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Huge dick vs attraction(average dick).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A question for the ladies

You have two guys on here wanting to meet you, by reading through their profile, you see one of them has a huge fat dick but you are not attracted to him. The other is your type, he's attractive with a great body but has an average size dick? Who wins? I'm beginning to believe this is not the place for me as I'm the guy with the average size dick and I'm black. This site is all about BBC, and now I have a complex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start your own movement ! 'ABC'

I am in the AWP one dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too answer to your question you'll get both answer.

Some ppl reduce sex to genitals so the size of the appendage will impact their choice.

Other need a physical, facial and mental attraction so the size of the appendage isn't an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Average size who ticks other boxes is far more important to me. I do think some on this site fetishise bbc and that must be really frustrating to feel average and like you are not enough.

Many more people choose based on attraction and personality. Good luck op - Mrs

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By *hesexpeopleCouple
over a year ago

s wales

Definitely guy 2! Big cocks actually hurt me so it’s win win with the second guy

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere

I feel your pain op

At a club in an open room recently and playing with a hot girl then in walked a boy with a huge black cock !

I was ditch very quickly

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By *aerphilly85Man
over a year ago

caerphilly

Average is all ways best ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer average size...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I feel your pain op

At a club in an open room recently and playing with a hot girl then in walked a boy with a huge black cock !

I was ditch very quickly "

Mate, that must have been painful. Soul destroying lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Average of course. A cock above 7" will lose with me even if I'm attracted to the owner.

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By *otfabcouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

There's nothing wrong with wanting both. This is fantasy fulfilment for us, so we want attractive and VWE. Sorry if this excludes some, but having preferences is perfectly acceptable on all sides.

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Average for me too.

I think it’s misguided to make the assumption that “every woman is looking for massive cocks”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A question for the ladies

You have two guys on here wanting to meet you, by reading through their profile, you see one of them has a huge fat dick but you are not attracted to him. The other is your type, he's attractive with a great body but has an average size dick? Who wins? I'm beginning to believe this is not the place for me as I'm the guy with the average size dick and I'm black. This site is all about BBC, and now I have a complex."

If it's average dick/everything else going for them vs a big cocked munter with a non-existent personality I imagine that about 98% of women would opt for the former, with the other 2% being those just wanting a glory hole or gb meet?

However what women consider attractive will vary...

B

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By *estinyIsAllCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

We would both rather Mr Average. Big dicks are fun to play with and suck on but to ride them is a different matter. If I want sex, I want a dick that can get balls deep in me. I love the feeling of a body slapping against me.

Besides, you don't get ANY clitoral stimulation from a big dicking. Mr Average can rub against me just right

(This is of course in my experience, others may disagree)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs won’t meet guys with big cocks so there’s our answer

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Mr Average wins for me.

Ps this site is not all about 'bbc'

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way

Mr average for me too. Big dicks can be fun but if he's got nothing else I like about him I wouldn't be able to enjoy it at all.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


"A question for the ladies

You have two guys on here wanting to meet you, by reading through their profile, you see one of them has a huge fat dick but you are not attracted to him. The other is your type, he's attractive with a great body but has an average size dick? Who wins? I'm beginning to believe this is not the place for me as I'm the guy with the average size dick and I'm black. This site is all about BBC, and now I have a complex."

This site is just a tool for people to find what they look for. Believe me, it is not about standalone dicks for a lot of people, myself includes. I would always choose someone I am attracted to over someone I am not, and they will not have to take their trousers off before I decide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really doubt that you’re losing out because of cock size. There’s a really active interracial party scene in the Midlands. Even if it’s not your thing why not try a couple to meet some people and make some connections? If you’re relying on fab to connect with people you are choosing the most labour intensive and least effective way of meeting people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most ladies don't enjoy truly vwe guys. Several ladies in the past have even turned me down for being too big. So it's not all great being bigger!

I think you'll have more luck being a nice guy who's in good shape. Honestly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s not much of a choice really , hardly any women are going to pick the big dicked personality deficit .

I’ll take big over small every single time , you don’t exactly hear guys going crazy over small or average boobs do you . It’s one of the reasons my other half got the job of boyfriend is his size . If he was average he wouldn’t be with me .

It’s a personal choice and considering we are here for our pleasure I don’t see any problem in it . Think you might need to grow a bit of a thicker skin on here as people are all for themselves on a site like this and there is nothing wrong with that .

Not all women are after large though so Hope for you yet . It could be the messages that you are sending or your profile set up ain’t cutting the mustard . Or sending off the wrong vibes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most ladies don't enjoy truly vwe guys. Several ladies in the past have even turned me down for being too big. So it's not all great being bigger!

I think you'll have more luck being a nice guy who's in good shape. Honestly."

That is all well and good but being a black guy with an average cock on fab can sometimes lead to near traumatizing experiences lol... The BBC fetish is quite strong on here. So much so I tend to state from the onset when chatting with a possible meet that I have a very average cock!

