FabSwingers.com forum: Spur of the moment meets

By *unkhouser72 OP Man
over a year ago

Gtr Manchester

Has any one exchanged a few messages on FAB, arranged an immediate, unplanned meet and got together within minutes/hours ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No. Safety first!

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

No... no one replays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not for me .

Only time i would ever meet spur of the moment is with someone i know well

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Yes quite a few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.I use the see who's near feature. Never had any problems.

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By *unkhouser72 OP Man
over a year ago

Gtr Manchester

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

Yes, on here and elsewhere...

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By *ilk_TrayMan
over a year ago

South

Yes.

It’s quite common to be asked at the last minute to go for a meet, for me anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes x"

That guy struck gold that day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did once. Few years ago. Never again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes x

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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

Yes. Didn't quite work out. Put us off and very uncomfortable as want as he said he was. More cautious now although spontaneous can be exciting if it works out

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By *hesexpeopleCouple
over a year ago

s wales

Only once, years ago we messaged a lady and within 2 hours she arrived at ours, it was a great morning

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By *impleSailorMan
over a year ago

the moon

Yes but only for a social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have once or twice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup... Lots of times

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I've been tempted when I've been really horny but I know I'd be unlikely to enjoy it so never have.

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By *iamond coupleCouple
over a year ago

leeds

There have been times when we have been sat at home, bored, and we have gone on fab and had someone at our house within an hour.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"No not for me .

Only time i would ever meet spur of the moment is with someone i know well"

This for me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has any one exchanged a few messages on FAB, arranged an immediate, unplanned meet and got together within minutes/hours ?"

I did once...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not had that much luck

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"There have been times when we have been sat at home, bored, and we have gone on fab and had someone at our house within an hour. "

I found your post sad. Other half and I work such crazy hours we are like ships passing in the night. Can't imagine the two of us being together and so bored we'd need a third party.

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By *iamond coupleCouple
over a year ago

leeds

The difference is you are, as you say, “like ships passing in the night” and we are both together for most of the day and night

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Yes. Had a good time

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By *harliebluestockingsCouple
over a year ago

london

Why not. Great fun

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By *ondonexplorerMan
over a year ago

Ascot

A few, and always turned out to be good meets.

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By *cott73Man
over a year ago

brighton

Done socials quickly, but the quickest meet, from initial contact to the hotel, was probably about a week.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

"No not for me .

Only time i would ever meet spur of the moment is with someone i know well

This for me too. "

And me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There have been times when we have been sat at home, bored, and we have gone on fab and had someone at our house within an hour. "
same here , we were even fucking when they arrived, they stripped off and got stuck in

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

Oh yes , can be great fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has any one exchanged a few messages on FAB, arranged an immediate, unplanned meet and got together within minutes/hours ?"
no it normally takes weeks months and years to get a meet, they should rename the site patientfabswingers

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By *s1212Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

Yes, a few times. No problems either

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Finedon ,

Yes, and to cap it all she lives only 200 metres away from me.

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By *unkhouser72 OP Man
over a year ago

Gtr Manchester

"Yes, and to cap it all she lives only 200 metres away from me."

Bonus, has it become regular

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

"Yes, and to cap it all she lives only 200 metres away from me."

I had one of those too, back where I used to live! Her house was on the road parallel to ours - and would have been within sight, except for the houses inbetween...

....a spur-of-the-moment meet when she realised how close she was led to a semi-regular thing for a couple of months...

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Yes but not recently .

Theyve previously worked out well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find this type of meet up is easier to arrange. We dobt get much free time and totally fed up of time wasters and no shows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had one once, years ago. It was fantastic. I think spontaneity can sometimes add to the fun in a big way. I'm always game if the other is

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

Yes many many times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we have. We started chatting on here about 2hrs before we met them at a club. We hit it if straight away and they have become great friends x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speaking of spur of the moment meets

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Finedon ,

"Yes, and to cap it all she lives only 200 metres away from me.

Bonus, has it become regular

For a while yes but has stalled recently, we still message but that is about it

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

I find folk get annoyed if I can’t drop everything and dash out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did it our first time, just decided "fuck it, let's take the plunge". Went very well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not on here, but on another swingers site.

