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Swinging - Lifestyle or Life choice?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have noticed on a few profiles lately that people have recently ended relationships and are on here looking for something else. So is swinging a lifestyle or current life choice for you? i.e. Do you think you will always have it as a part of your life, or is it a good for now thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definately a life choice.

Swinging is only a small part of our life. Will we choose to swing forever? Who knows. Just now we're enjoying some fun, learning about ourselves and others and making new friends along the way.

Long may it continue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its just a means of getting sex for me, but as i alwasy say i dont class myself as a swinger i just use swingers sites to find people for sex, i dont really do pubs and having moved away from home i dont really know anyone round here so swinging sites/clubs are just a easy way to find local people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont see myself as a swinger.. but multiple partner sex is part of our lifestyle.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"its just a means of getting sex for me, but as i alwasy say i dont class myself as a swinger i just use swingers sites to find people for sex, i dont really do pubs and having moved away from home i dont really know anyone round here so swinging sites/clubs are just a easy way to find local people"

Very honest and glad this response came from a woman as I think a lot of guys on here share the same sentiment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good question

personally im not and doubt ill ever be a "swinger"

im just here trying to find a very specific kinda woman for some casual shenanigans

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its just a means of getting sex for me, but as i alwasy say i dont class myself as a swinger i just use swingers sites to find people for sex, i dont really do pubs and having moved away from home i dont really know anyone round here so swinging sites/clubs are just a easy way to find local people"

+1 I have been in this lifestyle for a number of years. Will I always? I have no idea, you never know what's around the corner

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dont see myself as a swinger.. but multiple partner sex is part of our lifestyle.

Cali "

Isn't nsa multiple partner sex as part of a lifestyle = swinging? Intrigued to know what the difference is to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope not at all a lifestyle for me never has been and never really wanted it to be. The swinging scene which I wouldnt say I am really a part of aint my thing on a full time basis.

I use this site when I am single as its perfect for me to meet like minded females for NSA who have a high sex drive as do I.

I have been on this site a couple of times over the last few years.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I think everyone thats on here has chosen to use the scene as a part of their life for whatever reasons they want to get from it, so its both whether they class themselves as swingers or not

The end result should be the same,if I was single id still use it as id find it a safer way of finding the fun that I want without having to deal with the commitment side of things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We flit in and out of the scene all the time. Sometimes we're bang up for it (right now is one of those times) and sometimes it just feels like a bit of a ball ache (and not in the good way).

But, being dirty feckers at heart, I'm sure we'll always dip our toe in every now and again. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An occasional pastime for us. We like the lifestyle but don't live it all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think everyone thats on here has chosen to use the scene as a part of their life for whatever reasons they want to get from it, so its both whether they class themselves as swingers or not

The end result should be the same,if I was single id still use it as id find it a safer way of finding the fun that I want without having to deal with the commitment side of things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Isn't nsa multiple partner sex as part of a lifestyle = swinging? Intrigued to know what the difference is to you. "

I dont class myself as a swinger at all..and no multiple partners is not swinging..

We just find willing cocks pretty much to feed my cum addiction. I think the fact I dont do the sensual side means that I couldnt ever be classed as a swinger.

but its certainly part of my day to day life..

Irony is we are poly and would have others in our relationship on more of a emotional basis.. but just havent really met the right person.

There are loads of threads on here about what a swinger is.. and I certainly dont fit it.. I have friends on here.. but wouldnt play with them.. and I tend to have just sex.. no interaction.. I dont even have to fancy the guys for group play.

cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its just a means of getting sex for me, but as i alwasy say i dont class myself as a swinger i just use swingers sites to find people for sex, i dont really do pubs and having moved away from home i dont really know anyone round here so swinging sites/clubs are just a easy way to find local people

+1 I have been in this lifestyle for a number of years. Will I always? I have no idea, you never know what's around the corner"

i'll do it for as long as im single, and as im not wanting a relationship that could be a while lol but if i ever do find someone and settle down i will stop, but for now it works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont see myself as a swinger.. but multiple partner sex is part of our lifestyle.

Cali

Isn't nsa multiple partner sex as part of a lifestyle = swinging? Intrigued to know what the difference is to you. "

no, i think swinging is a mind set not a life style, i have multiple partners, i go club, i go parties, ive had 3sums with men and couples, gang bangs, ive done everything actually lol but i dont class myself as a swingers....why? dont ask my answers would upset quite a few people on here lol

your a swingers if that what you want to be, if you dont its just sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its just a means of getting sex for me, but as i alwasy say i dont class myself as a swinger i just use swingers sites to find people for sex, i dont really do pubs and having moved away from home i dont really know anyone round here so swinging sites/clubs are just a easy way to find local people

+1 I have been in this lifestyle for a number of years. Will I always? I have no idea, you never know what's around the corner

i'll do it for as long as im single, and as im not wanting a relationship that could be a while lol but if i ever do find someone and settle down i will stop, but for now it works for me "

I dont like wedding cake really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my hubbys a lot older than me, so i will keep seeing men on here, otherwise i wouldnt be getting enough sex, he likes me seeing other men, but he doesnt like it when i moan about ones who havnt been very nice to me. cant say i would ever want to be in a relationship again, not after meeting so many rather unpleasant men, although i have met a few nice ones too.

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By *eaboMan
over a year ago

marden

it's a hobby. Great fun, interesting, varied, highly enjoyable but still a hobby.

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