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Whats your greatest hesitation b4 a meet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So , recently had the experience of being contacted by a couple arranged a meet and hours b4 their profile disappeared and no contact? Cold feet maybe but whats your hesitation when arranging a meet?

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By *cloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull


"So , recently had the experience of being contacted by a couple arranged a meet and hours b4 their profile disappeared and no contact? Cold feet maybe but whats your hesitation when arranging a meet?"

We have always have a bit of a wobble before go on a meet - well ok - more me than him! My biggest worry is that I'm not what they're going to expect and they're going to feel let down because I ain't a looker that's for sure although he'd disagree with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wondering if they're going to bother to turn up, and have I - Mrs. Bawtry - gone to all this trouble for a timewaster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t why you’d worry, you look awesome in your pics

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By *iBooBooCouple
over a year ago

Kettering

Our worry is what do you talk about, talking too much about yourself isn't good, same as going in and saying who wants who first lol.

Where is the happy medium, myself and hubby can both talk for England in the right situation but I always find it abit strange when you first meet someone from here, it's like a first date I think as you are meeting to possibly get naked one day.

so when you first meet do you go in for a kiss on the cheek just say hi how are you etc? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hoping that Mr Winkie does as he’s told!

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell


"So , recently had the experience of being contacted by a couple arranged a meet and hours b4 their profile disappeared and no contact? Cold feet maybe but whats your hesitation when arranging a meet?"

That sort of thing is not at all uncommon...

I've lost count of the number of times I've exchanged messages/emails over anything from a few hours to a few months, and then when it comes to actually arranging to meet, it all goes silent...

....in the majority of cases, I suspect it's nothing to do with cold feet - the harsh reality is that there are a lot of timewasters out there, who've never any intention of meeting or playing...

....quite often, the female - if she even exists - doesn't know anything about it; it tends to be males who are fantasising about other men with their partners...

....I'd say in your case, with the profile disappearing, it was most probably a dreamer/wannabee...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their hygene

If it’s at theirs - the state of the house

I like clean and tidy.

The question / pressure / encouragement to go bareback!! As a single man meeting couples.....it’s very very common!

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By *orflondonerMan
over a year ago

Wood Green


"Hoping that Mr Winkie does as he’s told! "
Agreed

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

The sudden switch to 'oh, I'm dressing up too. Can you fuck me?'...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So , recently had the experience of being contacted by a couple arranged a meet and hours b4 their profile disappeared and no contact? Cold feet maybe but whats your hesitation when arranging a meet?"

Have I dressed well enough, will they turn up, are they in that car that has just left the car park when I came in??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The sudden switch to 'oh, I'm dressing up too. Can you fuck me?'...

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this, along with not turning up

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By *andtsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Torbay

Do they really like bigger women or will they turn round and run at the first glimpse

T xx

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By *urious786Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool


"So , recently had the experience of being contacted by a couple arranged a meet and hours b4 their profile disappeared and no contact? Cold feet maybe but whats your hesitation when arranging a meet?

We have always have a bit of a wobble before go on a meet - well ok - more me than him! My biggest worry is that I'm not what they're going to expect and they're going to feel let down because I ain't a looker that's for sure although he'd disagree with me.

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I (mrs) tend to think this too, especially if Iv changed my hair colour / style since pics were taken but Having had a peek at your pics, I have to say you have a great figure and great taste In lingerie

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By *arcolemMan
over a year ago

Killarney

Hygiene and safe sex for me. It seems to be an issue in some meets

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I always worry that I'm not going to live up to their expectations.

One thing I've learnt from being on this site.....pics can be very deceiving! And not always in a bad way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sometimes walking into someones home is a bit nervy. Is it gonna be a dump. Will someone jump out of the closet. Will i wake up with a kidney missing. Lol

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By *oirinMarkusCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands and West London

Will he look very different to his pictures, even the ones he sent me "recently"?

Is he not that great in the bedroom? Will he smell okay? Is his place messy / dirty?

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By *urvySub87Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough

I'm really shy and I always pray it doesn't hold me back on a meet.

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By *illybare partyMan
over a year ago

norh east

If there legit. Which is why I generally don't meet newbies only older people who know what they want.and weather I turn them on or not. Always worry bout that

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By *entleRMan
over a year ago

Telford


"So , recently had the experience of being contacted by a couple arranged a meet and hours b4 their profile disappeared and no contact? Cold feet maybe but whats your hesitation when arranging a meet?"

Just had so many no shows when playing as a couple always made us nervous as a single M now a lot older always worry how you will be received

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First time I got approached by a couple I was really nervous about meeting them at their home. They refused to meet at a hotel even after I offer to pay so it didn't happen.

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