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Do Bi ladies actually exist?

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By *ffanotdyke OP   Couple
over a year ago

Telford

This is a serious question. If you were to believe the details of couples on this site it would be easy to conclude that 80% of all ladies are Bi. In our experience this can't be further from the truth.

We are members of three clubs and each have thier own Bi-Nights. We have been going to Chameleons in particular on the Monday Bi Night every 3-4 weeks for over ten years and for all of that time we can honestly say that we have only witnessed girl/girl on action on 2-3 occassions.

As it is obvious that most profiles are written by guys can we conclude that the Bi lady thing is a figment of the male imagination and does not actually exist to any great extent.

We are off to Chameleons Bi Night tonight more in hope that expectation.

G&A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course there’s loads of them. Just like on fab, I think in clubs they get sick of being a fantasy and would rather just find their playtime.

I am bi and happily play at clubs in foursomes with my husband. We have yet to have a ffm because we rarely see single bi women and a straight woman for that would be boring for us personally.

They’re in short supply on the scene because they’re fetishised but they absolutely exist. Most of the couples we talk to have a bi female as that’s who we’d prefer to play with.

Hope you find the fun at the club. . Mrs

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

... Of course we exist.

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Of course there are Bi ladies look at photos and we are just one among many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep we exist, maybe look for private meets where you can find out if the lady is truly bisexual, at clubs the lack of communication means lots of bi girl play doesn’t happen.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

People tend not to ask if I'm bi in a club. It can be easier to play with guys for a variety of reasons.

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

Most definitely

I’ve never played with a girl in a club doesn’t mean I don’t exist lol I think bi nights might be a funny one as we have never been because Mark is straight so possibly same for others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi here

But I do see where you’re coming from OP. Most couples profiles on here say the female half is bi, but then whilst chatting it becomes clear she has never actually played with a female. Well then that is just bi-curious, not bisexual. She might taste the salty ham and think nah this isn’t for me

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

I'm not Bi, but Pansexual. So yeah, but no but. Look at our veris, I may have been known to play girl on girl, and not just for my fella, or putting on a show for others.

Many of us "bi" ladies don't always play ff. As I get fed up with the, " will you take her bi cherry"?. Bi ladies who are bi selfish, take but don't give. And bi only doing it as their fella wants to watch. Or you get the bi lady in a couple, my fella can play with you, I can play with you. But I don't want to play with your fella. Just another way of getting a unicorn.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

What a stupid question .., course we do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m 100% bi but I never play in clubs. Only 1:1 with ladies. So yes, we exist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think no women and bi men.both exist it's not a myth

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Yes we exist !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm here, and feel pretty much the same, if any Bi ladies are passing through the Scottish Borders give me a shout for ff fun

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Yep we exist!! I'm 100% bi and more than happy to play girl on girl.

Weve been to two clubs and not had the best experiences and not seen much play of any kind!

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman
over a year ago

Swansea

I've only had three bi experiences in clubs, don't think I've actually ever been asked if I'm bi in a club either, until we jsit started to kiss!

Private meets arranged on here on the other hand, met quite a few couples where I've played with the lady.

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By *rBBMrsLDCouple
over a year ago

Seaford

I like the ladies too! Happy to meet one on one. Always find it much harder to get a meet for girlie play so much so have even thought of a single profile thinking I may fair better in finding one that way. My husband doesn’t want to watch, the meet is purely for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think bi nights tend to attract couples with bi men, so as above, couples with bi women but straight men may not think of attending.

I’ve seen plentiful ff play at party nights, maybe select those nights where veries clearly indicate ff play is likely?

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By *ooBoo2300Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

Yes we exist! I play ff in clubs most often. I’m not really in to joining a couple for MFF as I’m either asked not to play with the man or he is not really able to satisfy both women

And I don’t want to be the one taking a bi cherry or part of some kind of fantasy experiment. I just want the hot dirty sex please!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am bi, yet find it very difficult to play with another lady in a club as it's hard to tell whether they are bi or not. Also, there is a question whether or not there is any attraction between myself and another woman in a club.

It can actually be a bit easier meeting people 1:1 for some girl on girl action, in my opinion, though have to admit that, in the past, I did experience women who were supposed to be 'bi', but would only want to receive, not give.