It was gawd awful, he turned up for a social in a Lincoln coffee shop, stunk of b/o, nothing like his photo and tried to get his hands up the wife's skirt almost as soon as he sat down, this involved reaching across me to do so, he talked loudly about what he hoped we were going to do,suffice to say it went no further and we parted on surprisingly good terms. He even left + feedback in that site for us.

However, not an experience we'd ever choose to repeat.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Used to, thinking back some really risky meets, few were scary. Calmed it down these days

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

Normally no. I usually take a very very long time before meeting, always social first before meeting up for sex. But over the years have had a few really spontaneous meets - was up, horny, saw someone nice and an hour later we were fucking our brains out. Each time went very well. But only a few times over so many years.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Once or twice. But not completely satisfied. I find the build up of talking and getting to know the person before meeting much more pleasurable.

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By *andyMinx_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds

Not since Saturday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not since Saturday

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did it our first time, just decided "fuck it, let's take the plunge". Went very well"

These have always been my most successful meets.....

I’m finding these meets to be more rare over the years.....

More people I believe are playing it safe than looking for an adventure...

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

"Used to, thinking back some really risky meets, few were scary. Calmed it down these days"

Thinking back, I had a couple of meets with single females that were 'risky' - in that they left doors unlocked for me to let myself in on arrival in the early hours of the morning...

....fortunately, I'm trustworthy, but looking back now, what on earth were they thinking?

Equally, the thought that anyone could have been laying in wait for me never occurred at the time...

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By *aceandHimCouple
over a year ago

Essex

We have done it twice where we have met within hours, and on both occasions worked out very well!

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By *lirtyfun!!Woman
over a year ago

Epsom

Yes, a few months back in Barcelona. We realised we were staying 5 mins from each other

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Yes indeed and it was a great time

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

Spontaneous meets are much more likely to go ahead than planned I've found , too many arranged in advance meets get cancelled last minute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes... But i was blindfolded, so no idea who he was! (arranged by my fb at the time).. Very horny

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

"Spontaneous meets are much more likely to go ahead than planned I've found , too many arranged in advance meets get cancelled last minute "

I deafly agree with that

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

"Yes... But i was blindfolded, so no idea who he was! (arranged by my fb at the time).. Very horny "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. It was possibly up there as the best sex ive had.

And ive never been able to find her since.

Thats nearly 2 years ago.

Someome help hahhaaha

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

I've done so a few times, but only with verified people. It worked for me!

I have had people message me for an Instant Meet. But, invariably, they've not viewed nor read my profile otherwise they'd know if I could or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *iceThickCockMan
over a year ago

Banbury

Yes, they have all worked out well so far

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I used to do it all the time but now I am more choosy and enjoy the anticipation.

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

Yes...sometimes spontaneous meets are good....

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By *hesterXXXMan
over a year ago

in your dreams

Yes. Love this. Not always good but can be amazing

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By *hy_bangor_bi-girlWoman
over a year ago

Bangor

Nope, did it once and it was a bad experience.

Pics were nothing like his profile, attitude changed and he turned up in a tracksuit. Yes i understand it was spontaneous but he could of at least made an effort. It was all about him, he just wanted a quick release and away he goes again.

Now i make sure there's chemistry, trust and we have similar thoughts on the meet ahead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, and theyve been good too. I got what I! wanted out of the meet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they are the best type of meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yeah!!

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Yes, several times.

Still prefer a bit more preparation

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

"Has any one exchanged a few messages on FAB, arranged an immediate, unplanned meet and got together within minutes/hours ?"

Yes. It's my normal pattern of behaviour when I am in the mood.

Come home after an afternoon out, switch on Fab and see who is around.

It can be very exciting.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Nope did it once never again such a bad experience.He is the only guy I have met off here that has actually scared me. So ye never again now I will chat a lot longer so at least you get an idea of what the other person is like before we meet.

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

We did it a couple of times, once with a couple, who were actually just fuck buddies. As the meet progressed it became obvious that it was all about him and T, his partner really didn’t seem fully in on it.

The other time was with a single male, he was great. Polite, playful and Duracell-like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep do it all the time

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