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


"Most ladies don't enjoy truly vwe guys. Several ladies in the past have even turned me down for being too big. So it's not all great being bigger!

I think you'll have more luck being a nice guy who's in good shape. Honestly.

That is all well and good but being a black guy with an average cock on fab can sometimes lead to near traumatizing experiences lol... The BBC fetish is quite strong on here. So much so I tend to state from the onset when chatting with a possible meet that I have a very average cock!"

As someone who does not care about sexual statistics, I do hope that you also mention other things from the outset.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


"I really doubt that you’re losing out because of cock size. There’s a really active interracial party scene in the Midlands. Even if it’s not your thing why not try a couple to meet some people and make some connections? If you’re relying on fab to connect with people you are choosing the most labour intensive and least effective way of meeting people."

I was just about to say the exact same thing. There are BMFC at Xtasia and Blackings, try them. And, take my word for it, having a brain is more important than having a big penis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most ladies don't enjoy truly vwe guys. Several ladies in the past have even turned me down for being too big. So it's not all great being bigger!

I think you'll have more luck being a nice guy who's in good shape. Honestly.

That is all well and good but being a black guy with an average cock on fab can sometimes lead to near traumatizing experiences lol... The BBC fetish is quite strong on here. So much so I tend to state from the onset when chatting with a possible meet that I have a very average cock!"

Just say you have a bbc. Problem solved lol. I've seen loads of guys on here who claim to have a bbc, yet their pics show they are v average in size.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really doubt that you’re losing out because of cock size. There’s a really active interracial party scene in the Midlands. Even if it’s not your thing why not try a couple to meet some people and make some connections? If you’re relying on fab to connect with people you are choosing the most labour intensive and least effective way of meeting people.

I was just about to say the exact same thing. There are BMFC at Xtasia and Blackings, try them. And, take my word for it, having a brain is more important than having a big penis."

There’s a couple of others too I think? Plus Dark Desires and Team Player in Birmingham soon. Loads of IR parties up north too if you take a trip to Manchester.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

I find the bigger the cock, the smaller the personality.

So average for me!

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By *udith55TV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

It's what you can do with it that matters, guys with smaller cocks can give more pleasure than a really big one.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"I find the bigger the cock, the smaller the personality.

So average for me!"

I like you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel your pain op

At a club in an open room recently and playing with a hot girl then in walked a boy with a huge black cock !

I was ditch very quickly "
I'd take that as a challenge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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As someone who does not care about sexual statistics, I do hope that you also mention other things from the outset."

Oh I do. That is the essence of having conversations before a meet. I have just found that forgetting to broach the cock size issue esp. for a black guy is more likely to cause you hurt.

I've had a couple who I had been chatting quite well with bluntly say shortly into a cam session, 'that won't do for us, we want 9 inches plus', and abruptly end the video chat.

I respect that people have preferences and most are here to fulfil individual fantasies so now I give a disclaimer early on and avoid disappointment on both sides later on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find the bigger the cock, the smaller the personality.

So average for me!"
what a stupid post.

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By *empseyANDRedheadCouple
over a year ago

warwick

For us a big dick is irrelevant.

If a guy had a big dick and Redhead didn't have an attraction to him we wouldn't even be chatting with him.

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By *erfectly Average CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Might be a bit of a dumb question but what is considered average? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I should stop worrying. I've had an average sized dick all my life and it's not stopped me from having fun. Must be my good looks LOL. Sorry couldn't resist it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Might be a bit of a dumb question but what is considered average? X"

I would assume between 5-7inches based on different sources...

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


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As someone who does not care about sexual statistics, I do hope that you also mention other things from the outset.

Oh I do. That is the essence of having conversations before a meet. I have just found that forgetting to broach the cock size issue esp. for a black guy is more likely to cause you hurt.

I've had a couple who I had been chatting quite well with bluntly say shortly into a cam session, 'that won't do for us, we want 9 inches plus', and abruptly end the video chat.

I respect that people have preferences and most are here to fulfil individual fantasies so now I give a disclaimer early on and avoid disappointment on both sides later on. "

Ignore those who are not interested in you and concentrate on those who are. And get yourself out there offline.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Ignore those who are not interested in you and concentrate on those who are. And get yourself out there offline."

Very sound advice. Doing that now.

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By *hades Of GreyMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Based on years of experience, anything bigger than 6 inches is bigger than average.

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By *ood girl2010Couple
over a year ago

crewe


"A question for the ladies

You have two guys on here wanting to meet you, by reading through their profile, you see one of them has a huge fat dick but you are not attracted to him. The other is your type, he's attractive with a great body but has an average size dick? Who wins? I'm beginning to believe this is not the place for me as I'm the guy with the average size dick and I'm black. This site is all about BBC, and now I have a complex."

rather a nice looking cock I did not like cocks until I met my bf his is big and looks wow to

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By *ulgehunterMan
over a year ago

yorkshire

I love a big dick

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