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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Several guys who have messaged me say ladies are rude and nasty, lot’s of polite ladies on the forum I’ve noticed.

Are there two different breeds?

I find manners cost nothing even if a polite “no thank you “ and will do my upmost to reply to all mail received.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two sides to every story. Are they referring to rude conversations or ladies not replying to messages?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think it’s more of ladies either not replying, deleting messages without reading and generally rude manners wise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s me then.... except rude in messages!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it really worth classing as rude?

I was chatting to a woman I meet a few times and she showed me her in box, full of emails and a lot of one liners so I can understand why some just don’t have the capacity to reply or in a lot of cases even get to read the message!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not rude to not reply (see Fab rules).

It’s not rude to delete messages unread when they haven’t read my profile.

It’s not rude to delete nasty / crude messages.

It’s a ‘no thanks’ and the receiver says ‘rude’.

Replying is worse as you get ‘why’

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes us ladies do get overloaded with mail, guys outnumber us.

Personally I reply even if it’s a “no thank you” once they come back begging then it hits the block button. (desperation is not a good basis for a meet.)

Too many take it too personally

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By *otwife for useCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Most guys don’t understand no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Several guys who have messaged me say ladies are rude and nasty, lot’s of polite ladies on the forum I’ve noticed.

Are there two different breeds?

I find manners cost nothing even if a polite “no thank you “ and will do my upmost to reply to all mail received. "

Read between lines it is correct criticism or venting out frustration, not matured enough, some maybe genuinely treated badly or they set wrong expectation for themselves, in absence of truth, lie is true

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'd rather delete my profile than have to reply to every message. I've had over 1000 before. I reply to the ones I want to speak to so I'm not wasting anyone's time, including my own. Do these people who complain really want an inbox full of rejection messages instead anyway?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some statues say they would rather have been declined than not know. The obvious is the obvious

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By *anhung22Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

You hit the nail on the head "ouch"!

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Several guys who have messaged me say ladies are rude and nasty, lot’s of polite ladies on the forum I’ve noticed.

Are there two different breeds?

I find manners cost nothing even if a polite “no thank you “ and will do my upmost to reply to all mail received. "

Ladies not replying does not make them rude. How you run your profile is up to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just had a message chain with a guy. My first response was ‘Thanks but you’re not my type’. He then dragged me into a four message exchange. I didn’t reply to his last one. At which point I got ‘So that’s a ‘no’ then?’.

Because the first message wasn’t?

This is why women don’t reply or are brutally unambiguous in their responses.

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By *heeky-gingerWoman
over a year ago

Not meeting

I’ve also noticed that some people don’t realise that using insults or swearing aren’t the only way of being impolite. If you send me a message asking me about my pubic hair (what colour it is, whether I shave it, if you can see it - and yes, I get plenty of those messages every day) then I’m just deleting that message. I don’t feel like I have any obligation to send a polite reply to messages of that type, and there are plenty of other messages that fit that category too.

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By *estinyIsAllCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

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By *estinyIsAllCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

It costs nothing to be polite whether you get 100 messages a day or 1. We've experienced the arrogance of some single females and males and have genuinely questioned our place on this site as a result from them in the past. Some who do reply are downright nasty in their responses too. However, we learned there's good and bad in all types and sexes on here so we just press on looking for those special people. Don't get me wrong though, I understand why some don't reply and use the delete function as an easy "not interested". It just irks me when an effort has been made in an introductory message for it to get deleted lol. We aren't talking "hi babe hows u" either haha xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a message chain with a guy. My first response was ‘Thanks but you’re not my type’. He then dragged me into a four message exchange. I didn’t reply to his last one. At which point I got ‘So that’s a ‘no’ then?’.

Because the first message wasn’t?

This is why women don’t reply or are brutally unambiguous in their responses."

Exactly this.

I state no couples except those I’ve met in clubs but get messages. Should I respond? Nope

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