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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are you a local swinger for local people? Or do you travel? Is travelling for sex desperate and sad? Or does it just keep your playmates at a safe distance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 or 15 miles minimum for us

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I dont mind local and I dont mind travelling within reason x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"10 or 15 miles minimum for us"

People have to be at least that far away? So you have a sexclusion zone?

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

I would mostly travel at least next towns rather than locally in my own town

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

No more than 45 mins drive away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good 75 % my local blocked as no interest in meeting them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do both. Although local is better for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Local only as don't drive. Unless chance meets in clubs or at parties

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Ive only met locals a handful of times, not by choice but simply because the people that I like tend to be spread all across the country.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Made the mistake of going too local once and found out after sex that our sons were in the same year at the same secondary school! Also seen her a couple of times in Sainsbury’s and she was married as well!

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Never local.

Made that mistake a long time ago, won't ever repeat it.

Distance isn't an issue, if I like a person.

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

Waveney Valley

I go where the mood and appealing people take me.

On a few occasions that has been up to three or four hours away!

I've met one person from the same town in Suffolk, but since moving out of London, I try not to meet too locally as I like to keep things separate.

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By *aughty50sCouple
over a year ago

Yorkshire - but we travel a lot

Local is good, but we also like to travel (when we get the chance, life is busy!) and make a nice weekend away out of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either it all depends on who id be meeting, some locals i wouldnt want to meet but on the other hand theres people who are or appear to be worth the travel for

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I try to keep it within an hour. Late night travel after a meet hangs over me a bit. I can have my arm twisted with offers of food though.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Both, but prefer a short distance. I have no concerns about being seen locally with someone as I'm pretty openly non-monogamous.

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By *hesexpeopleCouple
over a year ago

s wales

We don’t meet local people any longer, nobody within around 20 miles around us as a general rule, we prefer to travel.

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By *occerstar579Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

For the right chemistry and circumstances why not travel?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've traveled a fair bit......a couple of hours in the case of one couple and an overnight with a single lady.....both well worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer local can travel for the right person

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol

I've been messed around with a few timewasting no-shows so now 30 minutes is my max travel time for a first meet. Happy to travel further for subsequent meets after initial face-to-face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind local meets, also I don't drive and I'm not prepared to travel on public transport to a meet.

If a guy wants to meet elsewhere I'd expect him to pick me up and drop me back home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Local to our swinging group, wouldn't travel more than 10 miles these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re not limited by distance, more so by available free time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Travelling isn't an issue and we do but local is sometimes quite handy too.

Wonder if couples have a different outlook to singles though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Local only for me as I don’t drive...would be nice to be able to spread the search a bit tho as I think Iv exhausted my area over the years lol

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We normally travel fifteen miles in either direction, to clubs and still bumped into my partners ex who lives round the corner and he didn’t know she was into swinging. So much for avoiding the locals

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

I as a single have to travel just to get to clubs since there's non in Stockport, for meets I don't know about locals because I must look dodgy or something because I don't really do or get them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are quite happy to travel, it adds to the excitement for us.

We repeat meet a couple every 6 to 8 weeks and have meet up with them in various different cities, resulting in great nights out, daytime activities and awesome naughtiness.

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By *teveandrocMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Love to swing in Southampton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you a local swinger for local people? Or do you travel? Is travelling for sex desperate and sad? Or does it just keep your playmates at a safe distance?"
i enjoy travelling and meeting people, it would be very sad even extremely judgemental to call someone desperate because they were prepared to travel distance for a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"10 or 15 miles minimum for us

People have to be at least that far away? So you have a sexclusion zone?"

It just works in our head as mrs works in a job facing a lot of public in a smallish town. 10-15 miles means that they will have somewhere else closer to shop

Wouldn't care so much but all our family live in the same town too and would rather they didn't know

Ps Sexclusion zone, love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I try to keep it within an hour. Late night travel after a meet hangs over me a bit. I can have my arm twisted with offers of food though."

