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By *ree - Spirits OP   Couple
over a year ago

Close to Inverness

We are a couple looking for our first mmf, male half is concerned in case he can't get hard with another male involved, although fantasising is a real turn on but reality when faced with another male might prove limp!!!

How can this be overcome before we waste time trying? Female half has no such worries.??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are a couple looking for our first mmf, male half is concerned in case he can't get hard with another male involved, although fantasising is a real turn on but reality when faced with another male might prove limp!!!

How can this be overcome before we waste time trying? Female half has no such worries.??"

I don’t really see any other way than giving it a go and making the people you’re meeting aware of your concerns so there’s no awkwardness as such

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could change the dynamic a bit, and set it up that you're going to watch your wife with the other chap. Then there's no pressure to 'perform' but you can jump in if/when you're ready.

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Good suggestions. But finding someone you could be comfortable with should help the performance anxiety?

Change in role to watching, maybe joining in would definitely take pressure off. This is what I’ve been discussing with a fwb.

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By *uto564Man
over a year ago

Widnes

Plenty of touching and foreplay with all of you involved (in what ever way you’re all comfortable with) and I am sure you will relax into it and things will come up

Most important is relax and let things take there course....

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By *ree - Spirits OP   Couple
over a year ago

Close to Inverness

Thanks for your reply, yes that is worth doing, as you say pressure is off then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you can't get hard watching that fit bit get fucked...... Check your pulse

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By *its n cheekynessCouple
over a year ago

chorley

Can always try cialis, much better than viagra if you can get hold of it. Lasts for around 3 days aswell so your missus will think your a stallion for the days afterwards with reclaimation sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you can't get hard watching that fit bit get fucked...... Check your pulse"

What a twat thing to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you can't get hard watching that fit bit get fucked...... Check your pulse

What a twat thing to say"

You do get them

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