FabSwingers.com forum: Honesty - Question for couples

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Male half speaking. This is a question regards to porn. Obviously being on here we're all quite liberal people. But I wonder if you guys have always found it easy to discuss what kind of porn turns you on in your relationships (even with people on here)

Reason I ask is there are some fetishs or areas which some consider out there and I know loads of my non swinging friends who watch porn with their Mrs but a much more turned down version than they would watch themselves lol

When you guys watch porn together are you completely honest about the dirty stuff you like? lol

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

Yup. Porn is porn.

You can watch and enjoy the dirtiest and filthiest kind without wanting to do it.

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By *rotica xCouple
over a year ago

Chepstow/Portugal

I totally get what you mean

I found that hubby was into a different kind of porn when we temporarily split for a couple of days. Our phones were linked and when I went through my search history, his was on there to and I didn’t realise we were linked... it was certainly a fetish lol

I do feel awkward to say about the real porn that gets me off even though I know he doesn’t judge me, I just always feel like a perv.

But yes I feel both of us won’t truly watch our fetishes together so we are tame in what we watch together. Well not tame but could be dirtier

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yup. Porn is porn.

You can watch and enjoy the dirtiest and filthiest kind without wanting to do it. "

Very true

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I totally get what you mean

I do feel awkward to say about the real porn that gets me off even though I know he doesn’t judge me, I just always feel like a perv.

But yes I feel both of us won’t truly watch our fetishes together so we are tame in what we watch together. Well not tame but could be dirtier

Mrs"

My thoughts exactly... We still watch dirty dirty videos but sometimes I'll click on the MMF rather than the bukkake for fear of judgement... slight confession lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anyone else experience this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We share all our fantasies....porn or otherwise. Just cos they’re fantasies doesn’t mean we have to act them out. Never tame anything down.....what’s the point!

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By *ipseyTwoCouple
over a year ago

Biggleswade

Completely honest! To be honest, we watch porn linked to our fantasies...that works quite well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We share all our fantasies....porn or otherwise. Just cos they’re fantasies doesn’t mean we have to act them out. Never tame anything down.....what’s the point! "

we share all from the vanilla to the dam right kinky we are both very very open and non judgemental with each other thats why me n hubs work so well...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. If I don't like what husband is watching I'll watch what I like on a separate device. No problems.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

General consesus is share all which is good but one last question... has anyone every shared and had a bad reaction from their spouse?

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By *ipseyTwoCouple
over a year ago

Biggleswade

Only if she doesn’t like the story!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Only if she doesn’t like the story!"

Lol I'll bare this in mind

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By *incsladyandscotsmanCouple
over a year ago

North fife

We are completely honest, it's really quite liberating and I love seeing him turned on by a variety of different porn..

I'll admit I was a bit nervous how he would feel about some of the things i watch, and whilst he doesn't necessarily get turned on by it himself, he loves the effect it has on me

L x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know exactly the sort of porn my Mr likes and it's definitely not main stream stuff ,but we are quite similar in taste anyway .

But we can talk about anything together nothing is taboo or hidden in our relationship.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

I fem have quite a range and quite way out there range of porn I like. It varis from week to week what I'll watch.

Mr has 3 or 4 types he sticks too.

I'll watch his, but most of mine he'd deline.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are totaly honest about porn, and often watch it together, and between us we decide what to watch, niether has been shocked yet

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By *BW_and_BeauCouple
over a year ago

Tameside

I love watching it together!

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Very very honest about it.

How else am I gonna find out if she wants to do it?!

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"General consesus is share all which is good but one last question... has anyone every shared and had a bad reaction from their spouse? "

One partner was horrified that I was visibly turned-on by a lesbian analingus scene. She changed her mind by the end of it and we recreated what she had been so "shocked" by.

I think that sometimes people feel like they *should* be shocked, even if they are aroused by some stuff.

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By *ady and DjCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

We love watching porn together, we both talked what we like and don't. So they are categories we don't watch together, and since we've talked about more about this, I've found I don't watch them now, and go for what we like.

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