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Does age determine what you should or can wear? (Females)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Females, does your age make you feel like you cant wear certain stuff? Ive seen/heard people saying things like "how can she wear stuff like that ?" These are people mostly around 20/30yrs.

Imo wear what you like, of your comfortable in your body flaunt it as much as you please

Most comments are based on what i see on social media platforms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Females, does your age make you feel like you cant wear certain stuff? Ive seen/heard people saying things like "how can she wear stuff like that ?" These are people mostly around 20/30yrs.

Imo wear what you like, of your comfortable in your body flaunt it as much as you please

Most comments are based on what i see on social media platforms."

Does it bollocks. I get complimented on looking young and sexy as do many women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually, whilst anyone can wear absolutely anything they want to, I feel yes there are things and never been sure why older ladies want to wear things designed for the young!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no. Wear what you want. Its about being confident to pull it off. There would be a limit to what I would wear...belly tops...no!!! After 2 kids...that belly isnt seeing the light of day unless its been put through its paces in the gym before my summer hols so I can weara bikini in peace!

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Wear what suits you and what you think you look good in simple as that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You see girls posting photos which would be say very flesh showing. I dont see the problem but i dont see why it should only be for "18" year olds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

People say "wear what ever you want" !! And sod what people think.

I wouldn't wear my "clubbing Fuck me" clothes when I'm out shopping, it's more miss doubtfire look that I go for. being a tranny granny I would look rather silly (more silly than normal) in mcdonalds in a crop top and ripped jeans and a Jojo bow.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People say "wear what ever you want" !! And sod what people think.

I wouldn't wear my "clubbing Fuck me" clothes when I'm out shopping, it's more miss doubtfire look that I go for. being a tranny granny I would look rather silly (more silly than normal) in mcdonalds in a crop top and ripped jeans and a Jojo bow. "

I agree,you wouldnt wear a mini skirt and high heels and a crop top to tesco. Any age i think you'd get looks. But i think out for meals drinks or out out is fine

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

There are things I wouldn't wear in public but at home anything goes.

I think regardless of what people say an 85 year old woman would be ridiculed if she went out in a mini skirt and crop top.

I'm all for people dressing how they want though and admire Iris Apfels style.

I don't think it's about how much flesh you reveal, it's more about personal style. Although I don't think women should feel they have to cover arms, necks etc be because they show that she's older.

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"Actually, whilst anyone can wear absolutely anything they want to, I feel yes there are things and never been sure why older ladies want to wear things designed for the young! "

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I wander around fashion retail and see horrific examples of modern attire that my gran would have worn so it’s all moot really.

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

I wear what I want to wear. If it looks OK then why not

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I wander around fashion retail and see horrific examples of modern attire that my gran would have worn so it’s all moot really. "

This is certainly the case recently. There are some dresses currently in fashion that genuinely wouldn't look out of place in old people's homes.

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

I feel if you comfortable in your self with what wearing then thats all that matters no matter how dressed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wear what suits me. I'm not a slave to fashion or society's preconceptions.

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Difficult one. Women should dress for themselves but it is a compliment when they dress for me, in or out of the bedroom. I think those at the cutting edge of fashion look ridiculous and as for Boris's girlfriend.. she dresses like a granny...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Females, does your age make you feel like you cant wear certain stuff? Ive seen/heard people saying things like "how can she wear stuff like that ?" These are people mostly around 20/30yrs.

Imo wear what you like, of your comfortable in your body flaunt it as much as you please

Most comments are based on what i see on social media platforms."

Nope.

However how other view you will differ because we have our own preconditioning as to what is acceptable or appropriate, depending on many learned or subliminal conditioning process.

It may depend also upon how old or young the individuals mind is, whom they are more comfortable being around and engaging with, how they want others to view them etc etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive learned that if I wear what I'm comfortable, I'll feel more natural and as a result more confident too.

If I feel uncomfortable in my attire, then that will come across in other ways too.

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock

People should be allowed to wear what’s comfortable for them, but also take into consideration the context too, as pointed out above.

It’s a social construct that women should or shouldn’t wear certain types of clothing. My sister once called me ‘mutton dressed as lamb’ when I was 40, when I was wearing a top that showed half an inch of cleavage and her husband was staring at it. Of course, that was my fault.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sexiest thing any woman can wear is confidence, so as long as theyre happy and confident in what theyre wearing then good on em

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By *axo25Man
over a year ago

lightwater

Personally I don’t think this just applies to women, I think there’s something a little tragic when you see a middle aged man trying to dress like a 19 year old. Of course nobody wants to look boring but the try hard element usually doesn’t bode well.

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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago

deptford London


"Personally I don’t think this just applies to women, I think there’s something a little tragic when you see a middle aged man trying to dress like a 19 year old. Of course nobody wants to look boring but the try hard element usually doesn’t bode well.

this is spot on but it is for women as well thats for sure, i also think it depends where you are as in club, supermarket etc

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"People should be allowed to wear what’s comfortable for them, but also take into consideration the context too, as pointed out above.

It’s a social construct that women should or shouldn’t wear certain types of clothing. My sister once called me ‘mutton dressed as lamb’ when I was 40, when I was wearing a top that showed half an inch of cleavage and her husband was staring at it. Of course, that was my fault. "

I get what you are saying and I do find it interesting that when people dress scantily then they are horrified that people look..

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

No. Wear what you want to. I dress for myself

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

I think you should dress for the occasion, regardless of your age. I don’t wear the same things for a night up the pub as I do to work or to a wedding etc.

We have family members in their 60s and 70s who wear skinny jeans and nice, fashionable tops etc. Times have changed and ladies don’t get their hair set once a week and pop on their twin set and pearls any more.

However, if a lady is trying too hard to look ‘sexy’ she often risks looking like a washed-up hooker from a bad film, regardless of her age. There are looks I definitely keep for playtime only.

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dress to highlight best attributes and disguise those that go a tad wayward with age.

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By *oney to the beeWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

It shouldn't you can wear what you like as long as it doesn't break the law. However if people smirk and giggle at your clothes you can't really object if it is a little inappropriate.

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