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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That feeling when you have your first meet and they obviously oblige to leave a verification, only to later ignore you and not verify you....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t like verifying people...

You don’t have to leave a verification.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

You dont have to leave one but I always do x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm aware you don't have to. She offered to leave me one, that's the point I was making...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Changed her mind?

Maybe she’s busy right now and will when she has more time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree they are not obliged to but if they said they would and haven't I would be confused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been asked before not to leave a verification for various reasons before

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

kells


"That feeling when you have your first meet and they obviously oblige to leave a verification, only to later ignore you and not verify you....

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Maybe she thinks it’s one you’d rather not have..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

After leaving them soaked and satisfied, taking pictures and videos and sending it to them like they asked, they should at least keep their word in my book. And this was 2 weeks ago so they've had enough time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it really that big of deal ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After leaving them soaked and satisfied, taking pictures and videos and sending it to them like they asked, they should at least keep their word in my book. And this was 2 weeks ago so they've had enough time."

Have you messaged them and asked?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have been asked before not to leave a verification for various reasons before "

This seems like the most likely reason. She was one half of a couple, maybe not supposed to be playing alone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Have you messaged them and asked? "

Indeed I have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I smell bullshit

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"I have been asked before not to leave a verification for various reasons before

This seems like the most likely reason. She was one half of a couple, maybe not supposed to be playing alone"

Aye. This could very well be it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I smell bullshit "

You should probably get that checked out then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit shit. Sounds like she was playing when she shouldn’t. You’ll just have to try someone else OP...

There’s an upside to everything..

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

kells


"I have been asked before not to leave a verification for various reasons before

This seems like the most likely reason. She was one half of a couple, maybe not supposed to be playing alone"

Or maybe they would rather leave none than one you may not like or agree with..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Or maybe they would rather leave none than one you may not like or agree with.. "

Is there a particular reason you keep reiterating the same point?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Or maybe they would rather leave none than one you may not like or agree with..

Is there a particular reason you keep reiterating the same point?"

Maybe he’s reliving his pain?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Next time hold the vids back until she’s verified, lol.

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

kells


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Or maybe they would rather leave none than one you may not like or agree with..

Is there a particular reason you keep reiterating the same point?"

Oh it just seemed like you didn’t see the last one..

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"I have been asked before not to leave a verification for various reasons before "

Not ever really understood why peeps say this, after all they don't have to display it do they?

S

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Next time hold the vids back until she’s verified, lol."

This seems like the most sensible course of action, however I do sometimes like to have faith in people and expect them to keep their word!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh it just seemed like you didn’t see the last one.. "

Nope, I just didn't want to keep tooting my own horn as to why I'm sure she was satisfied with the meet based on what I felt and what she herself said, so I chose to ignore it.

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

kells


"Oh it just seemed like you didn’t see the last one..

Nope, I just didn't want to keep tooting my own horn as to why I'm sure she was satisfied with the meet based on what I felt and what she herself said, so I chose to ignore it."

Oh I see.. strange she chooses to ignore you so, mind boggling.. I’ve seen very similar posts before and for some crazy reason it seems to happen the unverified a lot..I’m sure she’ll be back for more of the good stuff

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh I see.. strange she chooses to ignore you so, mind boggling.. I’ve seen very similar posts before and for some crazy reason it seems to happen the unverified a lot..I’m sure she’ll be back for more of the good stuff "

If you're insinuating I'm lying then you're free to believe what you want. Nope, she won't be back, and besides I wouldn't meet her again.

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

kells


"Oh I see.. strange she chooses to ignore you so, mind boggling.. I’ve seen very similar posts before and for some crazy reason it seems to happen the unverified a lot..I’m sure she’ll be back for more of the good stuff

If you're insinuating I'm lying then you're free to believe what you want. Nope, she won't be back, and besides I wouldn't meet her again."

Oh no, of course I’M not insinuating that at all..

And how could you after what she’s done..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been asked before not to leave a verification for various reasons before

Not ever really understood why peeps say this, after all they don't have to display it do they?

S"

Because it comes up, when someone has gotten a new verification and some people get pissy about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it really that big of deal ? "

Yes, it probably is to an unverified male user.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Is it mandatory to leave a verification?

I only do if it was good, not necessarily to meet again, but if polite, funny and no danger, but if I didn't feel the chemistry, then no verification.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been asked before not to leave a verification for various reasons before

Not ever really understood why peeps say this, after all they don't have to display it do they?

S

Because it comes up, when someone has gotten a new verification and some people get pissy about it "

Not if you don’t show your summary

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it mandatory to leave a verification?

I only do if it was good, not necessarily to meet again, but if polite, funny and no danger, but if I didn't feel the chemistry, then no verification."

Nope, it's not mandatory to leave a verification, that's not what I said, I said she offered to leave a verification then didn't. However it IS mandatory to read a post before you reply to it

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

I know veris aren't mandatory, but I do think it's good manners. Especially if it's your first meet, it's important to get those first few veris under your belt. Even if I met someone and I wasn't attracted, I would still leave a veri. The only time I wouldn't was if I'd found them rude or obnoxious

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By *ustalittleKinkWoman
over a year ago

in the shadows

Tbh it's a bit shitty of her not to leave a verification when she said she would , especially as its difficult enough for new people on here. It take all of a few seconds to write a simple sentence.

OP forget her and move on. Get yourself to a local social /club , find a new meet or get yourself a cam veri to get you started. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it really that big of deal ?

Yes, it probably is to an unverified male user. "

Desperate times llf

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

If the women in question reads this she may feel vindicated. However they always say if you can't say anything nice then don't say anything.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"I have been asked before not to leave a verification for various reasons before

Not ever really understood why peeps say this, after all they don't have to display it do they?

S"

Ah, but if it’s a joint account can’t the other person see it? (I’ve been watching Miss Marple)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If the women in question reads this she may feel vindicated. However they always say if you can't say anything nice then don't say anything. "

That doesn't make sense in the context but sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the profile wasn't a verified one then they couldn't leave you one even if they tried.

P

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

You'll live

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That feeling when you have your first meet and they obviously oblige to leave a verification, only to later ignore you and not verify you....

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I've not had one mate but had a few meets. But it's not a problem to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, had that, shrug shoulders, move on.

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By *ood girl2010Couple
over a year ago

crewe


"That feeling when you have your first meet and they obviously oblige to leave a verification, only to later ignore you and not verify you....

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we have had lots of meets and me on jy own. had a whole weekend with a lady and still not heard nothing on my veris but she wants to meet again think some like them some not, but its your fist so its a big thing for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

she maybe has been very busy , or cant find your user name to verify you , or maybe something has happened to her internet / there is lots of reasons why you might not have been sent 1

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

kells


"If the women in question reads this she may feel vindicated. However they always say if you can't say anything nice then don't say anything. "

I doubt very much she will..

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

A short message may be all you'll need to do, unless she's read this thread.

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