You sound just like Mrs, "offers of food". We are gluttons in every sense.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Local

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

If for the right person I'll travel, spending time with a friend or swinger is no different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy travelling. If i clicked with the right person or couple i don't mind going really anywhere. Ive not got any limits on how far i would travel

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By *anni and RicCouple
over a year ago

York

Initially we wouldn't meet local for fear of being outed. Now we don't really mind who knows and will do both travel and local although there is such a thing had too far to travel for a first meet. We drove three and a half hours to a repeat meet once!

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We do both.

We used to attend house parties less than a mile from home, shame the hosts had to relocate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live at the end bit so have to travel!

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Are you a local swinger for local people? Or do you travel? Is travelling for sex desperate and sad? Or does it just keep your playmates at a safe distance?"

local and travel for me... well ill mainly only travel if there person (s) are interested in me and my Fb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting on and off the island can be a pain in the butt. I'm also looking for something more regular. So I'm local for locals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am mainly interested in local meets, (unless it’s at a club, which I have no problem travelling to) although if someone were willing to travel to me, I’d have zero qualms.

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By *ore4fundevonCouple
over a year ago

West Devon

We're not fans of meeting within a 3 to 5 mile radius of home as Mrs works in town. Happy to travel or entertain within the south west. Any further and it's unrealistic to think anything will happen unless its a spur of the moment thing and they happen to be near by at the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd travel a fair distance if someone actually wanted to meet me.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'd prefer local but some people are worth travelling for. I don't really care if people think that makes me desperate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont mind local and I dont mind travelling within reason x"

Feel free to travel to moi x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer local

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Finedon ,

I have had a meet with someone, through fab, who lives 200 metres from me, Will travel up to 40 miles for the right person, sadly as one gets older the driving comfort zone gets ever smaller.

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

We prefer to travel, we don't do local.

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We have done VERY local lol. Our neighbour we met on here enjoyed his blowjob lol. We go to our local club too. It's our favourite place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would travel definitely.. dont think it's desperate just sometimes you see someone and are instantly attracted and it is worth the drive to meet them.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I like travel, I like sex so doing both works well. It's been nice in the past to use meeting a lady friend some distance away as an excuse to have a little break away. These days me and My Girl often mix a little break away with a visit to a club. Personally I think the to two mix nicely. Granted it's also handy to have some local friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you a local swinger for local people? Or do you travel? Is travelling for sex desperate and sad? Or does it just keep your playmates at a safe distance?"

It's all about connection and affection, what if person stays far, but you have establish connection and felt he/she is right one to take thing further and willing to travel... I would give it go and travel to meet... Unless you try you won't know... And I would try and gain from experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t like to play too local as I’m from a really small place and I like to keep my business private x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t like to play too local as I’m from a really small place and I like to keep my business private x "

I think east Midlands is far enough x

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By *actilemale4uMan
over a year ago

London

I have no preference. Have travelled from London to Cumbria. Closest meet was 2 streets away

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By *imited 3EditionCouple
over a year ago

Live in Scotland Play in England


"Are you a local swinger for local people? Or do you travel? Is travelling for sex desperate and sad? Or does it just keep your playmates at a safe distance?"

We travel... never play locally as we want to stay discrete

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield


"10 or 15 miles minimum for us

People have to be at least that far away? So you have a sexclusion zone?"

I’ve been very wary of people being too close. There’s a lady almost around the corner from me. We’ve chatted on here but it made me very wary as I have issues about privacy and really fucking nosy neighbours.

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

We are both and we go to a really sexy party only 2 miles away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of both

But time limited now.

So local makes life easier

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By *opline7Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

A meet can someone remind me what they are, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both im happy to travel for interesting people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I travel a lot with my business. I dont mind travelling to the nearest town or city if they dont want to meet local. Normally I take care of all my partners expenses if we were meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet around my home town AND when I am on business away, when I am lucky enough to find someone. Equally happy to meet for a simple social or a play meet too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Local or within 10 miles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I try to keep it within an hour. Late night travel after a meet hangs over me a bit. I can have my arm twisted with offers of food though."

Cake is a great allure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer localish. A lot of areas are fairly accessible from where we are. We would be prepared to travel for the right people though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

40 miles tops, it's a bit rural in Dorset!

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