But to answer your post, OP- yes, bi women do exist, but I wouldn't think bi nights are the best places to look for them. As I agree with some opinions above, that bi nights seemed to be geared more towards bi/bi-curious men than women.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"This is a serious question. If you were to believe the details of couples on this site it would be easy to conclude that 80% of all ladies are Bi. In our experience this can't be further from the truth.

We are members of three clubs and each have thier own Bi-Nights. We have been going to Chameleons in particular on the Monday Bi Night every 3-4 weeks for over ten years and for all of that time we can honestly say that we have only witnessed girl/girl on action on 2-3 occassions.

As it is obvious that most profiles are written by guys can we conclude that the Bi lady thing is a figment of the male imagination and does not actually exist to any great extent.

We are off to Chameleons Bi Night tonight more in hope that expectation.

G&A "

Not for rocking the apple cart, but your profile shows the lady as bi curious, which to most on here means a show for the boys.

So if you’re looking genuine bisexual women to play with what’s she likely to get out of it.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


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As it is obvious that most profiles are written by guys can we conclude that the Bi lady thing is a figment of the male imagination and does not actually exist to any great extent.

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No man was involved in the writing of my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am bi, yet find it very difficult to play with another lady in a club as it's hard to tell whether they are bi or not. Also, there is a question whether or not there is any attraction between myself and another woman in a club.

It can actually be a bit easier meeting people 1:1 for some girl on girl action, in my opinion, though have to admit that, in the past, I did experience women who were supposed to be 'bi', but would only want to receive, not give.

But to answer your post, OP- yes, bi women do exist, but I wouldn't think bi nights are the best places to look for them. As I agree with some opinions above, that bi nights seemed to be geared more towards bi/bi-curious men than women. "

Totally agree with this, every great bi girl play has been a private meet, very rare a proper bi girl play at a club unless it’s with people we know previously.

Bi nights are really set up for the bi men, Gay and TV/TS scene but are fun, why not come with us to NBN @ Arousals on the 16th

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I've played with loads of women in clubs (I know my profile says straight, there's a reason for that). It's only ever been on a Friday or Sunday night though, never on bi night.

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By *rufinWoman
over a year ago

notts

I just arrange meets directly or go to ff only club nights if that's what I'm looking for.

I know what you mean though ... it's hard to meet women on here ... a lot turn out to be not v curious if their man is not there. So it's perhaps more a performative bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think a lot of them exist because their hubbys/partners want them to exist. Sure there are some genuine ones too, but as you say, there’s more profiles on here that state they are bi, as opposed to not. It’s just a bit of fun though is this site, not to be taken too seriously.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Yes we exist, but need to see profiles that interest us as well as being attracted to the other people. A lot dont like putting on a show for male half either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a serious question. If you were to believe the details of couples on this site it would be easy to conclude that 80% of all ladies are Bi. In our experience this can't be further from the truth.

We are members of three clubs and each have thier own Bi-Nights. We have been going to Chameleons in particular on the Monday Bi Night every 3-4 weeks for over ten years and for all of that time we can honestly say that we have only witnessed girl/girl on action on 2-3 occassions.

As it is obvious that most profiles are written by guys can we conclude that the Bi lady thing is a figment of the male imagination and does not actually exist to any great extent.

We are off to Chameleons Bi Night tonight more in hope that expectation.

G&A "

We do exist...

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"Yes we exist, but need to see profiles that interest us as well as being attracted to the other people. A lot dont like putting on a show for male half either. "

I don’t mind a room full of people watching, what I don’t want is carpet bi, nipples tweaked a lick on the clit. I want to fuck and be fucked anyone who’s curious is not going to cut it with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We see a lot of ff at chams on a Saturday night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You must be on a different version of fab from us then as there are loads of genuinely bi sexual women on here , in couple and solo profiles . I am genuinely bi as you can see from our pics and verifications and have meet up with loads of other bi sexual women over the years on here .

Prob with the site now is that it’s over exposed and too many people know about it leading to all the fake profiles which are increasing at an alarming rate .

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By *empseyANDRedheadCouple
over a year ago

warwick


"Bi here

But I do see where you’re coming from OP. Most couples profiles on here say the female half is bi, but then whilst chatting it becomes clear she has never actually played with a female. Well then that is just bi-curious, not bisexual. She might taste the salty ham and think nah this isn’t for me "

This !

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