just in our experience "

Very good points! Certain activities can't be done in separate rooms!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We prefer same room it turns me on watching hubby have fun.

Though with a couple we have met a few times before, it would be hot to mix it up and separate xx "

Yes, we aren't opposed to same room, just our preference for the reasons above. Mixing it up would be good, especially for the reasons the above poster stated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We keep toying with the idea of separate room, closest we have come is at a club while rob got changed I went through to a room with a couple we know well and was a bit of soft play, never seen rob so turned on so might take it all the way and full on separate room swap

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By *andCberksCouple
over a year ago

Newbury

separate room here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was here with an ex partner we did same room swap and it was a turn on for us but the gentleman of the couple we met wasn’t happy about how his wife looked more fulfilled than normal. We didn’t get to meet them again. Same room can be just as dangerous for couples as separate room swapping but my good it was good

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By *ork PoppazCouple
over a year ago

Cleckheaton

We enjoy same room, it's how we got into the scene. We enjoy each other and having sex with others. I understand talking about seperate room afterwards is a huge turn on but being there in the moment is very horny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always same room. Sharing and watching.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Many varied responses. There is no right or wrong here, only personal preferences.

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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln

I get major horn watching SSS and he likes to know I’m all good so only same room for us.

TB

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

When meeting with hubby we only do same room and don't simply swap.

For us it's about sharing the experience and adding extra people.

We both enjoy watching and touching each other as well.

That's not to say that we will never do separate room.

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By *aucy SouthernersCouple
over a year ago

Honiton

Same room for us, we find watching each other playing with others a massive turn on

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Always same room for us as it’s such a turn on watching each other..xx

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By *iss EdenCouple
over a year ago

St Albans

Do like separate room swap with the right couple. Very hot.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I prefer same room play when I had a couple profile as I do like the combinations but also I’m more comfortable if it’s the first time we’ve met. I trusted my partner to make sure I was ok so didn’t like it the once we had separate room play.

Just personal preference.

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By *anda and CatCouple
over a year ago

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We swap for our own selfish pleasure, we enjoy each other being pleasured, We do everything together. Each to there own but we just prefer to swing together and can most importantly look out for eachother.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


"If playing was just about swapping then we’d have stopped a long time ago, we’ve done the odd separate room swap but in the main we want girl on girl, spit roast, double blowjobs etc etc, not possible if we separate room swap.

In our experience the separate room swappers seem to have issues and hang ups seeing their other halves with someone else, but hey that’s just in our experience "

This

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By *everbeenhappierCouple
over a year ago

West Norfolk


"If playing was just about swapping then we’d have stopped a long time ago, we’ve done the odd separate room swap but in the main we want girl on girl, spit roast, double blowjobs etc etc, not possible if we separate room swap.

In our experience the separate room swappers seem to have issues and hang ups seeing their other halves with someone else, but hey that’s just in our experience "

Issues and hang ups?

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By *oreplayfunpairCouple
over a year ago

Weston Super Mare

Separate but close enough to hear what's going on but not see it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Separate but close enough to hear what's going on but not see it. "

I .like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our first separate room swap is imminent for us, just need to find the right couple.

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By *quirt23Couple
over a year ago

wiltshire

Always same for us so we can watch at the same time

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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago

Heaven in the Midlands


"If playing was just about swapping then we’d have stopped a long time ago, we’ve done the odd separate room swap but in the main we want girl on girl, spit roast, double blowjobs etc etc, not possible if we separate room swap.

In our experience the separate room swappers seem to have issues and hang ups seeing their other halves with someone else, but hey that’s just in our experience "

I agree. Separate room is just like a hall pass to me, not about the mutual excitement and experience of both.

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire

We like both, same room to start and in general. Separate room on occasion when the Mrs has get to know/trust the other person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If playing was just about swapping then we’d have stopped a long time ago, we’ve done the odd separate room swap but in the main we want girl on girl, spit roast, double blowjobs etc etc, not possible if we separate room swap.

In our experience the separate room swappers seem to have issues and hang ups seeing their other halves with someone else, but hey that’s just in our experience

Issues and hang ups? "

Oh not you! You know the ones who won’t play in the same room ever! xxx

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By *plotgoblinsMan
over a year ago

heritage coast

Only swapped a couple of times ,both in separate rooms! My big regret is not watching mrs ! Unlikely to happen now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We like both, same room to start and in general. Separate room on occasion when the Mrs has get to know/trust the other person."

We have talked about that, too. Seems sensible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always same room for us as it’s such a turn on watching each other..xx"

Def same room..love everyone to be involved...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same room for us

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By *oonloverWoman
over a year ago

bognor regis

We mIx it up depending on mood/who we are with etc love both but if I had to choose would be same room

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By *ecrets4everCouple
over a year ago

X

For years we stuck to same room only but eventually realised it was restricting us.

We rarely found couples we both liked!

Now we do whatever the situation lends itself to.

It means we can play separately with singles too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For years we stuck to same room only but eventually realised it was restricting us.

We rarely found couples we both liked!

Now we do whatever the situation lends itself to.

It means we can play separately with singles too. "

Yes, exactly how we feel.

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By *un50scoupleCouple
over a year ago

Greater London

We’ve only been with one other couple and have done same and separate room but we prefer same room where we all play together

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lots of varied responses! Thank you all for chiming in!

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